Thursday, December 31, 2009

Calling all Girl Guide (Girl Scout) Leaders - need help/advice - SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!?

Serious answers only PLS.


I've registered my daughter in Girl Guides and offered my help as a leader. During the 1st meeting I found myself being the ONLY leader!! I was a GG myself (many yrs ago) but I don't think I could RUN a GG troop on my own.


With out me the 5 girls won't have a troop AT ALL, but with me - will they really be getting the 'real experience'? I've read the hand book and I'd prefer to do it with help, but none is available. In November I will go on a training course for leaders, but for the moment I can't offer anything other than my time. I don't even know how to ';open'; a meeting!! The only ressources given to me were the GG handbook and the Leaders handbook, no songs, no games, no other imput until November.My question goes out to parents of girls in the program and present or past GG leaders.


Should I stick with it and try to teach the girls the program (be prepared) or save their time and money for a different activity? (That's $75 for each child)


HELP!!!Calling all Girl Guide (Girl Scout) Leaders - need help/advice - SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!?
I have a sister whos girl guides just nearly shut down and she was devistated. try and get peeps 2 do helping u rotorCalling all Girl Guide (Girl Scout) Leaders - need help/advice - SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!?
Hon, why don't you contact the guide head-quarters in your area and see what they can do for yourself and the troop. There must be some information on running a troop efficiently. I wonder if there are any ex girl guide troop leaders in your area that could give you some information or pointers to tide you over until you are sufficiently qualified to lead your troop? I hope you have some luck hon, and have a great day.

Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??

shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
Dude, the only person who has the answer to what is going through her head is her.Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
well shes young. maybe she is just confused about everything. she maybe telling her friends something different just so they dont influence her answer. give her time. if she really is interested she WILL come around. seems like she throws herself on guys she is just attracted to. if you guys spent time together she obviously has some feeling for her. just be patient. if its meant to be it will happen.
look at 13 all girls are BIG TIME airheads!! lol i would know, her friends if they diddnt like you may have convinced her to go with someone else, oh theyre really flaky too, their feelings change with the tide of the ocean, so she may have just lost that ';spark'; that was there, id move on and get a girl thats your age!!





good luck and God Bless!!
Being a girl I no that were complicated. Your still younge so first of all don't get caught up in one girl all the sudden. Also since she's young to she might be scared of being in such a serious relationship right now. Ya no that saying ';You never no how much you love someone untill you loose them'; Well maybe once she relizes how different things are without you there then she'll want you around all the time like in the past. But things change and sometimes for the worse. If it doesn't work out the way you want it to then I no you'll be hurt but that just means that she wasn't the right girl for you and that theres someone else out there thats going to love you just the way you love her.
First of all, a 13 yr.old is really too young for a 15yr. old. However, when she is 15 and you are 17, that could be a different story. If I were you, I would just act friendly toward her, show some interest in a girl who will appreciate your attention. In time, she may change her mind,and as much as it may be hard for you to believe now, you may change your mind, too. Cool it until she is a bit older.Be patient....not easy advice for a 15yr.old guy!!
Just let her figure stuff out. Can you not respect that? Perhaps she does like you, shes just scared she is thirteen after all. If your 15 you should back off too get your feelings in order and not go and stress your girl out.





your young take your time when it comes to dating ppl because you never know who will be your right one.
shes 13 now and she probably doesnt even know wat she wants. u may not think this true, but when youre a teen, 2years in age difference is a lot. just say to yourself ';what was i thinkin when i was 13?'; shes probably just playin the field tryin to find out wat kind of guy she likes. you really shouldnt worry about it. and if u think u should, take time to talk to her alone. ask her how she feels, y she left u hangin. usually at the age of 13 all it is is puppy love. u understand love more than she does. youve had 2 more years than her to figure it out. youll find someone for u. but a little advice i just learned recently, dont expect a relationship to last forever because it wont. have fun while your still young, and who knows, u could find the perfect girl for u. just hang in there, if u need more advice or someone to talk to just email me, ok.
I think she likes you. i know that cuz i have done that too. but dude just ask her. and plus, there is nothing wrong with u being 2 years older than her. just ask her if she still likes you so you can finally know. if you actually ask her seriously and tell her how you feel, she might tell you the truth. just tell her the truth about how you feel and probably she will tell you the truth though. If she dosen't tell you the truth, she dosen't deserve you. trust me. Good luck! hopefully she will tell you she was just scared and everything will go great. Good luck dude! hopefully my advice helped. if it didn't, i'm sorry.








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at 13 she is child/woman and is confused about life in general.... she cant help it, it is just part of growing up..... she is to young to be in the position of even having a b/f..... these young girls are dating way to young, for their own good they need to back off and enjoy life and doing girl things with friends and mixed grouops.... by being with groups of both sexes girls and boys learn to adjust from one level of life into the next..... when they go from being children to dating like an older teen, say 16 and above, they skip an important step in the process of growing up..... so all you can and really need to do, is back off.... you can wait for her or move on.... your choice....... God bless
I think at 13 she has no idea what she wants or what she's doing. Try finding a girl your age because right now 2 years makes a big difference.
just tell here you like her and hope for the best
Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she thinks you're old. But me honey I'm young and hot!

Does anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?

I need to know basically how to start conversation. and what not to do in front of her.Does anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?
don't be jerk in front of her, and don't be conceided and don't try to like talk about urself and be a show off, that can become annoying. just talk to her, whatever comes to your mind that you think it right and appropriate to say to her! Good LuckDoes anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?
You'll have to be doing something-like at the mall in a music store- start by confidently smiling and saying hi. Ask her a question that she'll have to answer like -about music, who she likes and what CD of theirs she would choose for a gift for somebody. A girl likes a resonably confident, smiling guy who is interested in things she can relate to-then if she likes talking to you too, keep talking!
Try... ';How you doin?'; :P
ask her how she is doing and go from there! DON'T try to make her laugh because it will make you look like an ***! don't try to hard don't get nervous just be chill wit be laid back make her think that it's nothing for you to be talking to her! and whatever you do don't tell her you asked us for help!!!!!!!!!!!!(lol)

Well this girl i liked what should i say best advice would be from a girl?

just tell her that you fancy her and suggest that you go to the cinema together,as a date


thats a start of a good relationship

Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??

shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
she might have gotten scared and felt like you 2 were going to fast and her mother might have talked to her about it too.


just slow down Romeo if you really like her then she is worth waiting on
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  • Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??

    shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
    Girls generally like a guy who can be sweet but plays it cool. You seem to be really obsessed and girls can sense that so maybe, she realized that you were a little too clingy and pushy and that kinda freaks a girl out. You seem nice and sweet but you need to start looking for someone else. You're so caught up in this one girl that you're blind to all else that is around you so the PERFECT girl could be right under your nose, and you wont even know it because you're constantly thinking about some girl that's playing games with you.


    What I think you should do is pull her aside and say, ';Hey, I like you but I need to know how you feel because I'm not just gonna sit here and wait for you to make a decision. I don't wanna play games so tell me right here and now how you feel.'; That might help too hun.


    Good luck!Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
    just ask her.





    you are both so young, why don't you go skate boarding or bike riding play a game or something?


    your feelings are valid... just ask her and then tell her how you feel, but if she doesn't like you you can't make her, you'll have to move on.
    You can't FORCE someone to have feelings for you. Also, she is really young, you can't expect her to commit to a serious relationship at 13! And at 13, how is she busy??? Geez. Feelings change......maybe she changed....just ask her and tell her you don't want to be strung along
    give her time to realise that you are a good friend
    Maybe( hypathetically) you pushed her away maybe...maybe she thinks you're being too pushy and clingy... let her know that you're there for her but dont push your guys' relationship too far...(remeber we're talking hypathetically here) maybe you should back off just a little and see what she does....Then again, it could just be you guys are growing apart. That happens alot. Talk to her, see what she's feeling and tell her how you're feeling.


    Good Luck...^_^
    Sounds like ol' girl is playing games. You cant have your cake and eat it to. I'm not trying to be mean but move on. Sometimes seeing someone with someone else makes them realize what they left behind. Hang in there I'm sure there are other girls who see and know that youre a good guy.
    She might be scared or she likes you and the other guy. She might like him a little more, which I'm sure is hurtful to you and I'm sorry about that. She's 13, she doesn't know for sure whar she wants. Just play it cool. Look elsewhere man. You may be overlooking a really sweet girl who likes you alot and could really make you happy cause you're worried about this other chick who's stressing you out.
    You need to let her go. I know you don't want to hear that but if she likes someone else maybe you just waited too long to tell her how you felt so she moved on.
    I hate to say it, but she probably likes the other guy. If a girl backs off in a relationship or seems distant, it's generally because they're no longer interested and they don't want to hurt you by telling you that they aren't interested any more. I know I've done it before. It can take a while before you'll get over it, but get over it you will. I've had a guy I've liked do the same thing to me that the girl's doing to you, and it hurts. Don't get hung up on her-- if you find another girl that interests you, go for her instead. Besides, relationships at her age generally don't last longer than two or three months, and generally 6 months for teens in high school.
    .you may have scared her away ,step back and give it time ,right now she feeling uncomfortable around you.If she like you she will be back.she will slowly start talking to you again as a friend ,this time let her tell you her feelings first and dont go to fast
    Listen...just back off and find someone or something else that is interesting to you. Stop making her a priority in your thoughts and actions. If someone is really interested..they give clues..if you gotta search for clues...there aren't any. The one thing that can help you is to show interest in everything but her..she will either not care or miss your attentiveness. If she shows signs that she misses your attention, slowly..slowly give it back!!

