So I like this girl in my Spanish class and she sits just 3 seats behind me. However, I do not know her(I do have her as a friend on Facebook). Anyways, I never get a chance to talk to her and I would really like to meet her and start dating her. I am a professional magician(This could help possibly :/) and I will be in a 3-week production that begins on Friday. Does anybody have any advice on how I can get to know this girl(and get my guts up to talk to her)? Thanks in advanceAdvice on Getting This Girl?
talk 2 her on facebook ,flirt wit her a little 2 see if she like u and if she does like u ask her out 2 eat or something and if she really likes u ask her out :) good luck buddyAdvice on Getting This Girl?
just walk up to her after class and be like hi my name is Ben what's your name... and then just start talking to her about her hobbies or sports or her classes or something like that... it will all work out.. also you could start talking to her over facebook and tell her that you are in her spanish class!!! something like that!!! hope it all works out and hopefully i was able to help also:) good luck with the girl:):)
Friday, April 30, 2010
ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
16 year old speaking. So I added this girl about a week later after meeting her in the hallway at school. I nervously tried talking to her, and I couldnt get past a studder because she was so pretty---BUT i managed to get her name. I dont have any classes with her, but I added her on facebook. I didnt message her because I was (as a man with pride, this sucks) too afraid of rejection (not getting a reply). I want to say something, but I cant. I left her a comment on one of her photos saying I thought she looked very pretty---but I have no clue what to do from here. Confidence advice? If she replies or not?
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
Advice for seeing a girl?
I'm currently in High school. And i met this cool guy. So we started hangin out, and then one day he introduced me to this really cute girl. i've only known seen her 3 times and im really attracted to her.
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........Advice for seeing a girl?
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........Advice for seeing a girl?
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry. I did not tell her that I said all of that based on HER best friend's judgement
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Really, you need to talk to her about it. There's no point at all in making her hate you for something that you never did. It makes her feel bad and you feel bad. Try not to get into discussions where that topic might crop up.
Tell her that all those months ago, her friend told you what she thought was the truth and everything you said to her after that was based on what her friend said to you.
Apologise for all the bad feelings involved and say you should have told her sooner but ';insert honest reason why here';
As for how to act around her, I'd recommend you go and talk to her immediately. Don't think about it for ages, you may decide against it. Really don't take her off to one side while you're out with your friends and her. They'll all ask her about it.
If you like, ask to meet up for a drink at a cafe or something and you can tell her in private there. Costa or starbucks would be fine. Also, if you or she wants to make a quick escape, that is also an option.
As you said, this has gone on for too long. I can understand holding a grudge for a few days but 9 months? What happened must have been pretty serious and she NEEDS to know the truth.
Do the right thing and tell her. Now.
Hope this helps and she takes it all okay. =)jane iredale
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Really, you need to talk to her about it. There's no point at all in making her hate you for something that you never did. It makes her feel bad and you feel bad. Try not to get into discussions where that topic might crop up.
Tell her that all those months ago, her friend told you what she thought was the truth and everything you said to her after that was based on what her friend said to you.
Apologise for all the bad feelings involved and say you should have told her sooner but ';insert honest reason why here';
As for how to act around her, I'd recommend you go and talk to her immediately. Don't think about it for ages, you may decide against it. Really don't take her off to one side while you're out with your friends and her. They'll all ask her about it.
If you like, ask to meet up for a drink at a cafe or something and you can tell her in private there. Costa or starbucks would be fine. Also, if you or she wants to make a quick escape, that is also an option.
As you said, this has gone on for too long. I can understand holding a grudge for a few days but 9 months? What happened must have been pretty serious and she NEEDS to know the truth.
Do the right thing and tell her. Now.
Hope this helps and she takes it all okay. =)
Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
...she told me he has a Prince Albert and is worried that when they have sex, this will get in the way...any of you guys have or know anyone who has a PA, and what's their sex life like?
...as I said just passing the info on to my friend!Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
Is a PA a Personal Assistant?Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
My friend has a P.A. ..Yes they have to be a lot more careful in case it get ripped off during sex .. but also when he pees ..it sprays everywhere .. he wishes he hadn`t bothered having it done ...
you have enlightened a few here today hun ... ha ha every day`s a school day . . !!
no a PA increases the sexual pleasure for a woman it doesn't get in the way at all
prince albert in the can, or in a bag? smoke prince albert while having sex? kinky
Ouch! wont that hurt?
whats a prince albert ?
EDIT :wow learn a new thing everyday from u
I knew a bloke at Uni who had one, said he hadnt had sex since doing it!
OMG Fancy seeing you here!
...my friend has one, he likes it, his girlfriend doesn't and he has to use the ladies when he needs a pee pee!
What the heck is a Prince Albert? Whoaaa ok...now I know...sounds kinda fun, actually...lol. Guess it depends on what type of post he uses. I wouldn't want something that might get stuck or pinch, I guess, like a hoop, but a nice solid ball-type gold post could be cool, maybe. Don't know what they look like for that area, so can't say for sure what it would feel like from the female prospective.
What exactly do you mean by ';rough sex?'; It never hurts to try new things, she might find she actually likes it on occasion. Maybe not all the time, but mixing it up can be a lot of fun.
rough sex is good
...as I said just passing the info on to my friend!Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
Is a PA a Personal Assistant?Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
My friend has a P.A. ..Yes they have to be a lot more careful in case it get ripped off during sex .. but also when he pees ..it sprays everywhere .. he wishes he hadn`t bothered having it done ...
you have enlightened a few here today hun ... ha ha every day`s a school day . . !!
no a PA increases the sexual pleasure for a woman it doesn't get in the way at all
prince albert in the can, or in a bag? smoke prince albert while having sex? kinky
Ouch! wont that hurt?
whats a prince albert ?
EDIT :wow learn a new thing everyday from u
I knew a bloke at Uni who had one, said he hadnt had sex since doing it!
OMG Fancy seeing you here!
...my friend has one, he likes it, his girlfriend doesn't and he has to use the ladies when he needs a pee pee!
What the heck is a Prince Albert? Whoaaa ok...now I know...sounds kinda fun, actually...lol. Guess it depends on what type of post he uses. I wouldn't want something that might get stuck or pinch, I guess, like a hoop, but a nice solid ball-type gold post could be cool, maybe. Don't know what they look like for that area, so can't say for sure what it would feel like from the female prospective.
What exactly do you mean by ';rough sex?'; It never hurts to try new things, she might find she actually likes it on occasion. Maybe not all the time, but mixing it up can be a lot of fun.
rough sex is good
ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
16 year old speaking. So I added this girl about a week later after meeting her in the hallway at school. I nervously tried talking to her, and I couldnt get past a studder because she was so pretty---BUT i managed to get her name. I dont have any classes with her, but I added her on facebook. I didnt message her because I was (as a man with pride, this sucks) too afraid of rejection (not getting a reply). I want to say something, but I cant. I left her a comment on one of her photos saying I thought she looked very pretty---but I have no clue what to do from here. Confidence advice? If she replies or not?
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
Advice for seeing a girl?
I'm currently in High school. And i met this cool guy. So we started hangin out, and then one day he introduced me to this really cute girl. i've only known seen her 3 times and im really attracted to her.
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
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