This is a two part question.
When a girl says, ';I'm not ready to have a boyfriend right now.'; That is bull, right? It just means she doesn't like me but doesn't realize saying that hurts even more because I know she's lying.
Second part is....does a girl need to be told if a guy likes her? Or should it just happen. I've had a few girls tell me that they don't need to be told or else it's weird, but this last girl I lose said I should have told her sooner that I liked her.
Anyway, just let me know what you think, but don't be a bi***, I already feel dumb as it is.Advice - are you a girl?
part one: not all of it means bull. maybe she isnt.. maybe she just got out of a bad relationship.. it could mean various reasons.. but it can also mean shes lying..uninterested
part two: depends.. show that ur interested, be flirty. not all girls need guys to tell them he likes her. i personally dont like it.. its too shocking in some cases.. i think flirting and showing ur interested it the best way to go.Advice - are you a girl?
Well first off if you want sincere answers I don't think it's in your best interest to say ';but don't be a *****';.
ALL girls are different, some girls need to be told, some don't. Some may not like the guy so they tell them they are not ready for a relationship. Some just may not want to be tired down at the moment.
Normally if you know the girl well enough you can tell what she means. When in doubt, just come out and say how you feel.
When a girl says that she mite have just had a bad relationship and is not ready for a new one yet or lyk she said she just mite not be ready at the moment even if she does lyk you
If the time is right then i say you shuld tell the girl but if the time is bad it might be awkward for example if lots of people are around she might feel weird if you told her then
hope this helped
when a girl says ';im not ready to have a boyfriend right now'; haha yeah its just a poliet way of saying i dont like you.
it depends on the move the guy makes. some people like for it to just happen but they wouldnt be sure if you really like them in that way.
Don't feel dumb, some people are just beotches. If a chick says she's not ready to date then no, she's not into you, but don't feel stupid for trying as women like guys to make the moves most of the time and just cause she's not into you doesn't mean the next gal wont be. Generally you shouldn't have to tell someone you like them you should just feel chemistry with them. Be patient it'll happen. It's just as hard for a girl to say 'sorry I'm not into you' as it is for a guy to lay it on the line and say he likes her. I would refrain from telling chicks you like them though as that could lead to awkward moments. Most people can tell when they're liked I think, and if not...just keep hinting.
NO ! It's not Bull !
No she doesn't need to be told when a guy likes her !
When girls and boys like each other they get on happily together without anyone asking or saying anything .
You cannot just push yourself onto girls you fancy . Try to relax about , it be friendly with girls with whom you have something in common . You slightly give the impression , that girlfriends are for kissing , cuddling and getting a leg over . if you take that hasty approach you will get a few rebuffs . Girls too , have the right to choose a boy whom they like and feel comfortable with .
well yes, because even if u dnt want a BF but u like the person then u just go 4 it. you dntr stop and think ';hmmm but i dnt want a BF';
2nd dnt tell her u like her in a weird way, just drop hints here and there, we like that. but WE LOVE MEN WHO PLAY HARD TO GET and are kind of asses! it just makes it better.
Well from personal experience when i don't want to go out with a guy i say i'm not ready to have a boyfriend right now so yea it is bull and YES you need to tell a girl you like her don't just keep her wondering becos girls don't like to make the first move .
first part*if she says she isnt ready its probably half true what i feel it means is she likes you BUT there is someone else she may be a little bit more interested in or she is still gettin over an ex or her and her ex are trying to get back together either case the im not ready line is jus an excuse for no u cant be my boyfriend
second part*yes a gurl needs to be told if a guy likes her women love when guys compliment them men you cant do it enough
to the both of your question, actually, it depends..
1st- sometimes it is becos she doesn't like u.. but, sometimes, maybe she is really not ready to have bf rite now.. maybe it's due to her feelings or condition on that time..
u can't really know unless u really sure bout that..
2nd- usually, a girl have 2 be told if u like her.. this is for making sure if u really like her.. if u really wanna be official couple.. u can't just expect people 2 read your mind, couldn't u..
well, that's what i think..
um its all depends.
It really depends. If you like a guy, you want him to tell you, but if you don't like him (and are really good friends), you don't want him to tell you. Yes, it probably hurts having a girl lie to you, but its hard for her too. She would feel bad saying that she just doesn't like you, but that is no excuse for her to lie to you. I'm sorry that this happened.
Well if your actions are not speaking louder than your words than you ougt to work on a better approach. Women need to feel a sense of being needed or wanted. If its cold she will interpret that as you not really being into her.
okay i know us girl can be confusing and it defentally helps if you tell a girl that you like them cause if not they wont know and the only stupid one is the girls who told you not to tell thats crap and they are not to smart. Some times when we say we arent ready to have a boyfriend yet we are trying not to hurt the guys feelings cause we might just want to be friend but now that you say that i can see how it might hurt worse. Im glad i know that now well good luck with every thing! :)
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mk
Please don't feel dumb. ';I'm not ready for a boyfriend'; may mean just that (may be overwhelmed with other stuff, may be getting over a bf...) or it may be a nice blow off. You don't know. So don't assume the worst.
Most girls need to be told. Just like most boys need to be told. I remember going to high school reunions and hearing from men what a big crush they had on me...and they were often men I had a crush on. I never knew.
It's difficult to say - when a girl says ';I'm not ready for a relationship';, it could really mean what she is saying... or it could mean that she doesn't like you.
And yes, a girl does need to be told if a guy likes her. Communication is the key! Get to it!!
when a girl says they aren't ready they aren't ready...no matter what the question is...
second, yes. WE love to hear that guys like us....that is if we like them back...you will only get bad answers back from this last question if they don't like you.
sometimes some girls actually aren't ready for a boyfriend but sometimes they are lying
my boyfriend told me about 2 weeks before he asked me out that he liked me and that gave me time to think about it and figure out how much i actually liked him!
Don't feel dumb, she's probably not lying, maybe she really isn't ready for a boyfriend now. most girls like to hear you say you like them if they like you back. just wait for another girl, one who is right for you. good luck :)
hahahaha dont feel dumb. ummm for me sometimes i say that when i dont like a guy but also sometimes i really dont want a boyfriend and i just want to hangout more.
and i like it when a guy tells me. im not the kind of personwho makes it wierd so for me its better. some girls just make things awkward
Friday, January 8, 2010
I'm a little scared of asking a girl to the prom, i need some advice of what to do?
I'm a senior in high school and she is a freshman what are some good lines to use one her.I'm a little scared of asking a girl to the prom, i need some advice of what to do?
hey whats up I'm Monique and I'm a Junior in high school. if you want to ask a girl out first you have to let her know that you exist.. by speaking to her on a regular bases ask her what she's doing for the weekend or you can just ask her if she is going to the prom with anyone..what I'm trying to say is be yourself in i promise you that she will like that...make it seem like you are interested in her, just go for it...life is too short.I'm a little scared of asking a girl to the prom, i need some advice of what to do?
Just ask her if she's going to the prom....so you can find out if she already has a date....if she doesn't, tell her you would love for her to be your date....don't use ';lines '; on her....just be real.
Hey.
You're pretty cute.
Wanna go to prom?
hey whats up I'm Monique and I'm a Junior in high school. if you want to ask a girl out first you have to let her know that you exist.. by speaking to her on a regular bases ask her what she's doing for the weekend or you can just ask her if she is going to the prom with anyone..what I'm trying to say is be yourself in i promise you that she will like that...make it seem like you are interested in her, just go for it...life is too short.I'm a little scared of asking a girl to the prom, i need some advice of what to do?
Just ask her if she's going to the prom....so you can find out if she already has a date....if she doesn't, tell her you would love for her to be your date....don't use ';lines '; on her....just be real.
Hey.
You're pretty cute.
Wanna go to prom?
Advice on telling a girl you like her. . .?
I seem to have a problem with a certain girl that I have known for a very long time. . We are pretty much best friends. . The thing is that she doesn't know that I really like her. . Every time she needs something I always do it for her. . I buy her things if she wants it. . Even though I probably shouldn't. . .I just like seeing her happy. I don't want to think of the idea that she is using me because she would never do that. . . She has had about 3 BF's. . . But I wish that I could be with her. We are gonna be going to the same college as well which is nice. . I kinda don't want to tell her how I feel because our friendship is so good that I am afraid I am gonna mess it up. . The advice that I am asking is how should I tell her I like her because I really want to let her know that I care for her. . . I don't think she realizes that I will do anything for her. . So can someone give me some advice on what I should tell her? I have never been in a relationship before as well. .Advice on telling a girl you like her. . .?
This is a tough situation.
Maybe you should just talk to her alone. Tell her your feelings, but also say that if she doesn't feel the same way that you want to continue to be her friend. Most girls would listen, and understand your predicament.
If you don't talk to her, you'll just have to keep this secret inside of you until you meet someone else, and I'm sure you don't want to do that.
Or, maybe that's not such a bad idea. Talk to some other girls, so you can be in a good relationship but also keep your best friend.
Hope this helped.Advice on telling a girl you like her. . .?
well, it all depends on whether or not you think she likes you!
You can't be just friends with someone you like anyway, so the friendship thing is already gone. It's not fair to her to keep it from her. Also, if it turns out she is willing to go out with you, you don't want to waste your life waiting around to tell her. Just let her know exactly how you've been feeling **in person**. But don't expect her to reciprocate right away, it could be a total shock and she may need time to figure out how she feels.
Just tell her that you're kind of developing feelings for her and you hope it doesn't kill the friendship. But ask if she feels the same way.
But really, if she felt the same way, you'd probably be able to tell. So maybe just go enjoy your college experience and be content with just being her best friend. At least for now. Who knows what'll happen in the future?
dude, sorry, i dunno what advice to give you, but can i just say i totally relate, its the same for me with a girl iv liked for 2 years, but i dont want to tell her cos it could ruin our friendship. Anyway, hope it helps knowing you arent alone! Best of luck to you!skin creams
This is a tough situation.
Maybe you should just talk to her alone. Tell her your feelings, but also say that if she doesn't feel the same way that you want to continue to be her friend. Most girls would listen, and understand your predicament.
If you don't talk to her, you'll just have to keep this secret inside of you until you meet someone else, and I'm sure you don't want to do that.
Or, maybe that's not such a bad idea. Talk to some other girls, so you can be in a good relationship but also keep your best friend.
Hope this helped.Advice on telling a girl you like her. . .?
well, it all depends on whether or not you think she likes you!
You can't be just friends with someone you like anyway, so the friendship thing is already gone. It's not fair to her to keep it from her. Also, if it turns out she is willing to go out with you, you don't want to waste your life waiting around to tell her. Just let her know exactly how you've been feeling **in person**. But don't expect her to reciprocate right away, it could be a total shock and she may need time to figure out how she feels.
Just tell her that you're kind of developing feelings for her and you hope it doesn't kill the friendship. But ask if she feels the same way.
But really, if she felt the same way, you'd probably be able to tell. So maybe just go enjoy your college experience and be content with just being her best friend. At least for now. Who knows what'll happen in the future?
dude, sorry, i dunno what advice to give you, but can i just say i totally relate, its the same for me with a girl iv liked for 2 years, but i dont want to tell her cos it could ruin our friendship. Anyway, hope it helps knowing you arent alone! Best of luck to you!
Please Please help me I need some advice about this amazing girl!?
I like this girl in my school but im having some trouble approaching her. Every time I come to class she sits at her dask across from me and she looks at me everytime I walk in the class. I really like like but im not sure how should I talk to her. I like her alot, i know her name to but im shy to talk to her. Im dont want to talk about with her. After the bell rings I never have a chance to talk to her because most of the time i leave before her. I really need some suggestion how to talk to her. Im respectfully to all the girls and i act like gentelman in front of girls. In class i always look at her from corner of my eye sometimes I even see her looking at me. Im not sure if thats positive sign or not but i really want to be with. Please give some suggestions on how to talk to her and when will it be a perfect time to go up and talk to her. Please help me. Her is my pic if u want to see what i look like.http://img54.imageshack.us/img54/2790/sn鈥?/a>Please Please help me I need some advice about this amazing girl!?
ok well if you always leave before her then one day stay behind and wait for her and just walk up to her and say hey , i was wondering if you would like to go get something to eat after school sometime and wehn she says yeah, when , you say how about today. thats a good start i am sure you can pick it up from threer.
ok well if you always leave before her then one day stay behind and wait for her and just walk up to her and say hey , i was wondering if you would like to go get something to eat after school sometime and wehn she says yeah, when , you say how about today. thats a good start i am sure you can pick it up from threer.
I need advice, ive been best-friends with some guy 5 yrs and he is going out with some girl, and we took our?
friendship to other level and he says he loves me and calls me 10 tms a day, everything a b/f does , but keeps telling me he cant committ to me right now.but we do sneak around, ive fallen 4 him. i just dont understand it.I need advice, ive been best-friends with some guy 5 yrs and he is going out with some girl, and we took our?
well u get a boyfriend and see how he feels about itI need advice, ive been best-friends with some guy 5 yrs and he is going out with some girl, and we took our?
yeah but if he's fooling around with you, how do you know that he won't cheat on you if you guys are in a relationship? (unless sneaking around doesn't mean anything sexual)
theres nothing you can really do....its his fault for leading you on like this while he's in a relationship...he needs to end it with this girl if he likes you so much.
Don't do anything to ruin the relationship he has with his girl right now...just leave it to him...and unfortunately, you'll have to wait it out...
If a guy says he can't committ to you right now he most likely never will. Plus he's cheating on his girlfriend with you, what makes you think if you ever did get together he wouldn't cheat on you as well. Forget him seriously.
';ive fallen 4 him. i just dont understand it.';
Oh, I do.
This ';best friends'; thing with the opposite sex is an impossibililty.
ALWAYS one or the other wants something more.
He wanted sex from you; you obliged.
He desn't care all that much for you and never did.
What part of used don't you understand?
Ok, so he's your boyfriend yes?
And, he's going out with another girl at the same time yes?
DUMP HIM
Dont become the woman on the side because that is all you will ever be
well u get a boyfriend and see how he feels about itI need advice, ive been best-friends with some guy 5 yrs and he is going out with some girl, and we took our?
yeah but if he's fooling around with you, how do you know that he won't cheat on you if you guys are in a relationship? (unless sneaking around doesn't mean anything sexual)
theres nothing you can really do....its his fault for leading you on like this while he's in a relationship...he needs to end it with this girl if he likes you so much.
Don't do anything to ruin the relationship he has with his girl right now...just leave it to him...and unfortunately, you'll have to wait it out...
If a guy says he can't committ to you right now he most likely never will. Plus he's cheating on his girlfriend with you, what makes you think if you ever did get together he wouldn't cheat on you as well. Forget him seriously.
';ive fallen 4 him. i just dont understand it.';
Oh, I do.
This ';best friends'; thing with the opposite sex is an impossibililty.
ALWAYS one or the other wants something more.
He wanted sex from you; you obliged.
He desn't care all that much for you and never did.
What part of used don't you understand?
Ok, so he's your boyfriend yes?
And, he's going out with another girl at the same time yes?
DUMP HIM
Dont become the woman on the side because that is all you will ever be
Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
Ok, so I've been seeing this girl I met after one of my gigs, i play guitar and sing in band, and shes absolutely wonderful. I've taken her out for sushi, drinks, movies, and I even cooked her dinner last night, an italian dish, etc w/ wine. We have a great time together, i think shes absolutely beautiful, and I can see myself falling in love with her. What I need help with is, not one of us has said anything about liking each other, except the first night i stayed with her, she said ';were not gonna have sex'; and i said, ';well, i dont have sex with girls I actually like the 1st nite we hook up';, and she said me too, but im trying to figure out when to say it, and im thinking a week from now or this weekend, saying something like '; i really like you, I think about you a lot, and I enjoy your company, and I really dont tell a lot of people that';, something like that. Any advice on what to say or when to say it? I really haven't felt like this in a long time, by the way shes 21 and im 25.Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
I think that sounds good...speak from your heart. If she likes you, anything you say (whether it comes out awkward or not) she will feel flattered. Try not to be so serious...just let her know that you are really enjoying her company and would like to continue seeing her.