    Iv Just Got A Jack Russell Puppy (Girl) And I Need Some Puppy Advice, Can Anyone Help? :)?

    My Puppy's Name is Bella, Shes Sooo Cute,





    But Shes A Puppy And I've Never Owned A Jack Russell Puppy Before.


    Does Anyone Have Any Good Sites Or Advice For Me?Iv Just Got A Jack Russell Puppy (Girl) And I Need Some Puppy Advice, Can Anyone Help? :)?
    Begin training your Jack Russell Terrier early (not too early - your puppy's breeder should not allow you to take a puppy home before it is 8 weeks of age).


    You must be the dominant member of the household. If not, your terrier will assert itself as the head of your household. Do not let this happen.


    Start training when the puppy comes home for the first time.


    Be consistent! If not, you will confuse your terrier.


    Use positive re-enforcement techniques if possible; reward good behavior; ignore bad.


    Attend a obedience (i.e., puppy kindergarden) class (to socialize your puppy).


    Teach your terrier to listen to you. It may save its life.


    Teach your terrier bed manners - don't allow a JR to growl or snap at you if it sleeps with you in your bed. This is a display of dominant behavior, often misinterpreted as a rude bed dog. Make your JR sleep in its own bed for a few nights if it exhibits this behavior.


    You might try using a ticking clock in the puppy's bed to simulate the heartbeat of its mother. This helps it to sleep until it gets used to the new surroundings.


    NEVER keep more than two Jack Russells in one area when you are not home to offer leadership and protection to them.


    NEVER keep puppies with adult dogs who may grow tired of their youthful exhausting mouthy playIv Just Got A Jack Russell Puppy (Girl) And I Need Some Puppy Advice, Can Anyone Help? :)?
    You always wanna start with training!! Don't let the utter cuteness fool you, you need to start teaching right away! Walking and spending time together is important too. When walking, I suggest using a Gentle Leader brand halter to walk your puppy. It seems to help a lot.


    Some helpful sites would be:


    www.dog-breeds.net/New_Puppy_Care.htm


    www.thepetcenter.com/gen/pups.html


    Eukanuba.com/Top-10-Puppy-Care-Tips


    www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/faq/jackruss鈥?





    Hope this helps!
    If you are looking to keep your dog healthy away from vets etc. you should use this product I just got that works great its called vertaceuticals, it made my dog much more healthy and lively and ever since she has been on the vitamin supplement I havent been to a vet. heres the link





    www.vetrabiz.com/lucas





    its great and you will notice a difference in your dogs digestion, energy, spunk, and friendliness all because it is much healthier
    Shouldn't you have looked this up before you got the dog?

    Calling all Girl Guide (Girl Scout) Leaders - need help/advice - SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!?

    Serious answers only PLS.


    I've registered my daughter in Girl Guides and offered my help as a leader. During the 1st meeting I found myself being the ONLY leader!! I was a GG myself (many yrs ago) but I don't think I could RUN a GG troop on my own.


    With out me the 5 girls won't have a troop AT ALL, but with me - will they really be getting the 'real experience'? I've read the hand book and I'd prefer to do it with help, but none is available. In November I will go on a training course for leaders, but for the moment I can't offer anything other than my time. I don't even know how to ';open'; a meeting!! The only ressources given to me were the GG handbook and the Leaders handbook, no songs, no games, no other imput until November.My question goes out to parents of girls in the program and present or past GG leaders.


    Should I stick with it and try to teach the girls the program (be prepared) or save their time and money for a different activity? (That's $75 for each child)


    HELP!!!Calling all Girl Guide (Girl Scout) Leaders - need help/advice - SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!?
    I have a sister whos girl guides just nearly shut down and she was devistated. try and get peeps 2 do helping u rotorCalling all Girl Guide (Girl Scout) Leaders - need help/advice - SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!?
    Hon, why don't you contact the guide head-quarters in your area and see what they can do for yourself and the troop. There must be some information on running a troop efficiently. I wonder if there are any ex girl guide troop leaders in your area that could give you some information or pointers to tide you over until you are sufficiently qualified to lead your troop? I hope you have some luck hon, and have a great day.

    Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??

    shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
    Dude, the only person who has the answer to what is going through her head is her.Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
    well shes young. maybe she is just confused about everything. she maybe telling her friends something different just so they dont influence her answer. give her time. if she really is interested she WILL come around. seems like she throws herself on guys she is just attracted to. if you guys spent time together she obviously has some feeling for her. just be patient. if its meant to be it will happen.
    look at 13 all girls are BIG TIME airheads!! lol i would know, her friends if they diddnt like you may have convinced her to go with someone else, oh theyre really flaky too, their feelings change with the tide of the ocean, so she may have just lost that ';spark'; that was there, id move on and get a girl thats your age!!





    good luck and God Bless!!
    Being a girl I no that were complicated. Your still younge so first of all don't get caught up in one girl all the sudden. Also since she's young to she might be scared of being in such a serious relationship right now. Ya no that saying ';You never no how much you love someone untill you loose them'; Well maybe once she relizes how different things are without you there then she'll want you around all the time like in the past. But things change and sometimes for the worse. If it doesn't work out the way you want it to then I no you'll be hurt but that just means that she wasn't the right girl for you and that theres someone else out there thats going to love you just the way you love her.
    First of all, a 13 yr.old is really too young for a 15yr. old. However, when she is 15 and you are 17, that could be a different story. If I were you, I would just act friendly toward her, show some interest in a girl who will appreciate your attention. In time, she may change her mind,and as much as it may be hard for you to believe now, you may change your mind, too. Cool it until she is a bit older.Be patient....not easy advice for a 15yr.old guy!!
    Just let her figure stuff out. Can you not respect that? Perhaps she does like you, shes just scared she is thirteen after all. If your 15 you should back off too get your feelings in order and not go and stress your girl out.





    your young take your time when it comes to dating ppl because you never know who will be your right one.
    shes 13 now and she probably doesnt even know wat she wants. u may not think this true, but when youre a teen, 2years in age difference is a lot. just say to yourself ';what was i thinkin when i was 13?'; shes probably just playin the field tryin to find out wat kind of guy she likes. you really shouldnt worry about it. and if u think u should, take time to talk to her alone. ask her how she feels, y she left u hangin. usually at the age of 13 all it is is puppy love. u understand love more than she does. youve had 2 more years than her to figure it out. youll find someone for u. but a little advice i just learned recently, dont expect a relationship to last forever because it wont. have fun while your still young, and who knows, u could find the perfect girl for u. just hang in there, if u need more advice or someone to talk to just email me, ok.
    I think she likes you. i know that cuz i have done that too. but dude just ask her. and plus, there is nothing wrong with u being 2 years older than her. just ask her if she still likes you so you can finally know. if you actually ask her seriously and tell her how you feel, she might tell you the truth. just tell her the truth about how you feel and probably she will tell you the truth though. If she dosen't tell you the truth, she dosen't deserve you. trust me. Good luck! hopefully she will tell you she was just scared and everything will go great. Good luck dude! hopefully my advice helped. if it didn't, i'm sorry.








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    at 13 she is child/woman and is confused about life in general.... she cant help it, it is just part of growing up..... she is to young to be in the position of even having a b/f..... these young girls are dating way to young, for their own good they need to back off and enjoy life and doing girl things with friends and mixed grouops.... by being with groups of both sexes girls and boys learn to adjust from one level of life into the next..... when they go from being children to dating like an older teen, say 16 and above, they skip an important step in the process of growing up..... so all you can and really need to do, is back off.... you can wait for her or move on.... your choice....... God bless
    I think at 13 she has no idea what she wants or what she's doing. Try finding a girl your age because right now 2 years makes a big difference.
    just tell here you like her and hope for the best
    Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she thinks you're old. But me honey I'm young and hot!

    Does anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?

    I need to know basically how to start conversation. and what not to do in front of her.Does anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?
    don't be jerk in front of her, and don't be conceided and don't try to like talk about urself and be a show off, that can become annoying. just talk to her, whatever comes to your mind that you think it right and appropriate to say to her! Good LuckDoes anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?
    You'll have to be doing something-like at the mall in a music store- start by confidently smiling and saying hi. Ask her a question that she'll have to answer like -about music, who she likes and what CD of theirs she would choose for a gift for somebody. A girl likes a resonably confident, smiling guy who is interested in things she can relate to-then if she likes talking to you too, keep talking!
    Try... ';How you doin?'; :P
    ask her how she is doing and go from there! DON'T try to make her laugh because it will make you look like an ***! don't try to hard don't get nervous just be chill wit be laid back make her think that it's nothing for you to be talking to her! and whatever you do don't tell her you asked us for help!!!!!!!!!!!!(lol)

    Well this girl i liked what should i say best advice would be from a girl?

    just tell her that you fancy her and suggest that you go to the cinema together,as a date


    thats a start of a good relationship
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  • Advice on a first date (ever) with a girl who has been a friend?

