So i am a sophomore and there's this gorgeous senior girl that i sit next to in one of my classes. i never knew her before this semester, but we became really good friends instantly. we sit and talk pretty much all hour ever day and laugh about everything, and we talk about everything that's going on with ourselves, and she literally tells me everything; stuff that i would never say outloud.
The problem is, she has a boyfriend that graduated last year. HOWEVER..lately they have been fighting a lot, and she told me she doesn't know where that relationship is going.
it's become my favorite class and she just makes me feel so happy when i'm with her. i really like her but i don't know what to do.
please give me some advice. any at all would be beneficial. like something over the summer maybe.
oh, and she's going to college next year, and it's only like 25 minutes away.Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
Learn what Science is.
It is the opposite of 'bullcrap', as you said.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
Advice on the rebound girl?
I got out a two year relationship last november. it was a heartbreak and i still love my x. But recently she found a new bf so i thought maybe it was time for me to start looking. So i found a girl and started being really sweet to her (the rebound) and i got her to practically fall for me in a week. were supposed to go to homecoming together but iv calmed down and i see some major flaws with her that are huge turn offs (personality wise) i want to tell her im sorry for leading her on but i dont think its going to work, but i think im in too deep. i was too sweet to her. waht should i do?Advice on the rebound girl?
Look. Whatever you do, it's going to break her heart. So, the lesser of two evils is honesty. Tell her it's not working out.
If Homecoming is far away, do this before Homecoming. Otherwise, you have to take her to Homecoming and do it after.
Look. Whatever you do, it's going to break her heart. So, the lesser of two evils is honesty. Tell her it's not working out.
If Homecoming is far away, do this before Homecoming. Otherwise, you have to take her to Homecoming and do it after.
Advice about my ex girl-friend?
ok soi started dating this girl and its my first girlfriend. we were dating for a month and we broke up because she was jelous that i was hanging out with my friend who is also a girl. now i dont like this girl but she thought i did. so she stopped wanting to hang out and she kept blowing me off. so one night i was talking to her and i told her we should take a break. then she told me she just wanted to not date so for the past week i have been thinking we were broken up. but she emailed me and asked what was going on and if we were going to date or what.
now shes my first girlfriend and i dont know if i fell a little hard for her or what but i like her still but i dont want things to be the way they were.Advice about my ex girl-friend?
u need to be sure she's over the jealousy thing first.
sit down and talk to her and make sure she's ok with you having girl FRIENDS.
communication is really important in relationships...even if it's your first relationship.
i think if u both are interested in e/o you should give it another try. i mean nothing all that bad happened for the 2 of you to call it quits. give it another shot! =) have fun! happy thanksgiving!Advice about my ex girl-friend?
Tell her what you want to change about your relationship. But do it in mature way , no yelling or whining. Sit her down somewhere private and have a two way discussion Ask her what she would like to change as well. Good luck.
then she might be controling and if she has any guy friends and your not getting all worked up about it then she should be trusting you also or maybe she has had a bf that was cheeting on her when she trusted him and then now she doesnt want that to happen to you guys
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I'm fed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
Leave herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
now shes my first girlfriend and i dont know if i fell a little hard for her or what but i like her still but i dont want things to be the way they were.Advice about my ex girl-friend?
u need to be sure she's over the jealousy thing first.
sit down and talk to her and make sure she's ok with you having girl FRIENDS.
communication is really important in relationships...even if it's your first relationship.
i think if u both are interested in e/o you should give it another try. i mean nothing all that bad happened for the 2 of you to call it quits. give it another shot! =) have fun! happy thanksgiving!Advice about my ex girl-friend?
Tell her what you want to change about your relationship. But do it in mature way , no yelling or whining. Sit her down somewhere private and have a two way discussion Ask her what she would like to change as well. Good luck.
then she might be controling and if she has any guy friends and your not getting all worked up about it then she should be trusting you also or maybe she has had a bf that was cheeting on her when she trusted him and then now she doesnt want that to happen to you guys
Pfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff鈥?br>
Same questionsssssssssssssssssss:
I'm fed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
Leave herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
So i am a sophomore and there's this gorgeous senior girl that i sit next to in one of my classes. i never knew her before this semester, but we became really good friends instantly. we sit and talk pretty much all hour ever day and laugh about everything, and we talk about everything that's going on with ourselves, and she literally tells me everything; stuff that i would never say outloud.
The problem is, she has a boyfriend that graduated last year. HOWEVER..lately they have been fighting a lot, and she told me she doesn't know where that relationship is going.
it's become my favorite class and she just makes me feel so happy when i'm with her. i really like her but i don't know what to do.
please give me some advice. any at all would be beneficial. like something over the summer maybe.
oh, and she's going to college next year, and it's only like 25 minutes away.Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
Learn what Science is.
It is the opposite of 'bullcrap', as you said.jane iredale
The problem is, she has a boyfriend that graduated last year. HOWEVER..lately they have been fighting a lot, and she told me she doesn't know where that relationship is going.
it's become my favorite class and she just makes me feel so happy when i'm with her. i really like her but i don't know what to do.
please give me some advice. any at all would be beneficial. like something over the summer maybe.
oh, and she's going to college next year, and it's only like 25 minutes away.Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
Learn what Science is.
It is the opposite of 'bullcrap', as you said.
Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
Guys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
I like a guy and he is one of my good friends.. but i don't think he likes me and i dont want to risk our friendship just casue i like him... should i find out if he likes me or just leave our realsionship to friendship?Guys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
i suggest asking one of his friends if he likes youGuys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
It all depends on how much you value your friendship. Even if he likes you back and you date him for a while, once you break up it will take a long time to become friends again without it being aquward, or you may not even become friends again. Of course, depending on your age, you could end up marrying him. Relationships with friends are usually really good. Or, if you think that he is such a great friend that you would never want to lose a friendship with, then just keep it as friends for a while. Do what YOU think is best depending on how much you like him, how sure you are that he likes you back, and how much you value your friendship with him. No one on here knows you and what your relationship is like with him right now so do what you think is best. Hope that helps a little.
well, if you want to go further than him being ';only a friend'; then go ahead and ask him.
i suggest asking one of his friends if he likes youGuys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
It all depends on how much you value your friendship. Even if he likes you back and you date him for a while, once you break up it will take a long time to become friends again without it being aquward, or you may not even become friends again. Of course, depending on your age, you could end up marrying him. Relationships with friends are usually really good. Or, if you think that he is such a great friend that you would never want to lose a friendship with, then just keep it as friends for a while. Do what YOU think is best depending on how much you like him, how sure you are that he likes you back, and how much you value your friendship with him. No one on here knows you and what your relationship is like with him right now so do what you think is best. Hope that helps a little.
well, if you want to go further than him being ';only a friend'; then go ahead and ask him.
Advice on Getting This Girl?
So I like this girl in my Spanish class and she sits just 3 seats behind me. However, I do not know her(I do have her as a friend on Facebook). Anyways, I never get a chance to talk to her and I would really like to meet her and start dating her. I am a professional magician(This could help possibly :/) and I will be in a 3-week production that begins on Friday. Does anybody have any advice on how I can get to know this girl(and get my guts up to talk to her)? Thanks in advanceAdvice on Getting This Girl?
talk 2 her on facebook ,flirt wit her a little 2 see if she like u and if she does like u ask her out 2 eat or something and if she really likes u ask her out :) good luck buddyAdvice on Getting This Girl?
just walk up to her after class and be like hi my name is Ben what's your name... and then just start talking to her about her hobbies or sports or her classes or something like that... it will all work out.. also you could start talking to her over facebook and tell her that you are in her spanish class!!! something like that!!! hope it all works out and hopefully i was able to help also:) good luck with the girl:):)
talk 2 her on facebook ,flirt wit her a little 2 see if she like u and if she does like u ask her out 2 eat or something and if she really likes u ask her out :) good luck buddyAdvice on Getting This Girl?
just walk up to her after class and be like hi my name is Ben what's your name... and then just start talking to her about her hobbies or sports or her classes or something like that... it will all work out.. also you could start talking to her over facebook and tell her that you are in her spanish class!!! something like that!!! hope it all works out and hopefully i was able to help also:) good luck with the girl:):)
ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
16 year old speaking. So I added this girl about a week later after meeting her in the hallway at school. I nervously tried talking to her, and I couldnt get past a studder because she was so pretty---BUT i managed to get her name. I dont have any classes with her, but I added her on facebook. I didnt message her because I was (as a man with pride, this sucks) too afraid of rejection (not getting a reply). I want to say something, but I cant. I left her a comment on one of her photos saying I thought she looked very pretty---but I have no clue what to do from here. Confidence advice? If she replies or not?
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
Advice for seeing a girl?
I'm currently in High school. And i met this cool guy. So we started hangin out, and then one day he introduced me to this really cute girl. i've only known seen her 3 times and im really attracted to her.
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........Advice for seeing a girl?
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........Advice for seeing a girl?
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry. I did not tell her that I said all of that based on HER best friend's judgement
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Really, you need to talk to her about it. There's no point at all in making her hate you for something that you never did. It makes her feel bad and you feel bad. Try not to get into discussions where that topic might crop up.
Tell her that all those months ago, her friend told you what she thought was the truth and everything you said to her after that was based on what her friend said to you.
Apologise for all the bad feelings involved and say you should have told her sooner but ';insert honest reason why here';
As for how to act around her, I'd recommend you go and talk to her immediately. Don't think about it for ages, you may decide against it. Really don't take her off to one side while you're out with your friends and her. They'll all ask her about it.
If you like, ask to meet up for a drink at a cafe or something and you can tell her in private there. Costa or starbucks would be fine. Also, if you or she wants to make a quick escape, that is also an option.
As you said, this has gone on for too long. I can understand holding a grudge for a few days but 9 months? What happened must have been pretty serious and she NEEDS to know the truth.
Do the right thing and tell her. Now.
Hope this helps and she takes it all okay. =)jane iredale
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Really, you need to talk to her about it. There's no point at all in making her hate you for something that you never did. It makes her feel bad and you feel bad. Try not to get into discussions where that topic might crop up.
Tell her that all those months ago, her friend told you what she thought was the truth and everything you said to her after that was based on what her friend said to you.
Apologise for all the bad feelings involved and say you should have told her sooner but ';insert honest reason why here';
As for how to act around her, I'd recommend you go and talk to her immediately. Don't think about it for ages, you may decide against it. Really don't take her off to one side while you're out with your friends and her. They'll all ask her about it.
If you like, ask to meet up for a drink at a cafe or something and you can tell her in private there. Costa or starbucks would be fine. Also, if you or she wants to make a quick escape, that is also an option.
As you said, this has gone on for too long. I can understand holding a grudge for a few days but 9 months? What happened must have been pretty serious and she NEEDS to know the truth.
Do the right thing and tell her. Now.
Hope this helps and she takes it all okay. =)
Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
...she told me he has a Prince Albert and is worried that when they have sex, this will get in the way...any of you guys have or know anyone who has a PA, and what's their sex life like?
...as I said just passing the info on to my friend!Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
Is a PA a Personal Assistant?Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
My friend has a P.A. ..Yes they have to be a lot more careful in case it get ripped off during sex .. but also when he pees ..it sprays everywhere .. he wishes he hadn`t bothered having it done ...
you have enlightened a few here today hun ... ha ha every day`s a school day . . !!
no a PA increases the sexual pleasure for a woman it doesn't get in the way at all
prince albert in the can, or in a bag? smoke prince albert while having sex? kinky
Ouch! wont that hurt?
whats a prince albert ?
EDIT :wow learn a new thing everyday from u
I knew a bloke at Uni who had one, said he hadnt had sex since doing it!
OMG Fancy seeing you here!
...my friend has one, he likes it, his girlfriend doesn't and he has to use the ladies when he needs a pee pee!
What the heck is a Prince Albert? Whoaaa ok...now I know...sounds kinda fun, actually...lol. Guess it depends on what type of post he uses. I wouldn't want something that might get stuck or pinch, I guess, like a hoop, but a nice solid ball-type gold post could be cool, maybe. Don't know what they look like for that area, so can't say for sure what it would feel like from the female prospective.
What exactly do you mean by ';rough sex?'; It never hurts to try new things, she might find she actually likes it on occasion. Maybe not all the time, but mixing it up can be a lot of fun.
rough sex is good
...as I said just passing the info on to my friend!Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
Is a PA a Personal Assistant?Advice please: My friend (girl) has met a new man who likes rough sex...?
My friend has a P.A. ..Yes they have to be a lot more careful in case it get ripped off during sex .. but also when he pees ..it sprays everywhere .. he wishes he hadn`t bothered having it done ...
you have enlightened a few here today hun ... ha ha every day`s a school day . . !!
no a PA increases the sexual pleasure for a woman it doesn't get in the way at all
prince albert in the can, or in a bag? smoke prince albert while having sex? kinky
Ouch! wont that hurt?
whats a prince albert ?
EDIT :wow learn a new thing everyday from u
I knew a bloke at Uni who had one, said he hadnt had sex since doing it!
OMG Fancy seeing you here!
...my friend has one, he likes it, his girlfriend doesn't and he has to use the ladies when he needs a pee pee!
What the heck is a Prince Albert? Whoaaa ok...now I know...sounds kinda fun, actually...lol. Guess it depends on what type of post he uses. I wouldn't want something that might get stuck or pinch, I guess, like a hoop, but a nice solid ball-type gold post could be cool, maybe. Don't know what they look like for that area, so can't say for sure what it would feel like from the female prospective.
What exactly do you mean by ';rough sex?'; It never hurts to try new things, she might find she actually likes it on occasion. Maybe not all the time, but mixing it up can be a lot of fun.
rough sex is good
ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
16 year old speaking. So I added this girl about a week later after meeting her in the hallway at school. I nervously tried talking to her, and I couldnt get past a studder because she was so pretty---BUT i managed to get her name. I dont have any classes with her, but I added her on facebook. I didnt message her because I was (as a man with pride, this sucks) too afraid of rejection (not getting a reply). I want to say something, but I cant. I left her a comment on one of her photos saying I thought she looked very pretty---but I have no clue what to do from here. Confidence advice? If she replies or not?