Best of luck to you.Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
jsut take it sloly and enjoy the time wiht her now. be honest when you say things to her and that should do, if she chooses to say the same then that is great, but is she doesn't say the same thing that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it means that she want to take it very slolyyy... good luck
just tell her that you like her and that you want to know how she feels about you guys..that you want to know before putting your heart into the relationship and see what she says
Well if you guys have been out for a while, (like a few weeks), and that is how you feel then go ahead and tell her. It's not like you are saying that you love her. You have simple feelings for her....just tell her you would like to get to know her better..she has sparked your interest. Good Luck!
Yeah, be honest with her! Ask her to date you, and be exclusive and then from there, just take things slowly!
I think that sounds good...speak from your heart. If she likes you, anything you say (whether it comes out awkward or not) she will feel flattered. Try not to be so serious...just let her know that you are really enjoying her company and would like to continue seeing her.
Best of luck to you.Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
jsut take it sloly and enjoy the time wiht her now. be honest when you say things to her and that should do, if she chooses to say the same then that is great, but is she doesn't say the same thing that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it means that she want to take it very slolyyy... good luck
just tell her that you like her and that you want to know how she feels about you guys..that you want to know before putting your heart into the relationship and see what she says
Well if you guys have been out for a while, (like a few weeks), and that is how you feel then go ahead and tell her. It's not like you are saying that you love her. You have simple feelings for her....just tell her you would like to get to know her better..she has sparked your interest. Good Luck!
Yeah, be honest with her! Ask her to date you, and be exclusive and then from there, just take things slowly!
ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
I met this girl on the internet during school vacations and we chat for hours and it turns out that I have her this girl for a class, then I thought, now I can talk to her, and ask her out but the problem is that once we are in class she's always with her friends, and I'm a shy guy so I feel weird talking to her when her friends are always by her side I still chat with her on the internet but once we're in class it's a different story she ignores me, she just says ';hi'; and that's about it, sometimes I've tried talking to her but everytime I get near she walks faster on purpose, sometimes I look at her and she smiles with me and I smile back, but i'm confused does she like me or is she shy like I am or is she just playing with me?, i like this girl but how can i know what she really wants with me? should I just move on or try to approach her Advice please Thanks for your help!ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
i have allmost the same prob and i think maybe she likes you but dosent want her freinds to know ask her to a school dance if she is hot and you want herADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
aw that is so cute
i think she's shy too and she wants you to make the first move! so go on! good luck xxx
call her on the phone.
or just pull her aside one day!
i have allmost the same prob and i think maybe she likes you but dosent want her freinds to know ask her to a school dance if she is hot and you want herADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
aw that is so cute
i think she's shy too and she wants you to make the first move! so go on! good luck xxx
call her on the phone.
or just pull her aside one day!
How can I meet girls? Any advice?
I've been single for about a year now and lately I've kinda wanted a girlfriend. I'm not the most social person. Do you guys have any advice how to meet girls? Any sites where teens can meet?(I'm not a petafile!) Please no adult friend finder or any of that ****, I'm only 15.How can I meet girls? Any advice?
stalkers-are-us.comHow can I meet girls? Any advice?
Get social, interact with more people and bluff! Say things about yourself that are good! So when girls over-hear they take that thought into consideration! Don't get conceded and act like you want a girlfriend because if you don't act like it the girls will think you really don't want one! Then be funny most girls love funny guys! You also have to be flirtatious and smile oftten! So I really suggest being more outgoing! No guy can really answer this question because most guys who get girls are perverted! A girl can tell you what she wants, therefore showing you what girls in particular wants!
omg
your 15
dont internet date its really lame even
if you are meeting them too meet in person it
probably will be more weird trying too date somone you
never knew befour you know
any way just flirt with girls at school
I mean for real most girls will just wait for
the guy too talk too them and them not
doing anything you know just like talk too a girl you think is
really pretty and ask for her number like for reall all you have too
do is be confident =] Hoped I Helped =D by the way I'm 15 too
Sigh, whatever happenned to going up to a girl you like and asking them to hang out some time?
Build the courage to do it, or else you;'re gonna miss out on the experience :/
okay first be
nice{or fake being nice }
kind
giveful
ect.
Your only 15, so your ability to seek out a girlfriend is quite hard. Since your choices are limited. However I suggest, friends and extended friends. Sites such as facebook etc etc, or even school.
Try putting a potato in your speedos, preferably in the front, I have fell for this ploy many times.
well you could try your school. lol
i really dont know. but yeah:)
it would be so nice if you answered mine?
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
skate parks! shopping malls! parties! hang out with friend's friends! music gigs %26amp; concerts! parks! tbh, you need to get more confidence %26amp; just try to make conversation! good luck! :) x
talk to girls at school
what alex said
if your fifteen thats just desparate to go on sites online even ugly guys can get girls in real life. try that
don't look online for a girlfriend. i think your best beat is to become social and find a girl at your schoo.
stalkers-are-us.comHow can I meet girls? Any advice?
Get social, interact with more people and bluff! Say things about yourself that are good! So when girls over-hear they take that thought into consideration! Don't get conceded and act like you want a girlfriend because if you don't act like it the girls will think you really don't want one! Then be funny most girls love funny guys! You also have to be flirtatious and smile oftten! So I really suggest being more outgoing! No guy can really answer this question because most guys who get girls are perverted! A girl can tell you what she wants, therefore showing you what girls in particular wants!
omg
your 15
dont internet date its really lame even
if you are meeting them too meet in person it
probably will be more weird trying too date somone you
never knew befour you know
any way just flirt with girls at school
I mean for real most girls will just wait for
the guy too talk too them and them not
doing anything you know just like talk too a girl you think is
really pretty and ask for her number like for reall all you have too
do is be confident =] Hoped I Helped =D by the way I'm 15 too
Sigh, whatever happenned to going up to a girl you like and asking them to hang out some time?
Build the courage to do it, or else you;'re gonna miss out on the experience :/
okay first be
nice{or fake being nice }
kind
giveful
ect.
Your only 15, so your ability to seek out a girlfriend is quite hard. Since your choices are limited. However I suggest, friends and extended friends. Sites such as facebook etc etc, or even school.
Try putting a potato in your speedos, preferably in the front, I have fell for this ploy many times.
well you could try your school. lol
i really dont know. but yeah:)
it would be so nice if you answered mine?
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
skate parks! shopping malls! parties! hang out with friend's friends! music gigs %26amp; concerts! parks! tbh, you need to get more confidence %26amp; just try to make conversation! good luck! :) x
talk to girls at school
what alex said
if your fifteen thats just desparate to go on sites online even ugly guys can get girls in real life. try that
don't look online for a girlfriend. i think your best beat is to become social and find a girl at your schoo.
Advice for an ugly girl?
hi everyone! i'm 25, single, and i never had a boyfriend before, ever! I am not good looking, i will say slightly below average, i'm slightly overweight, say about 110%.. just a little more then average. =)
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Maybe the problem is that you're not good at listening to what others are telling you. Sometimes people are so self-absorbed that they consciously or unconsciously reject the help that others are trying to give them.
I see that you've posted this question several times before. You've received a lot of helpful information already -- stop asking the question, and get busy improving yourself!Advice for an ugly girl?
be more confident....build self-esteem. thinking like that is your problem. i know it must be difficult for u, and im not trying to be mean, but u have to change the way u think!! guys like a woman who is confident, strong, unneedy,etc.... DONT THINK U R UGLY. there are a lot of things u can do to 'tweak' your appearance a little to spark attraction. but it is mainly your mentality. once u have better self-esteem go and socialize more...there is someone out there for everyone, but first you have to be able to love yourself.
Well sweetie, I'll give you this, you at least have the courage to face the fact that you are not as genetically gifted as some. Here is the honest hardcore truth. People are shallow and looks matter. Start saving some money. Get together about 500 dollars. Go to your local upscale department store and get a makeover. Have the counter girls give you a make up makeover. to help you make the most of what you have. Get a good hair cut that flatters you. And find someone to help you buy clothes that make you look your best. Watch that show on TLC where the guy and the girl make over people. It will give you ideas. Don't rule out plastic surgery. It is amazing what a good nose job, or chin lift can do for your face. I congratulate you on approaching this subject honestly.
there is nothin with you mayb u are looking for love in all the wrong places... now if your over weight thats fine...but you have to take careof yourself put yourself together nicely, go out have a go0d time overwieght girls are the thing now.... so honey email me im overweight but i have a boyfriend who loves me to death walk away with self confidence if a guy sees he tends to read how u feelabout yourself... well this is my email babynena53@yahoo.com please email me so we can talk
It sounds like you're the one who is ruling yourself out as a potential catch. Think highly of yourself and others will too.
Your first problem is referring to yourself as ugly. I don't care if you look like 300 miles of bad road. You should always think of yourself as a good looking young lady.
Start at looking at yourself. How do you dress? Like a frump, dirty? Guys look at that I don't care what they may say. They do even the fat slobs.
Being overweight is no excuse either. Plenty of fat women not only have men they have a ton of kids. And don't fall for someone who is going to put you down because of your weight. If your weight is a problem start eating healthy and exercise. Go to the gym. plenty of guys there. Go to a large church and join their singles group.
The first thing you need to do is to start to feel better about who you are. You maybe are sending signals of low self esteem, that's not very attractive. If you think these things about yourself people pick up on that even if outwardly you seem happy. If you think you are a little over weight try losing a few pounds. A very effective way to lose weight is to not eat anything 6-8 hour before bed. When you sleep you body puts food into storage (fat) and the average time it takes for your body to digest food and send nutrients into your system is 6-8 hours. Anything you eat late at night goes straight to storage because your body is in stand by mode when you are sleeping and uses very little energy. Try going out and meeting new people at the mall or in a nice dog park something other than a bar (bars are meat markets) Most of all think positive and keep a good attitude, you'll be ok.
i'm a 24 year old guy who never had a girl. but the truth is we have to deal with self esteem issues. you just put yourself down. you said you are overweight and not really good loooking. try saying positive stuff about you. i tell i started to like agirl about your age who was exactly like you. but she lives in philly and i live in new york city. so it could not work. you are beautiful cuz you are God's creation. He did not intend for you to feel like crap. Find your inner sexiness which is love for yourself despite flaws and imperfections. try dating sites such as datefree.com or metrodate.com
maybe have a makeover go out and buy some new clothes get your hair done and try not be so distant
e-mail me
If you are really that ugly and overweight, at least lose the weight so you only have one thing working against you. That is a start for sure.
There's nothing wrong with you, and although you have heard this hundreds of times before, I will say it again - you just haven't met the right guy yet. Oh, I will bet you've met plenty of guys, just not the ones meeting your standards. Don't settle just to have a man in your life, because your life after that will be one huge compromise. Try joining some groups that you are interested in, like the Sahara Club or some church-sponsored events for singles, or join a gym or YMCA. Enjoy your own company first, and others will follow.
look first off dont put your self down. have some self confidence, and it will get you much farther.
You need to build up your self esteem.
First you need to feel better about yourself. Confidence is very attractive. Would it help if you lost weight? Try walking and go on a diet. If there's not a medical reason it should come of easy at your age. You're young so you can change most anything about your looks but you really need to focus on what's inside. If changing some things about your appearance will help, go for it.
The first thing to do is convince yourself that you're beautiful.
Once you know that, you project it subconsciously and that attracts others.
I know it sounds kooky and if you don't really think you're pretty it's hard to do, but it's true.
I don't believe in ';extreme makeovers'; but some advice:
Start exercising more often - even if just once a week - it won't help immediately but you'll start seeing results after awhile. You can also try to opt for walking instead of driving/stairs instead of an elevator/changing the TV without the remote/etc. to help you get started.
Experiment with clothes - Lane Bryant's stuff is awesome - it's all about making it flattering and the sales people there definately know how to at least make you feel good about what you're wearing - even if you have no money its worthwhile to take a look around and try some stuff on, and then attempt to see what you can find at thrift stores, etc.
Find ways to meet people: Start a new hobby, don't be afraid to go places alone, see about arranging a party/evening out where everyone has to bring ';new friends'; along, pick up a part-time job, ask your family, etc.
Make yourself feel good: read books, write it out, take a bubble bath, take a vacation, paint, draw, sing - whatever you like to do, and if you can't think of anything start making a list!!
Most importantly to remember while you do this though: BE YOURSELF.
There's nothing wrong with you - you just need to take some time and see what you don't like about yourself and try and change it in a positive way so you do like it - don't do it for anyone else or to meet a guy - you have to do it for yourself first!
First I have to say is noone shouldn't not want to date you because your over weight. Second if you have a good self-esteem people will or most will over look the fact you are overweight and see you for you, third of all if you lose some weight not only should you have more self-esteem but you will be and stay healthy and not that this is right but then people will become more interested because they see you are trying to take care of your self. Here is something that happened to me. When I was in 6th or 7th grade I weighed 137, I was a bit pudgy, I had low low self esteem not only because my weight but because I was depressed from being in foster care and I had no friends I would always eat and walk alone and keep to myself, I did something terrible and I do NOT suggest or even want u to do what I did which was to become anerexic/belimic and I ran pe hard and I lost all that weight and people started noticing me it seemed. I started having friends then and my self esteem went way up once I got my disorder under control and then I started having dates and now I feel like a new person, hehe a good site or two to try is eharmony.com and militarysinglesconnection.com one other thing I would like to mention is that just because you may be overweight doesn't mean all hope is lost, when I was in school for medical assisting there was a girl my friend and she was way overweight but she had a personality that could blow anyone away and for the longest time she had more dates than me and the guys didn't think twice of her weight because her personality shined bright. I hope this helps some.
Well whats wrong with you is that you don't believe that you are beautiful. Maybe you should get yourself into a gym with the intention of feeling better and then you will become happier when you begin to look better. Then get your hair done, get a new outfit and hit the town feeling amazing. People will notice and you will attract someone with your inner and outer beauty.
Honey ur Mr.right is out their ,just give it time when u least expect it he will show up.and i don't think their is anything wrong with u..everyone goes threw this sometime or another.
It'll happen,theres more to life than men!
change your attitude, have a more positive attitude and you become more attractive to others
where do you go to meet guys
can you make a small change to improve your self image
First of all being single at 25 is not a bad thing! Have you ever heard of the saying the grass is always greener on the other side? This means at times it seems that what we don't have is what would make us happy. Just because you feel ugly does not mean you are ugly. You've acknowledged you are overweight so the next step to take is to find a club to start working out and get yourself into what ever shape will make you feel better about your looks. There are fitness clubs that are for women only see if there is a Butterfly life in your area. This fitness center is for women only and you'll get alot of support from their staff and the other members. If you say you can't afford it think about this...take what ever money you would have spent on junk food and fork it over to your get fit bank account! What seems to be a common theme in your question is you have low self esteem well there is no magic wand or pill that will give it to you. It comes from hard work.And I know you can do it! Every aspect of your looks can be enhanced from your hair to the style of your clothes you just need to hook up with the right people to help you. Whether it's a clerk who works in a store or a hair stylist who makes others look their best. It would be a good start to go to a local bookstore and browse through the self help section...their are tons of books on how to build a positive self esteem...and many people who seem to have it all together have read some of these publications.You have to believe in yourself and put the time and effort into being the best you you can possibly be. I heard a saying once and I think it rings true...you are God's gift to the world what you become, what you do with your life is your gift too God....Remember, you are not ugly you may just be a late bloomer!
I can tell from the title and the content of the question that you don't have a lot of self esteem, and that's a shame that you feel that way because you say you have friends. Having friends is not a small thing! Don't treat it that way!
As far as lonliness goes, my heart goes out to you -- feeling lonely is not a fun thing, but please believe me you are not alone out there.
I have an idea for you: instead of looking at the supposed faults you say you have, look and dwell on the positives instead -- trust me, everyone has them (if you did not have any positives, then you probably would not have the friends you say you have). Also, please do not make the assumption that because no guys have asked you out already that they do not like you. One cannot know what anyone else is thinking -- try not to fill in the blanks.
