I need a girl's perspective. Date/love advice needed.?

I'm 15 nd I suck at the whole dating thing. I want to make a long relationship with that certain someone, but I can't pass go. I could really use advice on pretty much anything. How to tell if a girl likes you, what to do on dates, kissing, what's moving to fast, how to keep her amused, etc. Ladies perfered, but any useful tibits from anyopne will be looked for. Thank you!I need a girl's perspective. Date/love advice needed.?
mature a little bitI need a girl's perspective. Date/love advice needed.?
To tell if a girl likes you, ask her out. You'll risk putting your heart on the line, but thats the best way. If you aren't that gutsy, ask her friends if she's single, or if they know if she likes you, it'll get passed down to her that you are talking about her and are interested, and then ask her. For dates do something that you enjoy, or that she enjoys. Start off just by hanging out, going to movies, then move up to dinner, walks in the park, more romantic stuff. Go to a concert together, or do some sports together, its harder when you are younger, but just hang otu and have a good time! Remember that each girl is different, so ask her what she likes, and ask her if she thinks you are going to slow or fast. Each girl will want to go at their own pace, and you tend to pick up from where you last left the last relationship, that's why each girl is different. Try not to put too much pressure on the situation. If you want the relationship to last, honestly, you have to communicate and compromise with your girl. Make sure that the both of you are happy with the way things are always going. In order to amuse her, what I loved was when my boyfriend would leave little love/';I'm thinking of you'; notes in my locker or in my purse, maybe binder in your case that she might come across later, and remind her that you care about her and are just thinking of her. With kissing, hunnnie just roll with it, when you start, not too much tongue, if any, and see what she likes. You'll improve as you kiss her more. Advice: leave your teeth out of it, unless you are getting wrapped up in the heat and nibble her lip while you are making out or something. For me, alot of the guys I dated, their downfall was that they became predicatable, and they didn't treat me like their girlfriend. Offer to pay for her coffee or her movie, I wouldn't make them pay everytime, but to know that they would offer was nice. Hold open doors and treat her like a princess. Dont think of her like a prize, where you have to show her off, but be lucky you've got her. Try to think of new things to do when you can, and leave some things as surprises. Good luck, and just roll with it. Hope I helped out some.
Well heres my advice: (im 15 too)





Be yourself. (nothings worse than a guy who changes depending on who hes talking to)


If you like someone. Just tell them. If they dont like you back, there not worth it. (yeah... its hard advice. but theres plenty of great people out there. even though it may not seem like it now)


Be confident (just go with what you feel like doing)








Thats all i got right now. hope it helped... Good Luck
UR STILL YOUNG SO IF U WANT TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP LONG. JUST BASICALLY HAVE FUN WITH HER. GO TO THE MOVIES/MALL/PLAY SPORTS/GO TO PARKS/AMUSE PARKS/CIRCUS OR JUST HANG OUT. JUST MAKE IT SIMPLE AND BE YOURSELF. DONT RUSH INTO ANYTHING U ARE NOT READY. U HAVE A LONG LIFE TOGETHER. OK
First off, Slow down. You might be rushing everything at once. Just relax and be yourself. As for everything else you will know when it is time. I know that is not what you were looking for, but there is not a book out there for this. Some girls talk alot when they like you, some smile etc... it is difficult to say, But you can always ask her, that is after talking to her on the phone for a while. Why don't you try that asking for a girls phone number. Any girl, and talk to her on the phone, then you will become comfortable doing it.
Ok, I'm 14 and here are my ';tidbits';:


~Girls are more into the emotional part of a relationship. Talk to her and show her you care about her life.


~don't be too clingy or aloof.


~movies are great for dates, but finding out what you have in common and doing stuff you both like is always good. try to change it up.


~kissing: save it until a really romantic moment on a 2nd or 3rd date.


~do not start making out at the beginning. wait!!!!


~don't, I repeat, DO NOT talk about sex! You are 15, not 19!