    This girl and I have been friends for a while, but there has always been a little hinting of a romantic relationship from both of us. We are going to a movie soon, which I think could get awkward. How can I prevent it from being uncomfortable, and still make sure she and I have a great time? I don't think I will say or do anything wrong, I just don't think I will say enough. I get a little nervous around pretty girls, and tend not to say much in an effort to not make a fool of myself. HELP!!!Advice on a first date (ever) with a girl who has been a friend?
    just be yerself and act normal if i went on a date with my guyfriend i wood want him to be himself.Advice on a first date (ever) with a girl who has been a friend?
    Act like you have always acted with her, plus a little flirtation...chances are shes nervous too and seeing as you have already gotten past getting to know each other you can move on to a little more..well you know what i mean.
    take your friend out like 5 more dates and ask her to be your girlfriend
    aww it's so sweet wen guys are nervous. just be yourself and try to make jokes to break the ice.
    just relax be yourself. if you act the same around her no matter how nervous you are then it will feel comfortable. don't think of it as a date think of it as friends going out it will help you relax. im in the same situation with the person im dating right now and it makes it comfortable when we act ourselves. just don't let her know that your nervous, cause girls can tell if you are. make sure when you meet for the movie you say something and aren't quiet because if you're quiet at the beginning it will feel very uncomfortable. because me and my date went to the movies and he was so nervous, he didn't talk, and i could tell. so even before the movie started, no matter how much i liked him, i wanted to leave and i even got up and went to the bathroom just to get away from me being the only one talking. but don't overtalk let her talk too.
    aww~ just keep it coo baby...if it ain't no thang that you are just friends then you shouldn't sweat it. that means no pressure.

    I need advice on my ex girl freind..?

    ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates... its only been like 4 days since we didnt contact eachother, she said that she does still love me..... do you think their is chance that she will come back if i give her space, and what do i do if i meet her on the street? do u think it might be too late? please help me......advice.


    we are both 19 but i love her, i know im really young but i dont wana just give up hope yet... i think she is confused about what she wants, i want other oppinions..I need advice on my ex girl freind..?
    Don't give up hope, young love is something that is special.


    You are too young to know how rough and hard life can be to you .


    I wouldn't go all crazy and stock her, but send her a single white carnation, or drop her a letter in the mail box, simply saying 'I'm sorry,forgive me, I love you' .That's it nothing else.


    Whether or not you did anything wrong, sometimes that's all it takes to put things in the right direction.





    If you give too much space, sometimes there is someone waiting to jump right into ';your spot';


    On the flip side, if you crowd her too much she might resent you for it.





    Just do LITTLE sweet things that you don't need to have physical contact with her, but still let her know how much you care for her.


    Ever hear short but sweet?I need advice on my ex girl freind..?
    what does your heart tell you....you have to make your ultimate decision......sit down and weigh the effects of all your options
    Dude, it sounds to me like she has met someone else, she doesn't know where it's going to go with him, but she wants to keep you around because she does love you, but she wants to explore a little bit.
    you didn't mention what the fight was about. A year is a long time to have a relationship at 19. Of course she has feelings for you, and if she really did love you, she'll always sort of have feelings for you. If she asked for space that's what you need to give her. I'm guessing from my experience that your fight had something to do with jealousy issues. I could be wrong but at that age that was the most common problem. If you can't trust each other, then it's not worth the effort. If you give her space and when you cross in the street, you are just sweet and nice or fun and flirty, she'll remember what she misses about you. But if you're calling her all the time to try to fix what ever what went wrong you are only going to push her further away. Make sure you listen to what she says. Because if you listen she'll tell you exactly what she wants.
    aaaaaaaawwwwww!!!!!!!!! how sweet! i would love to be with a man like you! yes, i think she is just confused thats all, give it time you will see, she loves you too! maybe she is listenin to every one else and not her heart. but deep down she wants to be with you!!!!
    i think that you should need a break .





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    Thru mistakes that we learn, what was the cause of the fight go back and revise the fight if you were in wrong make an apology n vise versa, sweet talk her and call back for your past, she is either guilty if she was the one in wrong or calling for your extra concern if you made a mistake when you resolve the above, she is yours again.
    I'm sure that she does love you. But not enough. At least for now. Possibly forever. It's gonna be hard since you have strong feelings for her. But the fact is that it's not reciprocated, and that's alot of pressure and hurt for both of you. She can't help that she doesn't feel as strongly for you now, and you can't help that either. Move on. If she comes back, make sure that she loves you as you deserve. Don't settle for half.

    I need Advice there this is girl!?

    theres this girl we met this past friday @ a (family)party and we danced and we just exchanged names and i was able to find her on FB,when i messaged her, she always gives me back replys that r like alright thank you or thanks shes mi cousin why is she doing this? and if shes not in to me why would she dance with me? should i keep trying to become a friend or just give up?I need Advice there this is girl!?
    maybe she's just not interested.. u can't force the girl u like to like u back if she doesn't want to..u'l get over it dude..I need Advice there this is girl!?
    Try to meet other girls, cousin is not the best ...
    its better to give it a shot rather than give up n regret for doing nothing %26amp; dont know the results.. neway, its nice to have many frens..

    Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??

    shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
    Dude, the only person who has the answer to what is going through her head is her.Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
    well shes young. maybe she is just confused about everything. she maybe telling her friends something different just so they dont influence her answer. give her time. if she really is interested she WILL come around. seems like she throws herself on guys she is just attracted to. if you guys spent time together she obviously has some feeling for her. just be patient. if its meant to be it will happen.
    look at 13 all girls are BIG TIME airheads!! lol i would know, her friends if they diddnt like you may have convinced her to go with someone else, oh theyre really flaky too, their feelings change with the tide of the ocean, so she may have just lost that ';spark'; that was there, id move on and get a girl thats your age!!





    good luck and God Bless!!
    Being a girl I no that were complicated. Your still younge so first of all don't get caught up in one girl all the sudden. Also since she's young to she might be scared of being in such a serious relationship right now. Ya no that saying ';You never no how much you love someone untill you loose them'; Well maybe once she relizes how different things are without you there then she'll want you around all the time like in the past. But things change and sometimes for the worse. If it doesn't work out the way you want it to then I no you'll be hurt but that just means that she wasn't the right girl for you and that theres someone else out there thats going to love you just the way you love her.
    First of all, a 13 yr.old is really too young for a 15yr. old. However, when she is 15 and you are 17, that could be a different story. If I were you, I would just act friendly toward her, show some interest in a girl who will appreciate your attention. In time, she may change her mind,and as much as it may be hard for you to believe now, you may change your mind, too. Cool it until she is a bit older.Be patient....not easy advice for a 15yr.old guy!!
    Just let her figure stuff out. Can you not respect that? Perhaps she does like you, shes just scared she is thirteen after all. If your 15 you should back off too get your feelings in order and not go and stress your girl out.





    your young take your time when it comes to dating ppl because you never know who will be your right one.
    shes 13 now and she probably doesnt even know wat she wants. u may not think this true, but when youre a teen, 2years in age difference is a lot. just say to yourself ';what was i thinkin when i was 13?'; shes probably just playin the field tryin to find out wat kind of guy she likes. you really shouldnt worry about it. and if u think u should, take time to talk to her alone. ask her how she feels, y she left u hangin. usually at the age of 13 all it is is puppy love. u understand love more than she does. youve had 2 more years than her to figure it out. youll find someone for u. but a little advice i just learned recently, dont expect a relationship to last forever because it wont. have fun while your still young, and who knows, u could find the perfect girl for u. just hang in there, if u need more advice or someone to talk to just email me, ok.
    I think she likes you. i know that cuz i have done that too. but dude just ask her. and plus, there is nothing wrong with u being 2 years older than her. just ask her if she still likes you so you can finally know. if you actually ask her seriously and tell her how you feel, she might tell you the truth. just tell her the truth about how you feel and probably she will tell you the truth though. If she dosen't tell you the truth, she dosen't deserve you. trust me. Good luck! hopefully she will tell you she was just scared and everything will go great. Good luck dude! hopefully my advice helped. if it didn't, i'm sorry.








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    at 13 she is child/woman and is confused about life in general.... she cant help it, it is just part of growing up..... she is to young to be in the position of even having a b/f..... these young girls are dating way to young, for their own good they need to back off and enjoy life and doing girl things with friends and mixed grouops.... by being with groups of both sexes girls and boys learn to adjust from one level of life into the next..... when they go from being children to dating like an older teen, say 16 and above, they skip an important step in the process of growing up..... so all you can and really need to do, is back off.... you can wait for her or move on.... your choice....... God bless
    I think at 13 she has no idea what she wants or what she's doing. Try finding a girl your age because right now 2 years makes a big difference.
    just tell here you like her and hope for the best
    Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she thinks you're old. But me honey I'm young and hot!

    Does anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?