One last thing: you are not abnormal for being single at your age (or any age, for that matter). I used to be married to an abusive spouse for 6 years -- believe me, there are worse things in the world than being single. Also, if the lonliness persists, do seek someone you can talk to -- it is not abnormal or shameful to do so, it just means that you admit to being human and it is actually brave to do so.
Go get your hair done and your eyebrows done. Any thing like that will make you feel better. Go to curves or just exercise,someone will notice this good change. Change your make up get some new clothes. It will be OKskin creams
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Maybe the problem is that you're not good at listening to what others are telling you. Sometimes people are so self-absorbed that they consciously or unconsciously reject the help that others are trying to give them.
I see that you've posted this question several times before. You've received a lot of helpful information already -- stop asking the question, and get busy improving yourself!Advice for an ugly girl?
be more confident....build self-esteem. thinking like that is your problem. i know it must be difficult for u, and im not trying to be mean, but u have to change the way u think!! guys like a woman who is confident, strong, unneedy,etc.... DONT THINK U R UGLY. there are a lot of things u can do to 'tweak' your appearance a little to spark attraction. but it is mainly your mentality. once u have better self-esteem go and socialize more...there is someone out there for everyone, but first you have to be able to love yourself.
Well sweetie, I'll give you this, you at least have the courage to face the fact that you are not as genetically gifted as some. Here is the honest hardcore truth. People are shallow and looks matter. Start saving some money. Get together about 500 dollars. Go to your local upscale department store and get a makeover. Have the counter girls give you a make up makeover. to help you make the most of what you have. Get a good hair cut that flatters you. And find someone to help you buy clothes that make you look your best. Watch that show on TLC where the guy and the girl make over people. It will give you ideas. Don't rule out plastic surgery. It is amazing what a good nose job, or chin lift can do for your face. I congratulate you on approaching this subject honestly.
there is nothin with you mayb u are looking for love in all the wrong places... now if your over weight thats fine...but you have to take careof yourself put yourself together nicely, go out have a go0d time overwieght girls are the thing now.... so honey email me im overweight but i have a boyfriend who loves me to death walk away with self confidence if a guy sees he tends to read how u feelabout yourself... well this is my email babynena53@yahoo.com please email me so we can talk
It sounds like you're the one who is ruling yourself out as a potential catch. Think highly of yourself and others will too.
Your first problem is referring to yourself as ugly. I don't care if you look like 300 miles of bad road. You should always think of yourself as a good looking young lady.
Start at looking at yourself. How do you dress? Like a frump, dirty? Guys look at that I don't care what they may say. They do even the fat slobs.
Being overweight is no excuse either. Plenty of fat women not only have men they have a ton of kids. And don't fall for someone who is going to put you down because of your weight. If your weight is a problem start eating healthy and exercise. Go to the gym. plenty of guys there. Go to a large church and join their singles group.
The first thing you need to do is to start to feel better about who you are. You maybe are sending signals of low self esteem, that's not very attractive. If you think these things about yourself people pick up on that even if outwardly you seem happy. If you think you are a little over weight try losing a few pounds. A very effective way to lose weight is to not eat anything 6-8 hour before bed. When you sleep you body puts food into storage (fat) and the average time it takes for your body to digest food and send nutrients into your system is 6-8 hours. Anything you eat late at night goes straight to storage because your body is in stand by mode when you are sleeping and uses very little energy. Try going out and meeting new people at the mall or in a nice dog park something other than a bar (bars are meat markets) Most of all think positive and keep a good attitude, you'll be ok.
i'm a 24 year old guy who never had a girl. but the truth is we have to deal with self esteem issues. you just put yourself down. you said you are overweight and not really good loooking. try saying positive stuff about you. i tell i started to like agirl about your age who was exactly like you. but she lives in philly and i live in new york city. so it could not work. you are beautiful cuz you are God's creation. He did not intend for you to feel like crap. Find your inner sexiness which is love for yourself despite flaws and imperfections. try dating sites such as datefree.com or metrodate.com
maybe have a makeover go out and buy some new clothes get your hair done and try not be so distant
e-mail me
If you are really that ugly and overweight, at least lose the weight so you only have one thing working against you. That is a start for sure.
There's nothing wrong with you, and although you have heard this hundreds of times before, I will say it again - you just haven't met the right guy yet. Oh, I will bet you've met plenty of guys, just not the ones meeting your standards. Don't settle just to have a man in your life, because your life after that will be one huge compromise. Try joining some groups that you are interested in, like the Sahara Club or some church-sponsored events for singles, or join a gym or YMCA. Enjoy your own company first, and others will follow.
look first off dont put your self down. have some self confidence, and it will get you much farther.
You need to build up your self esteem.
First you need to feel better about yourself. Confidence is very attractive. Would it help if you lost weight? Try walking and go on a diet. If there's not a medical reason it should come of easy at your age. You're young so you can change most anything about your looks but you really need to focus on what's inside. If changing some things about your appearance will help, go for it.
The first thing to do is convince yourself that you're beautiful.
Once you know that, you project it subconsciously and that attracts others.
I know it sounds kooky and if you don't really think you're pretty it's hard to do, but it's true.
I don't believe in ';extreme makeovers'; but some advice:
Start exercising more often - even if just once a week - it won't help immediately but you'll start seeing results after awhile. You can also try to opt for walking instead of driving/stairs instead of an elevator/changing the TV without the remote/etc. to help you get started.
Experiment with clothes - Lane Bryant's stuff is awesome - it's all about making it flattering and the sales people there definately know how to at least make you feel good about what you're wearing - even if you have no money its worthwhile to take a look around and try some stuff on, and then attempt to see what you can find at thrift stores, etc.
Find ways to meet people: Start a new hobby, don't be afraid to go places alone, see about arranging a party/evening out where everyone has to bring ';new friends'; along, pick up a part-time job, ask your family, etc.
Make yourself feel good: read books, write it out, take a bubble bath, take a vacation, paint, draw, sing - whatever you like to do, and if you can't think of anything start making a list!!
Most importantly to remember while you do this though: BE YOURSELF.
There's nothing wrong with you - you just need to take some time and see what you don't like about yourself and try and change it in a positive way so you do like it - don't do it for anyone else or to meet a guy - you have to do it for yourself first!
First I have to say is noone shouldn't not want to date you because your over weight. Second if you have a good self-esteem people will or most will over look the fact you are overweight and see you for you, third of all if you lose some weight not only should you have more self-esteem but you will be and stay healthy and not that this is right but then people will become more interested because they see you are trying to take care of your self. Here is something that happened to me. When I was in 6th or 7th grade I weighed 137, I was a bit pudgy, I had low low self esteem not only because my weight but because I was depressed from being in foster care and I had no friends I would always eat and walk alone and keep to myself, I did something terrible and I do NOT suggest or even want u to do what I did which was to become anerexic/belimic and I ran pe hard and I lost all that weight and people started noticing me it seemed. I started having friends then and my self esteem went way up once I got my disorder under control and then I started having dates and now I feel like a new person, hehe a good site or two to try is eharmony.com and militarysinglesconnection.com one other thing I would like to mention is that just because you may be overweight doesn't mean all hope is lost, when I was in school for medical assisting there was a girl my friend and she was way overweight but she had a personality that could blow anyone away and for the longest time she had more dates than me and the guys didn't think twice of her weight because her personality shined bright. I hope this helps some.
Well whats wrong with you is that you don't believe that you are beautiful. Maybe you should get yourself into a gym with the intention of feeling better and then you will become happier when you begin to look better. Then get your hair done, get a new outfit and hit the town feeling amazing. People will notice and you will attract someone with your inner and outer beauty.
Honey ur Mr.right is out their ,just give it time when u least expect it he will show up.and i don't think their is anything wrong with u..everyone goes threw this sometime or another.
It'll happen,theres more to life than men!
change your attitude, have a more positive attitude and you become more attractive to others
where do you go to meet guys
can you make a small change to improve your self image
First of all being single at 25 is not a bad thing! Have you ever heard of the saying the grass is always greener on the other side? This means at times it seems that what we don't have is what would make us happy. Just because you feel ugly does not mean you are ugly. You've acknowledged you are overweight so the next step to take is to find a club to start working out and get yourself into what ever shape will make you feel better about your looks. There are fitness clubs that are for women only see if there is a Butterfly life in your area. This fitness center is for women only and you'll get alot of support from their staff and the other members. If you say you can't afford it think about this...take what ever money you would have spent on junk food and fork it over to your get fit bank account! What seems to be a common theme in your question is you have low self esteem well there is no magic wand or pill that will give it to you. It comes from hard work.And I know you can do it! Every aspect of your looks can be enhanced from your hair to the style of your clothes you just need to hook up with the right people to help you. Whether it's a clerk who works in a store or a hair stylist who makes others look their best. It would be a good start to go to a local bookstore and browse through the self help section...their are tons of books on how to build a positive self esteem...and many people who seem to have it all together have read some of these publications.You have to believe in yourself and put the time and effort into being the best you you can possibly be. I heard a saying once and I think it rings true...you are God's gift to the world what you become, what you do with your life is your gift too God....Remember, you are not ugly you may just be a late bloomer!
I can tell from the title and the content of the question that you don't have a lot of self esteem, and that's a shame that you feel that way because you say you have friends. Having friends is not a small thing! Don't treat it that way!
As far as lonliness goes, my heart goes out to you -- feeling lonely is not a fun thing, but please believe me you are not alone out there.
I have an idea for you: instead of looking at the supposed faults you say you have, look and dwell on the positives instead -- trust me, everyone has them (if you did not have any positives, then you probably would not have the friends you say you have). Also, please do not make the assumption that because no guys have asked you out already that they do not like you. One cannot know what anyone else is thinking -- try not to fill in the blanks.
One last thing: you are not abnormal for being single at your age (or any age, for that matter). I used to be married to an abusive spouse for 6 years -- believe me, there are worse things in the world than being single. Also, if the lonliness persists, do seek someone you can talk to -- it is not abnormal or shameful to do so, it just means that you admit to being human and it is actually brave to do so.
Go get your hair done and your eyebrows done. Any thing like that will make you feel better. Go to curves or just exercise,someone will notice this good change. Change your make up get some new clothes. It will be OK
Need advice i want to ask out this girl?
im in high school im a drummer,varsity tennis player,... and she a color guard. we have some things in common im a little worried that she might shot me down but i mostly want to know how 2 ask her outNeed advice i want to ask out this girl?
make a snog abuot her and say in it ';oh oh oh oh oh i love u an di want to fold you'; when she sais ';who is for?';
u say ';you before i do this'; and thrstu your hipz
thets hao i git may girl friendNeed advice i want to ask out this girl?
Hi Dear!!
One of the most common questions among the guys. How to ask her out.
Its so simple. Ask.
See. Girls' mentality is not like us. We can fall in love without knowing about the person. But in this matter girls are slightly conservative. The first try to know about the guy. So there will always be a first stem of friendship.
Next trouble. No matter how versatile and attractive a guy's personaluty is, he will find some problem in talking with the girl coz they think she might fire at him. insult him etc. Dude, she is not a monster she is also a human. Why will she insult you evenif you are genuine??
Go to her and say hi start some common interest topic. She will get to know you and so you wil. Remember fear will sopil everything.
Best of luck.
Bless You
umm easy... just come up and ask her out.. ex.. you can be formal like ';Would you like to go out someday, for dinner or to see a movie'; or more friend like ';hey.. do you want to hang out some day? get to know each other a little better'; then if she's hesitating, or seems uncomfortable with what you asked her, just add ';I could always use another friend';.. So maybe it wont be a ';date'; but you'll get to out with her, start with friends and who knows where it will go from there.. Don't wuss out tho, you dont want to spend the rest of your high school years wondering what might have been...
Ask her if she'd let you buy her an ice cream after school somewhere
near by and if she shoots you down you haven't made a fool out of yourself for trying and if she goes. flatter her by talking about her nice attributes (god, I really love your eyes, ((pause) breath a sigh) they seem to look right through me) etc etc.
i think u should do this:
go up to her and take her for a walk so that her friends wont make u feel embaressed and tell her all the things u like about her and how much u enjoy being with her and if she says that she likes being with you the be like ';so do u want to go out with me??'; and hopefully she says yes.. good luck=)
Find some more interests you both have in common spend more time with/around her for the next few days....than later on(but not too late) casually ask her out. maybe even jokingly and say you were only joking, but this is a way to find out if she wants to.
Just say ';Hey,..im bored tonight wanna go out?';. Seriously, flirting while asking her out is so akward...it's like
*poke* haiii..wanna go out?? hehehe *poke*..WTF??
Just ask her. Man up !
just ask her out be straight forward gril like that they hate to wait wouldn't u be impatient too? so just ask her and her might be a chance she'll say yes its a 50/50%
Just be really sweet and flirty. Girls love when guys do that. Just be confident and she'll be yours. :)
Ease it in... Ask her to hang out first.. then ask her out.. let her know that you like her.. and what you think about her..
make a snog abuot her and say in it ';oh oh oh oh oh i love u an di want to fold you'; when she sais ';who is for?';
u say ';you before i do this'; and thrstu your hipz
thets hao i git may girl friendNeed advice i want to ask out this girl?
Hi Dear!!
One of the most common questions among the guys. How to ask her out.
Its so simple. Ask.
See. Girls' mentality is not like us. We can fall in love without knowing about the person. But in this matter girls are slightly conservative. The first try to know about the guy. So there will always be a first stem of friendship.
Next trouble. No matter how versatile and attractive a guy's personaluty is, he will find some problem in talking with the girl coz they think she might fire at him. insult him etc. Dude, she is not a monster she is also a human. Why will she insult you evenif you are genuine??
Go to her and say hi start some common interest topic. She will get to know you and so you wil. Remember fear will sopil everything.
Best of luck.
Bless You
umm easy... just come up and ask her out.. ex.. you can be formal like ';Would you like to go out someday, for dinner or to see a movie'; or more friend like ';hey.. do you want to hang out some day? get to know each other a little better'; then if she's hesitating, or seems uncomfortable with what you asked her, just add ';I could always use another friend';.. So maybe it wont be a ';date'; but you'll get to out with her, start with friends and who knows where it will go from there.. Don't wuss out tho, you dont want to spend the rest of your high school years wondering what might have been...
Ask her if she'd let you buy her an ice cream after school somewhere
near by and if she shoots you down you haven't made a fool out of yourself for trying and if she goes. flatter her by talking about her nice attributes (god, I really love your eyes, ((pause) breath a sigh) they seem to look right through me) etc etc.
i think u should do this:
go up to her and take her for a walk so that her friends wont make u feel embaressed and tell her all the things u like about her and how much u enjoy being with her and if she says that she likes being with you the be like ';so do u want to go out with me??'; and hopefully she says yes.. good luck=)
Find some more interests you both have in common spend more time with/around her for the next few days....than later on(but not too late) casually ask her out. maybe even jokingly and say you were only joking, but this is a way to find out if she wants to.
Just say ';Hey,..im bored tonight wanna go out?';. Seriously, flirting while asking her out is so akward...it's like
*poke* haiii..wanna go out?? hehehe *poke*..WTF??
Just ask her. Man up !
just ask her out be straight forward gril like that they hate to wait wouldn't u be impatient too? so just ask her and her might be a chance she'll say yes its a 50/50%
Just be really sweet and flirty. Girls love when guys do that. Just be confident and she'll be yours. :)
Ease it in... Ask her to hang out first.. then ask her out.. let her know that you like her.. and what you think about her..
Advice for an ugly girl?
hi everyone! i'm 25, single, and i never had a boyfriend before, ever! I am not good looking, i will say slightly below average, i'm slightly overweight, say about 110%.. just a little more then average. =)
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Maybe the problem is that you're not good at listening to what others are telling you. Sometimes people are so self-absorbed that they consciously or unconsciously reject the help that others are trying to give them.
I see that you've posted this question several times before. You've received a lot of helpful information already -- stop asking the question, and get busy improving yourself!Advice for an ugly girl?
be more confident....build self-esteem. thinking like that is your problem. i know it must be difficult for u, and im not trying to be mean, but u have to change the way u think!! guys like a woman who is confident, strong, unneedy,etc.... DONT THINK U R UGLY. there are a lot of things u can do to 'tweak' your appearance a little to spark attraction. but it is mainly your mentality. once u have better self-esteem go and socialize more...there is someone out there for everyone, but first you have to be able to love yourself.
