Advice for an ugly girl?

hi everyone! i'm 25, single, and i never had a boyfriend before, ever! I am not good looking, i will say slightly below average, i'm slightly overweight, say about 110%.. just a little more then average. =)





I feel really lonely, my friends are all getting married, and i kept on waiting, i wish someone will love me like everyone else. I want to be attatch but no guys like me. I don't know what is wrong with me, i really have no clue. I feel so lost and depressed now but i try my best not to show it.





I consider myself a friendly person, i do have guy friends but they are just not interested in me romantically.





Someone please tell me what is wrong with me. I don't wish to end up single, and alone.





:'(Advice for an ugly girl?
Sweetheart... you are only 25.... and there is no such thing as an ugly person...





Please speak to your doctor and tell him how you feel...





You don't need advice from strangers like us on the internet....





Good luckAdvice for an ugly girl?
well when you feel sad and lonely just dont let it eat at you, cause if you do it will make you look that much worse. so what u do is just start talking to guys you like and just have fun with them and stay friend for a while untill yall get close to each other. and dont worry bout other people and just worry bout you and ur life just take ur time and eventually ull find someone just start talking to them and ull eventually find one!!!! and never call your self ugly because nobodys ugly, its just what people think and if you think ur cute then dont worry bout others
1st of all you need to build up your confidence more. Just because your big doesn't mean you can't get a man. Haven't you seen that commercial Big and Beautiful and what about Monique who plays on the Parkers on TV. Maybe you should watch her show and she can give you some in-site on how to carry yourself as a big woman BUT BEAUTIFUL. It's all about how you feel about yourself. When you walk you should hold your head up, stick your breast out and swagger those hips and legs girl. Work it like you mean it! It's all in your mind! Say to yourself ';I'm not going to be depressed'; ';I am not fat!'; ';I am the bomb, and everyone else is a firecracker!'; I love that one! It's my favorite! Start dressing with swanky dresses, heels, make-up (not too much) and don't forget the walk. SWAGGER! Like the world is yours! Let me know how it goes in a week! Just click on my name Curlycute and we'll do this together!
Get some self esteem. Drop a few pounds and go shopping. He will find you soon enough.
have you tried church social groups or activities, people of faith tend to see the beauty of a person that is deeper than the skin, good luck dear.
AT LEAST YOU ARE HONEST WITH YOURSELF BUT THE THING WITH THAT IS YOU ARE LETTING IT SHOW. IF YOU FEEL IT DON'T LET IT SHOW. THEY ONLY SEE WHAT YOU SHOW THE YOU SEE. YOU CAN BE THE UGLIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD BUT HAVE THAT SELF ESTEEM AND GREAT PERSONALITY AND YOU WILL HAVE WHO AND WHAT YOU NEED IN THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE VERY SOON. TRUST ME I USE TO FEEL THE SAME WAY AND I TELL YOU WHEN YOU PUT GOD IN THE BEGINNING OF EVERYTHING YOU DO HE WILL WORK A MIRACLE AND I CAN TELL YOU I AM HAPPIER THAN EVER...
It doesn't have anything to do with your looks hun. Don't you notice the severe amount of ugly people walking around with a significant other. And I mean really ugly. Not just a little over weight. People are attracted to your attitude. I had cancer when I was four, the right side of my face is slightly different than the left. My bone structure is off and my right eye is a little deformed, looks like I've got a major black eye and it's always bright red cuz I don't have tear ducts. And although I've had my share of jerks over the years for the most part if I don't care they don't care. The key is to not care. That's it. Just don't care what people think. If someone is going to have a problem with the way that you look then they are not worth knowing in the first place. A guy is going to be attracted to your attitude. If you are depressed and you feel that you aren't good enough to attract anyone then you won't. You can't wait either. You have to take control of your life and make something of it for yourself. You can't spend the rest of your life waiting on someone else because then you will be waiting forever. It's so much easier said than done isn't it? But you have got to overcome some things if you don't wish to spend a life alone. Have you tried online dating? Not to decieve people or anything. But then you can get to know someone without the worries of what they might think of you physically. Let someone get to know the real you first. This is more for you than them. You might feel more comfortable. I promise you that guys are not put off by your looks, they are put off my your lack of confidence. Work on that and you will see that it works. Maybe not right away but it will.
be patient :)


..............if you can :)





Don't worry about being fat. That doesn't matter. There are PLENTY of fat AND ugly women who are married :-) And they all found partners and have beautiful children.





your time will come :-) enjoy your freedom for now - soon enough you will be longing for time alone :-)
I'll give you some tips. First of all, try to go for slimming programs, this will boost your sexyness. Second,try to use sparkling glittering lipsticks. And finally, dress like a princess.