    I need to know basically how to start conversation. and what not to do in front of her.Does anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?
    don't be jerk in front of her, and don't be conceided and don't try to like talk about urself and be a show off, that can become annoying. just talk to her, whatever comes to your mind that you think it right and appropriate to say to her! Good LuckDoes anybody have any advice on how to ask a girl out or just talk?
    You'll have to be doing something-like at the mall in a music store- start by confidently smiling and saying hi. Ask her a question that she'll have to answer like -about music, who she likes and what CD of theirs she would choose for a gift for somebody. A girl likes a resonably confident, smiling guy who is interested in things she can relate to-then if she likes talking to you too, keep talking!
    Try... ';How you doin?'; :P
    ask her how she is doing and go from there! DON'T try to make her laugh because it will make you look like an ***! don't try to hard don't get nervous just be chill wit be laid back make her think that it's nothing for you to be talking to her! and whatever you do don't tell her you asked us for help!!!!!!!!!!!!(lol)

    Well this girl i liked what should i say best advice would be from a girl?

    just tell her that you fancy her and suggest that you go to the cinema together,as a date


    thats a start of a good relationship
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  • Advice on a first date (ever) with a girl who has been a friend?

    This girl and I have been friends for a while, but there has always been a little hinting of a romantic relationship from both of us. We are going to a movie soon, which I think could get awkward. How can I prevent it from being uncomfortable, and still make sure she and I have a great time? I don't think I will say or do anything wrong, I just don't think I will say enough. I get a little nervous around pretty girls, and tend not to say much in an effort to not make a fool of myself. HELP!!!Advice on a first date (ever) with a girl who has been a friend?
    Act like you have always acted with her, plus a little flirtation...chances are shes nervous too and seeing as you have already gotten past getting to know each other you can move on to a little more..well you know what i mean.Advice on a first date (ever) with a girl who has been a friend?
    just relax be yourself. if you act the same around her no matter how nervous you are then it will feel comfortable. don't think of it as a date think of it as friends going out it will help you relax. im in the same situation with the person im dating right now and it makes it comfortable when we act ourselves. just don't let her know that your nervous, cause girls can tell if you are. make sure when you meet for the movie you say something and aren't quiet because if you're quiet at the beginning it will feel very uncomfortable. because me and my date went to the movies and he was so nervous, he didn't talk, and i could tell. so even before the movie started, no matter how much i liked him, i wanted to leave and i even got up and went to the bathroom just to get away from me being the only one talking. but don't overtalk let her talk too.
    aww~ just keep it coo baby...if it ain't no thang that you are just friends then you shouldn't sweat it. that means no pressure.
    take your friend out like 5 more dates and ask her to be your girlfriend
    just be yerself and act normal if i went on a date with my guyfriend i wood want him to be himself.
    aww it's so sweet wen guys are nervous. just be yourself and try to make jokes to break the ice.

    I need advice on my ex girl freind..?

    ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates... its only been like 4 days since we didnt contact eachother, she said that she does still love me..... do you think their is chance that she will come back if i give her space, and what do i do if i meet her on the street? do u think it might be too late? please help me......advice.


    we are both 19 but i love her, i know im really young but i dont wana just give up hope yet... i think she is confused about what she wants, i want other oppinions..I need advice on my ex girl freind..?
    Don't give up hope, young love is something that is special.


    You are too young to know how rough and hard life can be to you .


    I wouldn't go all crazy and stock her, but send her a single white carnation, or drop her a letter in the mail box, simply saying 'I'm sorry,forgive me, I love you' .That's it nothing else.


    Whether or not you did anything wrong, sometimes that's all it takes to put things in the right direction.





    If you give too much space, sometimes there is someone waiting to jump right into ';your spot';


    On the flip side, if you crowd her too much she might resent you for it.





    Just do LITTLE sweet things that you don't need to have physical contact with her, but still let her know how much you care for her.


    Ever hear short but sweet?I need advice on my ex girl freind..?
    what does your heart tell you....you have to make your ultimate decision......sit down and weigh the effects of all your options
    Dude, it sounds to me like she has met someone else, she doesn't know where it's going to go with him, but she wants to keep you around because she does love you, but she wants to explore a little bit.
    you didn't mention what the fight was about. A year is a long time to have a relationship at 19. Of course she has feelings for you, and if she really did love you, she'll always sort of have feelings for you. If she asked for space that's what you need to give her. I'm guessing from my experience that your fight had something to do with jealousy issues. I could be wrong but at that age that was the most common problem. If you can't trust each other, then it's not worth the effort. If you give her space and when you cross in the street, you are just sweet and nice or fun and flirty, she'll remember what she misses about you. But if you're calling her all the time to try to fix what ever what went wrong you are only going to push her further away. Make sure you listen to what she says. Because if you listen she'll tell you exactly what she wants.
    aaaaaaaawwwwww!!!!!!!!! how sweet! i would love to be with a man like you! yes, i think she is just confused thats all, give it time you will see, she loves you too! maybe she is listenin to every one else and not her heart. but deep down she wants to be with you!!!!
    i think that you should need a break .





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    Thru mistakes that we learn, what was the cause of the fight go back and revise the fight if you were in wrong make an apology n vise versa, sweet talk her and call back for your past, she is either guilty if she was the one in wrong or calling for your extra concern if you made a mistake when you resolve the above, she is yours again.
    I'm sure that she does love you. But not enough. At least for now. Possibly forever. It's gonna be hard since you have strong feelings for her. But the fact is that it's not reciprocated, and that's alot of pressure and hurt for both of you. She can't help that she doesn't feel as strongly for you now, and you can't help that either. Move on. If she comes back, make sure that she loves you as you deserve. Don't settle for half.

    I need Advice there this is girl!?

    theres this girl we met this past friday @ a (family)party and we danced and we just exchanged names and i was able to find her on FB,when i messaged her, she always gives me back replys that r like alright thank you or thanks shes mi cousin why is she doing this? and if shes not in to me why would she dance with me? should i keep trying to become a friend or just give up?I need Advice there this is girl!?
    maybe she's just not interested.. u can't force the girl u like to like u back if she doesn't want to..u'l get over it dude..I need Advice there this is girl!?
    Try to meet other girls, cousin is not the best ...
    its better to give it a shot rather than give up n regret for doing nothing %26amp; dont know the results.. neway, its nice to have many frens..

    Theres a girl i sit next too...advice?

    There's this girl i sit next to in my World History class and i think she likes


    me too...i see out of the corner of my eye her look at me... what should i do?? Theres a girl i sit next too...advice?
    LOL I got the exact same situation, except its law class. Theres a girl i sit next too...advice?
    Wait till your not in class and talk to her on a recess or lunch or something. Then dont just straight up ask her out. Ask questions. Whats your fav food, color or what ever. If she seems intent on that then go a step farther. But try to build a freiendship with her before jumping into the relationship thing. That would help you out greatly.
    talk to her :]
    You should look her way next time you see this...make mutual eye contact and then smile at her.





    After class talk to her a bit - after talking for a couple class sessions, suggest that you get together to study sometime.





    Good Luck!
    C'mon start a converstation with her.....Ask her with a a smile on your face what are u looking at? Say what's up to her when she is looking at u and u catch her.....It's simple just talk to her
    befriend her

    Advice on asking a girl out?

    Ok, I feel really confident about myself and my friend and I are just going to ask a bunch of girls that we don't know out. My question is, whats the best approach I should take? Please, I want positive answers, thanks :) And I'm a 16 year old male btw.Advice on asking a girl out?
    All i have to say is y would you ask out girls u dont even no. And i guess you should maybe get to no them a little.....like wat there name is....lolAdvice on asking a girl out?
    Yeah , you should get to know them ( or one ) first ! You should be careful , there are weirdos out there !! in here too !!! Just cause they are girls , doesn't mean they can't be serial killers, or some other kind of wack-jobs ! pick one , be confident , be yourself , and don't say some cheesy '; line '; ! Just say '; Hi , my name is ...... , what's your's ? '; See how it goes from there . Girls already have a hard enough time trying to sort out the wackos too , so don't act like one when you talk to them ! Save the both of you all the run-around , and just be yourself , and hopefully she will recognize this and treat you with the same respect . It is hard being a teenager , but remember , EVERYONE has the same problems as you , we ALL want to find LOVE ( I have - married almost 5 years ) , but you are young , and your goals may be a little different , esp . since you are a guy ! If it doesn't work out , try to have fun while it lasts ! ( SAFE fun that is ) ! The chances of you finding the person you will spend the rest of your life with at your age are slim to none . You WILL NOT marry the first girl you go out with , so don't look for something spectacular to happen , just be open-minded , and have fun . it will last as long as it was meant to be ! Just be faithful and honest , and expect the same , if you don't get it , that's how you know to move on ! You will most likely do this over and over until you find the right '; one '; ! Process of elimination !! ( sorting out the riff - raff , if you will ) ! Try to find someone with similar interests , then you both won't waste months trying to change each other , before youns discover '; It'll never happen '; When one of you lose interest or cheats , it is over ! Life is too short , so don't EVER stay with someone you have to ';babysit '; , just to make sure they aren't messin' around. TRUST is EVERYTHING !! If you are not careful now -a- days , you can get a STD ! Btw, why did you change your avatar to a girl ?