Well sweetie, I'll give you this, you at least have the courage to face the fact that you are not as genetically gifted as some. Here is the honest hardcore truth. People are shallow and looks matter. Start saving some money. Get together about 500 dollars. Go to your local upscale department store and get a makeover. Have the counter girls give you a make up makeover. to help you make the most of what you have. Get a good hair cut that flatters you. And find someone to help you buy clothes that make you look your best. Watch that show on TLC where the guy and the girl make over people. It will give you ideas. Don't rule out plastic surgery. It is amazing what a good nose job, or chin lift can do for your face. I congratulate you on approaching this subject honestly.
there is nothin with you mayb u are looking for love in all the wrong places... now if your over weight thats fine...but you have to take careof yourself put yourself together nicely, go out have a go0d time overwieght girls are the thing now.... so honey email me im overweight but i have a boyfriend who loves me to death walk away with self confidence if a guy sees he tends to read how u feelabout yourself... well this is my email babynena53@yahoo.com please email me so we can talk
It sounds like you're the one who is ruling yourself out as a potential catch. Think highly of yourself and others will too.
Your first problem is referring to yourself as ugly. I don't care if you look like 300 miles of bad road. You should always think of yourself as a good looking young lady.
Start at looking at yourself. How do you dress? Like a frump, dirty? Guys look at that I don't care what they may say. They do even the fat slobs.
Being overweight is no excuse either. Plenty of fat women not only have men they have a ton of kids. And don't fall for someone who is going to put you down because of your weight. If your weight is a problem start eating healthy and exercise. Go to the gym. plenty of guys there. Go to a large church and join their singles group.
The first thing you need to do is to start to feel better about who you are. You maybe are sending signals of low self esteem, that's not very attractive. If you think these things about yourself people pick up on that even if outwardly you seem happy. If you think you are a little over weight try losing a few pounds. A very effective way to lose weight is to not eat anything 6-8 hour before bed. When you sleep you body puts food into storage (fat) and the average time it takes for your body to digest food and send nutrients into your system is 6-8 hours. Anything you eat late at night goes straight to storage because your body is in stand by mode when you are sleeping and uses very little energy. Try going out and meeting new people at the mall or in a nice dog park something other than a bar (bars are meat markets) Most of all think positive and keep a good attitude, you'll be ok.
i'm a 24 year old guy who never had a girl. but the truth is we have to deal with self esteem issues. you just put yourself down. you said you are overweight and not really good loooking. try saying positive stuff about you. i tell i started to like agirl about your age who was exactly like you. but she lives in philly and i live in new york city. so it could not work. you are beautiful cuz you are God's creation. He did not intend for you to feel like crap. Find your inner sexiness which is love for yourself despite flaws and imperfections. try dating sites such as datefree.com or metrodate.com
maybe have a makeover go out and buy some new clothes get your hair done and try not be so distant
e-mail me
If you are really that ugly and overweight, at least lose the weight so you only have one thing working against you. That is a start for sure.
There's nothing wrong with you, and although you have heard this hundreds of times before, I will say it again - you just haven't met the right guy yet. Oh, I will bet you've met plenty of guys, just not the ones meeting your standards. Don't settle just to have a man in your life, because your life after that will be one huge compromise. Try joining some groups that you are interested in, like the Sahara Club or some church-sponsored events for singles, or join a gym or YMCA. Enjoy your own company first, and others will follow.
look first off dont put your self down. have some self confidence, and it will get you much farther.
You need to build up your self esteem.
First you need to feel better about yourself. Confidence is very attractive. Would it help if you lost weight? Try walking and go on a diet. If there's not a medical reason it should come of easy at your age. You're young so you can change most anything about your looks but you really need to focus on what's inside. If changing some things about your appearance will help, go for it.
The first thing to do is convince yourself that you're beautiful.
Once you know that, you project it subconsciously and that attracts others.
I know it sounds kooky and if you don't really think you're pretty it's hard to do, but it's true.
I don't believe in ';extreme makeovers'; but some advice:
Start exercising more often - even if just once a week - it won't help immediately but you'll start seeing results after awhile. You can also try to opt for walking instead of driving/stairs instead of an elevator/changing the TV without the remote/etc. to help you get started.
Experiment with clothes - Lane Bryant's stuff is awesome - it's all about making it flattering and the sales people there definately know how to at least make you feel good about what you're wearing - even if you have no money its worthwhile to take a look around and try some stuff on, and then attempt to see what you can find at thrift stores, etc.
Find ways to meet people: Start a new hobby, don't be afraid to go places alone, see about arranging a party/evening out where everyone has to bring ';new friends'; along, pick up a part-time job, ask your family, etc.
Make yourself feel good: read books, write it out, take a bubble bath, take a vacation, paint, draw, sing - whatever you like to do, and if you can't think of anything start making a list!!
Most importantly to remember while you do this though: BE YOURSELF.
There's nothing wrong with you - you just need to take some time and see what you don't like about yourself and try and change it in a positive way so you do like it - don't do it for anyone else or to meet a guy - you have to do it for yourself first!
First I have to say is noone shouldn't not want to date you because your over weight. Second if you have a good self-esteem people will or most will over look the fact you are overweight and see you for you, third of all if you lose some weight not only should you have more self-esteem but you will be and stay healthy and not that this is right but then people will become more interested because they see you are trying to take care of your self. Here is something that happened to me. When I was in 6th or 7th grade I weighed 137, I was a bit pudgy, I had low low self esteem not only because my weight but because I was depressed from being in foster care and I had no friends I would always eat and walk alone and keep to myself, I did something terrible and I do NOT suggest or even want u to do what I did which was to become anerexic/belimic and I ran pe hard and I lost all that weight and people started noticing me it seemed. I started having friends then and my self esteem went way up once I got my disorder under control and then I started having dates and now I feel like a new person, hehe a good site or two to try is eharmony.com and militarysinglesconnection.com one other thing I would like to mention is that just because you may be overweight doesn't mean all hope is lost, when I was in school for medical assisting there was a girl my friend and she was way overweight but she had a personality that could blow anyone away and for the longest time she had more dates than me and the guys didn't think twice of her weight because her personality shined bright. I hope this helps some.
Well whats wrong with you is that you don't believe that you are beautiful. Maybe you should get yourself into a gym with the intention of feeling better and then you will become happier when you begin to look better. Then get your hair done, get a new outfit and hit the town feeling amazing. People will notice and you will attract someone with your inner and outer beauty.
Honey ur Mr.right is out their ,just give it time when u least expect it he will show up.and i don't think their is anything wrong with u..everyone goes threw this sometime or another.
It'll happen,theres more to life than men!
change your attitude, have a more positive attitude and you become more attractive to others
where do you go to meet guys
can you make a small change to improve your self image
First of all being single at 25 is not a bad thing! Have you ever heard of the saying the grass is always greener on the other side? This means at times it seems that what we don't have is what would make us happy. Just because you feel ugly does not mean you are ugly. You've acknowledged you are overweight so the next step to take is to find a club to start working out and get yourself into what ever shape will make you feel better about your looks. There are fitness clubs that are for women only see if there is a Butterfly life in your area. This fitness center is for women only and you'll get alot of support from their staff and the other members. If you say you can't afford it think about this...take what ever money you would have spent on junk food and fork it over to your get fit bank account! What seems to be a common theme in your question is you have low self esteem well there is no magic wand or pill that will give it to you. It comes from hard work.And I know you can do it! Every aspect of your looks can be enhanced from your hair to the style of your clothes you just need to hook up with the right people to help you. Whether it's a clerk who works in a store or a hair stylist who makes others look their best. It would be a good start to go to a local bookstore and browse through the self help section...their are tons of books on how to build a positive self esteem...and many people who seem to have it all together have read some of these publications.You have to believe in yourself and put the time and effort into being the best you you can possibly be. I heard a saying once and I think it rings true...you are God's gift to the world what you become, what you do with your life is your gift too God....Remember, you are not ugly you may just be a late bloomer!
I can tell from the title and the content of the question that you don't have a lot of self esteem, and that's a shame that you feel that way because you say you have friends. Having friends is not a small thing! Don't treat it that way!
As far as lonliness goes, my heart goes out to you -- feeling lonely is not a fun thing, but please believe me you are not alone out there.
I have an idea for you: instead of looking at the supposed faults you say you have, look and dwell on the positives instead -- trust me, everyone has them (if you did not have any positives, then you probably would not have the friends you say you have). Also, please do not make the assumption that because no guys have asked you out already that they do not like you. One cannot know what anyone else is thinking -- try not to fill in the blanks.
One last thing: you are not abnormal for being single at your age (or any age, for that matter). I used to be married to an abusive spouse for 6 years -- believe me, there are worse things in the world than being single. Also, if the lonliness persists, do seek someone you can talk to -- it is not abnormal or shameful to do so, it just means that you admit to being human and it is actually brave to do so.
Go get your hair done and your eyebrows done. Any thing like that will make you feel better. Go to curves or just exercise,someone will notice this good change. Change your make up get some new clothes. It will be OK
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Maybe the problem is that you're not good at listening to what others are telling you. Sometimes people are so self-absorbed that they consciously or unconsciously reject the help that others are trying to give them.
I see that you've posted this question several times before. You've received a lot of helpful information already -- stop asking the question, and get busy improving yourself!Advice for an ugly girl?
be more confident....build self-esteem. thinking like that is your problem. i know it must be difficult for u, and im not trying to be mean, but u have to change the way u think!! guys like a woman who is confident, strong, unneedy,etc.... DONT THINK U R UGLY. there are a lot of things u can do to 'tweak' your appearance a little to spark attraction. but it is mainly your mentality. once u have better self-esteem go and socialize more...there is someone out there for everyone, but first you have to be able to love yourself.
Well sweetie, I'll give you this, you at least have the courage to face the fact that you are not as genetically gifted as some. Here is the honest hardcore truth. People are shallow and looks matter. Start saving some money. Get together about 500 dollars. Go to your local upscale department store and get a makeover. Have the counter girls give you a make up makeover. to help you make the most of what you have. Get a good hair cut that flatters you. And find someone to help you buy clothes that make you look your best. Watch that show on TLC where the guy and the girl make over people. It will give you ideas. Don't rule out plastic surgery. It is amazing what a good nose job, or chin lift can do for your face. I congratulate you on approaching this subject honestly.
there is nothin with you mayb u are looking for love in all the wrong places... now if your over weight thats fine...but you have to take careof yourself put yourself together nicely, go out have a go0d time overwieght girls are the thing now.... so honey email me im overweight but i have a boyfriend who loves me to death walk away with self confidence if a guy sees he tends to read how u feelabout yourself... well this is my email babynena53@yahoo.com please email me so we can talk
It sounds like you're the one who is ruling yourself out as a potential catch. Think highly of yourself and others will too.
Your first problem is referring to yourself as ugly. I don't care if you look like 300 miles of bad road. You should always think of yourself as a good looking young lady.
Start at looking at yourself. How do you dress? Like a frump, dirty? Guys look at that I don't care what they may say. They do even the fat slobs.
Being overweight is no excuse either. Plenty of fat women not only have men they have a ton of kids. And don't fall for someone who is going to put you down because of your weight. If your weight is a problem start eating healthy and exercise. Go to the gym. plenty of guys there. Go to a large church and join their singles group.
The first thing you need to do is to start to feel better about who you are. You maybe are sending signals of low self esteem, that's not very attractive. If you think these things about yourself people pick up on that even if outwardly you seem happy. If you think you are a little over weight try losing a few pounds. A very effective way to lose weight is to not eat anything 6-8 hour before bed. When you sleep you body puts food into storage (fat) and the average time it takes for your body to digest food and send nutrients into your system is 6-8 hours. Anything you eat late at night goes straight to storage because your body is in stand by mode when you are sleeping and uses very little energy. Try going out and meeting new people at the mall or in a nice dog park something other than a bar (bars are meat markets) Most of all think positive and keep a good attitude, you'll be ok.
i'm a 24 year old guy who never had a girl. but the truth is we have to deal with self esteem issues. you just put yourself down. you said you are overweight and not really good loooking. try saying positive stuff about you. i tell i started to like agirl about your age who was exactly like you. but she lives in philly and i live in new york city. so it could not work. you are beautiful cuz you are God's creation. He did not intend for you to feel like crap. Find your inner sexiness which is love for yourself despite flaws and imperfections. try dating sites such as datefree.com or metrodate.com
maybe have a makeover go out and buy some new clothes get your hair done and try not be so distant
e-mail me
If you are really that ugly and overweight, at least lose the weight so you only have one thing working against you. That is a start for sure.
There's nothing wrong with you, and although you have heard this hundreds of times before, I will say it again - you just haven't met the right guy yet. Oh, I will bet you've met plenty of guys, just not the ones meeting your standards. Don't settle just to have a man in your life, because your life after that will be one huge compromise. Try joining some groups that you are interested in, like the Sahara Club or some church-sponsored events for singles, or join a gym or YMCA. Enjoy your own company first, and others will follow.
look first off dont put your self down. have some self confidence, and it will get you much farther.
You need to build up your self esteem.
First you need to feel better about yourself. Confidence is very attractive. Would it help if you lost weight? Try walking and go on a diet. If there's not a medical reason it should come of easy at your age. You're young so you can change most anything about your looks but you really need to focus on what's inside. If changing some things about your appearance will help, go for it.
The first thing to do is convince yourself that you're beautiful.
Once you know that, you project it subconsciously and that attracts others.
I know it sounds kooky and if you don't really think you're pretty it's hard to do, but it's true.
I don't believe in ';extreme makeovers'; but some advice:
Start exercising more often - even if just once a week - it won't help immediately but you'll start seeing results after awhile. You can also try to opt for walking instead of driving/stairs instead of an elevator/changing the TV without the remote/etc. to help you get started.
Experiment with clothes - Lane Bryant's stuff is awesome - it's all about making it flattering and the sales people there definately know how to at least make you feel good about what you're wearing - even if you have no money its worthwhile to take a look around and try some stuff on, and then attempt to see what you can find at thrift stores, etc.
Find ways to meet people: Start a new hobby, don't be afraid to go places alone, see about arranging a party/evening out where everyone has to bring ';new friends'; along, pick up a part-time job, ask your family, etc.
Make yourself feel good: read books, write it out, take a bubble bath, take a vacation, paint, draw, sing - whatever you like to do, and if you can't think of anything start making a list!!
Most importantly to remember while you do this though: BE YOURSELF.
There's nothing wrong with you - you just need to take some time and see what you don't like about yourself and try and change it in a positive way so you do like it - don't do it for anyone else or to meet a guy - you have to do it for yourself first!
First I have to say is noone shouldn't not want to date you because your over weight. Second if you have a good self-esteem people will or most will over look the fact you are overweight and see you for you, third of all if you lose some weight not only should you have more self-esteem but you will be and stay healthy and not that this is right but then people will become more interested because they see you are trying to take care of your self. Here is something that happened to me. When I was in 6th or 7th grade I weighed 137, I was a bit pudgy, I had low low self esteem not only because my weight but because I was depressed from being in foster care and I had no friends I would always eat and walk alone and keep to myself, I did something terrible and I do NOT suggest or even want u to do what I did which was to become anerexic/belimic and I ran pe hard and I lost all that weight and people started noticing me it seemed. I started having friends then and my self esteem went way up once I got my disorder under control and then I started having dates and now I feel like a new person, hehe a good site or two to try is eharmony.com and militarysinglesconnection.com one other thing I would like to mention is that just because you may be overweight doesn't mean all hope is lost, when I was in school for medical assisting there was a girl my friend and she was way overweight but she had a personality that could blow anyone away and for the longest time she had more dates than me and the guys didn't think twice of her weight because her personality shined bright. I hope this helps some.
Well whats wrong with you is that you don't believe that you are beautiful. Maybe you should get yourself into a gym with the intention of feeling better and then you will become happier when you begin to look better. Then get your hair done, get a new outfit and hit the town feeling amazing. People will notice and you will attract someone with your inner and outer beauty.