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
by the way---school is over.
other advice would be helpful haha.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
Idk if you've heard that facebook is the new booty call, so if u really like her you should talk to her first on facebook, make it something casual and not creepy, or maybe a question or something. Alot of the girls I know dont like talking to guys on facebook/myspace cuz you can see their intentions, which is usually just to hook up, but it all depends on how you make it and what you want from her. So don't just sit there commenting on all her pics about how ';hot'; you think she is b/c that doesnt set you apart from the others guys that are all pretty much doing the same, so go ahead and talk to her, she is human,..... just like you. good luck and girls like confidence but not cocky, also you should totally use the flirty icons and speak in a flirty way so that she knows you dont just wanna be really good friends, but dont be a total *** either. dont be a pervert or stalkerish.ADVICE needed on this girl--- 10 points?
A really handy thing would be if one of your friends wwas friends with either HER or one of HER friends. If so, then get together with some of your guys (but not too many cause then its harder to talk) and then ask the friend to invite her or one of her friends. When she comes, don't scare her off by being too ';intrested.'; i know it's tough, but you have to seem a little intrested with out seeming TOO intrested. knwo what i mean? Make her laugh, and make her REMEMBER you! if she mentions the facebook picture comment thing, say something funny lol. i hope it turns out for you because i went through this too (wanting to meet this guy who i thought was GORGEOUS, and this worked!) good luck!!! :)
I would casually ask her hey now that its summer would u maybe wanna hang out sometime.
Advice for seeing a girl?
I'm currently in High school. And i met this cool guy. So we started hangin out, and then one day he introduced me to this really cute girl. i've only known seen her 3 times and im really attracted to her.
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
so before i ask her on a legit date im planning on having her, my friend, and me, get coffee as a group date so i can know her better and increase the comfort levels. is this a good idea or is there another way i should get on top of this?Advice for seeing a girl?
I would bring up the group dating and then ask her if she would like to get together just the two of you.
If she says no, there would still be a chance that you two could get together in a group.
Do you notice her having any feelings for you? You should notice her with some attraction towards you, and then you should know whether to pursue her or not.Advice for seeing a girl?
you need to get her phone number and talk to her on the phone.. then ask her out you never want a third wheel on a date with you........
that a really good idea
get to know her first
another option is having your firend have a little party or something so you can sit and talk to her there
get her number and text her and see if she is interested
good luck
I think thats a good idea for sure. The more comfortable she feels around you the more likely for her to say yes for a date.
coffee?
yes, it sounds like a fun/cute time :D
but coffee?
why not, bowling or something..
i dunno.
but yes, good luck !
Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry. I did not tell her that I said all of that based on HER best friend's judgement
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Really, you need to talk to her about it. There's no point at all in making her hate you for something that you never did. It makes her feel bad and you feel bad. Try not to get into discussions where that topic might crop up.
Tell her that all those months ago, her friend told you what she thought was the truth and everything you said to her after that was based on what her friend said to you.
Apologise for all the bad feelings involved and say you should have told her sooner but ';insert honest reason why here';
As for how to act around her, I'd recommend you go and talk to her immediately. Don't think about it for ages, you may decide against it. Really don't take her off to one side while you're out with your friends and her. They'll all ask her about it.
If you like, ask to meet up for a drink at a cafe or something and you can tell her in private there. Costa or starbucks would be fine. Also, if you or she wants to make a quick escape, that is also an option.
As you said, this has gone on for too long. I can understand holding a grudge for a few days but 9 months? What happened must have been pretty serious and she NEEDS to know the truth.
Do the right thing and tell her. Now.
Hope this helps and she takes it all okay. =)
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking once more?
Really, you need to talk to her about it. There's no point at all in making her hate you for something that you never did. It makes her feel bad and you feel bad. Try not to get into discussions where that topic might crop up.
Tell her that all those months ago, her friend told you what she thought was the truth and everything you said to her after that was based on what her friend said to you.
Apologise for all the bad feelings involved and say you should have told her sooner but ';insert honest reason why here';
As for how to act around her, I'd recommend you go and talk to her immediately. Don't think about it for ages, you may decide against it. Really don't take her off to one side while you're out with your friends and her. They'll all ask her about it.
If you like, ask to meet up for a drink at a cafe or something and you can tell her in private there. Costa or starbucks would be fine. Also, if you or she wants to make a quick escape, that is also an option.
As you said, this has gone on for too long. I can understand holding a grudge for a few days but 9 months? What happened must have been pretty serious and she NEEDS to know the truth.
Do the right thing and tell her. Now.
Hope this helps and she takes it all okay. =)
Could a girl im me with some advice?
im 34, b.s. in psychology/english, middle class, im bald on top, bad complexion, but well liked by most people but im becoming more and more reclusive b/c no girls are interested in me other than a friend, and it hurts so bad to be turned down.Could a girl im me with some advice?
ill give you some advice and its just that advice i dont know you so from what i can tell by reading your question shave your head, get some proactive and stop worrying about what other people think get your **** together or do what it is that you are doing in school and if no women are intrested in you know they will be when you have alot of money so stop sweating the small ****Could a girl im me with some advice?
Don't worry dear do ur best then every body will attracts towards to u. Dear physical appearance is also important but if a man is with good nature, affectionate, caring, kind hardworking then look is doesn't matter. Because if a girl love or attracts towards a good looking boy with bad nature, angry behavior etc then she live with him for a short time but if u have all good qualities in u then every girl attracts towards to u %26amp; want to live with u for ever.
Most important u change ur lifestyle a little bit , like wearing sober dress, talk politely with smile , be confident, not react over or down in front of any body, be helpful then every one praise u %26amp; come to u, want to talk with u .
sooooooooooo keep smiling. If u think ur complexion or looking not impress any body then grow ur good qualities in u.
Best of luck
Think u r the best
Get over it most women are attracted to confidence in a man .
When you feel good about you others will too. It is all about the ';aura'; you give off. I too always thought that I wasn't what other people wanted but I am at apoint in my life that you either like me or not...your loss if you don't. Not saying I am the best looking person around but if you give off a confident(not cocky) attitude people will be more attracted to you. It works..I do it all the time. Eye contact is one thing you must master.
Dun worry the cupid's arrow hasn't hit you yet!!! Be Blessed!
Looks are not everything. Most men feel upset when they lose their hair. It can be sexy especially if cut short. Try to use some good products for your skin. Enjoy a nice bath each day and do your best to look nice. Put a smile on your face. You can improve your complexion even if you have to go to a dermatologist. Try not to feel hurt because you have been turned down. Just tell yourself that these women don't know what they are missing
You are 34 and you still don't understand what attracts a women to a man??? this is horrible!
Take this from a matured women, it is NOT looks they are looking for. Most of the time it is their personality which should consist of a good sense of humour, kindness, a helping attitude towards all and manliness that make them sexy to women.
ill give you some advice and its just that advice i dont know you so from what i can tell by reading your question shave your head, get some proactive and stop worrying about what other people think get your **** together or do what it is that you are doing in school and if no women are intrested in you know they will be when you have alot of money so stop sweating the small ****Could a girl im me with some advice?
Don't worry dear do ur best then every body will attracts towards to u. Dear physical appearance is also important but if a man is with good nature, affectionate, caring, kind hardworking then look is doesn't matter. Because if a girl love or attracts towards a good looking boy with bad nature, angry behavior etc then she live with him for a short time but if u have all good qualities in u then every girl attracts towards to u %26amp; want to live with u for ever.
Most important u change ur lifestyle a little bit , like wearing sober dress, talk politely with smile , be confident, not react over or down in front of any body, be helpful then every one praise u %26amp; come to u, want to talk with u .
sooooooooooo keep smiling. If u think ur complexion or looking not impress any body then grow ur good qualities in u.
Best of luck
Think u r the best
Get over it most women are attracted to confidence in a man .
When you feel good about you others will too. It is all about the ';aura'; you give off. I too always thought that I wasn't what other people wanted but I am at apoint in my life that you either like me or not...your loss if you don't. Not saying I am the best looking person around but if you give off a confident(not cocky) attitude people will be more attracted to you. It works..I do it all the time. Eye contact is one thing you must master.
Dun worry the cupid's arrow hasn't hit you yet!!! Be Blessed!
Looks are not everything. Most men feel upset when they lose their hair. It can be sexy especially if cut short. Try to use some good products for your skin. Enjoy a nice bath each day and do your best to look nice. Put a smile on your face. You can improve your complexion even if you have to go to a dermatologist. Try not to feel hurt because you have been turned down. Just tell yourself that these women don't know what they are missing
You are 34 and you still don't understand what attracts a women to a man??? this is horrible!
Take this from a matured women, it is NOT looks they are looking for. Most of the time it is their personality which should consist of a good sense of humour, kindness, a helping attitude towards all and manliness that make them sexy to women.
Advice pleaase.my little girl is poorly....?
my little girl is nearly two year old and one saturday night she was sick and she was sick also on sunday and monday night but was okay during the day but starting yesterday she became really poorly. She is extremley quiet, just wants to lie in one place and not move, is extremley tierd no matter how much sleep she is getting and she gets very upset by the little things and has a few little spots, wont eat and vary rarly drink. I took her to the docs yestesterday and they said she has a viral infection and to ring her bac ifshes no better in 48hrs but im so worried about her,shes gettin no better. do u think i should get a 2nd opinion or wait until tommorow if shes no better?Advice pleaase.my little girl is poorly....?
Find a different doctor, and GET A SECOND OPINION.Advice pleaase.my little girl is poorly....?
demand a second and a third opinion Claire until your satisfied that they've done all they can to protect your little gem.
Take Her for a second Opinion With A new Doctor.
go with your instincts get her checked out again
ring back tell them shes no better or by pass the gp and go to casulty.
You are the mother go with your instincts what feels best for you what harm can you do by taking in her back do what you feel is best ..Hope all well and she feels better soonxxx
My advice to you as a grandmother , if you are not happy with the doctors advice get a second opinion, but, I will say viral infections normally last around the 48hrs. Try and get her to drink dioralyte to stop her dehydrating.
if you're not happy with the advice your doctor has given take her to another doc or to a%26amp;e where they are obliged to check her for the more serious infections/illnesses! As she has got more symptoms and worsened rather than improved i'd get her seen to immediately!
it sounds more than viral to have gone on this long.
If you're not happy I would phone NHS direct, they're really good and will advise what you should do. Tell them you're not happy with what the doctor said.
Take her to hospital now. Dont mess with something as precious as your little girls life
just want to say my grandson has just gone back to school today after having exactly the same symptoms,he is just 5yrs old,the school said it is a virus going round at the moment
Imagine yourself when you have the flu, tired, sleepy, want to hibernate, I'm sure she is fine. Wait until she has finished taken her medicine then go back if she is not better. Takes 7 days for the medicine to get into her system to remove the virus.
Don't wait the 48 hours. If you think your little girl is ill then ignore what the Doctor said and go back straightaway.
ring nhs direct.xxx
i agree with everyone else take her back in or to a different doctor,you know your child better than the doctor. also rember that you pay them so if you do like what you here or dont like there action go some place else.
i agree with taking her to a%26amp;e now . i lost a son to meningitis and was told he only had collic . better to be safe than sorry . please let me know how she gets on .
hurry up and get 2 opinions or better yet bring her to the emergency room and get her checked out
Take her to A and E. Just turn up. do it now.
Phone NHS direct NOW, I think its 08454242424 she will be dehydrated and it could cause problems - phone now! my granddaughter had the same a few weeks ago but we were told to give her Lemonade (diet).
A mother knows best, you are obviously not happy with the advice you recieved so get a second opinion it cant hurt but leaving her could, hope she gets better x
id go back now
blo-ody doctors, always telling people its a viral infection! if i was you i would ring them back and ask to be seen today!
all the best xx
My 23 month old Daughter had the same. I was worried too %26amp; called NHS Direct who got a GP to call me. It could have been a Kidney Infection but turned out to be the virus that is doing the rounds. For 2-3 days she was vomiting %26amp; not able to eat or drink. She was just lying on sofa sleeping and when not sleeping just lying still watching TV, looked so sorry for herself, but after the 3rd night she woke up as her normal bright sparky noisy self as if nothing had been wrong in the first place! I hope your Daughter has now recovered. It is so worrying when they are poorly.
Absolutely get a second opinion.
When my daughter is sick and won't drink, i give her ice blocks,(popsicle in the US?) as she can get some fluid and they are nice and cool.
I can't believe you're even asking that question - go get a second opinion - nag the doctors office and don't hang up until someone comes out to see her or you can take her in.
If you feel unsettled get a second opinion always trust your instictsjane iredale
Find a different doctor, and GET A SECOND OPINION.Advice pleaase.my little girl is poorly....?
demand a second and a third opinion Claire until your satisfied that they've done all they can to protect your little gem.
Take Her for a second Opinion With A new Doctor.
go with your instincts get her checked out again
ring back tell them shes no better or by pass the gp and go to casulty.
You are the mother go with your instincts what feels best for you what harm can you do by taking in her back do what you feel is best ..Hope all well and she feels better soonxxx
My advice to you as a grandmother , if you are not happy with the doctors advice get a second opinion, but, I will say viral infections normally last around the 48hrs. Try and get her to drink dioralyte to stop her dehydrating.
if you're not happy with the advice your doctor has given take her to another doc or to a%26amp;e where they are obliged to check her for the more serious infections/illnesses! As she has got more symptoms and worsened rather than improved i'd get her seen to immediately!
it sounds more than viral to have gone on this long.
If you're not happy I would phone NHS direct, they're really good and will advise what you should do. Tell them you're not happy with what the doctor said.
Take her to hospital now. Dont mess with something as precious as your little girls life
just want to say my grandson has just gone back to school today after having exactly the same symptoms,he is just 5yrs old,the school said it is a virus going round at the moment
Imagine yourself when you have the flu, tired, sleepy, want to hibernate, I'm sure she is fine. Wait until she has finished taken her medicine then go back if she is not better. Takes 7 days for the medicine to get into her system to remove the virus.