    I need advice on this leo girl...?

    so im a cancer girl whos dating this leo girl, weve been 2gether for about 6months now and i luv her more than nething. But over the summer we were each other enemy i was seein someone else and she was 2 while we were in different states. We got n2 a arguement like a week ago and we worked it out and now that we r back home everythings back 2 normal and it weird i asked her about it and she completely ignored it so what should i think?I need advice on this leo girl...?
    star signs are not part of relationships. they just aren't.


    2 people are either compatible or not.


    before you go into a relationship make sure you have more then love and can relate to each other on a purely mental level. the feeling of being in love isn't real its simply a chemical reaction the body gives.I need advice on this leo girl...?
    she wonts to get over it cause she is
    one of my best friends is a leo and since we were babies shes been hard headed and always thought she was right about everything, they want people to chase them and like to feel high and mighty and pretend like they dont know.








    just stick up to her. Tell her what you think. if she loves you enough shell accept you for how you are.
    i agree to first one
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  • I need advice to get this girl?

    ive been stalking this girl lately. the other day she saw for the first time, she was kinda suprised cuz i was in her car(she didnt know). she yelled at me and was mad. how can i get back on her good side?I need advice to get this girl?
    I don't know what to tell you....that's a bit stalkerish to be in her car...just try to explain yourself so she knows you're not a creep (unless you are then leave her alone)I need advice to get this girl?
    you were in her car? hahaha dood, how you gonna expect her to even acknowledge you again?
    Stop being such a jerk might help.

    GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???

    Im a short girl, i kno most prolly have but im 4'11'; in the 11th grade and i have a boyfriend but, when im not around him, i feel like no one pays attention to me. I feel shorter than when im wit my family cuz they're short 2. I jus feel like a liitle girl that ppl see as 10 yrs. old or something.....advice?comparisons to u or others?GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???
    I never look at the size of someone! It's what is in the heart that matters!

    I like this girl in middle school but another girl likes me. Need some advice.?

    Hi, I'm in middle school and there's a girl who I like, but the problem is that there is another girl who likes me. I think the girl who likes me is a friend of the girl I like since I see them walking around together and talking. The girl that likes me is nice and pretty, but I just don't have that ';feel'; about her. How can i get out of this mix up?I like this girl in middle school but another girl likes me. Need some advice.?
    If you absolutely have to date one of them, date the one you want to go out with. However, since you're asking this question, I'm thinking you kind of like them both? But whatever. Just go with the one you like and don't go out with the one you'd date out of pity.I like this girl in middle school but another girl likes me. Need some advice.?
    date the one that you like.


    the other girl will step out by herself
    Follow your heart.
    AHHH!!! thats my situation!





    except im in a diffrent position. i like this guy who i think likes me but im not 100% sure more like 98% and one of my friends likes him too. But i dont think he likes her. this is just crazy! and im also in middle school. idk what grade ur in but im in 8th.





    just tell the girl that likes u that u only like her as a friend but u dont want to go out with her and break her heart when u dont really like her! i hope shell understand! i bet she will and go for the girl u like dont wait!
    What I do when I want to make sure I really like someone b4 telling them that I do, I write down everything about the person that i like and everything that i dont like about them. Then which ever one comes out the best you choose if you think it is right!!!!!
    Honestly? You are only in middle school. You don't need a girlfriend right now. In this situation all it will bring is drama. It is also possible that the girl you like wouldn't go out wwith you because she would risk losing a friend. To most girls friends are so much more important than a guy who won't be around long anyway.
    oh well that happend to me b4. i had 2 g/fs and i both like them.





    and the middle school dance came and i had to choose one of them. but i said i had a stomach ache.


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    just pick one of your g/fs.
    try getting off the insecurity train and talk t o the girl you like. That way, not only do you get a chance to know the girl personally but also get a chance into getting the mixed-up fixed
    Date neither of them...worry about urself and school. Trust me on this one, been there done that! They'll somehow get into a fight about it. So, worry about ur life and you'll get some other girlfriend. It'll all come soon enough, don't be in a hurry to grow up.

    I felt so bad with my legs.. it has scars and I'm a girl.. what can you advice.. a have a very low self-esteem

    ohh.. i'm so insecure about myself... i'm a teenager.. what will i do?


    i have a very sensitive skin, that even just a small scratch will turn into brown.. so sensitive...I felt so bad with my legs.. it has scars and I'm a girl.. what can you advice.. a have a very low self-esteem
    I have a very nasty scar from an automoile accident on my face and no longer have a chin it literallly was cut off, I had to have a bridge and skin transferred from the roof of my mouth to the lower gum to give me teeth. The scars fade overtime. Also a process called skin abraision (surgical) can be done. It acts on the same line as sanding a peice of wood. The scars are delt with dirrerently depending on the degree and what it came from, If it was a burn of a 2nd and 3rd degree a makeup is avail. from a burn unit hospital in Maryland.I felt so bad with my legs.. it has scars and I'm a girl.. what can you advice.. a have a very low self-esteem
    I am a female and I bruise very easy and I have several scars and i hate everyone of them and I try to hide them, I wear pants but people still see the scars on my legs from time to time (in the summer) I have one on my knee from 1 side to the other from an auto accident and it is so bad i hate it, but i look at it as I still have my leg and i am stronger and I have the scar to show for it. So think of the scar as making you a memory to make you a stronger person and to be more careful. I have scars on my face and arms to so it could be worse. Just live but be careful, you have many years ahead of you I am almost 37 and still many years to go.Chin Up and think positive!
    who cares
    wear pants

    I need some advice/help with this girl?...............?

    I'm friends with this girl I really like and we have been friends for about a year. I know this is kind of stupid and not a big deal but I'm not on her top friends list on myspace. That got me thinking does she consider me a true friend or is she just using me? How can I tell when we hang out that she is actually into hanging out with me. When we hang out we laugh and talk and I think she is having a good time. She calls me a lot to hang out, but she also calls me a lot for favors. Some of the favors range from giving her rides to places, giving her money when she really needs it, etc. If she is using me then why does she want to hang out a lot with me? I admit I pay when we hang out because I like her a lot and I think a guy should pay. We do hang out sometimes where I don't have to spend money though. I really like her a lot and she knows I like her, but I'm wondering if when we hang out she is just bored and knows that I will drive and pay, or she actually likes hanging out with me?I need some advice/help with this girl?...............?
    Well, in my opinion she's using u. She hangs out with u coz she does not want u to doubt her of using u.

    I need advice. Should a 13 year old boy knock a girl up and get her pregnant?

    I think only a dumb 13 year old boy would want to knock up a girl! At 13, you are not even a man, so therefore this is a stupid question.. seems like you need some major counseling and a good talk!I need advice. Should a 13 year old boy knock a girl up and get her pregnant?
    if that 13 year old boy can make a live to suport a child and the babys mother and get up in the middle of the night to feed a change the baby and if willing to give up all the fun suff like high school dances football games ect and geve up collage and all the realy fun stuff that come with that you wont get to have any of that at all so if your readdy to give it all up go for itI need advice. Should a 13 year old boy knock a girl up and get her pregnant?
    no
    Should a 13 year old boy pay child support and have a job or go to jail after 18 because he's not paying, never have any money because it all goes to the child. Should a 13 year old BOY even try and reach the level of a MAN.





    NO.
    No. A 13 year-old cannot be responsible for his child and is not emotionally ready for a child or sexual relationship. Just enjoy being a teenager before you think about children. All the stuff you like doing now stops after you have a child with someone.
    hell no
    knock up and get pregnant are the same thing. No 13 year old needs a baby
    NO' NO NO NO





    That is a big no no
    no not at all. how would the 13 yr old take care of the baby. the parents would lose the baby and the baby would end up getting lost in the system
    HELL NO
    After you knock her up... how are you doing to take care of the baby... or are you just going to be another dead beat daddy. You are not even old enough to get a job, old enough to drink, drive, you are not old enough to get a bank acct or have prescriptions filled. so, how are you doing to provide for the child, buy diapers, food, clothes... what about get the babies medicines filled and take her to the doctor.





    I am sure you understand that you are entirely tooooo young to be thinking about having a children. You need to be working on your education... your English and grammar is really bad and that should be your top priority
    NO
    Where is your mother ???????????????? U need ur silly black A** whooped !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...Do you hear me boy ?????!!!!!!!!!!!


    Better yet where is your daddy ....because I hope to high Heaven He is not condoning behavior like this ......What the H*ll is wrong with you ?????????????????????
    no no no no no no


    at 13 you are a child. you should not even be having sex.





    you can't drive


    you can't get a job


    you can't get an apartment


    you can't get health insurance





    What do you think you need with a child?