Honey ur Mr.right is out their ,just give it time when u least expect it he will show up.and i don't think their is anything wrong with u..everyone goes threw this sometime or another.
It'll happen,theres more to life than men!
change your attitude, have a more positive attitude and you become more attractive to others
where do you go to meet guys
can you make a small change to improve your self image
First of all being single at 25 is not a bad thing! Have you ever heard of the saying the grass is always greener on the other side? This means at times it seems that what we don't have is what would make us happy. Just because you feel ugly does not mean you are ugly. You've acknowledged you are overweight so the next step to take is to find a club to start working out and get yourself into what ever shape will make you feel better about your looks. There are fitness clubs that are for women only see if there is a Butterfly life in your area. This fitness center is for women only and you'll get alot of support from their staff and the other members. If you say you can't afford it think about this...take what ever money you would have spent on junk food and fork it over to your get fit bank account! What seems to be a common theme in your question is you have low self esteem well there is no magic wand or pill that will give it to you. It comes from hard work.And I know you can do it! Every aspect of your looks can be enhanced from your hair to the style of your clothes you just need to hook up with the right people to help you. Whether it's a clerk who works in a store or a hair stylist who makes others look their best. It would be a good start to go to a local bookstore and browse through the self help section...their are tons of books on how to build a positive self esteem...and many people who seem to have it all together have read some of these publications.You have to believe in yourself and put the time and effort into being the best you you can possibly be. I heard a saying once and I think it rings true...you are God's gift to the world what you become, what you do with your life is your gift too God....Remember, you are not ugly you may just be a late bloomer!
I can tell from the title and the content of the question that you don't have a lot of self esteem, and that's a shame that you feel that way because you say you have friends. Having friends is not a small thing! Don't treat it that way!
As far as lonliness goes, my heart goes out to you -- feeling lonely is not a fun thing, but please believe me you are not alone out there.
I have an idea for you: instead of looking at the supposed faults you say you have, look and dwell on the positives instead -- trust me, everyone has them (if you did not have any positives, then you probably would not have the friends you say you have). Also, please do not make the assumption that because no guys have asked you out already that they do not like you. One cannot know what anyone else is thinking -- try not to fill in the blanks.
One last thing: you are not abnormal for being single at your age (or any age, for that matter). I used to be married to an abusive spouse for 6 years -- believe me, there are worse things in the world than being single. Also, if the lonliness persists, do seek someone you can talk to -- it is not abnormal or shameful to do so, it just means that you admit to being human and it is actually brave to do so.
Go get your hair done and your eyebrows done. Any thing like that will make you feel better. Go to curves or just exercise,someone will notice this good change. Change your make up get some new clothes. It will be OK
ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
I met this girl on the internet during school vacations and we chat for hours and it turns out that I have her this girl for a class, then I thought, now I can talk to her, and ask her out but the problem is that once we are in class she's always with her friends, and I'm a shy guy so I feel weird talking to her when her friends are always by her side I still chat with her on the internet but once we're in class it's a different story she ignores me, she just says ';hi'; and that's about it, sometimes I've tried talking to her but everytime I get near she walks faster on purpose, sometimes I look at her and she smiles with me and I smile back, but i'm confused does she like me or is she shy like I am or is she just playing with me?, i like this girl but how can i know what she really wants with me? should I just move on or try to approach her Advice please Thanks for your help!ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
i have allmost the same prob and i think maybe she likes you but dosent want her freinds to know ask her to a school dance if she is hot and you want herADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
aw that is so cute
i think she's shy too and she wants you to make the first move! so go on! good luck xxx
call her on the phone.
or just pull her aside one day!
i have allmost the same prob and i think maybe she likes you but dosent want her freinds to know ask her to a school dance if she is hot and you want herADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
aw that is so cute
i think she's shy too and she wants you to make the first move! so go on! good luck xxx
call her on the phone.
or just pull her aside one day!
Advice for an ugly girl?
hi everyone! i'm 25, single, and i never had a boyfriend before, ever! I am not good looking, i will say slightly below average, i'm slightly overweight, say about 110%.. just a little more then average. =)
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Sweetheart... you are only 25.... and there is no such thing as an ugly person...
Please speak to your doctor and tell him how you feel...
You don't need advice from strangers like us on the internet....
Good luckAdvice for an ugly girl?
well when you feel sad and lonely just dont let it eat at you, cause if you do it will make you look that much worse. so what u do is just start talking to guys you like and just have fun with them and stay friend for a while untill yall get close to each other. and dont worry bout other people and just worry bout you and ur life just take ur time and eventually ull find someone just start talking to them and ull eventually find one!!!! and never call your self ugly because nobodys ugly, its just what people think and if you think ur cute then dont worry bout others
1st of all you need to build up your confidence more. Just because your big doesn't mean you can't get a man. Haven't you seen that commercial Big and Beautiful and what about Monique who plays on the Parkers on TV. Maybe you should watch her show and she can give you some in-site on how to carry yourself as a big woman BUT BEAUTIFUL. It's all about how you feel about yourself. When you walk you should hold your head up, stick your breast out and swagger those hips and legs girl. Work it like you mean it! It's all in your mind! Say to yourself ';I'm not going to be depressed'; ';I am not fat!'; ';I am the bomb, and everyone else is a firecracker!'; I love that one! It's my favorite! Start dressing with swanky dresses, heels, make-up (not too much) and don't forget the walk. SWAGGER! Like the world is yours! Let me know how it goes in a week! Just click on my name Curlycute and we'll do this together!
Get some self esteem. Drop a few pounds and go shopping. He will find you soon enough.
have you tried church social groups or activities, people of faith tend to see the beauty of a person that is deeper than the skin, good luck dear.
AT LEAST YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF BUT THE THING WITH THAT IS YOU ARE LETTING IT SHOW. IF YOU FEEL IT DON'T LET IT SHOW. THEY ONLY SEE WHAT YOU SHOW THE YOU SEE. YOU CAN BE THE UGLIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD BUT HAVE THAT SELF ESTEEM AND GREAT PERSONALITY AND YOU WILL HAVE WHO AND WHAT YOU NEED IN THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE VERY SOON. TRUST ME I USE TO FEEL THE SAME WAY AND I TELL YOU WHEN YOU PUT GOD IN THE BEGINNING OF EVERYTHING YOU DO HE WILL WORK A MIRACLE AND I CAN TELL YOU I AM HAPPIER THAN EVER...
It doesn't have anything to do with your looks hun. Don't you notice the severe amount of ugly people walking around with a significant other. And I mean really ugly. Not just a little over weight. People are attracted to your attitude. I had cancer when I was four, the right side of my face is slightly different than the left. My bone structure is off and my right eye is a little deformed, looks like I've got a major black eye and it's always bright red cuz I don't have tear ducts. And although I've had my share of jerks over the years for the most part if I don't care they don't care. The key is to not care. That's it. Just don't care what people think. If someone is going to have a problem with the way that you look then they are not worth knowing in the first place. A guy is going to be attracted to your attitude. If you are depressed and you feel that you aren't good enough to attract anyone then you won't. You can't wait either. You have to take control of your life and make something of it for yourself. You can't spend the rest of your life waiting on someone else because then you will be waiting forever. It's so much easier said than done isn't it? But you have got to overcome some things if you don't wish to spend a life alone. Have you tried online dating? Not to decieve people or anything. But then you can get to know someone without the worries of what they might think of you physically. Let someone get to know the real you first. This is more for you than them. You might feel more comfortable. I promise you that guys are not put off by your looks, they are put off my your lack of confidence. Work on that and you will see that it works. Maybe not right away but it will.
be patient :)
..............if you can :)
Don't worry about being fat. That doesn't matter. There are PLENTY of fat AND ugly women who are married :-) And they all found partners and have beautiful children.
your time will come :-) enjoy your freedom for now - soon enough you will be longing for time alone :-)
I'll give you some tips. First of all, try to go for slimming programs, this will boost your sexyness. Second,try to use sparkling glittering lipsticks. And finally, dress like a princess.
If you have done all this, your man will come to you. Trust me.
Believe it or not, you are not alone. There are people all over this planet that feel lonely, unloved, and depressed. This does not, however, afflict only people with ';below average'; looks (which is defined ONLY by the standards of the society in which you live. Who's to say what's beautiful and what's ugly?). Loneliness is no respector of persons. The fact that you are posting this question says to me that there is an issue on the inside of you, not on the outside. Here's my advice. Find something that you are absolutely passionate about - singing, writing, cooking, animals, whatever - and pursue that with your whole heart. Don't even worry about the opposite sex. Let yourself become excellent at whatever that passion is. You will build crazy amounts of self confidence, and the more confidence you have the more you will love yourself. That's just the beginning. More than likely, as you go about your daily business and pursuing whatever passion you decide, you will meet someone along the way is just enamored with you - you will be, of course, a confident, motivated woman - which is oh-so-much more attractive than anything physical. Trust me. He'll love you no matter what you do or don't look like. Is any of this a gaurantee? Well, nothing is, unfortunately. But what IS matter-of-fact, however, is that you need some self-confidence. There is nothing in the world more attractive than that... and I have a hunch that once the inside is taken care of, the outside will begin to match how great you feel.
lol! you seem like you have a great sense of humour!!! if only it wernt shadowed by this lonliness you have.
if you are really REALLY down i would consider going to the Doc's and getting some anti-deppresents
Go out with friends! get yourself all done up!! go and chat some men up!!! :oP it will build your confidence towards men, if they aint interested well, on to the next! you aint gonna see them again are ya!!
You seem to have a great personality if you put that across a bit more you will get many men interested in you that you will have to whack em back with a stick!! lol :oP
Honestly! just go out have fun! chat loads and dont give a f*ck!!!
Debs xXx
Well you cant act lonely and depressed that wont make them come. You need to have better self esteem before people will start to notice you. Do you go out at all? Buy some new clothes and hit the club!
It is not always a looks thing you know, personality is just as important. Lets face it who wants to have a relationship with a person who has no personality, is just mean, selfish or miserable all the time.
Firstly, get fit a be happy with yourself and then start socialising it will all come together if you get it right and keep meeting people. Go on a singles holiday too.
~~~The right guy hasnt come along yet, when he does, he will accept you for the person that you are, you will look beautiful to him.
Sometimes a little change will cause people to look at us differently.~ Work on your self esteem, loose a little weight, (do it for YOU) buy yourself a new outfit, dress in layers, flattering clothing for the fuller figure, try a new hair style, a little make-up that will enhance your eyes, and that new shirt you happen to be wearing. Just have fun with it.
There really are guys out there who arent shallow, in the mean time, feel good about yourself!~~~
Oh, honey. Email me. How dare you say something like that about yourself. You will be able to date and do all the things that the rest of us do. Relax and breathe. Ask the universe to give you love, bounty or whatever or even in your prayers. Be comfortable with yourself first or the dating will not happen. Just accept that it is what it is, whatever you think that is in a positive way and it will work it self out I promise.
cheers
Have you tried any of those online dating sites? They are always a good start. Overall, I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure the right guy is out there for you and will make his way into your life when the time is right.
hi don't worry about ur beauty u will definitely will get a Boy friend u liked there are some persons who look internal beauty(heart) than Outer beauty so my adice is do not think that u are not beautiful u think that ua re a good women with a carrying heart LOL All the best
There's no such thing as an ugly person... There is someone out there for all of us... Just keep yourself neat and clean and well groomed and it will happen... Try getting out and about more in places and events that you can mingle with a large group... increase your possibilities of meeting someone... If you are just waiting at home... it ain't gonna happen... Be proud of who you are and show it... That is attractive to many people... Just don't give in and give up...
Honey, there's nothing wrong with you. Widen your horizons. Get a penpal through Christion Singles and let someone get to know you before trying to meet them.
your calling your self ungly thats whats wrong with you
It's all in how you present yourself and your personality that shines through to men...get out there after practicing a great smile and just be happy! This will attract a guy to you!!
Good Luck!!
your prince charming is out there and it will happen when you least expect it
Theres nothing wrong with you. Theres only so much you can do, just be your self, if possible fix yourself up. Lose some weight for health issues, being obesit is not healthy.
One day, that special guy will come along. You know what they say ';Good things come to those who wait.';
there is nothing wrong with you. we all have felt or will feel this way sometime. get your self confidence up and get out there. try going to places not in your town and you just might find mr.right waiting. and dont rush into the whole marriage thing being single can be gr8 too:)
SWEETHART ..THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU JUST KEEP LOOKING.DONT BE SAD WE ALL GO TRU THAT WE FEEL THERE WILL NEVER BE ANYONE TO LOVE US ... SOMETIMES IT TAKES TIME..
u have a really low self esteem about your self don't sau ur ulgy because if u was god would not have brought u in this would all his kids are suttible but maybe if u change around ur friends try to shaope up and go make new friends u would be fine i wish you luck well good luck erika
First you have to believe that you are not ugly... Everyone on this Earth is not a dime-piece or wuteva... Some of the girls that I see peolple like is not all that pretty to me. but they got someone because they believe that they can... It doens't matter how dark, big, skinny, light you are... there's someone out there for you. Just believe
you need some self esteem.
Start getting slutty. Guys like slutty girls
the first thing you have to do is be happy with you. if that means lose weight, then do it, if it means a new hair style %26amp; make over do it, then go out and meet new people. tell your friends you are looking, and have them set you up. join a bowling or pool league, or join a new chuch group. somewhere out there is a great guy looking for you. go find him.
haf u tried speed dating? u should if u have not !!
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Sweetheart... you are only 25.... and there is no such thing as an ugly person...
Please speak to your doctor and tell him how you feel...
You don't need advice from strangers like us on the internet....
Good luckAdvice for an ugly girl?
well when you feel sad and lonely just dont let it eat at you, cause if you do it will make you look that much worse. so what u do is just start talking to guys you like and just have fun with them and stay friend for a while untill yall get close to each other. and dont worry bout other people and just worry bout you and ur life just take ur time and eventually ull find someone just start talking to them and ull eventually find one!!!! and never call your self ugly because nobodys ugly, its just what people think and if you think ur cute then dont worry bout others
1st of all you need to build up your confidence more. Just because your big doesn't mean you can't get a man. Haven't you seen that commercial Big and Beautiful and what about Monique who plays on the Parkers on TV. Maybe you should watch her show and she can give you some in-site on how to carry yourself as a big woman BUT BEAUTIFUL. It's all about how you feel about yourself. When you walk you should hold your head up, stick your breast out and swagger those hips and legs girl. Work it like you mean it! It's all in your mind! Say to yourself ';I'm not going to be depressed'; ';I am not fat!'; ';I am the bomb, and everyone else is a firecracker!'; I love that one! It's my favorite! Start dressing with swanky dresses, heels, make-up (not too much) and don't forget the walk. SWAGGER! Like the world is yours! Let me know how it goes in a week! Just click on my name Curlycute and we'll do this together!
Get some self esteem. Drop a few pounds and go shopping. He will find you soon enough.
have you tried church social groups or activities, people of faith tend to see the beauty of a person that is deeper than the skin, good luck dear.
AT LEAST YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF BUT THE THING WITH THAT IS YOU ARE LETTING IT SHOW. IF YOU FEEL IT DON'T LET IT SHOW. THEY ONLY SEE WHAT YOU SHOW THE YOU SEE. YOU CAN BE THE UGLIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD BUT HAVE THAT SELF ESTEEM AND GREAT PERSONALITY AND YOU WILL HAVE WHO AND WHAT YOU NEED IN THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE VERY SOON. TRUST ME I USE TO FEEL THE SAME WAY AND I TELL YOU WHEN YOU PUT GOD IN THE BEGINNING OF EVERYTHING YOU DO HE WILL WORK A MIRACLE AND I CAN TELL YOU I AM HAPPIER THAN EVER...