Don't wait the 48 hours. If you think your little girl is ill then ignore what the Doctor said and go back straightaway.
ring nhs direct.xxx
i agree with everyone else take her back in or to a different doctor,you know your child better than the doctor. also rember that you pay them so if you do like what you here or dont like there action go some place else.
i agree with taking her to a%26amp;e now . i lost a son to meningitis and was told he only had collic . better to be safe than sorry . please let me know how she gets on .
hurry up and get 2 opinions or better yet bring her to the emergency room and get her checked out
Take her to A and E. Just turn up. do it now.
Phone NHS direct NOW, I think its 08454242424 she will be dehydrated and it could cause problems - phone now! my granddaughter had the same a few weeks ago but we were told to give her Lemonade (diet).
A mother knows best, you are obviously not happy with the advice you recieved so get a second opinion it cant hurt but leaving her could, hope she gets better x
id go back now
blo-ody doctors, always telling people its a viral infection! if i was you i would ring them back and ask to be seen today!
all the best xx
My 23 month old Daughter had the same. I was worried too %26amp; called NHS Direct who got a GP to call me. It could have been a Kidney Infection but turned out to be the virus that is doing the rounds. For 2-3 days she was vomiting %26amp; not able to eat or drink. She was just lying on sofa sleeping and when not sleeping just lying still watching TV, looked so sorry for herself, but after the 3rd night she woke up as her normal bright sparky noisy self as if nothing had been wrong in the first place! I hope your Daughter has now recovered. It is so worrying when they are poorly.
Absolutely get a second opinion.
When my daughter is sick and won't drink, i give her ice blocks,(popsicle in the US?) as she can get some fluid and they are nice and cool.
I can't believe you're even asking that question - go get a second opinion - nag the doctors office and don't hang up until someone comes out to see her or you can take her in.
If you feel unsettled get a second opinion always trust your insticts
Advice on Getting This Girl?
So I like this girl in my Spanish class and she sits just 3 seats behind me. However, I do not know her(I do have her as a friend on Facebook). Anyways, I never get a chance to talk to her and I would really like to meet her and start dating her. I am a professional magician(This could help possibly :/) and I will be in a 3-week production that begins on Friday. Does anybody have any advice on how I can get to know this girl(and get my guts up to talk to her)? Thanks in advanceAdvice on Getting This Girl?
if you really like her then try talking to her after or before class find times and ways to talk to her be yourself maybe invite her to that show of yours if your not annoying she might end up liking you. and try flirting with her like tell her shes pretty and use very cheesey pick up lines it would make her laugh and girls tend to like funny guys ( i said tend) lolAdvice on Getting This Girl?
just go up to her and talk to her. find out what you have in common with her ya know?
p.s Magicians are HOT. she should be attracted to ya anyways:)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
talk to her
you should message her on facebook and try talking to her in class..then invite her to your magic show!!...maybe even exchange phone numbers..good luck(=
how i wish the guy i like would be willing to talk to me. youre one of the few guys thats actually worth having.
Anyway you could like ohh
The typical do you have a pencil pick up line?
even if you dont ask the other people thats right after you lol
That'd make it obvious and thats good cause is good to show a bit but not in a annoying way.
if she does have one just borrow it and dont give it back to her until the next day. so you can talk to her again and you can be like oh im sorry i forgot to give it to you yesterday, thanks anyway...
And then be like this class sucks the teacher talks too much dont you thnk??
And then shell be like oh i like this class Im learning spanishor whatever and im sure you can take it from there.
And to get the guts to talk to her...
Its easy STOP THINKING of how vervous you are and just doit.
Dont even think at all. trust me it works;D
Dude start talking to her on facebook, then eventually you'll talk in real life. Thats what i did and it worked.
if you really like her then try talking to her after or before class find times and ways to talk to her be yourself maybe invite her to that show of yours if your not annoying she might end up liking you. and try flirting with her like tell her shes pretty and use very cheesey pick up lines it would make her laugh and girls tend to like funny guys ( i said tend) lolAdvice on Getting This Girl?
just go up to her and talk to her. find out what you have in common with her ya know?
p.s Magicians are HOT. she should be attracted to ya anyways:)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
talk to her
you should message her on facebook and try talking to her in class..then invite her to your magic show!!...maybe even exchange phone numbers..good luck(=
how i wish the guy i like would be willing to talk to me. youre one of the few guys thats actually worth having.
Anyway you could like ohh
The typical do you have a pencil pick up line?
even if you dont ask the other people thats right after you lol
That'd make it obvious and thats good cause is good to show a bit but not in a annoying way.
if she does have one just borrow it and dont give it back to her until the next day. so you can talk to her again and you can be like oh im sorry i forgot to give it to you yesterday, thanks anyway...
And then be like this class sucks the teacher talks too much dont you thnk??
And then shell be like oh i like this class Im learning spanishor whatever and im sure you can take it from there.
And to get the guts to talk to her...
Its easy STOP THINKING of how vervous you are and just doit.
Dont even think at all. trust me it works;D
Dude start talking to her on facebook, then eventually you'll talk in real life. Thats what i did and it worked.
Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
my girl friend is pregnant and she has been eating alot. she eats more than me. she's always raiding the refridgerator, and sending me out to get fast food or things she craves. Then she gets mad at me, and wants to hit me. Then when i start to yell, she starts to cry. i need serious help, i love her so much but when i don't get her what she wants to eat all hell breaks loose! like yesterday night, she woke me up and sent me to the store to buy some m%26amp;ms candy at 1:00 am. all of the stores were close i searched through town for a store that was open and i didin't find one. i was so scared to go home without the m%26amp;ms that i traveled an hour away from my house, just to get the freakin m%26amp;ms from a 24 hr walmart. when i got home, she snatched the m%26amp;ms, and yelled '; What took you so long!'; she didint even say thankyou. i just don't know what to do, i love her so i get what she wants, but i'm tired, i work all day then come home just to be her slave. did you go through this with your g/f?Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
You should have thought of this before you got her up the duff.Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
well buddy you should have thought about that in between moans..you had sex and now you get to enjoy the aftermath...sorry but your life officially revolves around her.
I'd cut her so much slack that she would move out of my life. She is rude, inconsiderate, and a user. How can you say you love that?? The way she treats you is despicable. Cut her loose.
Chow!!
I think she is taking advantage of you. I've had some pretty wild and overwhelming cravings, but I never did that. The farthest I went was to have my husband call every restaurant in town to see if they would deliver spaghetti. I'd tell her to chill out. I've never seen a woman act that crazy.... Cutting her some slack is, maybe running to a close bye store for the bag of gummi bears right before bed. But I wouldn't be driving an hour for some freaking m%26amp;m's
Seriously the cravings are true i have 6 kids and did crave things and they were not non-food things like some one else posted, if it is early in pregnancy her hormones are all out of wack but there is alimit to the whole thing being rude is not part of pregnancy crying emotional is even the yelling part but sounds like she may be using things to her advantage. Dont wait till shes in a good mood or what not just call her and tell her look we need to talk wheni get home and leave it at that then talk once you get there and tell her look i will do what i can for you but you cannot treat me like this. Healthy foods like fruits will actually kill cravings because of the sugars in them so go shopping and stock up so you can get the sleep you need. Just wait till baby arrives you will get 0 sleep hours.hope this helps
Her hormones are all in a turmoil, she is growing another person inside her body and it can be uncomfortable and cause backaches, sore breasts and upset stomach as well as food cravings. I went nuts one night, actually 2a m for a jar of olives, and had to go get them myself, as my husband wasn't as considerate as you. This phase will pass, so in the meantime, tell her how much she means to you and how beautiful she is to you. This part is very important as she probably feels dumpy and fat, and, the food cravings will disappear when her vitamins kick in. Best wishes
I didn't get my GF pregnant!!! knock on wood....have fun dude...haha sorry
shes eating alot because she eating for two (so cut her some slack!) and sorry about how frikkin cranky she is...but life is tough, i live with crabs all the time.
and im positive that shell stop being a ****** after the baby comes...but think about it, would you feal like pumpkin pie with a kid in your stomch?
hey man its gods way of saying nice job man you got her regnant no deal with the consequences
A changing in hormones always create problems and that is exactly what is happening to your gf so,I would say yes,cut her some slack,just make sure she doesn't get too fat,attend pre natal clinics with her and discuss it with the doctor or health carer.Good luck and,no,I didn't go through this with my gf,everyone is different so different people behave in different ways.
Hey just relax and breath! Okay Women during pregnacy have there hormones all out of whack its just how the body reacts to such a strange thing, i am sorry to say but women will always be difficult just pregant women are EXTRA difficult! I think you should just relax tell her to talk to her doctor and you need to relax bud to be a dad you need alot of time to think things over because you cant just yell and scream for your kid to stop. So just be really sweet to her, smile through the pain and a couple weeks after she has her baby her hormones will be okay and you too will be happy! Just give it some time! Good luck with parenthood!
Although it's not unusual to feel a little out of control when you are pregnant, this girlfriend is carrying things a little too far. The old food craving story is a myth, or at least it ought to be. True food cravings usually involve odd non-foods, stuff like clay or dirt- not M%26amp;M's at all hours, and mean there is something wrong. Otherwise, the whole pickles and ice cream thing is just a lot of hooey. I've had 6 kids, and I'm a nurse, so I have plenty of experience and knowledge on this. Your hormones can drive you slightly nutty at times, and you do think and say some irrational things, but you do not have any real need to really eat for two, unless you want to become a mother elephant.
I think you need to have a heart to heart with this girlfriend and tell her the straight skinny. Being pregnant is no excuse to act like an out of control 2 year old, and if she is old enough to be a mom then she needs to get her act together now. If you think it might help clear the air, go with her to the next prenatal appointment and bring up all this to the doctor for his/her opinion and advice. Perhaps hearing it from the expert will help, and at least then she will realize how infantile she is being, hearing about it from a disinterested third party. In the meantime, while I don't suggest an in-her-face yell fest, I do suggest you put your foot down. For one thing, what she eats has a direct effect on the health of your child, and she owes this baby a good healthy start in life. That means eating properly, in proper amounts. It does not entitle her to spending the next however many months sitting on a pillow gobbling like a hog and stuffing her face with whatever junk strikes her fancy. You are not a slave, nor should you act like one. If she throws a tantrum, leave her to do it on her own. Tell her you'll come back in an hour to see if she's ready to talk and act like a human. Might as well get used to handling tantrums now, because you will have to weather them from the baby eventually as well.
For the record- my worst episode of craziness involved a dust bunny under the couch. I was 8 months gone, in the middle of July with no air conditioning. I'd asked three kids and a husband to remove the offending dust bunny, and all three had missed it. I have no good explaination as to why it bugged me, but I ended up crying myself, stuck on the floor with a swiffer mop, surrounded by the mystified family. The dust bunny episode has become a family joke I can now laugh about- though at the time it was very upsetting to me. No cravings though, ever. And certainly no sending anyone out in search of special foods at odd hours.
her hormones are insane, why in the world didnt you wear a condom and avoid all this. you knocked her up and now you are her slave, no one should go through this with a girlfriend, dont start having sex till you are married, geeze
Hi your girlfriend needs to grow up, women do have hormone changes that will make them moody like being cranky or crying your girlfriend is acting like a 2 year old does she realise all the weight she will be carrying after she gives birth just because shes pregnant that dosnt mean you can eat everything she will end up putting on so much weight , if she is treating you like this now it wont change after she has the baby you have to stop giving into her or she will walk all over you for the rest of your life , do you seriously want to live like that , she needs to stop being selfish and be gratefull you are out working and realise you need your sleep, she needs to grow up in a big way and she is going to be a mother you will have 2 kids on your hands your baby and your girlfriend ,, good luck
at some point, when shes not emotional, when shes not craving something bizzarre, talk to her calmly and tell her that some of the things she asks of you is irrational and it's not fair to you to wake you up at one am for M%26amp;M's! she may understand... she may not. my girlfriend is 37 weeks pregnant and acts somewhat similar. it'll get better. just focus on the baby, thats the most important thing.
YOU must supply and store enough and good foods for her. OK ? Dont deprive her and the baby growing inside. I tell you again, Supply enogh food to her. She and the Baby need Good Food and more than enough.
You should have thought of this before you got her up the duff.Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
well buddy you should have thought about that in between moans..you had sex and now you get to enjoy the aftermath...sorry but your life officially revolves around her.
I'd cut her so much slack that she would move out of my life. She is rude, inconsiderate, and a user. How can you say you love that?? The way she treats you is despicable. Cut her loose.
Chow!!
I think she is taking advantage of you. I've had some pretty wild and overwhelming cravings, but I never did that. The farthest I went was to have my husband call every restaurant in town to see if they would deliver spaghetti. I'd tell her to chill out. I've never seen a woman act that crazy.... Cutting her some slack is, maybe running to a close bye store for the bag of gummi bears right before bed. But I wouldn't be driving an hour for some freaking m%26amp;m's
Seriously the cravings are true i have 6 kids and did crave things and they were not non-food things like some one else posted, if it is early in pregnancy her hormones are all out of wack but there is alimit to the whole thing being rude is not part of pregnancy crying emotional is even the yelling part but sounds like she may be using things to her advantage. Dont wait till shes in a good mood or what not just call her and tell her look we need to talk wheni get home and leave it at that then talk once you get there and tell her look i will do what i can for you but you cannot treat me like this. Healthy foods like fruits will actually kill cravings because of the sugars in them so go shopping and stock up so you can get the sleep you need. Just wait till baby arrives you will get 0 sleep hours.hope this helps
Her hormones are all in a turmoil, she is growing another person inside her body and it can be uncomfortable and cause backaches, sore breasts and upset stomach as well as food cravings. I went nuts one night, actually 2a m for a jar of olives, and had to go get them myself, as my husband wasn't as considerate as you. This phase will pass, so in the meantime, tell her how much she means to you and how beautiful she is to you. This part is very important as she probably feels dumpy and fat, and, the food cravings will disappear when her vitamins kick in. Best wishes
I didn't get my GF pregnant!!! knock on wood....have fun dude...haha sorry
shes eating alot because she eating for two (so cut her some slack!) and sorry about how frikkin cranky she is...but life is tough, i live with crabs all the time.
and im positive that shell stop being a ****** after the baby comes...but think about it, would you feal like pumpkin pie with a kid in your stomch?
hey man its gods way of saying nice job man you got her regnant no deal with the consequences
A changing in hormones always create problems and that is exactly what is happening to your gf so,I would say yes,cut her some slack,just make sure she doesn't get too fat,attend pre natal clinics with her and discuss it with the doctor or health carer.Good luck and,no,I didn't go through this with my gf,everyone is different so different people behave in different ways.
