Sunday, December 27, 2009

Advice for a young girl...please?

ok i really like my friend. he is like a best friend to me, more or less a brother and i think i want to go with him. but i think he likes my friend instead who he messes around with. i asked him that but he said no, but i think he is lying. i told him about 3 months back that i like him. he was shocked and i want to be with him. often i catch him staring at me in places such as the hips and chest. and lately we've been closer than usual. and i dont know what to do. im pretty sure he doesnt like me because he thinks of me as a sister and i remember one night we were up sending these text messages that sounded like we were horny and having sex but we were just kidding. please give me your opnion. be serious people. thank you


i mean he even tells me everything. and some weird reason he he sentme this penis picture by accident saying it was for another girl as a prank. and he told me it wasnt his but i think it is because in the pic the hand holding the penis and the pants look like hisAdvice for a young girl...please?
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i think if things are gna happen they will just happen cos of the way you two seem to be.. i wouldnt make any moves just incase but you could keep putting out the signals and see where it goes.





i had a friend who was very friendly in that way.. and i thought perhaps he liked me.. but he still messed about with other girls. so i wasnt ever sure... in the end nothing ever happend between us.. but we are best of friends.. and i think its nice that way.. the crush or apparent likiing of him in that way will wear off... just give it time..all will sort itself out.Advice for a young girl...please?
never ask a guy out! always show them that u like them. dont tell unless they ask. sounds to me that he likes u as more than a friend....or sister. come on what brother stares at your chest? just flirt with him a lot. make him think u lke him but at the same time play hard to get
ask him out the worst he can say is no. Once he says no then move on there r plenty of other guys out there, and u guys can still b friends.
play hard 2 get soon he'll fall for u big time
First off you need to make sure that if you do become involved, make sure it's what both of you want and not just to have sex. You can have sex, but a relationsjip is a lot of work and commitment, besides it sounds as though you are both very young to even consider being in a serious relationship, just enjoy your life and freedom, because you will have the rest of your life to be in commitments.
go find you another bf
well i just turned 12 so i guess it s young....


i think he might be playing hard to get


or maybe he just sees you 2 just as close friends nothing more


its a 50/50 chance ask his other friends
if he's that important to you.. you wouldnt want to do anything to mess up the relationship u have with him right now. i would just try flirting in different ways and see if he does back. but i wouldnt tell him exactly how you feel until you know more about what he wants. because if he wants something different.. things will just be akward around u two. and as u know relationships usually end sometime.. so what happens after that? you probably cant go back to being the friends like you were. i know this from personal experience. another way to find out if he likes you that way would be to flirt with other guyz or get all over a guy right in front of him. see how he reacts.. he might to fighting for you then.. u never know. just follow your heart, good luck and i hope i helped :)
SINCE IT IT IS OBVIOUS YOU ARE HIGHLY ATTRACTED TO THIS FELLOW, HE IS SIMPLY FOLLOWING SUIT (trying to get some uncomitted sex)...TALK TO HIM INSTEAD AND STOP USING YOUR BODY LANGUAGE, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL...IF HE DOESN'T CONTINUE TO FLIRT WITH YOU IN A NORMAL WAY THAN YOU WILL KNOW THAT HE JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WHICH IS VERY NORMAL FOR EVERY GUY TO WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH EVERYTHING THAT WALKS...(don't take it personal, there's no reason to)...IF HE LISTENS TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS TOWARD HIM AND HE HAS TRUE FEELINGS FOR YOU THAN HE WILL DO THINGS RIGHT WITH YOU...there is NOTHING to lose. SPECIALLY FOR YOU...WHO AFTER THIS POINT ALL YOU HAVE TO LOSE ARE YOUR DOUBTS...!
The guy has a crush on you..





Those messages ';as if it were for another person'; are really for you.. We guys sometimes are soo evident :-)





Give him a hot kiss and see how he reacts

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