    You need to get an education and grow up. Take care of your own urges don't get a girl pregnant.
    A 13 year old boy is not even a man yet how could they take care of a child when they can't even take care of themselves.. It's not as easy as every youngster may think it takes ALOT of responsibility and hard work..
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  • Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz

    i was down for a couple of days working for my sister at a clothes shop and plenty of good looking women were working there.i had my eye on a few of them but one especially!





    now i didnt know her but i kept looking at her and caught her looking back a lot of times!


    the next day we were down to work on the same section of the clothes shop and out of nowhere she started talking to me and were laughing and joking the whole day.she even told me what time my lunch break was at because it was the same as hers.


    later that day we were tiding up together and my sister asked her to come help her in a different section and she said no she was working with me.now i found it a little odd that she would say this to the boss let alone my sister.then when she was leaving my sister was smiling at her and me as if something was goin on between us and she started gettin all embarrassed!this was supposed to be my last day!





    then the next day,my sister asked me to work and when i went in i looked at her and her face lit up and was really happy to talk to me again.





    after that i found her on bebo and noticed she had a bf,but since then i have been talking to her alot but live a good distance away from her!i will see her the next time i visit my sister.


    do you think i could have a chance with her if she breaks up with her bf?does it sound like she likes me but has a commitment?or does she just want me as a friend?


    its very complicated to know how she feels.thanks


    Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz
    her interest may have been there, but who knows how much it will fade from now until the next time you see her?





    Alright, so you found out that she has a bf because you found her on bebo. But she has never said anything about him, right? Well, play it off and forget you saw that because for one, she doesn't need to know that you acquired that info, and for another, who cares?





    The reason why i say that is because most guys who are confident with girls don't consider whether or not a girl has a bf because if they aren't married she is always fair game. If it comes down to it and you get to a point where you ask her about it, don't say ';Do you have a boyfriend?'; but instead say ';Are you single?';


    Let it be up to her to decide whether or not she wants to indulge that info.


    Also, don't put your all your eggs in one basket. By that i mean keep your eyes open in the meantime to meet other girls. Don't get all your hopes up on this one girl. If she is in a relationship that she values then you will have gotten all your hopes up for nothing. She may be the flirty type that doesn't necessarily get interested in another guy, but instead likes the feeling of the ego boost she gets when she sees that a guy likes her.


    Don't over-analyze it too much, either like you are doing here. The reason why she liked you in the first place is because you were laughing and joking. A girl likes a guy more for how he makes her feel than his looks, like the way a guy likes a girl. And that day you made her feel good by laughing and joking. She liked that so she liked being around you. That is why her face lit up, because she associates you with someone fun to be around. And that, my friend, is exactly where you want to be with a girl you are interested in.


    If you want it to go a step further, then at some point go from the laughing and joking level to the creating ';repoire'; (rapport) level with her. Find something that you both have in common and can talk about on a deeper emotional level.


    She already likes being around you because she has fun around you. The creating rapport level will make her feel closer to you on a personal level. It is after this point where you can go into flirting and such. The comfort level should be high enough at that point that any playful flirting will be seen as harmless fun.


    If she lets you know that she is taken then don't let it get you down and don't tell her of your disappointment. Instead, let her know that you are playing the field and that if she's not available, you are the type that has the confidence to just take it in stride and you are fine with it. After all, there are billions of females on the planet, and you will find the one for you.


    By doing this, she will not only feel comfortable enough to continue to be friends with you, she will also feel compelled at a certain level to act before she loses her chance to snag you before someone else does. Also, by continuing to be friends with her, that presents a chance for you to be there for her if her current relationship ever hits the rocks.





    Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz
    she might like you or is just trying to kiss up to the bosses brother but i dbout it you should try to get a her pretend you dont know about her bf
    yea right!
    make sure she doesn't have multiple bf's...if not then go for it
    i think the best thing to do is maybe just go out for coffee or something. then slowly get into the topic of relationships. if shes willing to bring it up, its good and its a sign that she trusts you. you have to be honest to her about your feelings, but at the same time, you dont want her to break up with her bf just because of you ( at least i hope so) but if breaking up with her current bf was already decided a while back, i think it would be appropreiate for you to try. best thing is just to be honest and let her know how you feel.
    Okay well, girls can be tricky! I should know i m a girl! It sounds as if she really LIKES you but doesn'tt want to let go of her bf. Just confront her about it. Ask her the status of ur relationship. Girls like it when ur open with them. and if she only wants to be friends than just accept it. most relationships start as a friendship. so hang in there and who knowsWhatt can happen in a little while! Good Luck!!
    by wat u hav expained, it seems to me that she is into u...


    i think u will hav a chance wit her if she breaks up wit her bf...


    i think u shud still go for her, but make sure that u kinda leav some space so she can figure out if she wants u or her bf...and it seems to me that ur sister knows wat she thinks abt u, so i think u shud talk to ur sister abt her, lik ask ur sis if shes into u or not and stuff lik that...good luck wit the girl!=)

    My teacher shows partiality towards one girl. I hate her doing like that . So please advice me something?

    The girl towards whom my teacher is showing partiality is director's daughter so I can't complainMy teacher shows partiality towards one girl. I hate her doing like that . So please advice me something?
    That is life.





    I had a college professor that had gone through a bad breakup and he was in a ';HATE WOMEN'; stage.





    My life was HELL that semester. I was the only woman in the class.





    I just buckled down and decided my best revenge would be to get the highest grade in his class. He tormented me enough that it was obvious that his plan was to get me to drop his class. The worse I did was stalk out a couple minutes early once class. It was a bad experience.





    Just concentrate on your own work and let the teacher's pet get all the warm fuzzies.My teacher shows partiality towards one girl. I hate her doing like that . So please advice me something?
    I got tired of this too, so ask in class, (raise your hand and say 'why are you showing favoritism?' the embarrassment stops it.) If you get reprimanded than it will be very obvious why. Tell your school board too.
    Your teacher has shown you a great lesson.





    Life is unfair. People do get rewarded for deeds undeserving.





    Don't worry about it and just feel great joy if you should see either of them do something silly or embarrassing.
    it happens when u r at school just ignore it cuz thinking of it no good %26amp; just try to be good frm ur side..
    well first of all tell me if u boy or a girl. bcoz it is generally seen that teachers are usually partial towards girls or the clever guys and/or the nerds. the same has happened with me when my physics teacher was very partial towards a clever guy and when i asked hin why he was so he replied that he(the clever guy) and i had a lot of differences. in the beginning though i felt bad i gradually learnt to cope with it. u said to urself that she is only being shown partiality bcoz she is the director's daughter or otherwise she wud have been undeserving of it. also while the teacher is being partial to the girl pretend as if u dont feel anything out of it and also tell ur classmates (im sure there would be guys who wud not like this behaviour from the teacher) to be indifferent. also question the teacher's behaviour at times. and cheer up, dude/dudette.

    GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???

    Im a short girl, im 4'11'; in the 11th grade and i have a boyfriend but, when im not around him, i feel like no one pays attention to me. I feel shorter than when im wit my family cuz they're short 2. I jus feel like a liitle girl that ppl see as 10 yrs. old or something.....advice?comparisons to u or others?GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???
    Well I am not that tall compared to some of the kids at my school. I am the right height for my age 5'2'; (at least that's what my doctor tells me) :) But for some reason I feel short because all of my friends are you know 5'6,7,8,9'; and ssssooooo on, but I make the best out of it because, it sometimes comes in handy. Like such in volleyball I get to the ball faster than others because of my height and different things like that, believe me you;ll find something good out of it! :)GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???
    I'm 5'3'; and always felt short. Why do you feel the need for everyone to pay attention to you?


    Open you mouth and talk to the people around you.


    If you are big on the inside, your outer appearance shouldn't matter. If you are surrounding yourself with people who care too much about appearance, they are not your real friends.


    My dad always told me ';boys really like the short girls';.


    Love yourself and have a great attitude and personality ... that's what will really get you noticed and liked throughout life. Trust me!
    You can't change your height. Don't worry about it. Just because your body is small doesn't mean that you need to feel that way. Just accept it and act how you are. Who cares if other people ignore you because of your height. Do you really care what those kind of people think anyway?
    the way you dress says a lot about yourself. dont dress in pink and all barbish. dress like a woman. wear the color cream, and white.


    and use very high heals.
    Are you kidding? Short girls are very attractive! Some of the cutest, nicest and most lovable girls I know are short. OK, sense of humor, personal hygiene and just plain nice are more important traits by far, but short is very cool!
    i knew a girl your height and she was in 12th grade at the time! so dont feel so bad, youll grow. and if not, its ok! at least you wont hav a boyfriend whos shorter than you lol. :) and heels can do wonders.
    i think short ladies are hot. my wife is short. she is about 4 11. we dated in hi school and she was one of the shortest in the class. but lots of guys like little hotties. its better then being to big. just think of it that way. be happy with who and what you are. that is the best way to look at it. no matter what you look like you are hot to somone.
    red bull gives you wings
    Hey dont knock the whole being short thing. The university I went to had a thing where if you were under 5' tall you got in free (you had to be measured). My sister is going there now and is like two inches too tall. We all joke with her about her height, but hey it would come in handy now and then. You can get those kids meals without people wondering. And you can shock the bouncers at bars and clubs in a couple of years. A good friend of mine is about 5'5'; and 23 y.o. and everybody thinks he's like 16. It's hilarious when they check his ID.