Hey just relax and breath! Okay Women during pregnacy have there hormones all out of whack its just how the body reacts to such a strange thing, i am sorry to say but women will always be difficult just pregant women are EXTRA difficult! I think you should just relax tell her to talk to her doctor and you need to relax bud to be a dad you need alot of time to think things over because you cant just yell and scream for your kid to stop. So just be really sweet to her, smile through the pain and a couple weeks after she has her baby her hormones will be okay and you too will be happy! Just give it some time! Good luck with parenthood!
Although it's not unusual to feel a little out of control when you are pregnant, this girlfriend is carrying things a little too far. The old food craving story is a myth, or at least it ought to be. True food cravings usually involve odd non-foods, stuff like clay or dirt- not M%26amp;M's at all hours, and mean there is something wrong. Otherwise, the whole pickles and ice cream thing is just a lot of hooey. I've had 6 kids, and I'm a nurse, so I have plenty of experience and knowledge on this. Your hormones can drive you slightly nutty at times, and you do think and say some irrational things, but you do not have any real need to really eat for two, unless you want to become a mother elephant.
I think you need to have a heart to heart with this girlfriend and tell her the straight skinny. Being pregnant is no excuse to act like an out of control 2 year old, and if she is old enough to be a mom then she needs to get her act together now. If you think it might help clear the air, go with her to the next prenatal appointment and bring up all this to the doctor for his/her opinion and advice. Perhaps hearing it from the expert will help, and at least then she will realize how infantile she is being, hearing about it from a disinterested third party. In the meantime, while I don't suggest an in-her-face yell fest, I do suggest you put your foot down. For one thing, what she eats has a direct effect on the health of your child, and she owes this baby a good healthy start in life. That means eating properly, in proper amounts. It does not entitle her to spending the next however many months sitting on a pillow gobbling like a hog and stuffing her face with whatever junk strikes her fancy. You are not a slave, nor should you act like one. If she throws a tantrum, leave her to do it on her own. Tell her you'll come back in an hour to see if she's ready to talk and act like a human. Might as well get used to handling tantrums now, because you will have to weather them from the baby eventually as well.
For the record- my worst episode of craziness involved a dust bunny under the couch. I was 8 months gone, in the middle of July with no air conditioning. I'd asked three kids and a husband to remove the offending dust bunny, and all three had missed it. I have no good explaination as to why it bugged me, but I ended up crying myself, stuck on the floor with a swiffer mop, surrounded by the mystified family. The dust bunny episode has become a family joke I can now laugh about- though at the time it was very upsetting to me. No cravings though, ever. And certainly no sending anyone out in search of special foods at odd hours.
her hormones are insane, why in the world didnt you wear a condom and avoid all this. you knocked her up and now you are her slave, no one should go through this with a girlfriend, dont start having sex till you are married, geeze
Hi your girlfriend needs to grow up, women do have hormone changes that will make them moody like being cranky or crying your girlfriend is acting like a 2 year old does she realise all the weight she will be carrying after she gives birth just because shes pregnant that dosnt mean you can eat everything she will end up putting on so much weight , if she is treating you like this now it wont change after she has the baby you have to stop giving into her or she will walk all over you for the rest of your life , do you seriously want to live like that , she needs to stop being selfish and be gratefull you are out working and realise you need your sleep, she needs to grow up in a big way and she is going to be a mother you will have 2 kids on your hands your baby and your girlfriend ,, good luck
at some point, when shes not emotional, when shes not craving something bizzarre, talk to her calmly and tell her that some of the things she asks of you is irrational and it's not fair to you to wake you up at one am for M%26amp;M's! she may understand... she may not. my girlfriend is 37 weeks pregnant and acts somewhat similar. it'll get better. just focus on the baby, thats the most important thing.
YOU must supply and store enough and good foods for her. OK ? Dont deprive her and the baby growing inside. I tell you again, Supply enogh food to her. She and the Baby need Good Food and more than enough.
Need advice on how to get a married girl?
Ok my bestfriend and me are both married and are wifes are also good friends. In the past we have swapped with oneanother for sex or plainly swinging. The only problem is my friends wife ';sara'; and I have very stong feelings for eachother. Now we would never leave our spouses for eachother but there is still strong feelings. The swinging helps greatly to ease the urge for one another but we cant swing everytime we all are together for fear of suspicion. We both want to greatly break the rules and just have sex without the swinging but she is greatly and me alittle afaid of getting caught. Also sex without the swinging would be more of an afair. So need advice on what to do?Need advice on how to get a married girl?
Let us give you some advice as fellow swingers...
Here are a few options you could try....
First, talk with your wife about being allowed to play with ';Sara'; without her being there. Because Sara is a trusted friend and the four of you have done things together, it may be easier for her to accept. Remember, you have to allow, and support the idea of your wife being allowed to do things with Sara's husband whenever and alone too.
Second, try tossing out the idea to everyone of having a ';Swap Trip'; The four of you could travel together somewhere for a vacation. But, when you're on the plane, the husbands (or wives) can switch seats. For the rest of the trip till the flight back, you have a new wife.
Third, suggest that the four of you try acting out the TV show ';Wife-Swap';. So, for a period of time, you'll have to live with her on a full time basis. Again, she will have to live with him too.
I have to tell you the same thing happened to us a while back. We both experienced feelings for someone else that was above and beyond what you should for swinging couples. Eventually, after a while, we realized that we had pushed things too far and what a great thing we had with each other. You'll have the same thing happen to you at some point and things will return to normal. The big key is going to be keeping them as friends afterwards.
Good luck to you guys. Have fun!!!Need advice on how to get a married girl?
u will make 2 families miserable
r u insane?? how can u accept SWINGING ??
why don't u just try to grow up and have some fear of God
You need to stop what you are doing with each other and work on your own marriages. This is fun and games, but you are not looking at it in it's true light. It's easy to fall in love with someone that you don't live with 24/7 because they seem so perfect compared to your spouse that you see at their worst as well as their best. When you two are together it's all for fun. No stress about jobs, car payments, kids, etc. You know... life. You only get the best of each other because you are constantly on ';first date behaviour';. Understand?
I know may polyamorous couples, and my wife and I (who are swingers) have even dabbled in polyamory. My wife had a boyfriend for some time and she really had feelings for him. Not the same as what she has for me, but he filled a role in her life at the time.
The difference between us and you? I knew all about the other guy. We used to have threesomes, also. I knew when she went to see him, and they didn't always have sex. I knew when I was out of town on business that he was there if she needed him and he even fetched our oldest when I was out of town one time and she wasn't where she said she'd be and was hours late getting home. He was my friend as well as my wife's and there were no secrets or sneaking around.
It sounds like you know what is happening though, and that is very commendable. You have to break it off though, sex and everything. If your relationship is strong enough with your wife to swing, it should be strong enough to admit to her you are developing feelings for the other woman. You can love more than one person at once, but it has to be okay with everyone involved (including her husband) and it has to be all above board, nothing under the table. You may be surprised by your wife's response. She may already know. If you can swing, then you should be able to non-judgmentally talk about anything.
Good luck.
Not that I approve of this kind of marriage but why not just keep it open as it is? If u do this in secret and someone finds out...what then? U will only be destroying what u currently have now and might kill all your chances of being with her again so the wise thing to do would be just to keep it as is.
My advice to you is to grow up and get a grip on reality.
You're married, and you should not be trying to find ways to have sex with another woman w/o your wife finding out.
Personally, I am probably not the best peson to answer your quetion, I do not believe in sleeping with others besides your spouse, it causes this type of problem more than you could possibly know! I say that BOTH of you should tell your spouses, and then get divorced, and have what your heart's desire. Congratulations on screwing up your marriages and your spouses' lives. This is a mess, the only way you can do this RIGHT is to be truthful, end the marriages DO NOT CHEAT on spouses that allready have been ';too free'; with their mates. This is a train wreck!
Do not let this go further, do not share the swining anymore. Wait for the divorce to be final, and do NOT repeat this same mistake in your relationship/marriage with this person, if she wants to cheat on her spouse in a private way, then one day she may want to cheat on you too!
Good luck! I think you both are going to need it!
UNBELIEVABLE!! YOUR WIFE IS COOL AND FULFILLS YOUR FANTASIES AND YOU THANK HER BY BECOMING INFATUATED WITH ANOTHER CHICK? HOW RUDE! GET OVER IT!! ITS NOT LOVE ,,AS SOON AS YOU GET HER ,,SHE WILL BORE YOU TOO! STOP THE MADNESS,,CONFESS TO YOUR WIFE,,GO TO COUNSELING AND START SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE,,,DONT YOUR VOWS MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Unless you are acctually in love with this girl , and she feels the same way i suggest you just keep things the way there are currently and try to control your urges with one another until the next time, otherwise you, are going to split up two marraiges and hurt four people for the price of the lust of two people.
Lust is something else man. . .Don't know dude, it's sometimes sad to see that a spouse has feelings for someone else. Both of you should evaluate yourselves. From what I can tell the both of you suck when its comes to making good judgements. Take that for what it's worth will ya, and str8-en up.
What you really should be asking is how you can be single, that's clearly what you would rather be than married.
Look bub,all 4 of you are breaking your marriage vows,the sanctity of marriage is clearly defined.IF there are any children involved out of these two unions,THEY are the ones that will be hurt(as always)but that doesn't matter to you lot though does it,what IS important is your sexually liberated freedom to do what you like-with whom you like.Swing?...i'de like to swing you from the nearest tree.Marriage is not meant to be taken lightly,and yours is a sham-and so is ';sara's';-spanner's,one and all.
forget about it!
Is swinging acceptable..??!
Let us give you some advice as fellow swingers...
Here are a few options you could try....
First, talk with your wife about being allowed to play with ';Sara'; without her being there. Because Sara is a trusted friend and the four of you have done things together, it may be easier for her to accept. Remember, you have to allow, and support the idea of your wife being allowed to do things with Sara's husband whenever and alone too.
Second, try tossing out the idea to everyone of having a ';Swap Trip'; The four of you could travel together somewhere for a vacation. But, when you're on the plane, the husbands (or wives) can switch seats. For the rest of the trip till the flight back, you have a new wife.
Third, suggest that the four of you try acting out the TV show ';Wife-Swap';. So, for a period of time, you'll have to live with her on a full time basis. Again, she will have to live with him too.
I have to tell you the same thing happened to us a while back. We both experienced feelings for someone else that was above and beyond what you should for swinging couples. Eventually, after a while, we realized that we had pushed things too far and what a great thing we had with each other. You'll have the same thing happen to you at some point and things will return to normal. The big key is going to be keeping them as friends afterwards.
Good luck to you guys. Have fun!!!Need advice on how to get a married girl?
u will make 2 families miserable
r u insane?? how can u accept SWINGING ??
why don't u just try to grow up and have some fear of God
You need to stop what you are doing with each other and work on your own marriages. This is fun and games, but you are not looking at it in it's true light. It's easy to fall in love with someone that you don't live with 24/7 because they seem so perfect compared to your spouse that you see at their worst as well as their best. When you two are together it's all for fun. No stress about jobs, car payments, kids, etc. You know... life. You only get the best of each other because you are constantly on ';first date behaviour';. Understand?
I know may polyamorous couples, and my wife and I (who are swingers) have even dabbled in polyamory. My wife had a boyfriend for some time and she really had feelings for him. Not the same as what she has for me, but he filled a role in her life at the time.
The difference between us and you? I knew all about the other guy. We used to have threesomes, also. I knew when she went to see him, and they didn't always have sex. I knew when I was out of town on business that he was there if she needed him and he even fetched our oldest when I was out of town one time and she wasn't where she said she'd be and was hours late getting home. He was my friend as well as my wife's and there were no secrets or sneaking around.
It sounds like you know what is happening though, and that is very commendable. You have to break it off though, sex and everything. If your relationship is strong enough with your wife to swing, it should be strong enough to admit to her you are developing feelings for the other woman. You can love more than one person at once, but it has to be okay with everyone involved (including her husband) and it has to be all above board, nothing under the table. You may be surprised by your wife's response. She may already know. If you can swing, then you should be able to non-judgmentally talk about anything.
Good luck.
Not that I approve of this kind of marriage but why not just keep it open as it is? If u do this in secret and someone finds out...what then? U will only be destroying what u currently have now and might kill all your chances of being with her again so the wise thing to do would be just to keep it as is.
My advice to you is to grow up and get a grip on reality.
You're married, and you should not be trying to find ways to have sex with another woman w/o your wife finding out.
Personally, I am probably not the best peson to answer your quetion, I do not believe in sleeping with others besides your spouse, it causes this type of problem more than you could possibly know! I say that BOTH of you should tell your spouses, and then get divorced, and have what your heart's desire. Congratulations on screwing up your marriages and your spouses' lives. This is a mess, the only way you can do this RIGHT is to be truthful, end the marriages DO NOT CHEAT on spouses that allready have been ';too free'; with their mates. This is a train wreck!
Do not let this go further, do not share the swining anymore. Wait for the divorce to be final, and do NOT repeat this same mistake in your relationship/marriage with this person, if she wants to cheat on her spouse in a private way, then one day she may want to cheat on you too!