It doesn't have anything to do with your looks hun. Don't you notice the severe amount of ugly people walking around with a significant other. And I mean really ugly. Not just a little over weight. People are attracted to your attitude. I had cancer when I was four, the right side of my face is slightly different than the left. My bone structure is off and my right eye is a little deformed, looks like I've got a major black eye and it's always bright red cuz I don't have tear ducts. And although I've had my share of jerks over the years for the most part if I don't care they don't care. The key is to not care. That's it. Just don't care what people think. If someone is going to have a problem with the way that you look then they are not worth knowing in the first place. A guy is going to be attracted to your attitude. If you are depressed and you feel that you aren't good enough to attract anyone then you won't. You can't wait either. You have to take control of your life and make something of it for yourself. You can't spend the rest of your life waiting on someone else because then you will be waiting forever. It's so much easier said than done isn't it? But you have got to overcome some things if you don't wish to spend a life alone. Have you tried online dating? Not to decieve people or anything. But then you can get to know someone without the worries of what they might think of you physically. Let someone get to know the real you first. This is more for you than them. You might feel more comfortable. I promise you that guys are not put off by your looks, they are put off my your lack of confidence. Work on that and you will see that it works. Maybe not right away but it will.
be patient :)
..............if you can :)
Don't worry about being fat. That doesn't matter. There are PLENTY of fat AND ugly women who are married :-) And they all found partners and have beautiful children.
your time will come :-) enjoy your freedom for now - soon enough you will be longing for time alone :-)
I'll give you some tips. First of all, try to go for slimming programs, this will boost your sexyness. Second,try to use sparkling glittering lipsticks. And finally, dress like a princess.
If you have done all this, your man will come to you. Trust me.
Believe it or not, you are not alone. There are people all over this planet that feel lonely, unloved, and depressed. This does not, however, afflict only people with ';below average'; looks (which is defined ONLY by the standards of the society in which you live. Who's to say what's beautiful and what's ugly?). Loneliness is no respector of persons. The fact that you are posting this question says to me that there is an issue on the inside of you, not on the outside. Here's my advice. Find something that you are absolutely passionate about - singing, writing, cooking, animals, whatever - and pursue that with your whole heart. Don't even worry about the opposite sex. Let yourself become excellent at whatever that passion is. You will build crazy amounts of self confidence, and the more confidence you have the more you will love yourself. That's just the beginning. More than likely, as you go about your daily business and pursuing whatever passion you decide, you will meet someone along the way is just enamored with you - you will be, of course, a confident, motivated woman - which is oh-so-much more attractive than anything physical. Trust me. He'll love you no matter what you do or don't look like. Is any of this a gaurantee? Well, nothing is, unfortunately. But what IS matter-of-fact, however, is that you need some self-confidence. There is nothing in the world more attractive than that... and I have a hunch that once the inside is taken care of, the outside will begin to match how great you feel.
lol! you seem like you have a great sense of humour!!! if only it wernt shadowed by this lonliness you have.
if you are really REALLY down i would consider going to the Doc's and getting some anti-deppresents
Go out with friends! get yourself all done up!! go and chat some men up!!! :oP it will build your confidence towards men, if they aint interested well, on to the next! you aint gonna see them again are ya!!
You seem to have a great personality if you put that across a bit more you will get many men interested in you that you will have to whack em back with a stick!! lol :oP
Honestly! just go out have fun! chat loads and dont give a f*ck!!!
Debs xXx
Well you cant act lonely and depressed that wont make them come. You need to have better self esteem before people will start to notice you. Do you go out at all? Buy some new clothes and hit the club!
It is not always a looks thing you know, personality is just as important. Lets face it who wants to have a relationship with a person who has no personality, is just mean, selfish or miserable all the time.
Firstly, get fit a be happy with yourself and then start socialising it will all come together if you get it right and keep meeting people. Go on a singles holiday too.
~~~The right guy hasnt come along yet, when he does, he will accept you for the person that you are, you will look beautiful to him.
Sometimes a little change will cause people to look at us differently.~ Work on your self esteem, loose a little weight, (do it for YOU) buy yourself a new outfit, dress in layers, flattering clothing for the fuller figure, try a new hair style, a little make-up that will enhance your eyes, and that new shirt you happen to be wearing. Just have fun with it.
There really are guys out there who arent shallow, in the mean time, feel good about yourself!~~~
Oh, honey. Email me. How dare you say something like that about yourself. You will be able to date and do all the things that the rest of us do. Relax and breathe. Ask the universe to give you love, bounty or whatever or even in your prayers. Be comfortable with yourself first or the dating will not happen. Just accept that it is what it is, whatever you think that is in a positive way and it will work it self out I promise.
cheers
Have you tried any of those online dating sites? They are always a good start. Overall, I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure the right guy is out there for you and will make his way into your life when the time is right.
hi don't worry about ur beauty u will definitely will get a Boy friend u liked there are some persons who look internal beauty(heart) than Outer beauty so my adice is do not think that u are not beautiful u think that ua re a good women with a carrying heart LOL All the best
There's no such thing as an ugly person... There is someone out there for all of us... Just keep yourself neat and clean and well groomed and it will happen... Try getting out and about more in places and events that you can mingle with a large group... increase your possibilities of meeting someone... If you are just waiting at home... it ain't gonna happen... Be proud of who you are and show it... That is attractive to many people... Just don't give in and give up...
Honey, there's nothing wrong with you. Widen your horizons. Get a penpal through Christion Singles and let someone get to know you before trying to meet them.
your calling your self ungly thats whats wrong with you
It's all in how you present yourself and your personality that shines through to men...get out there after practicing a great smile and just be happy! This will attract a guy to you!!
Good Luck!!
your prince charming is out there and it will happen when you least expect it
Theres nothing wrong with you. Theres only so much you can do, just be your self, if possible fix yourself up. Lose some weight for health issues, being obesit is not healthy.
One day, that special guy will come along. You know what they say ';Good things come to those who wait.';
there is nothing wrong with you. we all have felt or will feel this way sometime. get your self confidence up and get out there. try going to places not in your town and you just might find mr.right waiting. and dont rush into the whole marriage thing being single can be gr8 too:)
SWEETHART ..THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU JUST KEEP LOOKING.DONT BE SAD WE ALL GO TRU THAT WE FEEL THERE WILL NEVER BE ANYONE TO LOVE US ... SOMETIMES IT TAKES TIME..
u have a really low self esteem about your self don't sau ur ulgy because if u was god would not have brought u in this would all his kids are suttible but maybe if u change around ur friends try to shaope up and go make new friends u would be fine i wish you luck well good luck erika
First you have to believe that you are not ugly... Everyone on this Earth is not a dime-piece or wuteva... Some of the girls that I see peolple like is not all that pretty to me. but they got someone because they believe that they can... It doens't matter how dark, big, skinny, light you are... there's someone out there for you. Just believe
you need some self esteem.
Start getting slutty. Guys like slutty girls
the first thing you have to do is be happy with you. if that means lose weight, then do it, if it means a new hair style %26amp; make over do it, then go out and meet new people. tell your friends you are looking, and have them set you up. join a bowling or pool league, or join a new chuch group. somewhere out there is a great guy looking for you. go find him.
haf u tried speed dating? u should if u have not !!
Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
Ok, so I've been seeing this girl I met after one of my gigs, i play guitar and sing in band, and shes absolutely wonderful. I've taken her out for sushi, drinks, movies, and I even cooked her dinner last night, an italian dish, etc w/ wine. We have a great time together, i think shes absolutely beautiful, and I can see myself falling in love with her. What I need help with is, not one of us has said anything about liking each other, except the first night i stayed with her, she said ';were not gonna have sex'; and i said, ';well, i dont have sex with girls I actually like the 1st nite we hook up';, and she said me too, but im trying to figure out when to say it, and im thinking a week from now or this weekend, saying something like '; i really like you, I think about you a lot, and I enjoy your company, and I really dont tell a lot of people that';, something like that. Any advice on what to say or when to say it? I really haven't felt like this in a long time, by the way shes 21 and im 25.Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
I think that sounds good...speak from your heart. If she likes you, anything you say (whether it comes out awkward or not) she will feel flattered. Try not to be so serious...just let her know that you are really enjoying her company and would like to continue seeing her.
Best of luck to you.Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
jsut take it sloly and enjoy the time wiht her now. be honest when you say things to her and that should do, if she chooses to say the same then that is great, but is she doesn't say the same thing that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it means that she want to take it very slolyyy... good luck
just tell her that you like her and that you want to know how she feels about you guys..that you want to know before putting your heart into the relationship and see what she says
Well if you guys have been out for a while, (like a few weeks), and that is how you feel then go ahead and tell her. It's not like you are saying that you love her. You have simple feelings for her....just tell her you would like to get to know her better..she has sparked your interest. Good Luck!
Yeah, be honest with her! Ask her to date you, and be exclusive and then from there, just take things slowly!
I think that sounds good...speak from your heart. If she likes you, anything you say (whether it comes out awkward or not) she will feel flattered. Try not to be so serious...just let her know that you are really enjoying her company and would like to continue seeing her.
Best of luck to you.Advice Needed about a Girl. Ladies, help!?
jsut take it sloly and enjoy the time wiht her now. be honest when you say things to her and that should do, if she chooses to say the same then that is great, but is she doesn't say the same thing that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it means that she want to take it very slolyyy... good luck
just tell her that you like her and that you want to know how she feels about you guys..that you want to know before putting your heart into the relationship and see what she says
Well if you guys have been out for a while, (like a few weeks), and that is how you feel then go ahead and tell her. It's not like you are saying that you love her. You have simple feelings for her....just tell her you would like to get to know her better..she has sparked your interest. Good Luck!
Yeah, be honest with her! Ask her to date you, and be exclusive and then from there, just take things slowly!
How can I meet girls? Any advice?
I've been single for about a year now and lately I've kinda wanted a girlfriend. I'm not the most social person. Do you guys have any advice how to meet girls? Any sites where teens can meet?(I'm not a petafile!) Please no adult friend finder or any of that ****, I'm only 15.How can I meet girls? Any advice?
stalkers-are-us.comHow can I meet girls? Any advice?
Get social, interact with more people and bluff! Say things about yourself that are good! So when girls over-hear they take that thought into consideration! Don't get conceded and act like you want a girlfriend because if you don't act like it the girls will think you really don't want one! Then be funny most girls love funny guys! You also have to be flirtatious and smile oftten! So I really suggest being more outgoing! No guy can really answer this question because most guys who get girls are perverted! A girl can tell you what she wants, therefore showing you what girls in particular wants!
omg
your 15
dont internet date its really lame even
if you are meeting them too meet in person it
probably will be more weird trying too date somone you
never knew befour you know
any way just flirt with girls at school
I mean for real most girls will just wait for
the guy too talk too them and them not
doing anything you know just like talk too a girl you think is
really pretty and ask for her number like for reall all you have too
do is be confident =] Hoped I Helped =D by the way I'm 15 too
Sigh, whatever happenned to going up to a girl you like and asking them to hang out some time?
Build the courage to do it, or else you;'re gonna miss out on the experience :/
okay first be
nice{or fake being nice }
kind
giveful
ect.
Your only 15, so your ability to seek out a girlfriend is quite hard. Since your choices are limited. However I suggest, friends and extended friends. Sites such as facebook etc etc, or even school.
Try putting a potato in your speedos, preferably in the front, I have fell for this ploy many times.
well you could try your school. lol
i really dont know. but yeah:)
it would be so nice if you answered mine?
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
skate parks! shopping malls! parties! hang out with friend's friends! music gigs %26amp; concerts! parks! tbh, you need to get more confidence %26amp; just try to make conversation! good luck! :) x
talk to girls at school
what alex said
if your fifteen thats just desparate to go on sites online even ugly guys can get girls in real life. try that
don't look online for a girlfriend. i think your best beat is to become social and find a girl at your schoo.skin creams
stalkers-are-us.comHow can I meet girls? Any advice?
Get social, interact with more people and bluff! Say things about yourself that are good! So when girls over-hear they take that thought into consideration! Don't get conceded and act like you want a girlfriend because if you don't act like it the girls will think you really don't want one! Then be funny most girls love funny guys! You also have to be flirtatious and smile oftten! So I really suggest being more outgoing! No guy can really answer this question because most guys who get girls are perverted! A girl can tell you what she wants, therefore showing you what girls in particular wants!
omg
your 15
dont internet date its really lame even
if you are meeting them too meet in person it
probably will be more weird trying too date somone you
never knew befour you know
any way just flirt with girls at school
I mean for real most girls will just wait for
the guy too talk too them and them not
doing anything you know just like talk too a girl you think is
really pretty and ask for her number like for reall all you have too
do is be confident =] Hoped I Helped =D by the way I'm 15 too
Sigh, whatever happenned to going up to a girl you like and asking them to hang out some time?
Build the courage to do it, or else you;'re gonna miss out on the experience :/
okay first be
nice{or fake being nice }
kind
giveful
ect.
Your only 15, so your ability to seek out a girlfriend is quite hard. Since your choices are limited. However I suggest, friends and extended friends. Sites such as facebook etc etc, or even school.
Try putting a potato in your speedos, preferably in the front, I have fell for this ploy many times.
well you could try your school. lol
i really dont know. but yeah:)
it would be so nice if you answered mine?
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
skate parks! shopping malls! parties! hang out with friend's friends! music gigs %26amp; concerts! parks! tbh, you need to get more confidence %26amp; just try to make conversation! good luck! :) x
talk to girls at school
what alex said
if your fifteen thats just desparate to go on sites online even ugly guys can get girls in real life. try that
don't look online for a girlfriend. i think your best beat is to become social and find a girl at your schoo.
Need advice i want to ask out this girl?
im in high school im a drummer,varsity tennis player,... and she a color guard. we have some things in common im a little worried that she might shot me down but i mostly want to know how 2 ask her outNeed advice i want to ask out this girl?
make a snog abuot her and say in it ';oh oh oh oh oh i love u an di want to fold you'; when she sais ';who is for?';
u say ';you before i do this'; and thrstu your hipz
thets hao i git may girl friendNeed advice i want to ask out this girl?
Hi Dear!!
One of the most common questions among the guys. How to ask her out.
Its so simple. Ask.
See. Girls' mentality is not like us. We can fall in love without knowing about the person. But in this matter girls are slightly conservative. The first try to know about the guy. So there will always be a first stem of friendship.
Next trouble. No matter how versatile and attractive a guy's personaluty is, he will find some problem in talking with the girl coz they think she might fire at him. insult him etc. Dude, she is not a monster she is also a human. Why will she insult you evenif you are genuine??
Go to her and say hi start some common interest topic. She will get to know you and so you wil. Remember fear will sopil everything.
Best of luck.
Bless You
umm easy... just come up and ask her out.. ex.. you can be formal like ';Would you like to go out someday, for dinner or to see a movie'; or more friend like ';hey.. do you want to hang out some day? get to know each other a little better'; then if she's hesitating, or seems uncomfortable with what you asked her, just add ';I could always use another friend';.. So maybe it wont be a ';date'; but you'll get to out with her, start with friends and who knows where it will go from there.. Don't wuss out tho, you dont want to spend the rest of your high school years wondering what might have been...
Ask her if she'd let you buy her an ice cream after school somewhere
near by and if she shoots you down you haven't made a fool out of yourself for trying and if she goes. flatter her by talking about her nice attributes (god, I really love your eyes, ((pause) breath a sigh) they seem to look right through me) etc etc.
i think u should do this:
go up to her and take her for a walk so that her friends wont make u feel embaressed and tell her all the things u like about her and how much u enjoy being with her and if she says that she likes being with you the be like ';so do u want to go out with me??'; and hopefully she says yes.. good luck=)
Find some more interests you both have in common spend more time with/around her for the next few days....than later on(but not too late) casually ask her out. maybe even jokingly and say you were only joking, but this is a way to find out if she wants to.
Just say ';Hey,..im bored tonight wanna go out?';. Seriously, flirting while asking her out is so akward...it's like
*poke* haiii..wanna go out?? hehehe *poke*..WTF??
Just ask her. Man up !
just ask her out be straight forward gril like that they hate to wait wouldn't u be impatient too? so just ask her and her might be a chance she'll say yes its a 50/50%
Just be really sweet and flirty. Girls love when guys do that. Just be confident and she'll be yours. :)
Ease it in... Ask her to hang out first.. then ask her out.. let her know that you like her.. and what you think about her..
make a snog abuot her and say in it ';oh oh oh oh oh i love u an di want to fold you'; when she sais ';who is for?';
u say ';you before i do this'; and thrstu your hipz
thets hao i git may girl friendNeed advice i want to ask out this girl?