    Also, I dont know if this is just a subconscious thing, but most of my really good friends over the years, were ALL visibly shorter than me.
    I'm short too and the best, for me at least, to avoid being looked over because of it is to be very confident and friendly. Say hi first, don't hide in the background. My boyfriend is much taller than me and people always seem to focus on him, even though I am standing right there! So I just butt in and take over :)
    my advise to you tell your self I'm normal ,and keep say that until you get confidence of yourself
    being short is a great way to pickpocket
    goodness....im 4'10'; and 16....it's okay...i have gotten use to being short...actually guys pay more attention to me than the tall girl next to me....dont feel self concious...being short is something that God gave you and we have to make it work...be a little more outgoing and crazy around people...that might get you noticed.
    wear heels
    Im like 5 ft 1- and thats on my tip toes! So I know how u feel. But I love being short. Guys love tiny short little girls for some reason. I dont know if it brings out the preotectiveness in them but they seem to really love petite tiny girls. So i dont mind being short at all. Love who u are! Your height is something u can never change anyway!
    I think ur going to be taller for the next few years-I think....


    I'm short too =] shorter than everyone in my class lol
    I am a taller guy and have always found shorter girls to be very cute and desirable. If I was closer to your age, I would undoubtedly flirt with you. I know I am not alone in finding short girls to be sexy.





    With ladies, it is a turn on. Not everyone agrees, but that is my 2 cents.

    Fashion advice - 13 year old girl :)?

    Hi, can anyone help me please? Basically i'm 13 years old and I need help on whats fashionable at the moment. My style is quite girly - Uggs, jeans, v-neck tops etc.. please help!Fashion advice - 13 year old girl :)?
    jeans, v-necks, denims, print shirts, cardigans, anything but PINK and LIGHT bLUE, im 13 as well, we dont want to look like suckers !!Fashion advice - 13 year old girl :)?
    you have basically got it i mean skinny jeans plain tops and even uggs still look cool ...


    but you should invest in plimsoles they look really cool and everyone is wearing them in the UK.


    Check out these websites..





    http://xml.riverisland.com/flash/content鈥?/a>





    http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>





    http://www.newlook.co.uk/navigation/home鈥?/a>





    they have loads of fashionable clothes on them i browes them for hours....





    here are just a few simple fashionable things..





    http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>





    ^^not the best plimsoles but they have good ones on the riverisland website..^^





    http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>





    cardigans escpecially grey ones are very in at the moment..^^





    http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>





    over sized hats are very in atm ^^ see...%26lt;%26lt;down arrow%26gt;%26gt;





    http://trendcity.files.wordpress.com/200鈥?/a>





    http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>





    i love bangles and they are quite fashionable atm ^^





    skinny jeans are the best type at the moment i believe.. like ...





    http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>





    ...





    http://www.newlook.co.uk/1523489/1523489鈥?/a>





    leather jackets are also very in ^^





    thats just a taster .. just search the three sites at the beggining you will be sure to find something you love !!





    hope i helped xx
    Im 13 too, Well During winter you don't want to go for anything small or too low.


    Its really depends onyour body shape, if your petite then any top you like jeans and some uggs and a scarf abit like this http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a> but you can choose whatever design as that one is abit pricey for a scarf.


    finish it off jacket or hoodie, gloves





    x



    hollister


    abercrombie


    american eagle


    aeropostale


    pac sun


    charlotte russe


    forever 21


    wet seal





    those are all fashionable stores i can think of at the moment





    as for fashion ';trends'; i would definitely say:


    skinny jeans


    uggs


    baby doll tops


    horizontal stripes


    logo tees (hollister, abercrombie, etc.)


    skirts and leggings


    these: http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_fe鈥?/a> (they're called ';clogs'; by the way. super cute.


    ballet flats(ehh not so much, but still cute)


    also nikes are pretty in too.





    as for hair:


    side fringes, or side bangs. usually lots of layers





    makeup:


    keep it natural. a little mascara, some thin eyeliner and you're good to go.
    Im 13 too.





    14 in 4 days.





    I tend to wear things like skinnys, uggs. I shop at river island, topshop, urban outfitters.


    places like that.





    I try to dress nice, but without the chavy look.





    Things that are in are over the top things, like fluffly blouses or bags with millions of colours.





    Uggs arnt in, but everyone wears them.





    And yes, the vintage look is in.





    Always try and put GOLD in your outfit.


    every one is wearing that.
    well,the Fashion is red with black.but basically,two colours which go together.i just wear tops,jeans,and im girly too!PS:whats always in fashion is leopard print,plus,patterned tops can do as well,and go to fashion sites.don't be under pressure,if your friends say you haven't got the latest stuff.





    hope this advice helps!
    Hi, leather jackets, abercrombie hoodies, leggings/skinny jeans with uggs, long tops/jumpers with a belt, quilted bags and lots of accesories (bracelets/bangles.)


    :)
    email me at niko1020@msn.com. I'll set you up with some real fashionable clothes, information about them, and anything else you might need to know. that way we can actually talk about it.
    how about a shirt underneath then a vest or sleeveless on top then a skirt or shorts then sneakers from converse or skechers
    Wear what ever you feel comfortably is and there are lot of website you can look at.
    skini jeans with a baggie jumper. skini jeans and top with waist coat. leggan and skirt. long tops. vests on ur bum (like streach it down so everyone can see), shorts and leggans. convers.
    Uggs, skinny jeans, big sweatshirts, trench coats, braids (your hair,) shirts, etc.
    T-shirts, skinny jeans (and no, its not just emos the people like that who wear them), boots. (:
    read some fashion magasines. i like cosmopolitan and glamour, they will really tell you what's in and out atm :)
    GROW UP AND THEN WORRY, BUT DO NOT SPEND ON BRANDS, THEY ARE A WASTE OF MONEY.
    check out


    www.boohoo.com





    They have loads of clothes that are fashionable for teens





    Trust me i shop there


    :D
    never go for big brands they just con you and noone gives a crap that u spent 拢200 on your outfit






    Girls: Help Me!!!! I need advice on how to ask out this shy girl i really like! i am shy too! I need advice!!!

    Okayi heard this the best way:





    ';Ask her wats the perfect way to ask her out was and do it exactly how she told you';





    But as you guys are shy then valentines coming up, so give her a rose, not card as it might cause her problems hiding it. and say ';I like you';, nothing less nothing more.'; Or if you wanna do it sooner, give her the flower whenevr and say ';i wanted to give you this now so that noone else steal you at valentines';





    Movies going out, wait a while.

    Need advice about relationship with girl!?

    A girl that I've known for three years knows I like her. She has a boyfriend, but her friends say that she likes me. I'm all confused. Please help!Need advice about relationship with girl!?
    Just 'go with the flow'. I mean, if people are saying she likes you, its possible that she may have told someone that she does, and its spreading. On the other hand, it may be a made up rumor, so I wouldn't jump right in if I were you. Just give it time, and get to know her. She may not be the person you thought she was, OR she could be your dream girl! Hope this helps :)Need advice about relationship with girl!?
    well, theres not really anything u can do if she has a boyfriend. but if they break up, find out FROM HER herself if she likes u, and if she does, tell her u like her 2 (even if she already knows)...%26amp; go from there :)
    wait then ask her out thats all u can do in less you catch him cheating
    if she has a boyfriend, then my advice is to try to forget about her until she's single. and if she likes you, then you won't have to wait long. :)
    well some time they will break up and when that happends just ask her if she wants to go out for dinner but, after she breaks up with her x give her some time to get over it.And dont forget to buy the dinner! %26lt;3
    Just be a friend to her for now and when she's ready she'll maybe enter a relationship with you. Just sit back and relax for now or maybe date someone else that you have feelings for, but don't be a heartbreaker!
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  • Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz

    i was down for a couple of days working for my sister at a clothes shop and plenty of good looking women were working there.i had my eye on a few of them but one especially!





    now i didnt know her but i kept looking at her and caught her looking back a lot of times!


    the next day we were down to work on the same section of the clothes shop and out of nowhere she started talking to me and were laughing and joking the whole day.she even told me what time my lunch break was at because it was the same as hers.


    later that day we were tiding up together and my sister asked her to come help her in a different section and she said no she was working with me.now i found it a little odd that she would say this to the boss let alone my sister.then when she was leaving my sister was smiling at her and me as if something was goin on between us and she started gettin all embarrassed!this was supposed to be my last day!





    then the next day,my sister asked me to work and when i went in i looked at her and her face lit up and was really happy to talk to me again.





    after that i found her on bebo and noticed she had a bf,but since then i have been talking to her alot but live a good distance away from her!i will see her the next time i visit my sister.


    do you think i could have a chance with her if she breaks up with her bf?does it sound like she likes me but has a commitment?or does she just want me as a friend?


    its very complicated to know how she feels.thanks


    Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz
    her interest may have been there, but who knows how much it will fade from now until the next time you see her?





    Alright, so you found out that she has a bf because you found her on bebo. But she has never said anything about him, right? Well, play it off and forget you saw that because for one, she doesn't need to know that you acquired that info, and for another, who cares?