Good luck! I think you both are going to need it!
UNBELIEVABLE!! YOUR WIFE IS COOL AND FULFILLS YOUR FANTASIES AND YOU THANK HER BY BECOMING INFATUATED WITH ANOTHER CHICK? HOW RUDE! GET OVER IT!! ITS NOT LOVE ,,AS SOON AS YOU GET HER ,,SHE WILL BORE YOU TOO! STOP THE MADNESS,,CONFESS TO YOUR WIFE,,GO TO COUNSELING AND START SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE,,,DONT YOUR VOWS MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Unless you are acctually in love with this girl , and she feels the same way i suggest you just keep things the way there are currently and try to control your urges with one another until the next time, otherwise you, are going to split up two marraiges and hurt four people for the price of the lust of two people.
Lust is something else man. . .Don't know dude, it's sometimes sad to see that a spouse has feelings for someone else. Both of you should evaluate yourselves. From what I can tell the both of you suck when its comes to making good judgements. Take that for what it's worth will ya, and str8-en up.
What you really should be asking is how you can be single, that's clearly what you would rather be than married.
Look bub,all 4 of you are breaking your marriage vows,the sanctity of marriage is clearly defined.IF there are any children involved out of these two unions,THEY are the ones that will be hurt(as always)but that doesn't matter to you lot though does it,what IS important is your sexually liberated freedom to do what you like-with whom you like.Swing?...i'de like to swing you from the nearest tree.Marriage is not meant to be taken lightly,and yours is a sham-and so is ';sara's';-spanner's,one and all.
forget about it!
Is swinging acceptable..??!
Advice about this one girl?
im in a bit of a situation. one of my friends likes this one girl who is hella pretty. he talks to her sometimes and they seem like they are kinda friends. Heres the problem i like her also, but i have only talked to her once. on sunday he is having a party where a buch of people are going over to his house, and so is the girl. so should i try to talk to the girl and let her know that i like her and stuff, or should i back off and let my friend try to get her. she is so fine that i almost feel like i would be stupid for not talking to her, but i would also feel bad if i stole her away from him.
what should i doAdvice about this one girl?
You won't wanna hear his, but i think you should step off just for a while. The party is too soon, meaning you should wait a bit. Talk to her, and if she's any decent sort, she will understand you like her and want to be friends. Talk to your friend about it, but start off by asking if he likes her. If so, how much. If not, decide then whether or not to tell him you like her. but give it time, and talk with her, and show her you like her. (Don't hang around too much, or go too far... you might creep her out!).Advice about this one girl?
There's no harm in talking to her. Its better that you do and get to know her before you make any decision whether to go for her or not. If you really like her once you get to know her talk to you buddy about it before you do anything you'll regret.
If she does go out with you, you will have a girl that will treat you, just like she treated her friend. Not Good.
If she does not go out with you, she will think you are an all time creep.
What guy would want to be your friend?
as a friend.. i suggest you ';wait'; for your turn.
if your friend is trying to hook up with that girl. let him get that girl. and you should wait until they break up.
would you feel good if you steal the girl from you friend?
Go for yours thats not his girl
what should i doAdvice about this one girl?
You won't wanna hear his, but i think you should step off just for a while. The party is too soon, meaning you should wait a bit. Talk to her, and if she's any decent sort, she will understand you like her and want to be friends. Talk to your friend about it, but start off by asking if he likes her. If so, how much. If not, decide then whether or not to tell him you like her. but give it time, and talk with her, and show her you like her. (Don't hang around too much, or go too far... you might creep her out!).Advice about this one girl?
There's no harm in talking to her. Its better that you do and get to know her before you make any decision whether to go for her or not. If you really like her once you get to know her talk to you buddy about it before you do anything you'll regret.
If she does go out with you, you will have a girl that will treat you, just like she treated her friend. Not Good.
If she does not go out with you, she will think you are an all time creep.
What guy would want to be your friend?
as a friend.. i suggest you ';wait'; for your turn.
if your friend is trying to hook up with that girl. let him get that girl. and you should wait until they break up.
would you feel good if you steal the girl from you friend?
Go for yours thats not his girl
Advice on Asking a Girl Out?
Firstly I am in High School and is 16 I have never asked a girl out or been on a date before.
The girl I like is in my grade, last year we had a class together and kinda met through a mutual friend. She sat in front of me and we were able to chat occasionally. During the summer, we texted each other and carried on a few conversations that way. This year however I haven't had a chance to really talk to her in person although I try to find every excuse to text her.
I'd say we're friends but not too close. I don't hang out with her at lunch or anything and we've never hung out outside of school before (although we were going to a couple times but apparently life doesnt care about my plans).
I wanted to plan to hang out with 1 or 2 of my friends maybe go to the movies and invite her and 1 or 2 mutual friends and hopefully somehow I can get her alone and ask her out for a date.
I just want to know if anyone has any advice for me or if my plan is good. I'm semi-shy, I know that I'll be pretty nervous when it gets to that point but I'll be able to face her and ask.
Also, when i ask her should I specify that it will be a date like ';i was wondering if you'd like to go out with me sometimes... like on a date'; since we'd already be hanging out or else it would be confusing or awkward.
Although this is kind of situational, I'm afraid that since we don't talk to each other too much that we won't have anything to talk about if we go out even though I know a bit about her and she knows a bit about me. She does dance and field hockey etc. and I volunteer and play soccer. Things like that.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks in AdvanceAdvice on Asking a Girl Out?
Yeah your plan sounds good! If you don't see her enough to ask her in person, just text her and be like ';hey so i havent seen you much this year, wana see a movie'; or somehtin like that (whatever sounds more like something you would say). Then if that goes well, why not text her and ask if she wants to eat you?
good luck!Advice on Asking a Girl Out?
Invite her as friends to the movies with the excuse that you two have not talked closely in a while. Go by yourself, do not bring friends i had bad experiences. Good luck.
I see that you and the girl you like are semi-friends. Maybe you should make it to where you two can be good friends and talk in the halls and stuff. For example: Say Hey, nice texting you last night! or What was up with that one joke you said? Something that will capture her attention and will get her to notice you more. After you do this a couple of times she will be the one to start talking to you first. After that, you should try to get away from just texting. Girl don't find it too romantic when guys are all sweet over text and shrivel up in person. Try to call her and tell her about a cool movie that came out. Don't ask her out.. yet! She will come anyways if you describe the movie well enough for her to be interested. After you two start hanging out as a group, you could try to pull her away from the crowd and be like, Hey, I gotta show you something. or Forget them, wanna go on a walk. If she likes you enough in return she will come along and you two can start talking even more and build up the chemistry. If she is sending you a positive vibe you should give her a compliment about her Inner qualities! Don't be like, I like your butt! They will think you are a guy that just wants some ***. If things start to click and you start flirting and calling each other more frequently, you should ask her out. She will most likely say yes if she's not in another relationship.
P.S. Stay away from being the friend. It's alright to care about her and her feelings but you can't make her think you're one of the girls.
Try to grab a bit of courage and confidence when you are doing this. You don't want her to be waiting forever, she might have moved on from you.
Hopefully I helped : )
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The girl I like is in my grade, last year we had a class together and kinda met through a mutual friend. She sat in front of me and we were able to chat occasionally. During the summer, we texted each other and carried on a few conversations that way. This year however I haven't had a chance to really talk to her in person although I try to find every excuse to text her.
I'd say we're friends but not too close. I don't hang out with her at lunch or anything and we've never hung out outside of school before (although we were going to a couple times but apparently life doesnt care about my plans).
I wanted to plan to hang out with 1 or 2 of my friends maybe go to the movies and invite her and 1 or 2 mutual friends and hopefully somehow I can get her alone and ask her out for a date.
I just want to know if anyone has any advice for me or if my plan is good. I'm semi-shy, I know that I'll be pretty nervous when it gets to that point but I'll be able to face her and ask.
Also, when i ask her should I specify that it will be a date like ';i was wondering if you'd like to go out with me sometimes... like on a date'; since we'd already be hanging out or else it would be confusing or awkward.
Although this is kind of situational, I'm afraid that since we don't talk to each other too much that we won't have anything to talk about if we go out even though I know a bit about her and she knows a bit about me. She does dance and field hockey etc. and I volunteer and play soccer. Things like that.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks in AdvanceAdvice on Asking a Girl Out?
Yeah your plan sounds good! If you don't see her enough to ask her in person, just text her and be like ';hey so i havent seen you much this year, wana see a movie'; or somehtin like that (whatever sounds more like something you would say). Then if that goes well, why not text her and ask if she wants to eat you?
good luck!Advice on Asking a Girl Out?
Invite her as friends to the movies with the excuse that you two have not talked closely in a while. Go by yourself, do not bring friends i had bad experiences. Good luck.
I see that you and the girl you like are semi-friends. Maybe you should make it to where you two can be good friends and talk in the halls and stuff. For example: Say Hey, nice texting you last night! or What was up with that one joke you said? Something that will capture her attention and will get her to notice you more. After you do this a couple of times she will be the one to start talking to you first. After that, you should try to get away from just texting. Girl don't find it too romantic when guys are all sweet over text and shrivel up in person. Try to call her and tell her about a cool movie that came out. Don't ask her out.. yet! She will come anyways if you describe the movie well enough for her to be interested. After you two start hanging out as a group, you could try to pull her away from the crowd and be like, Hey, I gotta show you something. or Forget them, wanna go on a walk. If she likes you enough in return she will come along and you two can start talking even more and build up the chemistry. If she is sending you a positive vibe you should give her a compliment about her Inner qualities! Don't be like, I like your butt! They will think you are a guy that just wants some ***. If things start to click and you start flirting and calling each other more frequently, you should ask her out. She will most likely say yes if she's not in another relationship.
P.S. Stay away from being the friend. It's alright to care about her and her feelings but you can't make her think you're one of the girls.
Try to grab a bit of courage and confidence when you are doing this. You don't want her to be waiting forever, she might have moved on from you.
Hopefully I helped : )
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I like this girl do u have any advice?
i want to ask out this girl but i dont no how to any adviceI like this girl do u have any advice?
do something sweet and that takes effort. The risk is worth the reward. One guy left me lilies at my door. Also girls like to be made to feel special so if you know her favorite band or flower find a unique idea and run with itjane iredale
do something sweet and that takes effort. The risk is worth the reward. One guy left me lilies at my door. Also girls like to be made to feel special so if you know her favorite band or flower find a unique idea and run with it
I need some advice please!! (about a girl)?
Ok so lets see, I'm 22 and I have this good friend Rachel I've known since HS since we were 16. We used to talk all the time, hang out, joke around, I was always there for her during some personal issues; we just had a strong connection. We both kinda always had a crush on each other, but it was always those things where we never were quite on the same page. Like when I was ready for mroe than friendship with her, she liked me alot but just had issues to work out first. Then when she was ready, I had actually gotten a girlfriend. She even asked me to the junior prom, but that unfortunately didnt work out and I regret it a lot. I mean she's had little boyfriends as well, it wasn't one-sided, but we clearly both liked each other a lot, but our timing was always off, ya know?
Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Well now I'm single, last relationship last summer, and I find myself really liking her again...only now she has a boyfriend and their ';engaged'; to be married after college.I need some advice please!! (about a girl)?
well, you could always hang out with her and become great friends; friendships never end.I need some advice please!! (about a girl)?
simple. be honest with her. tell her. meet with her and tell her exactly what you've said here. print out and show her your posting. don't be shy. make sure that she knows how you feel. invite her to share with you how she feels with no pressure. don't play games by withholding your feelings. she may not be aware of how you feel about her. you have nothing to lose. lose your ego and do this. then see how she responds. you will know, probably immediately how she feels about you. if not, give her a little time to contemplate. no pressure. approach her with the love and feelings you have for her, and then let it go with her. give her a little time. if you don't pursue this or do this, then you will never know. she may be waiting for you, not knowing how you feel. and, remember, it's better to have loved and lost than to spend your whole damn life with them, or without them, not knowing. PLEASE take a chance. love is too important not to. the potential to love someone in a way that you can spend a long time of your life with them, is worth any risk. do it. sacrifice your ego, your feelings, anything you can, because if it can be REAL, you will have won EVERYTHING! if not, then you know, and can move on and look forward to the next opportunity to love. trust me. eventually you will thank me whichever way it works out.
You'll never know unless you throw it all out on the table. You will regret it if you don't. Just see what happens and take the chance. You make get hurt but you'll be a stronger person for doing so.
Best of luck and either way know that you'll find someone.
Best of luck to you!
You need to go with you heart maybe you should tell her how you really feel about her, I know you said she has a boyfriend and she is engaged to him now but just say hey I know you are in a relationship with someone but I feel like I need to let you know how I feel about you because if you don't you will regret it one day. She may turn you down but at least you won't wonder the rest of your life if things could have been different.
WHAT!! she's engaged??
you should have waited for her and dumped that girlfriend of yours. well, if she's engaged, you have a little chance at her. maybe .... 0.8%
Continue to be friends with her don't ever let that go always be there for you and remember that it's not set in stone yet so you still could have some time also but take it slow and hopefully things could go your way.
Yep, I've been through the same thing. I still sometimes wonder what might have been, but we're still great friends.
it is hard to let go.....but i dont think you have much choice at this time. unless you talk with her and tell her what you think and feel. at least you will know.
Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Well now I'm single, last relationship last summer, and I find myself really liking her again...only now she has a boyfriend and their ';engaged'; to be married after college.I need some advice please!! (about a girl)?
well, you could always hang out with her and become great friends; friendships never end.I need some advice please!! (about a girl)?
simple. be honest with her. tell her. meet with her and tell her exactly what you've said here. print out and show her your posting. don't be shy. make sure that she knows how you feel. invite her to share with you how she feels with no pressure. don't play games by withholding your feelings. she may not be aware of how you feel about her. you have nothing to lose. lose your ego and do this. then see how she responds. you will know, probably immediately how she feels about you. if not, give her a little time to contemplate. no pressure. approach her with the love and feelings you have for her, and then let it go with her. give her a little time. if you don't pursue this or do this, then you will never know. she may be waiting for you, not knowing how you feel. and, remember, it's better to have loved and lost than to spend your whole damn life with them, or without them, not knowing. PLEASE take a chance. love is too important not to. the potential to love someone in a way that you can spend a long time of your life with them, is worth any risk. do it. sacrifice your ego, your feelings, anything you can, because if it can be REAL, you will have won EVERYTHING! if not, then you know, and can move on and look forward to the next opportunity to love. trust me. eventually you will thank me whichever way it works out.