Hi Dear!!
One of the most common questions among the guys. How to ask her out.
Its so simple. Ask.
See. Girls' mentality is not like us. We can fall in love without knowing about the person. But in this matter girls are slightly conservative. The first try to know about the guy. So there will always be a first stem of friendship.
Next trouble. No matter how versatile and attractive a guy's personaluty is, he will find some problem in talking with the girl coz they think she might fire at him. insult him etc. Dude, she is not a monster she is also a human. Why will she insult you evenif you are genuine??
Go to her and say hi start some common interest topic. She will get to know you and so you wil. Remember fear will sopil everything.
Best of luck.
Bless You
umm easy... just come up and ask her out.. ex.. you can be formal like ';Would you like to go out someday, for dinner or to see a movie'; or more friend like ';hey.. do you want to hang out some day? get to know each other a little better'; then if she's hesitating, or seems uncomfortable with what you asked her, just add ';I could always use another friend';.. So maybe it wont be a ';date'; but you'll get to out with her, start with friends and who knows where it will go from there.. Don't wuss out tho, you dont want to spend the rest of your high school years wondering what might have been...
Ask her if she'd let you buy her an ice cream after school somewhere
near by and if she shoots you down you haven't made a fool out of yourself for trying and if she goes. flatter her by talking about her nice attributes (god, I really love your eyes, ((pause) breath a sigh) they seem to look right through me) etc etc.
i think u should do this:
go up to her and take her for a walk so that her friends wont make u feel embaressed and tell her all the things u like about her and how much u enjoy being with her and if she says that she likes being with you the be like ';so do u want to go out with me??'; and hopefully she says yes.. good luck=)
Find some more interests you both have in common spend more time with/around her for the next few days....than later on(but not too late) casually ask her out. maybe even jokingly and say you were only joking, but this is a way to find out if she wants to.
Just say ';Hey,..im bored tonight wanna go out?';. Seriously, flirting while asking her out is so akward...it's like
*poke* haiii..wanna go out?? hehehe *poke*..WTF??
Just ask her. Man up !
just ask her out be straight forward gril like that they hate to wait wouldn't u be impatient too? so just ask her and her might be a chance she'll say yes its a 50/50%
Just be really sweet and flirty. Girls love when guys do that. Just be confident and she'll be yours. :)
Ease it in... Ask her to hang out first.. then ask her out.. let her know that you like her.. and what you think about her..
The girl I like is...let's say, ';loose'; Advice?
Ok, so I like this girl. Turns out she's a giant skank who's made out with everything that draws oxygen and has a penis.
Anyways, I still really like her, and I even talked to her earlier today, and she seems totally cool. But I am still worried about the fact that we would date, and she would be a total SKANKWHORE behind my back. Your thoughts please.The girl I like is...let's say, ';loose'; Advice?
I see two issues here. First you seem to have a problem with her open sexuality. Take a look at yourself and compare what you have done to what she has done. Are you holding against her something that you do yourself? Is it because she is a female and only guys can do all the girls they can because men are more privileged?
The second issue is trust. That you will have to discuss with her when you start the relationship. You will have to make the decision to trust her and go with it. It could be she will let you down and it will hurt like a red hot iron stuck through your heart. Then again you may just find a woman that is not uptight about her sexuality and can give you herself fully and completely.
Reverend WillyThe girl I like is...let's say, ';loose'; Advice?
first off, you can't truly like her if you call her a ';skankwhore'; behind her back .
secondly, if you think you can handle her, then try and change her ways . if you really care about her, you'll help her .
but if you can't handle it, move on .
if you can't trust her completely, don't date her. she has this reputation for a reason.
Go for it!
give it time and find out the true person she is
Anyways, I still really like her, and I even talked to her earlier today, and she seems totally cool. But I am still worried about the fact that we would date, and she would be a total SKANKWHORE behind my back. Your thoughts please.The girl I like is...let's say, ';loose'; Advice?
I see two issues here. First you seem to have a problem with her open sexuality. Take a look at yourself and compare what you have done to what she has done. Are you holding against her something that you do yourself? Is it because she is a female and only guys can do all the girls they can because men are more privileged?
The second issue is trust. That you will have to discuss with her when you start the relationship. You will have to make the decision to trust her and go with it. It could be she will let you down and it will hurt like a red hot iron stuck through your heart. Then again you may just find a woman that is not uptight about her sexuality and can give you herself fully and completely.
Reverend WillyThe girl I like is...let's say, ';loose'; Advice?
first off, you can't truly like her if you call her a ';skankwhore'; behind her back .
secondly, if you think you can handle her, then try and change her ways . if you really care about her, you'll help her .
but if you can't handle it, move on .
if you can't trust her completely, don't date her. she has this reputation for a reason.
Go for it!
give it time and find out the true person she is
Advice for an ugly girl?
hi everyone! i'm 25, single, and i never had a boyfriend before, ever! I am not good looking, i will say slightly below average, i'm slightly overweight, say about 110%.. just a little more then average. =)
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
hi dear
God has created everyone, if u say urself ugly means u r insulting god, Dont give the control of ur life to others, Just live ur life normally %26amp; be urself, just wait 4 the rite time, god knows wat to do %26amp; when to do .
MIND IT '; PATIENTS PAYS THE BEST';Advice for an ugly girl?
pray and ask god daily to soften your heart. ask god to bring u a person who will care for u trust ya self love ya self. put god first.
Relax and be patient! Somewhere out there is a man who will love you for who you are! And believe me, that's the BEST kind of love!!
Men are superficial...what you have to do if you don't want to be alone is find a guy who is unsure of his appearance like you are....they tend not to be such big jerks so you might find happiness there.
BTW...ugly is as ugly does. You're not ugly as far as I can hear.
I used to overweight 2 thus i know how u feel. Try to shed some weight off, u'll love the new u. There is nothing wrong with u but being overweight will drop the % of u getting the guy u really want. If u're not going to shed the extras then u got to wait for sometime before some guy tell u that he is interested in u.
It sounds like you are not happy with yourself. I suggust you do something about that. Change your hair, buy new clothes, loose weight. Really make some changes outwardly about yourself. Your content with yourself inwardly. Now work on the outside. But do this for yourself and no one else.
Everyone is unique, you have to learn to love yourself...because if you dont love you, you cant expect anyone else too, you should try some gentle exercise it is better than no exercise...also look at the food you eat, is it healthy or just fattening...trust me once you start looking after yourself you will feel so much better about yourself, and this will radiate, and men will notice, but you need to concerntrate on yourself before any man, and with time, at the right time someone will come into your life, but you have to be comfortable with yourself first. Good Luck.
Don't feel like you are the only one who has ever gone through this. I was the same way and was evensettled in my mind that i would be alone forever and when i was not even looking any more someone found me. I didn't find them. You might consider asking some of your guy friends for advice on what they might be looking for in a woman. Best of luck to you!
awwwww.... Great question to ask your female friends. Have them all get together and tell them how you feel. They can all pitch in on giving you a makeover, suggesting things you might want to change, fashion tips, hair, working out with them at a local gym etc. Thats what friends are for.
Best of luck sweetie!
Is there anything other then time and effort preventing you from having a great body, and good hair?
Trust us, a woman with a fantastic body, nice hair needs some pretty bad facial deformity to not get some attention.
Of course, attention doesn't mean a relationship. But its hard to find the love of your life if you're not dating anyone.
Dont be so sad, you might get a good partner, who will like you as a person and not just yr looks. dont evr think you have any problem, first of all start loving yourself then only anybody else will love you. LOVE
It's not you. It is society. Everyone thinks you have to be thin and beautiful, have you met those girls?! Most of them are horrible people! You have to go out into the world with confidence. If you don't have it, fake it! I've seen 300 lb women out in the clubs with thongs showing dancing their butts off. People see that they are confident within themselves and will talk to them. (I am by no means telling you to go out to a club with a thong showing! I don't think ANYONE should do that!)
Give yourself time, your future is waiting for you to realize the beautiful woman that you are!
Find someone uglier than you, like Sloth from the Goonies.
Before you want someone to love you. You have to love yourself first.
You must be a white girl. Black girls at this stage would have at least had a boyfriend or two. Do yourself a favor, buy a rap cd, watch BET, dress better and then you will find a man.
Hon, there's nothing wrong with you. It's everybody else. Maybe the right guy just simply hasn't come along yet. If you want to find someone ';right now'; then you may want to try eharmony.com or just go out and meet people. Hope you find a great guy!
Stop saying that you are ugly. I am sure that nothings wrong, just wait. The best things come to those that wait. Looks and size shouldn't matter, its what inside.
hun, its ok.. trust me! i know exactly where you coming from. you just have to be patient. my cousin was 27 before he got his first girlfriend, and shes 9 years younger than him. yea shes a ***** but he loves her, so you just have to wait for that someone to come along a accept you for who you are
let me tell something...
the problem is not in your weight coz you can work out if you want, even the slim girls can gain weight.
don't you ever consider your self ugly, be self confident and try to meet other friends for change
what do you need now is to change, you need some change in your life starting from now. try to find out how by yourself without asking any one, coz u know what do you need more than any one.
I wish to you the best :)
send me a pic baby tvman30044@yahoo.com
try going to church, or better yet the internet
First of all, don't see yourself as doomed to be ugly and lonely because if you do, that is what you will communicate to others. Women I have observed who are very popular with both men and women aren't necessarily the most attractive but they are women who have learned to do the best with what they have; have developed interests so that they are interesting and have learned the art of focusing attention on others. First of all; why don't you get a good hairstyle and get some advice on using makeup effectively. Invest in some well fitting and attractive clothing; for this you may want to enlist the help of a professional or a stylish friend. These things are just the starting points to help you become more confident. Then you have to put yourself out there in order to meet people. Think of a course you would like to learn or maybe some interest group you would like to join. By engaging in activities that are fun, you are bound to meet others and from there, I am sure you will attract many people. Counteracting lonliness means being proactive; it means planning ahead and it means making some real efforts and changes. good luck!
Here are some beauty tips to consider:
1. Your hair is your crowning glory, make sure it is well done.
2. You need to get some advise as to what method can be used for your weight loss. Visit a gym and seek advise.
3. Your body is the temple of God, so you should keep it sacred until you find your sole mate.
4. Dress to impress, wear clothes that will make you look beautiful.
5. If you cannot afford to pay for a facial, do it yourself. Buy the scrub, cleanser, toner, and mask, something that will not cause you to break out.
6. In order to be beautiful, you have to think beautiful because God made us in his own image and likeness. Start saying ';I am beautiful and wonderfully made in Christ Jesus.';
7. In all things we have to acknowledge Christ as our Lord and Savior, so pray for that self confidence.
The power of positive thinking will help you along the way to being and looking beautiful.
Love you beautiful.
You have to get out there..Join a dating service, a bowling league, a travel club, etc Something that will get you to meet new people. You might even have some fun along the way. Then lose some weight and work on your appearance.
one thing that I have observed is guys don't like girls who are insecure. Maybe you think your not but you could come across as being that way. You don't need to be cocky but don't put yourself down and stand with your shoulders square and lift you chin up. posture is very important. I don't consider myself drop dead gorgeous or beautiful. Some times I think I am down right Ugly. But I know better. just because you are not supermodel material doesn't mean your ugly. Most supermodels can't get along with guys. Either they are too demanding or the guys are way to jealous. 25 Is still young get out with a bunch of friends go to the park and other places you might find guys (except nightclubs most and many are not long lasting relationships) Do something that might interests guys. Talk about yourself to them how great you are at arhery or something (not so much I do this and I do that, but Yeah I like that maybe we can go try it together otherwise you might sound concecded). Just get out there. Go to the mall and get a face makeover. Wear more tailored clothing and less tshirts and blue jeans. I love shopping at Ann Taylor. That is where I go for my clothing. Try that and see what happens.
YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN EXPECT ANY MAN TO LOVE YOU.
NO WONDER WE CANT SEE UR PICTURE! YOU COULD HAV AT LEAST GOTTEN AN UGLY AVATAR ANYWAYS YOU ARE VERY INSECURE! THERE ARE NO UGLY WOMEN ONLY WOMEN WHO DONT KNOW HOW TO FIX THEMSELVES PROPERLY! ONCE YOU GAIN CONFIDENCE IT WOULD BE A DIFFERENT STORY BUT IF YOU FEEL BAD FOR YOURSELF EVERYONE ELSE WILL PITTY YOU!
I'm sure you are not ugly, everyone is pretty in there own way.
I don't know where you are from or what you do or don't do.
But, are you happy with yourself? If you are start looking in new places to meet someone. There is someone out there for you.
If you aren't I would suggest to start going to a gym. It will help you and you might meet someone there. You could join weightwatchers and go to their meetings, you may meet someone there also. Single guys go to both places and possibly for the same reasons as you. I'm not trying to insult you in any way I just think those 2 examples would be a good way to meet someone. Just little things like that may help you to meet someone.
Hope this was helpful!!
Meet guys %26amp; put out... Try anal and don't forget to swallow when you give a BJ.
He will love you.
Or meet a black guy. They like white women.
you wont, I think you don't know how lucky you are my dear. patience is a virtue, with it you'll find him
I may be wrong here, but it seems to me that you are looking for a guy in all the wrong places. Try going somewhere different for a change. Weight and looks are not everything. It is a person's personality that sets them apart from the rest. Whatever you do don't try to be someone that you're not just to get a guy to like you. There is no guy in the world worth that.
I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.
I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.
Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.
:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
hi dear
God has created everyone, if u say urself ugly means u r insulting god, Dont give the control of ur life to others, Just live ur life normally %26amp; be urself, just wait 4 the rite time, god knows wat to do %26amp; when to do .
MIND IT '; PATIENTS PAYS THE BEST';Advice for an ugly girl?
pray and ask god daily to soften your heart. ask god to bring u a person who will care for u trust ya self love ya self. put god first.
Relax and be patient! Somewhere out there is a man who will love you for who you are! And believe me, that's the BEST kind of love!!
Men are superficial...what you have to do if you don't want to be alone is find a guy who is unsure of his appearance like you are....they tend not to be such big jerks so you might find happiness there.
BTW...ugly is as ugly does. You're not ugly as far as I can hear.
I used to overweight 2 thus i know how u feel. Try to shed some weight off, u'll love the new u. There is nothing wrong with u but being overweight will drop the % of u getting the guy u really want. If u're not going to shed the extras then u got to wait for sometime before some guy tell u that he is interested in u.
It sounds like you are not happy with yourself. I suggust you do something about that. Change your hair, buy new clothes, loose weight. Really make some changes outwardly about yourself. Your content with yourself inwardly. Now work on the outside. But do this for yourself and no one else.
Everyone is unique, you have to learn to love yourself...because if you dont love you, you cant expect anyone else too, you should try some gentle exercise it is better than no exercise...also look at the food you eat, is it healthy or just fattening...trust me once you start looking after yourself you will feel so much better about yourself, and this will radiate, and men will notice, but you need to concerntrate on yourself before any man, and with time, at the right time someone will come into your life, but you have to be comfortable with yourself first. Good Luck.
Don't feel like you are the only one who has ever gone through this. I was the same way and was evensettled in my mind that i would be alone forever and when i was not even looking any more someone found me. I didn't find them. You might consider asking some of your guy friends for advice on what they might be looking for in a woman. Best of luck to you!
awwwww.... Great question to ask your female friends. Have them all get together and tell them how you feel. They can all pitch in on giving you a makeover, suggesting things you might want to change, fashion tips, hair, working out with them at a local gym etc. Thats what friends are for.
Best of luck sweetie!
Is there anything other then time and effort preventing you from having a great body, and good hair?
Trust us, a woman with a fantastic body, nice hair needs some pretty bad facial deformity to not get some attention.
Of course, attention doesn't mean a relationship. But its hard to find the love of your life if you're not dating anyone.