~If she likes you, she'll stare into your eyes, laugh at your jokes, talk to you alot, smile at you, and try to impress you. Not all at the same time though...
first of all don't think about having sex with any girl yet. Then find a nice girl who has a good personality. Don't just go for looks. You can hold hands on the first date. On the second date you'll know if she likes you enough or not. If she does like you then go to a nice place and kiss her. Just be relax. That's very important.
You can let her know that you are interested by listening to her and remembering everything she shares with you. paying attention to detail is the one thing that most guys don't do and it's the main reason that girls break up with them. Girls and women like to share their knowledge and they also like to talk about themselves...listen all you can and remember what you hear. Girls hate to be slobbered and drooled on...learn to control your saliva when kissing a girl. Don't breath like a mongoloid...girls think it's gross...we should not be able to hear you breathing and you should not sit about all day with your mouth hanging agape while you're looking at something. Eye contact...all the time...look girls in the eye...smile and nod...wink when it's appropriate...Be honest and never betray her trust...don't make fun of her...always find something to Compliment her on...take up for her if and when others make fun of her or laugh at her...never laugh at her...try very hard not to interrupt her when she is talking and if you do...be sure to ask her what it was she was going to say before you so rudely interrupted her and apologize for your lack of home training. Be a gentleman and treat her like a lady at all times. Good Luck
Take it slow and have fun!!! You will know when its right!!!
im 17 how bout it
We are usually just as clueless on dating as you guys, but we don't show it quite as much! I think when a girl is being obvious and hitting on you, then she is doing it on a dare or something. There is no way to tell which girl really likes you.





On asking her out...





Ask her out in a cute way. Like if you're asking her to a dance, bake a cake and put it in her locker. Write in icing ';Homecoming?'; and your name. We love it when you are creative with asking.





On ';the whole dating thing';...





High school relationships never work out. Basically never. It lasts for about a few weeks if you're lucky, and then you are dying to get out. Girls love drama and revenge. So watch out. If you're looking for ';that special someone'; make sure you really know what you're doing before you ask her. We are dangerous.





On kissing...





Whoa there Sparky! Get a girl before you even think about kissing her. And wait for a special moment too. We don't like if you rush. My ex-boyfiend told me that he used to practice kissing on the back of his hand or with his pillow. It weirded me out a little, but you could try it.





Hope I helped. Good luck. And remember, always be sweet and be yourself. We like it that way!!
hmm...well. i guess find out what she s interested in so u can have good conversations.. be yourself... show you care. im 16, and i know how you feel lol. things will work out n you'll find someone you like with the same interests n stuff as you. just be patient.
dood, nobody can give you advice on this. It's something that you're going to have to be on your own. Dont take other peop's advice because it'll be like shes dating them, not YOU.





Just talk to her, ask for her phone number, takl with her, untill you get to the point where she hints to you that she likes you (LOL MY EX, when we were friends, 'so have you ever considerd us, like best friends times 2). Give it time,





You'll see.
just ask her what she liks about and then go from their
The best thing you can do is ask her out. I know that it sounds really hard and it is at first, but if you do it you most likely be happy. Yes, I said most likely because I'm just being honost. I am 13 and just got a boyfriend this year. She will try to get your attention with out making it seem like it's her. See when you do get a girlfriend you want to ask her before you hold her hand to see if she wants to and when you want to hold her hand again keep asking her until she tells you that you dont have to ask you can just hold her hand when ever you want to. As for the kissing part you dont give her a kiss until she says that it is ok. If someone asks you to kiss her or trys to get you to kiss her say no not until I have her permission. Then she will really respect you and she will probably give you her permission sooner. Keep moving with her, but dont go faster than she does otherwise she will think you just want to be a friend with benifits or you want to go to fast which will turn her off. Just go at her pace. Ask me if you need any more help!
I hate guys that move too fast. Like, I'll kiss on a first date, sure. But it when guys feel the need to make out on a first date. I'm also severly annoyed when a guy doesn't pay for me, or open doors for me, and I am always impressed when they think of something than the movies.
Don't worry be happy.