You'll never know unless you throw it all out on the table. You will regret it if you don't. Just see what happens and take the chance. You make get hurt but you'll be a stronger person for doing so.
Best of luck and either way know that you'll find someone.
Best of luck to you!
You need to go with you heart maybe you should tell her how you really feel about her, I know you said she has a boyfriend and she is engaged to him now but just say hey I know you are in a relationship with someone but I feel like I need to let you know how I feel about you because if you don't you will regret it one day. She may turn you down but at least you won't wonder the rest of your life if things could have been different.
WHAT!! she's engaged??
you should have waited for her and dumped that girlfriend of yours. well, if she's engaged, you have a little chance at her. maybe .... 0.8%
Continue to be friends with her don't ever let that go always be there for you and remember that it's not set in stone yet so you still could have some time also but take it slow and hopefully things could go your way.
Yep, I've been through the same thing. I still sometimes wonder what might have been, but we're still great friends.
it is hard to let go.....but i dont think you have much choice at this time. unless you talk with her and tell her what you think and feel. at least you will know.
A girl in need of some advice, serious advice only please: ADVICE REQUIRED - HELP ME OUT PLEASE?
okay, i guess its nornal, tough i am really not sure.
I had got out of a relationship sometime back - abt 4 months back, and i seem to still be in love with him. I am not sure but, i do think abt him all the time, and dream abt him often. This is not like me, but its happenin......
He belongs to someone else, he moved in with his ex girlfriend, there is 0 CHANCE of anything happenin with us, i must let this whole thought go......... i seem to only think of him,,,
I am trying to move on, but i seem to be cauht in a web of false pretence: to the outside world, i look like i am compleatly at peace, and happy with the way everything is. However this is not the case, I just am not..... A friend told me to stop hiding it, i mean everyone has a opinion of me thats false, and i dont know what to do, howvere i am not that strong, i am extreamly vunurable, esp right now. Ive tried to to get interested in other guys, but everytime i do i seem to just not be into them when they ask me outA girl in need of some advice, serious advice only please: ADVICE REQUIRED - HELP ME OUT PLEASE?
Please listen to me. This dude is gone; you are lucky that he is. You are likely a loving a sweet girl. You will never be able to forget him or what happened to you. MOVE ON and use this pain to motivate yourself; find some fun, some other friends, stop complaining and thinkabout your future.
It is difficult but the kind of guy you want is not this one. You want to come home to someone who adores you and thinks only of you like you do him. He is out there, and you will find him.
How to find him? DO NOT LOOK, just be yourself and a friend will become something more. Do not be anxious.
When pain crosses your mind, think about something else, distract yourself; look toward the future. Sweet one, life is just starting for you, and this pain is part of it. Fight it and do not give in to it.A girl in need of some advice, serious advice only please: ADVICE REQUIRED - HELP ME OUT PLEASE?
You already know what you need to do...move on.
Yes, it will hurt..but not as much as wanting something you can never have. Even if he did come back, it would be because things are going well with the other woman. You deserve better.
Move on and date other people. The world is a very big place and there are plenty of people out there. However, you have to make yourself available to meet them.
Let him go, you only want him because he is with someone else, this feeling happens all the time after a breakup. When you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, then they have chosen you and if they never return, then they really met it that didn't want to be with you. Your blocking your blessings, there is more than one love for us all.
You need to let him go. I know it's hard, because he was obviously a very important staple in your life. He is probably one of the people you love the most. But you've already answered your own question. You've said there is a 0% chance for you and him. You know it won't work, and it does you no good to pine after a boy that you just can't have. By pining after him, you're not only hurting yourself, but you're probably hurting him as well. Busy your time with other things, to keep your mind off of him; dwelling on the situation is no help at all. Surround yourself with good friends and have fun. Try not to think of good times with him, as that will only make things worse. Go out with other guys- it may not be the same, but it will distract you for the time being. You may find that if you actually give a guy a chance, you'll become interested in him. Think of all the good things that happen in your day, no matter how small and insignificant. Just remember that you have to keep on living, and let bygones be bygones.
try to find his bad parts and u will easily forget him.try to find dirty secrets about him and u'll forget
I had got out of a relationship sometime back - abt 4 months back, and i seem to still be in love with him. I am not sure but, i do think abt him all the time, and dream abt him often. This is not like me, but its happenin......
He belongs to someone else, he moved in with his ex girlfriend, there is 0 CHANCE of anything happenin with us, i must let this whole thought go......... i seem to only think of him,,,
I am trying to move on, but i seem to be cauht in a web of false pretence: to the outside world, i look like i am compleatly at peace, and happy with the way everything is. However this is not the case, I just am not..... A friend told me to stop hiding it, i mean everyone has a opinion of me thats false, and i dont know what to do, howvere i am not that strong, i am extreamly vunurable, esp right now. Ive tried to to get interested in other guys, but everytime i do i seem to just not be into them when they ask me outA girl in need of some advice, serious advice only please: ADVICE REQUIRED - HELP ME OUT PLEASE?
Please listen to me. This dude is gone; you are lucky that he is. You are likely a loving a sweet girl. You will never be able to forget him or what happened to you. MOVE ON and use this pain to motivate yourself; find some fun, some other friends, stop complaining and thinkabout your future.
It is difficult but the kind of guy you want is not this one. You want to come home to someone who adores you and thinks only of you like you do him. He is out there, and you will find him.
How to find him? DO NOT LOOK, just be yourself and a friend will become something more. Do not be anxious.
When pain crosses your mind, think about something else, distract yourself; look toward the future. Sweet one, life is just starting for you, and this pain is part of it. Fight it and do not give in to it.A girl in need of some advice, serious advice only please: ADVICE REQUIRED - HELP ME OUT PLEASE?
You already know what you need to do...move on.
Yes, it will hurt..but not as much as wanting something you can never have. Even if he did come back, it would be because things are going well with the other woman. You deserve better.
Move on and date other people. The world is a very big place and there are plenty of people out there. However, you have to make yourself available to meet them.
Let him go, you only want him because he is with someone else, this feeling happens all the time after a breakup. When you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, then they have chosen you and if they never return, then they really met it that didn't want to be with you. Your blocking your blessings, there is more than one love for us all.
You need to let him go. I know it's hard, because he was obviously a very important staple in your life. He is probably one of the people you love the most. But you've already answered your own question. You've said there is a 0% chance for you and him. You know it won't work, and it does you no good to pine after a boy that you just can't have. By pining after him, you're not only hurting yourself, but you're probably hurting him as well. Busy your time with other things, to keep your mind off of him; dwelling on the situation is no help at all. Surround yourself with good friends and have fun. Try not to think of good times with him, as that will only make things worse. Go out with other guys- it may not be the same, but it will distract you for the time being. You may find that if you actually give a guy a chance, you'll become interested in him. Think of all the good things that happen in your day, no matter how small and insignificant. Just remember that you have to keep on living, and let bygones be bygones.
try to find his bad parts and u will easily forget him.try to find dirty secrets about him and u'll forget
Need advice!! I'm a girl and I like this girl at work alot but I think she knows now. Should I confess??
I had a friend(my supervisor) deliver roses,card w/a graceful poem I wrote that expresses my feelings along w/ 3 packs of gum(she likes chewing gum that's y I gave the gum) to this girl I like at work but who also happens to be my manager and my friend/supervisor boss . As it turns out she figured or has a hunch it is me cuz she told my friend ';she thinks she knows who the girl is and said my name'; and my friend asked'; why do u think it's her?'; and her response was '; she is the only 1 that gives me gum'; but my friend didn't admit to her that it is me. Now I d k what to do! Cuz I d k how she feels about recieving roses and her thoughts about the poem and how she feels about me liking her. Should I just confess it is me? I know she won't confort me about it or should I have my friend inquire about her thoughts about me liking her for the past 2 yrs? My worry is if i truely reveal myself, I don't want this girl/manager to be unconformtable around me and treat me any different.Need advice!! I'm a girl and I like this girl at work alot but I think she knows now. Should I confess??
What a dilemma. Do you even know if she'll lick the kitty? If she will, and if yours is sweet, give it to her. You may get a promotion and so much more.Need advice!! I'm a girl and I like this girl at work alot but I think she knows now. Should I confess??
easy way out is to turn it into a joking thing, or else wait for her to finally talk to you about it and turn it to a joke if it goes bad =/
What a dilemma. Do you even know if she'll lick the kitty? If she will, and if yours is sweet, give it to her. You may get a promotion and so much more.Need advice!! I'm a girl and I like this girl at work alot but I think she knows now. Should I confess??
easy way out is to turn it into a joking thing, or else wait for her to finally talk to you about it and turn it to a joke if it goes bad =/
Home girl shoulda took her own advice and checked on it lol..?
http://www.flickr.com/photos/26668732@N0鈥?/a>Home girl shoulda took her own advice and checked on it lol..?
Now that's just nasty! I had to quit staring after only 20 minutes!!!Home girl shoulda took her own advice and checked on it lol..?
Well, I don't mind that one bit!
Now that's just nasty! I had to quit staring after only 20 minutes!!!Home girl shoulda took her own advice and checked on it lol..?
Well, I don't mind that one bit!
Girls I need help??? I need advice with this shy girl??
There's this shy girl I like. She's given me all of the signs of interest like excuses to talk to me. Fidgeting around me , nervous around me, she gave me a nickname and, but she stares at me alot and the stares have been going on for 2 years. I told her I liked her 4 months ago, and she smiled when I told her. She would smile when I would approach her and she told me she wanted to start out as friends, and get to know me, and she would like to hang out with me She asked me to dance with her at a dance at school. also, I found out she tells her family about me. We stare at each other alot at school. During summer school she was asking one of my friends if I still liked her. I didn't go to summer school, so I told my friend to tell her that I said hi, and then she had a pretty big smile on her face. My friend gave her my #, and she called me 2 days later.
I saw her today at school, we went to picture day. She was lined up in the front of the line, and I was in the back of the line. She didn't turn her head to stare at me though, and I feel ignored. Her parents were with her and when she's with her parents she ignores me.
Has she lost interest or am I over reacting???Girls I need help??? I need advice with this shy girl??
Overreacting. It is embarrassing to be staring at the guy you like in front of your parents, no matter how much you like them. I know, that's exactly what I do. Maybe you should just ask her yourself. Don't get so easily offended just because she doesn't look at once in a while. Chill out, I think everything is going just fine. And if you ask her out, be a gentleman and ask permission from her dad first. If she's talked about you at home, then there shouldn't be a problem.Girls I need help??? I need advice with this shy girl??
you're probably over reacting. She may have not noticed you were back there. if its really bothering you that much, i'd just bring it up later and say something like '; hey, i saw you in the photo line yesterday. i tried to get your attention, but i guess you didn't see me';. and maybe ask her to hang out sometime...
Go talk to her ,not for her to do the first move.You should of went to her and say hi to her in front of her parents,that way you would had the ch ance to meet them and become close to her.You could of said hi ,and hope we see each other and that you have a great year at school .
You answered your own Q: when her parents are around, she acts cool instead of mooning over you. That shows discretion so good for her.
How much approval does she have to give you before you make your move? I hope she hasn't given up on you. ;)
She hasn't lost interest in you =)
She was with her parents so naturally she'll act different. One day of not staring at you doesn't mean she no longer likes you.
Good luck and keep doing what you're doing
look your just being paranoid you should persuade her romantically u noe since i'm to tell u the truth shy girls expect guys to make a move or always fantasize the guy just suddenly kissing them out of no where u noe do something spontaneous(it means do something never done kiss her wen u guys r alone like a note a friend tell them to give her the note saying u want to meet her somewhere in school alone during breakfast or lunch and tell them to tell her its anonymous believe me it'll work
Not at all. I dont think she has lost interest in you. Infact she is scared that her fondness of you will show in her eyes and her body language which is why she doesnt want to look at you infront of her parents. She's hesitating to tell them because,as u said, she's shy..no other reason.
Also, she sounds like a wonderful girl what with the 'lets first be friends' thing. It shows she's sensible,caring and serious. She really likes you and thats why she wants that u guys know and understand each other first. Where do u get girls like that anymore. Dont let her go :)
P.S. Hang out with her more often. Dont be pushy but take the initiatives since u know she's an introverst and it'll be tough for her to do the same.
I saw her today at school, we went to picture day. She was lined up in the front of the line, and I was in the back of the line. She didn't turn her head to stare at me though, and I feel ignored. Her parents were with her and when she's with her parents she ignores me.
Has she lost interest or am I over reacting???Girls I need help??? I need advice with this shy girl??
Overreacting. It is embarrassing to be staring at the guy you like in front of your parents, no matter how much you like them. I know, that's exactly what I do. Maybe you should just ask her yourself. Don't get so easily offended just because she doesn't look at once in a while. Chill out, I think everything is going just fine. And if you ask her out, be a gentleman and ask permission from her dad first. If she's talked about you at home, then there shouldn't be a problem.Girls I need help??? I need advice with this shy girl??
you're probably over reacting. She may have not noticed you were back there. if its really bothering you that much, i'd just bring it up later and say something like '; hey, i saw you in the photo line yesterday. i tried to get your attention, but i guess you didn't see me';. and maybe ask her to hang out sometime...
Go talk to her ,not for her to do the first move.You should of went to her and say hi to her in front of her parents,that way you would had the ch ance to meet them and become close to her.You could of said hi ,and hope we see each other and that you have a great year at school .