Dont be so sad, you might get a good partner, who will like you as a person and not just yr looks. dont evr think you have any problem, first of all start loving yourself then only anybody else will love you. LOVE
It's not you. It is society. Everyone thinks you have to be thin and beautiful, have you met those girls?! Most of them are horrible people! You have to go out into the world with confidence. If you don't have it, fake it! I've seen 300 lb women out in the clubs with thongs showing dancing their butts off. People see that they are confident within themselves and will talk to them. (I am by no means telling you to go out to a club with a thong showing! I don't think ANYONE should do that!)
Give yourself time, your future is waiting for you to realize the beautiful woman that you are!
Find someone uglier than you, like Sloth from the Goonies.
Before you want someone to love you. You have to love yourself first.
You must be a white girl. Black girls at this stage would have at least had a boyfriend or two. Do yourself a favor, buy a rap cd, watch BET, dress better and then you will find a man.
Hon, there's nothing wrong with you. It's everybody else. Maybe the right guy just simply hasn't come along yet. If you want to find someone ';right now'; then you may want to try eharmony.com or just go out and meet people. Hope you find a great guy!
Stop saying that you are ugly. I am sure that nothings wrong, just wait. The best things come to those that wait. Looks and size shouldn't matter, its what inside.
hun, its ok.. trust me! i know exactly where you coming from. you just have to be patient. my cousin was 27 before he got his first girlfriend, and shes 9 years younger than him. yea shes a ***** but he loves her, so you just have to wait for that someone to come along a accept you for who you are
let me tell something...
the problem is not in your weight coz you can work out if you want, even the slim girls can gain weight.
don't you ever consider your self ugly, be self confident and try to meet other friends for change
what do you need now is to change, you need some change in your life starting from now. try to find out how by yourself without asking any one, coz u know what do you need more than any one.
I wish to you the best :)
send me a pic baby tvman30044@yahoo.com
try going to church, or better yet the internet
First of all, don't see yourself as doomed to be ugly and lonely because if you do, that is what you will communicate to others. Women I have observed who are very popular with both men and women aren't necessarily the most attractive but they are women who have learned to do the best with what they have; have developed interests so that they are interesting and have learned the art of focusing attention on others. First of all; why don't you get a good hairstyle and get some advice on using makeup effectively. Invest in some well fitting and attractive clothing; for this you may want to enlist the help of a professional or a stylish friend. These things are just the starting points to help you become more confident. Then you have to put yourself out there in order to meet people. Think of a course you would like to learn or maybe some interest group you would like to join. By engaging in activities that are fun, you are bound to meet others and from there, I am sure you will attract many people. Counteracting lonliness means being proactive; it means planning ahead and it means making some real efforts and changes. good luck!
Here are some beauty tips to consider:
1. Your hair is your crowning glory, make sure it is well done.
2. You need to get some advise as to what method can be used for your weight loss. Visit a gym and seek advise.
3. Your body is the temple of God, so you should keep it sacred until you find your sole mate.
4. Dress to impress, wear clothes that will make you look beautiful.
5. If you cannot afford to pay for a facial, do it yourself. Buy the scrub, cleanser, toner, and mask, something that will not cause you to break out.
6. In order to be beautiful, you have to think beautiful because God made us in his own image and likeness. Start saying ';I am beautiful and wonderfully made in Christ Jesus.';
7. In all things we have to acknowledge Christ as our Lord and Savior, so pray for that self confidence.
The power of positive thinking will help you along the way to being and looking beautiful.
Love you beautiful.
You have to get out there..Join a dating service, a bowling league, a travel club, etc Something that will get you to meet new people. You might even have some fun along the way. Then lose some weight and work on your appearance.
one thing that I have observed is guys don't like girls who are insecure. Maybe you think your not but you could come across as being that way. You don't need to be cocky but don't put yourself down and stand with your shoulders square and lift you chin up. posture is very important. I don't consider myself drop dead gorgeous or beautiful. Some times I think I am down right Ugly. But I know better. just because you are not supermodel material doesn't mean your ugly. Most supermodels can't get along with guys. Either they are too demanding or the guys are way to jealous. 25 Is still young get out with a bunch of friends go to the park and other places you might find guys (except nightclubs most and many are not long lasting relationships) Do something that might interests guys. Talk about yourself to them how great you are at arhery or something (not so much I do this and I do that, but Yeah I like that maybe we can go try it together otherwise you might sound concecded). Just get out there. Go to the mall and get a face makeover. Wear more tailored clothing and less tshirts and blue jeans. I love shopping at Ann Taylor. That is where I go for my clothing. Try that and see what happens.
YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN EXPECT ANY MAN TO LOVE YOU.
NO WONDER WE CANT SEE UR PICTURE! YOU COULD HAV AT LEAST GOTTEN AN UGLY AVATAR ANYWAYS YOU ARE VERY INSECURE! THERE ARE NO UGLY WOMEN ONLY WOMEN WHO DONT KNOW HOW TO FIX THEMSELVES PROPERLY! ONCE YOU GAIN CONFIDENCE IT WOULD BE A DIFFERENT STORY BUT IF YOU FEEL BAD FOR YOURSELF EVERYONE ELSE WILL PITTY YOU!
I'm sure you are not ugly, everyone is pretty in there own way.
I don't know where you are from or what you do or don't do.
But, are you happy with yourself? If you are start looking in new places to meet someone. There is someone out there for you.
If you aren't I would suggest to start going to a gym. It will help you and you might meet someone there. You could join weightwatchers and go to their meetings, you may meet someone there also. Single guys go to both places and possibly for the same reasons as you. I'm not trying to insult you in any way I just think those 2 examples would be a good way to meet someone. Just little things like that may help you to meet someone.
Hope this was helpful!!
Meet guys %26amp; put out... Try anal and don't forget to swallow when you give a BJ.
He will love you.
Or meet a black guy. They like white women.
you wont, I think you don't know how lucky you are my dear. patience is a virtue, with it you'll find him
I may be wrong here, but it seems to me that you are looking for a guy in all the wrong places. Try going somewhere different for a change. Weight and looks are not everything. It is a person's personality that sets them apart from the rest. Whatever you do don't try to be someone that you're not just to get a guy to like you. There is no guy in the world worth that.
What advice do you have for an american girl moving to london???
Beware of YOBSWhat advice do you have for an american girl moving to london???
Don't tell them you're from America. Say you're from Canada. They'll like you more.What advice do you have for an american girl moving to london???
I have to reiterate some of the other answers here. Some Americans have ruined things for the rest of us by giving the impression that we're all constantly loud, lazy, obnoxious, drunk, etc. when we travel to Europe. (Of course, I've seen some Brits do the same thing in Prague.)
Websites like gumtree and craigslist are great ways to find jobs, lodging, even activity buddies, which can help you get a network of friends going before you even arrive.
Make sure you have plenty of money saved and a planned budget so you don't run out before you can get a decent job. Depending on where you're from, everything is about twice as expensive there as it is at home.
If you don't have a work visa and don't plan on getting one, you'll be limited to bartending or babysitting jobs. Check out some Au Pair websites and post a resume, you could get free room and board as well as a weekly salary with some families.
Try to make yourself aware of any cultural differences before you go over to save yourself from unpleasantness. I come from a very small Texas (no, I'm NOT a Bush supporter) town where everyone knows everyone else's business. We have a tendency to make eye contact and smile at people, even strangers, as we go about our daily routine. Londoners don't do that. Don't expect to make small talk with the checkout person at Sainsbury's or the girl in front of you waiting for the restroom at a club, it just doesn't happen. They're not being rude, it's just their culture.
I really hope you enjoy your time in London. If I could marry a city, London would be the one for me. There's so much that's great about it that you should take advantage of.
Hey american girl,
I'm an australian girl whose recently moved to London. My advice if you are moving alone, is find a share house - ww.gumtree.com has loads of people looking for flatmates, and it's the best way to start meeting people. For fun, Camden is great for an indie/alternative sort of place with loads of great bars and pubs (barfly is awesome). Angel/Shoreditch/Farringdon are all very trendy and have great bars and restaurants. If you're into clubbing, 'The Cross' and 'Fabric' are two great nightclubs (you'd have to be a serious clubber, though)..
Good luck!
make yourself available, you never know who you may meet
Don't talk loudly and tell everyone how much bigger and better everything is in the USA. That's the only thing I find annoying about Americans, especially when they say it on the underground tube where there is an unwritten rule that you don't speak loudly or talk on mobile phones - its like a library or church!
have a good time.
Have a great time. You only live once. See everything there is to see. I love it there and would love to move. But hubby loves it in the states. Maybe one day we can be so lucky to move back to where he is from.
Of course you'll have to learn the language.
Don't tell them you're from America. Say you're from Canada. They'll like you more.What advice do you have for an american girl moving to london???
I have to reiterate some of the other answers here. Some Americans have ruined things for the rest of us by giving the impression that we're all constantly loud, lazy, obnoxious, drunk, etc. when we travel to Europe. (Of course, I've seen some Brits do the same thing in Prague.)
Websites like gumtree and craigslist are great ways to find jobs, lodging, even activity buddies, which can help you get a network of friends going before you even arrive.
Make sure you have plenty of money saved and a planned budget so you don't run out before you can get a decent job. Depending on where you're from, everything is about twice as expensive there as it is at home.
If you don't have a work visa and don't plan on getting one, you'll be limited to bartending or babysitting jobs. Check out some Au Pair websites and post a resume, you could get free room and board as well as a weekly salary with some families.
Try to make yourself aware of any cultural differences before you go over to save yourself from unpleasantness. I come from a very small Texas (no, I'm NOT a Bush supporter) town where everyone knows everyone else's business. We have a tendency to make eye contact and smile at people, even strangers, as we go about our daily routine. Londoners don't do that. Don't expect to make small talk with the checkout person at Sainsbury's or the girl in front of you waiting for the restroom at a club, it just doesn't happen. They're not being rude, it's just their culture.
I really hope you enjoy your time in London. If I could marry a city, London would be the one for me. There's so much that's great about it that you should take advantage of.
Hey american girl,
I'm an australian girl whose recently moved to London. My advice if you are moving alone, is find a share house - ww.gumtree.com has loads of people looking for flatmates, and it's the best way to start meeting people. For fun, Camden is great for an indie/alternative sort of place with loads of great bars and pubs (barfly is awesome). Angel/Shoreditch/Farringdon are all very trendy and have great bars and restaurants. If you're into clubbing, 'The Cross' and 'Fabric' are two great nightclubs (you'd have to be a serious clubber, though)..
Good luck!
make yourself available, you never know who you may meet
Don't talk loudly and tell everyone how much bigger and better everything is in the USA. That's the only thing I find annoying about Americans, especially when they say it on the underground tube where there is an unwritten rule that you don't speak loudly or talk on mobile phones - its like a library or church!
have a good time.
Have a great time. You only live once. See everything there is to see. I love it there and would love to move. But hubby loves it in the states. Maybe one day we can be so lucky to move back to where he is from.
Of course you'll have to learn the language.
ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
I met this girl on the internet during school vacations and we chat for hours and it turns out that I have her this girl for a class, then I thought, now I can talk to her, and ask her out but the problem is that once we are in class she's always with her friends, and I'm a shy guy so I feel weird talking to her when her friends are always by her side I still chat with her on the internet but once we're in class it's a different story she ignores me, she just says ';hi'; and that's about it, sometimes I've tried talking to her but everytime I get near she walks faster on purpose, sometimes I look at her and she smiles with me and I smile back, but i'm confused does she like me or is she shy like I am or is she just playing with me, i like this girl but I can i know what she really wants with me? should I just move on or try to approach her Advice please Thanks for your help!ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
Well, if she has not chatted with you in five days she might be trying to tell you something there or she simply hasn't had time or something. From what I could tell, you are not so shy when you're on line so why don't you try sending her a message asking her what is going on? Maybe you could try asking her how she feels about you, but at the same time keep on the lowdown what it is you feel. In other words don't just come right out and say ';hey I really like you'; because she might not feel the same and you'll end up feeling a bit silly. Anyway, my point is that the best thing to do is talk to her. If it's hard to do so in person then do it online, where you feel more comfortable.ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
You know it can be alot of things. She could also be very shy, but seriously if she chatted with you for hours that can't be it since she should be somewhat friendlier.
But with the ';walking faster'; thing, she could be trying to ignore you for some reason. If she's shy, then thats like aggressively shy lol. To just come to a conclusion, i'd ask her about it and see what she says. Because you never know, it could be another reason. =P
You said that you talk to her on the internet, so why not talk to her about the way you feel and also tell her if she can't be nice enough to you when you are in public then you will move on. I bet you will see a change in her. Good luck
Just back off a bit, in class and on the internet. She'll start to think you're rejecting her, and girls hate to be rejected. Be nice to her still, but if you know she's loking at you, purposely don't look back, and when she write you on the internet only talk for a few min's and then come up with an excuse to leave. If she doesn't start to initiate conversations with you then, ou can assume she's not interested.
That's a sad story, I think she just want to be your friend, I mean if I do that, I would want that person to never chat with me again. I know you might not pick me as your best answer but this is reality. Do whatever you want, I just want to tell you the truth~
She sounds like she is just as shy as you say you are. That's probably all it is, but you'd think she'd try to put in some sort of effort to talk more with you in person. I understand your frustration but y'all are just young and probably a little immature and inexperienced. Just tell her how you feel, in person if possible. If not, then do it online when you chat next time. Sometimes it's easier to communicate through the written word but in person, it's a whole different story with some people. It's just shyness. If she's still chatting with you online and she smiles at you, then she probably still likes you. Talk to her and good luck...
She proablly doesnt like you like that... sorry to tell you. Move on, find another girl to like, and show her your not stuck on her.
OR you can approach her when all her friends are around and talk to her and show her that your not affraid, but then you take the risk of all her friends making fun of you...
your choice... GOOD LUCK!
victor of pierce m.s., milton????
Well, if she has not chatted with you in five days she might be trying to tell you something there or she simply hasn't had time or something. From what I could tell, you are not so shy when you're on line so why don't you try sending her a message asking her what is going on? Maybe you could try asking her how she feels about you, but at the same time keep on the lowdown what it is you feel. In other words don't just come right out and say ';hey I really like you'; because she might not feel the same and you'll end up feeling a bit silly. Anyway, my point is that the best thing to do is talk to her. If it's hard to do so in person then do it online, where you feel more comfortable.ADVICE PLEASE!!! with this girl I like?
You know it can be alot of things. She could also be very shy, but seriously if she chatted with you for hours that can't be it since she should be somewhat friendlier.
But with the ';walking faster'; thing, she could be trying to ignore you for some reason. If she's shy, then thats like aggressively shy lol. To just come to a conclusion, i'd ask her about it and see what she says. Because you never know, it could be another reason. =P
You said that you talk to her on the internet, so why not talk to her about the way you feel and also tell her if she can't be nice enough to you when you are in public then you will move on. I bet you will see a change in her. Good luck
Just back off a bit, in class and on the internet. She'll start to think you're rejecting her, and girls hate to be rejected. Be nice to her still, but if you know she's loking at you, purposely don't look back, and when she write you on the internet only talk for a few min's and then come up with an excuse to leave. If she doesn't start to initiate conversations with you then, ou can assume she's not interested.
That's a sad story, I think she just want to be your friend, I mean if I do that, I would want that person to never chat with me again. I know you might not pick me as your best answer but this is reality. Do whatever you want, I just want to tell you the truth~
She sounds like she is just as shy as you say you are. That's probably all it is, but you'd think she'd try to put in some sort of effort to talk more with you in person. I understand your frustration but y'all are just young and probably a little immature and inexperienced. Just tell her how you feel, in person if possible. If not, then do it online when you chat next time. Sometimes it's easier to communicate through the written word but in person, it's a whole different story with some people. It's just shyness. If she's still chatting with you online and she smiles at you, then she probably still likes you. Talk to her and good luck...
She proablly doesnt like you like that... sorry to tell you. Move on, find another girl to like, and show her your not stuck on her.
OR you can approach her when all her friends are around and talk to her and show her that your not affraid, but then you take the risk of all her friends making fun of you...
your choice... GOOD LUCK!
victor of pierce m.s., milton????
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