    The reason why i say that is because most guys who are confident with girls don't consider whether or not a girl has a bf because if they aren't married she is always fair game. If it comes down to it and you get to a point where you ask her about it, don't say ';Do you have a boyfriend?'; but instead say ';Are you single?';


    Let it be up to her to decide whether or not she wants to indulge that info.


    Also, don't put your all your eggs in one basket. By that i mean keep your eyes open in the meantime to meet other girls. Don't get all your hopes up on this one girl. If she is in a relationship that she values then you will have gotten all your hopes up for nothing. She may be the flirty type that doesn't necessarily get interested in another guy, but instead likes the feeling of the ego boost she gets when she sees that a guy likes her.


    Don't over-analyze it too much, either like you are doing here. The reason why she liked you in the first place is because you were laughing and joking. A girl likes a guy more for how he makes her feel than his looks, like the way a guy likes a girl. And that day you made her feel good by laughing and joking. She liked that so she liked being around you. That is why her face lit up, because she associates you with someone fun to be around. And that, my friend, is exactly where you want to be with a girl you are interested in.


    If you want it to go a step further, then at some point go from the laughing and joking level to the creating ';repoire'; (rapport) level with her. Find something that you both have in common and can talk about on a deeper emotional level.


    She already likes being around you because she has fun around you. The creating rapport level will make her feel closer to you on a personal level. It is after this point where you can go into flirting and such. The comfort level should be high enough at that point that any playful flirting will be seen as harmless fun.


    If she lets you know that she is taken then don't let it get you down and don't tell her of your disappointment. Instead, let her know that you are playing the field and that if she's not available, you are the type that has the confidence to just take it in stride and you are fine with it. After all, there are billions of females on the planet, and you will find the one for you.


    By doing this, she will not only feel comfortable enough to continue to be friends with you, she will also feel compelled at a certain level to act before she loses her chance to snag you before someone else does. Also, by continuing to be friends with her, that presents a chance for you to be there for her if her current relationship ever hits the rocks.





    Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz
    she might like you or is just trying to kiss up to the bosses brother but i dbout it you should try to get a her pretend you dont know about her bf
    yea right!
    make sure she doesn't have multiple bf's...if not then go for it
    i think the best thing to do is maybe just go out for coffee or something. then slowly get into the topic of relationships. if shes willing to bring it up, its good and its a sign that she trusts you. you have to be honest to her about your feelings, but at the same time, you dont want her to break up with her bf just because of you ( at least i hope so) but if breaking up with her current bf was already decided a while back, i think it would be appropreiate for you to try. best thing is just to be honest and let her know how you feel.
    Okay well, girls can be tricky! I should know i m a girl! It sounds as if she really LIKES you but doesn'tt want to let go of her bf. Just confront her about it. Ask her the status of ur relationship. Girls like it when ur open with them. and if she only wants to be friends than just accept it. most relationships start as a friendship. so hang in there and who knowsWhatt can happen in a little while! Good Luck!!
    by wat u hav expained, it seems to me that she is into u...


    i think u will hav a chance wit her if she breaks up wit her bf...


    i think u shud still go for her, but make sure that u kinda leav some space so she can figure out if she wants u or her bf...and it seems to me that ur sister knows wat she thinks abt u, so i think u shud talk to ur sister abt her, lik ask ur sis if shes into u or not and stuff lik that...good luck wit the girl!=)

    My teacher shows partiality towards one girl. I hate her doing like that . So please advice me something?

    The girl towards whom my teacher is showing partiality is director's daughter so I can't complainMy teacher shows partiality towards one girl. I hate her doing like that . So please advice me something?
    That is life.





    I had a college professor that had gone through a bad breakup and he was in a ';HATE WOMEN'; stage.





    My life was HELL that semester. I was the only woman in the class.





    I just buckled down and decided my best revenge would be to get the highest grade in his class. He tormented me enough that it was obvious that his plan was to get me to drop his class. The worse I did was stalk out a couple minutes early once class. It was a bad experience.





    Just concentrate on your own work and let the teacher's pet get all the warm fuzzies.My teacher shows partiality towards one girl. I hate her doing like that . So please advice me something?
    I got tired of this too, so ask in class, (raise your hand and say 'why are you showing favoritism?' the embarrassment stops it.) If you get reprimanded than it will be very obvious why. Tell your school board too.
    Your teacher has shown you a great lesson.





    Life is unfair. People do get rewarded for deeds undeserving.





    Don't worry about it and just feel great joy if you should see either of them do something silly or embarrassing.
    it happens when u r at school just ignore it cuz thinking of it no good %26amp; just try to be good frm ur side..
    well first of all tell me if u boy or a girl. bcoz it is generally seen that teachers are usually partial towards girls or the clever guys and/or the nerds. the same has happened with me when my physics teacher was very partial towards a clever guy and when i asked hin why he was so he replied that he(the clever guy) and i had a lot of differences. in the beginning though i felt bad i gradually learnt to cope with it. u said to urself that she is only being shown partiality bcoz she is the director's daughter or otherwise she wud have been undeserving of it. also while the teacher is being partial to the girl pretend as if u dont feel anything out of it and also tell ur classmates (im sure there would be guys who wud not like this behaviour from the teacher) to be indifferent. also question the teacher's behaviour at times. and cheer up, dude/dudette.

    GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???

    Im a short girl, im 4'11'; in the 11th grade and i have a boyfriend but, when im not around him, i feel like no one pays attention to me. I feel shorter than when im wit my family cuz they're short 2. I jus feel like a liitle girl that ppl see as 10 yrs. old or something.....advice?comparisons to u or others?GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???
    Well I am not that tall compared to some of the kids at my school. I am the right height for my age 5'2'; (at least that's what my doctor tells me) :) But for some reason I feel short because all of my friends are you know 5'6,7,8,9'; and ssssooooo on, but I make the best out of it because, it sometimes comes in handy. Like such in volleyball I get to the ball faster than others because of my height and different things like that, believe me you;ll find something good out of it! :)GUYS: GIRLS: short girl here in need of advice???
    I'm 5'3'; and always felt short. Why do you feel the need for everyone to pay attention to you?


    Open you mouth and talk to the people around you.


    If you are big on the inside, your outer appearance shouldn't matter. If you are surrounding yourself with people who care too much about appearance, they are not your real friends.


    My dad always told me ';boys really like the short girls';.


    Love yourself and have a great attitude and personality ... that's what will really get you noticed and liked throughout life. Trust me!
    You can't change your height. Don't worry about it. Just because your body is small doesn't mean that you need to feel that way. Just accept it and act how you are. Who cares if other people ignore you because of your height. Do you really care what those kind of people think anyway?
    the way you dress says a lot about yourself. dont dress in pink and all barbish. dress like a woman. wear the color cream, and white.


    and use very high heals.
    Are you kidding? Short girls are very attractive! Some of the cutest, nicest and most lovable girls I know are short. OK, sense of humor, personal hygiene and just plain nice are more important traits by far, but short is very cool!
    i knew a girl your height and she was in 12th grade at the time! so dont feel so bad, youll grow. and if not, its ok! at least you wont hav a boyfriend whos shorter than you lol. :) and heels can do wonders.
    i think short ladies are hot. my wife is short. she is about 4 11. we dated in hi school and she was one of the shortest in the class. but lots of guys like little hotties. its better then being to big. just think of it that way. be happy with who and what you are. that is the best way to look at it. no matter what you look like you are hot to somone.
    red bull gives you wings
    Hey dont knock the whole being short thing. The university I went to had a thing where if you were under 5' tall you got in free (you had to be measured). My sister is going there now and is like two inches too tall. We all joke with her about her height, but hey it would come in handy now and then. You can get those kids meals without people wondering. And you can shock the bouncers at bars and clubs in a couple of years. A good friend of mine is about 5'5'; and 23 y.o. and everybody thinks he's like 16. It's hilarious when they check his ID.





    Also, I dont know if this is just a subconscious thing, but most of my really good friends over the years, were ALL visibly shorter than me.
    I'm short too and the best, for me at least, to avoid being looked over because of it is to be very confident and friendly. Say hi first, don't hide in the background. My boyfriend is much taller than me and people always seem to focus on him, even though I am standing right there! So I just butt in and take over :)
    my advise to you tell your self I'm normal ,and keep say that until you get confidence of yourself
    being short is a great way to pickpocket
    goodness....im 4'10'; and 16....it's okay...i have gotten use to being short...actually guys pay more attention to me than the tall girl next to me....dont feel self concious...being short is something that God gave you and we have to make it work...be a little more outgoing and crazy around people...that might get you noticed.
    wear heels
    Im like 5 ft 1- and thats on my tip toes! So I know how u feel. But I love being short. Guys love tiny short little girls for some reason. I dont know if it brings out the preotectiveness in them but they seem to really love petite tiny girls. So i dont mind being short at all. Love who u are! Your height is something u can never change anyway!
    I think ur going to be taller for the next few years-I think....


    I'm short too =] shorter than everyone in my class lol
    I am a taller guy and have always found shorter girls to be very cute and desirable. If I was closer to your age, I would undoubtedly flirt with you. I know I am not alone in finding short girls to be sexy.





    With ladies, it is a turn on. Not everyone agrees, but that is my 2 cents.