You answered your own Q: when her parents are around, she acts cool instead of mooning over you. That shows discretion so good for her.
How much approval does she have to give you before you make your move? I hope she hasn't given up on you. ;)
She hasn't lost interest in you =)
She was with her parents so naturally she'll act different. One day of not staring at you doesn't mean she no longer likes you.
Good luck and keep doing what you're doing
look your just being paranoid you should persuade her romantically u noe since i'm to tell u the truth shy girls expect guys to make a move or always fantasize the guy just suddenly kissing them out of no where u noe do something spontaneous(it means do something never done kiss her wen u guys r alone like a note a friend tell them to give her the note saying u want to meet her somewhere in school alone during breakfast or lunch and tell them to tell her its anonymous believe me it'll work
Not at all. I dont think she has lost interest in you. Infact she is scared that her fondness of you will show in her eyes and her body language which is why she doesnt want to look at you infront of her parents. She's hesitating to tell them because,as u said, she's shy..no other reason.
Also, she sounds like a wonderful girl what with the 'lets first be friends' thing. It shows she's sensible,caring and serious. She really likes you and thats why she wants that u guys know and understand each other first. Where do u get girls like that anymore. Dont let her go :)
P.S. Hang out with her more often. Dont be pushy but take the initiatives since u know she's an introverst and it'll be tough for her to do the same.
I need advice asap...I like this girl we're both 14 and she wants to go out with me and she says I'm cute?
I'm scared cuz I never had a girl treat me like this way ever and I'm just so nervous. I've never gone out with anyone who's a girl before. I don't know how I should act, bcuz I feel like whatever I do it's gonna go against me!I need advice asap...I like this girl we're both 14 and she wants to go out with me and she says I'm cute?
As a girl, I may be able to give you some advice. I myself am just 16 years old and have been in the same delima, but obviously reversed. This guy was really sweet and he said he loved me on the first phone call!!! I was so nervous so I said i loved him back. So many times I was nervous about what to do in certain situations, but I finally realized that I could just relax and enjoy the ride. Eventually, it didnt work out and we broke up, but suprisingly are really good friends now. Even if your heart gets broken, it is truly better to love and lose then to never have loved beforeI need advice asap...I like this girl we're both 14 and she wants to go out with me and she says I'm cute?
if you are a girl, then stop right there and dont go with her if you arent, then learn how to stop being nervous or scared, get her number, talk with her and go together
not always just try it out but tell her u wanna take things slow!
go for it! if she likes u this much, definitly do it!!! and do be afraid! and if something bad ever happens, it will all turn out for a good thing in the end. dont worry about it !
Sweetie, if you like her and she likes you, things will work out. Just remember, it takes two to hold a relationship. Just do whatever your heart tells you to do. That's people's problem......they just don't trust their own hearts. They go with whatever their minds and society tell them to do. I know this sounds extremely corny but its true....i know from experience.
Have you KNOWN her for a long while, is she nice to you, does she like YOU and not just your body? If yes to most of those questions, then if i were you, i would give it a try. Don't be nervous (i know its hard) just go with the flow. Compliment the little things you notice about her and buy her little gifts every now and then.
Take it slow. Ask her to hang out with you, just as friends, and see if you both like the feeling. If you do, then ask her out. If she likes you then there's no reason to be nervous. good luck!
ok first thing to do is calm ur nerves by doing this- do something as a big group like 6 or 7 people like see a movie or go to the mall, while having fun talk with her and really dont think about it as a date more of just having funjane iredale
As a girl, I may be able to give you some advice. I myself am just 16 years old and have been in the same delima, but obviously reversed. This guy was really sweet and he said he loved me on the first phone call!!! I was so nervous so I said i loved him back. So many times I was nervous about what to do in certain situations, but I finally realized that I could just relax and enjoy the ride. Eventually, it didnt work out and we broke up, but suprisingly are really good friends now. Even if your heart gets broken, it is truly better to love and lose then to never have loved beforeI need advice asap...I like this girl we're both 14 and she wants to go out with me and she says I'm cute?
if you are a girl, then stop right there and dont go with her if you arent, then learn how to stop being nervous or scared, get her number, talk with her and go together
not always just try it out but tell her u wanna take things slow!
go for it! if she likes u this much, definitly do it!!! and do be afraid! and if something bad ever happens, it will all turn out for a good thing in the end. dont worry about it !
Sweetie, if you like her and she likes you, things will work out. Just remember, it takes two to hold a relationship. Just do whatever your heart tells you to do. That's people's problem......they just don't trust their own hearts. They go with whatever their minds and society tell them to do. I know this sounds extremely corny but its true....i know from experience.
Have you KNOWN her for a long while, is she nice to you, does she like YOU and not just your body? If yes to most of those questions, then if i were you, i would give it a try. Don't be nervous (i know its hard) just go with the flow. Compliment the little things you notice about her and buy her little gifts every now and then.
Take it slow. Ask her to hang out with you, just as friends, and see if you both like the feeling. If you do, then ask her out. If she likes you then there's no reason to be nervous. good luck!
ok first thing to do is calm ur nerves by doing this- do something as a big group like 6 or 7 people like see a movie or go to the mall, while having fun talk with her and really dont think about it as a date more of just having fun
I would like to have a baby girl on my first pregnancy. Pls advice..?
Theres nothing wrong with trying for a girl! Try not to be offended if some of the ladies on here are a little harsh. Its difficult for those of us who have been TTC for a long time. I use to say i want a girl no matter what!! Now i just pray for a healthy baby boy or girl....
Anyways, iv heard Sex before ovulation, Woman on bottom... Try searching on google for Old Wives Tales...
Good Luck!!I would like to have a baby girl on my first pregnancy. Pls advice..?
So many women on the TTC board are so desperate to have a baby at all. What if you had a boy? Would you be upset?
Sweetheart, you get what you get and hopefully you'll love it the same no matter what gender it is.
Keep in mind that some women try for years until they conceive and some don't conceive at all and some conceive they're first time.
Just please be grateful.I would like to have a baby girl on my first pregnancy. Pls advice..?
If you really want a girl, then adopt one. Otherwise be happy if you are blessed with a happy baby (boy or girl)
The only way to guarantee that is in a lab.
well they say that the sperm that carries the female chromosome, live longer, so the best is to have sex 2-3 days before ovulation. the sperm that carries the male swim faster so they reach the egg first, that's why it's best to have sex a few days before ovulation. I don't know if it works never tried it, but with my first son I had sex 2 days before ovulation and it was a boy, so who knows.
nobody can tell what u can do to have a girl while ttc
u get whats wriiten in ur luck.may be .it is possible in a lab though.
Girlie, I don't think you have a choice...Just be happy what GOD sends you!!!
My sister always wanted to have a girl, she has 3 kids, and they were all boys, you get what you get.
Honey, you gets what you gets.
Good luck!
I believe the men's sperm decides the sex of the baby.
Do your thang with your man way before ovulation. The closer to ovulation the more of a chance you will concieve a boy. Female sperm are slower but stronger. Male sperm are faster but die off faster. If you have sex before you ovulate the male sperm will die off first so the felmale sperm will make it to the egg. If you want a girl try not to have sex near your ovulation time!! Good luck. Girls are so fun!!
Like everyone has said, there are no guarantees! Coming from someone who has lost 3 babies to miscarriage, and having had a baby requring surgery at 4 months old - I think all you can really hope for is a healthy baby - the sex is really irrelevant. Falling pregnant and giving birth to a healthy baby is truly a gift. Treasure it when it happens.
sorry i don't think that don't think that there is any way to garantee that u will have what God wants u to have don't push it or unless u wanna go to one of those labs pay a sh**t load of money and reverse genetics and make ur baby a scientific experiment. Ur choice.
Anyways, iv heard Sex before ovulation, Woman on bottom... Try searching on google for Old Wives Tales...
Good Luck!!I would like to have a baby girl on my first pregnancy. Pls advice..?
So many women on the TTC board are so desperate to have a baby at all. What if you had a boy? Would you be upset?
Sweetheart, you get what you get and hopefully you'll love it the same no matter what gender it is.
Keep in mind that some women try for years until they conceive and some don't conceive at all and some conceive they're first time.
Just please be grateful.I would like to have a baby girl on my first pregnancy. Pls advice..?
If you really want a girl, then adopt one. Otherwise be happy if you are blessed with a happy baby (boy or girl)
The only way to guarantee that is in a lab.
well they say that the sperm that carries the female chromosome, live longer, so the best is to have sex 2-3 days before ovulation. the sperm that carries the male swim faster so they reach the egg first, that's why it's best to have sex a few days before ovulation. I don't know if it works never tried it, but with my first son I had sex 2 days before ovulation and it was a boy, so who knows.
nobody can tell what u can do to have a girl while ttc
u get whats wriiten in ur luck.may be .it is possible in a lab though.
Girlie, I don't think you have a choice...Just be happy what GOD sends you!!!
My sister always wanted to have a girl, she has 3 kids, and they were all boys, you get what you get.
Honey, you gets what you gets.
Good luck!
I believe the men's sperm decides the sex of the baby.
Do your thang with your man way before ovulation. The closer to ovulation the more of a chance you will concieve a boy. Female sperm are slower but stronger. Male sperm are faster but die off faster. If you have sex before you ovulate the male sperm will die off first so the felmale sperm will make it to the egg. If you want a girl try not to have sex near your ovulation time!! Good luck. Girls are so fun!!
Like everyone has said, there are no guarantees! Coming from someone who has lost 3 babies to miscarriage, and having had a baby requring surgery at 4 months old - I think all you can really hope for is a healthy baby - the sex is really irrelevant. Falling pregnant and giving birth to a healthy baby is truly a gift. Treasure it when it happens.
sorry i don't think that don't think that there is any way to garantee that u will have what God wants u to have don't push it or unless u wanna go to one of those labs pay a sh**t load of money and reverse genetics and make ur baby a scientific experiment. Ur choice.
Advice on breaking up with a girl?
we have been going out for about 4 months at first i did really like her but at this point i know its not what i want. normally i wouldn't have a problem with breaking up but she is a friend of friends. the other problem is that i know she is really into me and dose not see this coming i have drop a few hints but she is not getting them.
any help on how i can let her down easyAdvice on breaking up with a girl?
Get her to dump you
any help on how i can let her down easyAdvice on breaking up with a girl?
Get her to dump you
Advice on how to approch a girl? Classic delema?
i need some advice on approching a girl ive never met. I don't think i want to just go up and strike up conversation because thats kinda weird. How can i increase the chances of an unakward meeting??Advice on how to approch a girl? Classic delema?
Walk up to her and tell her you need a womens opinion.. your going to the mall this weekend and your going to buy a cologn... what cologn do women love for a man to wear? You can use different things to say but to just start chating with a strange women ask her for her womens opinion on something.. I been using this technique for years and it works Great!!! Make sure after the opener to change the conversation and just start story telling.. Make her laugh and then you will have her in your palms of your hands... trust me..Advice on how to approch a girl? Classic delema?
ahh there's this cute guy i see everyday and i just wish he would walk up and say ANYTHING to me!
awkward first meetings are the basis of great relationships... but they'll never be any relationship if you don't say anything at all..
did i confuse you? sorry.
Walk up to her and tell her you need a womens opinion.. your going to the mall this weekend and your going to buy a cologn... what cologn do women love for a man to wear? You can use different things to say but to just start chating with a strange women ask her for her womens opinion on something.. I been using this technique for years and it works Great!!! Make sure after the opener to change the conversation and just start story telling.. Make her laugh and then you will have her in your palms of your hands... trust me..Advice on how to approch a girl? Classic delema?
ahh there's this cute guy i see everyday and i just wish he would walk up and say ANYTHING to me!
awkward first meetings are the basis of great relationships... but they'll never be any relationship if you don't say anything at all..
did i confuse you? sorry.
Girls Help Me!! I need advice with this shy girl!!?
I started to notice this shy girl in middle school. She would look at me ALOT and our eyes would meet most of the time if she would look at me. She would even flirt with me sometimes so I began to like her. I told her I liked her and she tried to hide a smile when I told her. She told me to start out as friends, she said she would like to get to know me, and she would like to hang out with me. I've seen her smile at me a few times when I talk to her. She's danced with me a slow song but she asked me. We've also hugged and taken a picture together. I've never made her laugh or tried to make her laugh though. I'm going to high school with her now, but I'm not going to see her in the summer or stay in touch with her since she wasn鈥檛 aloud to give me her number and she doesn鈥檛 have an email.
One problem she鈥檚 always telling people she's what ever about me and she doesn't like me. She tells all of her friends that. Why does she say this is she covering up her feelings so that people won't tease her?
p.s. she's never been in a relationship before and she has a strict dad that won鈥檛 let her date or get a bf.
Also, she鈥檚 not aloud to have a boyfriend and I respect that, so I just want to be close friends with her cuz those are mainly the same benefits as a bf and gf.Girls Help Me!! I need advice with this shy girl!!?
i think you should just keep talking to her for awhile. then she will eventually become more comfortable around you and you can hang out more. then once you guys become really tight you can date maybe.
when i was younger i would tell my friends that too. i dont know why though. ha i was just shy i guess.Girls Help Me!! I need advice with this shy girl!!?
I think you just need to win her over.
Become really good friends with her.
She is probably scared since shes never experienced this before.
Give her time. It will happen.
One problem she鈥檚 always telling people she's what ever about me and she doesn't like me. She tells all of her friends that. Why does she say this is she covering up her feelings so that people won't tease her?
p.s. she's never been in a relationship before and she has a strict dad that won鈥檛 let her date or get a bf.
Also, she鈥檚 not aloud to have a boyfriend and I respect that, so I just want to be close friends with her cuz those are mainly the same benefits as a bf and gf.Girls Help Me!! I need advice with this shy girl!!?
i think you should just keep talking to her for awhile. then she will eventually become more comfortable around you and you can hang out more. then once you guys become really tight you can date maybe.
when i was younger i would tell my friends that too. i dont know why though. ha i was just shy i guess.Girls Help Me!! I need advice with this shy girl!!?
I think you just need to win her over.
Become really good friends with her.
She is probably scared since shes never experienced this before.
Give her time. It will happen.
Girls Help Me!! I need Advice with this shy girl!!?
I started to notice this shy girl in middle school. She would look at me alot and our eyes would meet most of the time if she would look at me. She would even flirt with me sometimes so I began to like her. I told her I liked her and she tried to hide a smile when I told her. She told me to start out as friends, she said she would like to get to know me, and she would like to hang out with me. I've seen her smile at me a few times when I talk to her. She's danced with me a slow song but she asked me. We've also hugged and taken a picture together. I've never made her laugh or tried to make her laugh though. I'm going to high school with her now, but I'm not going to see her in the summer or stay in touch with her .
One problem She's always telling people she's what ever about me and she doesn't like me. She tells all of her friends that. why does she say this is she covering up her feelings so that people won't tease her?
p.s. she's never been in a relationship before and she has a strict dad that won鈥檛 let her date or get a bf.Girls Help Me!! I need Advice with this shy girl!!?
the fact that she's never been in a relationship is why she's covering it up. she doesn't know what to do or how to act. she obviously likes you but she's just not sure how to go about it. try making her laugh and maybe even get to konow her parents (mainly her dad) that way you can gain their trust and get them to like you which will most likely score you bonus points with her. (: also talk to her and really let her know how you feel and show her that you are patient that way she can feel comfortable around you since she may not know how to be a gf. just go for it and good luck (:Girls Help Me!! I need Advice with this shy girl!!?
OK. first of all girls L-O-V-E to tease guys. Its kind of a part of our nature. Try to get to know her better by starting off being friends. Its not usually comfortable to a girl when a guy doesn't know her and just all of a sudden asks her out. Get to know her first and let her know the real you. Good luck! =D
PS don't creep her out by being WAY TOO clingy. Girls hate that.
Get her # or e-mail address.try to stay in touch w/ her over the summer, maybe when u guys r away from the school environment she will be a Little open and will tell u her true feelings. just try not to get her in trouble w/ her dad.But u should stay in touch w/ her and if she wants to take it slow then take it slow don't push her limits.GOOD LUCK =)
she really likes you, and yes shes saying those things so 1 they wont tesse her and 2 so her dad wont find out.
keep doing what your doing when she feels she can she'll be more open. if you under stand and accept it she'll like you even more!
good luck, you sound very sweet! =)
She's just covering up how she feels, she likes you. But she is just affraid of what her friends think...but as a friend, get to know her dad and stay on his good side!
Then ask her out...you guys have been friends for quite a while, so I think that she will be fine about it now.
she is maybe worried that her friends might dob on her.maybe you should ask her..but i think she dose really like you! she is shy but she isent. go out with her , if you dont get along .. you just tell her you want to be friends!
good luck
Wow. This girl reminds me of someone I know of. Well, I'm guessing she is too afraid on what her true and actual feelings are. My advice is to become a really good friend and let her to be able to trust you with her secrets.
good luck!
Perhaps the problem lies in the fact that ';she has a strict dad that won't let her date or get a bf.'; Bingo.
if its a shy girl... they wont ever tell anyone who they like or if they like someone. im kinda shy and i would NEVER tell anyone. its just one of those things.
i hug girls all the time and take pictures with them all the time. sure what the hell!! GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!
ummm she probably lyks yooh
but is shyy
or mayb shes just flirtingg
gud luck bro
:D
Obviously she isn't that shy. And she is only telling her friends she doesn't like you b/c if she did, all of her friends would attack you with questions: '; Do you like her?'; '; you wanna go out w/ her?'; ';Do you think she is pretty?'; and that is very embarrassing... terribly if she really likes you. And she wants to start out as friends b/c she doesn't wanna rush things and ruin a good relationship and she also may be waiting for a good time to talk to her dad. Good Luck with her, and y rn't u keeping in touch w/ her???
oh my god i HATE those dads grr... yes she is covering up her feelings. she is clearly very shy. STAY IN TOUCH WITH HER!! my advice is this : most shy girls are actually very romantic... so be romantic! try and find some way to slow-dance with her again and ask her if you can kiss her. ask becuase it's really cute and sweet and also if she's shy she might not want to in front of everyone so it's an excuse for you guys to go hide somewhere and make out. if she stares at you she is SO into you. so don't believe what she tells her friends. her friends are probably bitches who would go spreading it round. good luck! %26lt;3
One problem She's always telling people she's what ever about me and she doesn't like me. She tells all of her friends that. why does she say this is she covering up her feelings so that people won't tease her?
p.s. she's never been in a relationship before and she has a strict dad that won鈥檛 let her date or get a bf.Girls Help Me!! I need Advice with this shy girl!!?
the fact that she's never been in a relationship is why she's covering it up. she doesn't know what to do or how to act. she obviously likes you but she's just not sure how to go about it. try making her laugh and maybe even get to konow her parents (mainly her dad) that way you can gain their trust and get them to like you which will most likely score you bonus points with her. (: also talk to her and really let her know how you feel and show her that you are patient that way she can feel comfortable around you since she may not know how to be a gf. just go for it and good luck (:Girls Help Me!! I need Advice with this shy girl!!?
OK. first of all girls L-O-V-E to tease guys. Its kind of a part of our nature. Try to get to know her better by starting off being friends. Its not usually comfortable to a girl when a guy doesn't know her and just all of a sudden asks her out. Get to know her first and let her know the real you. Good luck! =D
PS don't creep her out by being WAY TOO clingy. Girls hate that.
Get her # or e-mail address.try to stay in touch w/ her over the summer, maybe when u guys r away from the school environment she will be a Little open and will tell u her true feelings. just try not to get her in trouble w/ her dad.But u should stay in touch w/ her and if she wants to take it slow then take it slow don't push her limits.GOOD LUCK =)
she really likes you, and yes shes saying those things so 1 they wont tesse her and 2 so her dad wont find out.
keep doing what your doing when she feels she can she'll be more open. if you under stand and accept it she'll like you even more!
good luck, you sound very sweet! =)
She's just covering up how she feels, she likes you. But she is just affraid of what her friends think...but as a friend, get to know her dad and stay on his good side!
Then ask her out...you guys have been friends for quite a while, so I think that she will be fine about it now.
she is maybe worried that her friends might dob on her.maybe you should ask her..but i think she dose really like you! she is shy but she isent. go out with her , if you dont get along .. you just tell her you want to be friends!
good luck
Wow. This girl reminds me of someone I know of. Well, I'm guessing she is too afraid on what her true and actual feelings are. My advice is to become a really good friend and let her to be able to trust you with her secrets.
good luck!
Perhaps the problem lies in the fact that ';she has a strict dad that won't let her date or get a bf.'; Bingo.
if its a shy girl... they wont ever tell anyone who they like or if they like someone. im kinda shy and i would NEVER tell anyone. its just one of those things.
i hug girls all the time and take pictures with them all the time. sure what the hell!! GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!
ummm she probably lyks yooh
but is shyy
or mayb shes just flirtingg
gud luck bro
:D
Obviously she isn't that shy. And she is only telling her friends she doesn't like you b/c if she did, all of her friends would attack you with questions: '; Do you like her?'; '; you wanna go out w/ her?'; ';Do you think she is pretty?'; and that is very embarrassing... terribly if she really likes you. And she wants to start out as friends b/c she doesn't wanna rush things and ruin a good relationship and she also may be waiting for a good time to talk to her dad. Good Luck with her, and y rn't u keeping in touch w/ her???
oh my god i HATE those dads grr... yes she is covering up her feelings. she is clearly very shy. STAY IN TOUCH WITH HER!! my advice is this : most shy girls are actually very romantic... so be romantic! try and find some way to slow-dance with her again and ask her if you can kiss her. ask becuase it's really cute and sweet and also if she's shy she might not want to in front of everyone so it's an excuse for you guys to go hide somewhere and make out. if she stares at you she is SO into you. so don't believe what she tells her friends. her friends are probably bitches who would go spreading it round. good luck! %26lt;3
I need someone to talk to...preferably a girl. I need some dating advice?
u ask ill answer whats ur question?
if anyone iv went through all of this stuff wth the guys and im friends with everyone in school so i no everything about what the girls want wether its punky girls rockers jocks anything u name it......ill help if ull let me.....everyone calles me the relationship adviser at school.lol cuz i give everyone advice on the subject.....
well good luck u can tlk to me.....I need someone to talk to...preferably a girl. I need some dating advice?
shoot :]
i'll listen, even though i don't know you, and i am pretty young
but for someone my age, i know more about life than most
and i'm taking a class that teaches some psychologyI need someone to talk to...preferably a girl. I need some dating advice?
WHAT iS THE QUESTi0N?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
what is your question or questions??
I'll try. Whats the problem?jane iredale
if anyone iv went through all of this stuff wth the guys and im friends with everyone in school so i no everything about what the girls want wether its punky girls rockers jocks anything u name it......ill help if ull let me.....everyone calles me the relationship adviser at school.lol cuz i give everyone advice on the subject.....
well good luck u can tlk to me.....I need someone to talk to...preferably a girl. I need some dating advice?
shoot :]
i'll listen, even though i don't know you, and i am pretty young
but for someone my age, i know more about life than most
and i'm taking a class that teaches some psychologyI need someone to talk to...preferably a girl. I need some dating advice?
WHAT iS THE QUESTi0N?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
what is your question or questions??
I'll try. Whats the problem?
I need advice! i love a girl with a bf!!?
okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do?I need advice! i love a girl with a bf!!?
My advice (someone who has been in this situation more than once) If you value your life or limbs: RUN and STAY AWAY. Twice, I came within an inch of my life. once I got my new car ';keyed'; (a lesser problem) and several times have been spied upon thy the (ex)bf (even smaller problem - yet more creepy.)
The other thing that happened twice, is for the girl to go back to the bf; leaving me out to dry.
RUN while you can. Find someone else.I need advice! i love a girl with a bf!!?
does her boyfriend realize this? tell her how you feel
My advice (someone who has been in this situation more than once) If you value your life or limbs: RUN and STAY AWAY. Twice, I came within an inch of my life. once I got my new car ';keyed'; (a lesser problem) and several times have been spied upon thy the (ex)bf (even smaller problem - yet more creepy.)
The other thing that happened twice, is for the girl to go back to the bf; leaving me out to dry.
RUN while you can. Find someone else.I need advice! i love a girl with a bf!!?
does her boyfriend realize this? tell her how you feel
Girls! Can you advice me how to used Hair Extension?
I bought this hair extension on internet. FULL HAIR LENGTH 20 INCHES LONG and WEFT LENGHT 30 INCHES. I thought it's easy to used. Just clip on the hair but now i get it it's so complicated.Girls! Can you advice me how to used Hair Extension?
put half your hair up open the clips, they will click when opened, slide the clips in, then put the rest of the hair down, i hope it goes well! i had these problems when i first got my hair extensions , but with patence and caution , i figured out how to use them!
xxx miss_it_girl good luck!Girls! Can you advice me how to used Hair Extension?
go to a professional its the best and they well do it right
read the directions, or ask your hair stylist
put half your hair up open the clips, they will click when opened, slide the clips in, then put the rest of the hair down, i hope it goes well! i had these problems when i first got my hair extensions , but with patence and caution , i figured out how to use them!
xxx miss_it_girl good luck!Girls! Can you advice me how to used Hair Extension?
go to a professional its the best and they well do it right
read the directions, or ask your hair stylist
Advice For A 15 Year Old Girl Moving To The Ghetto?
i'm moving to a ghetto and i'm a 15 year old Iranian girl who has lived in Vancouver, Canada my whole life and i am moving to the either Cali or New York
i want advice for a girl my age
any safety tips, social tips (how to deal with/approach the guys and girls there) etc would be great
i'm actually not preppy like most girls in Canada......i dress hiphop and listen to hiphopAdvice For A 15 Year Old Girl Moving To The Ghetto?
Learn the streets and how to protect yourself, get some mace, and dont wander round to much at night:)Advice For A 15 Year Old Girl Moving To The Ghetto?
Don't go. And stay as Far away as you can
just be careful who u pic as friends and stay clear of any trouble makers
be nice and respectable
demand both in return
I live in Cali and have family that lives in Connecticut
Just be yourself and have an open mind and don't be afraid to say hello.
You don't have to be preppy like I said just be yourself and you will indeed gain friends especially here in Cali because of course everyone wants to meet friends e.t.c.
Just try to concentrate on school and good grades. Join clubs, teams, etc. Best wishes!
Uh, you're moving to California or New York you say. What makes you think you'll end up in a ghetto? I live is California and it's very very nice, thank you!
Persian pride ^^.
Um go in with an open mind and try not to be something your not. Make people like you for who you are, not who they think you are. Do not appear weak or naieve. Have an aire of confidence.
i want advice for a girl my age
any safety tips, social tips (how to deal with/approach the guys and girls there) etc would be great
i'm actually not preppy like most girls in Canada......i dress hiphop and listen to hiphopAdvice For A 15 Year Old Girl Moving To The Ghetto?
Learn the streets and how to protect yourself, get some mace, and dont wander round to much at night:)Advice For A 15 Year Old Girl Moving To The Ghetto?
Don't go. And stay as Far away as you can
just be careful who u pic as friends and stay clear of any trouble makers
be nice and respectable
demand both in return
I live in Cali and have family that lives in Connecticut
Just be yourself and have an open mind and don't be afraid to say hello.
You don't have to be preppy like I said just be yourself and you will indeed gain friends especially here in Cali because of course everyone wants to meet friends e.t.c.
Just try to concentrate on school and good grades. Join clubs, teams, etc. Best wishes!
Uh, you're moving to California or New York you say. What makes you think you'll end up in a ghetto? I live is California and it's very very nice, thank you!
Persian pride ^^.
Um go in with an open mind and try not to be something your not. Make people like you for who you are, not who they think you are. Do not appear weak or naieve. Have an aire of confidence.
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