If you have done all this, your man will come to you. Trust me.
Believe it or not, you are not alone. There are people all over this planet that feel lonely, unloved, and depressed. This does not, however, afflict only people with ';below average'; looks (which is defined ONLY by the standards of the society in which you live. Who's to say what's beautiful and what's ugly?). Loneliness is no respector of persons. The fact that you are posting this question says to me that there is an issue on the inside of you, not on the outside. Here's my advice. Find something that you are absolutely passionate about - singing, writing, cooking, animals, whatever - and pursue that with your whole heart. Don't even worry about the opposite sex. Let yourself become excellent at whatever that passion is. You will build crazy amounts of self confidence, and the more confidence you have the more you will love yourself. That's just the beginning. More than likely, as you go about your daily business and pursuing whatever passion you decide, you will meet someone along the way is just enamored with you - you will be, of course, a confident, motivated woman - which is oh-so-much more attractive than anything physical. Trust me. He'll love you no matter what you do or don't look like. Is any of this a gaurantee? Well, nothing is, unfortunately. But what IS matter-of-fact, however, is that you need some self-confidence. There is nothing in the world more attractive than that... and I have a hunch that once the inside is taken care of, the outside will begin to match how great you feel.
lol! you seem like you have a great sense of humour!!! if only it wernt shadowed by this lonliness you have.


if you are really REALLY down i would consider going to the Doc's and getting some anti-deppresents





Go out with friends! get yourself all done up!! go and chat some men up!!! :oP it will build your confidence towards men, if they aint interested well, on to the next! you aint gonna see them again are ya!!





You seem to have a great personality if you put that across a bit more you will get many men interested in you that you will have to whack em back with a stick!! lol :oP





Honestly! just go out have fun! chat loads and dont give a f*ck!!!





Debs xXx
Well you cant act lonely and depressed that wont make them come. You need to have better self esteem before people will start to notice you. Do you go out at all? Buy some new clothes and hit the club!
It is not always a looks thing you know, personality is just as important. Lets face it who wants to have a relationship with a person who has no personality, is just mean, selfish or miserable all the time.


Firstly, get fit a be happy with yourself and then start socialising it will all come together if you get it right and keep meeting people. Go on a singles holiday too.
~~~The right guy hasnt come along yet, when he does, he will accept you for the person that you are, you will look beautiful to him.





Sometimes a little change will cause people to look at us differently.~ Work on your self esteem, loose a little weight, (do it for YOU) buy yourself a new outfit, dress in layers, flattering clothing for the fuller figure, try a new hair style, a little make-up that will enhance your eyes, and that new shirt you happen to be wearing. Just have fun with it.





There really are guys out there who arent shallow, in the mean time, feel good about yourself!~~~
Oh, honey. Email me. How dare you say something like that about yourself. You will be able to date and do all the things that the rest of us do. Relax and breathe. Ask the universe to give you love, bounty or whatever or even in your prayers. Be comfortable with yourself first or the dating will not happen. Just accept that it is what it is, whatever you think that is in a positive way and it will work it self out I promise.


cheers
Have you tried any of those online dating sites? They are always a good start. Overall, I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure the right guy is out there for you and will make his way into your life when the time is right.
hi don't worry about ur beauty u will definitely will get a Boy friend u liked there are some persons who look internal beauty(heart) than Outer beauty so my adice is do not think that u are not beautiful u think that ua re a good women with a carrying heart LOL All the best
There's no such thing as an ugly person... There is someone out there for all of us... Just keep yourself neat and clean and well groomed and it will happen... Try getting out and about more in places and events that you can mingle with a large group... increase your possibilities of meeting someone... If you are just waiting at home... it ain't gonna happen... Be proud of who you are and show it... That is attractive to many people... Just don't give in and give up...
Honey, there's nothing wrong with you. Widen your horizons. Get a penpal through Christion Singles and let someone get to know you before trying to meet them.
your calling your self ungly thats whats wrong with you
It's all in how you present yourself and your personality that shines through to men...get out there after practicing a great smile and just be happy! This will attract a guy to you!!





Good Luck!!
your prince charming is out there and it will happen when you least expect it
Theres nothing wrong with you. Theres only so much you can do, just be your self, if possible fix yourself up. Lose some weight for health issues, being obesit is not healthy.





One day, that special guy will come along. You know what they say ';Good things come to those who wait.';
there is nothing wrong with you. we all have felt or will feel this way sometime. get your self confidence up and get out there. try going to places not in your town and you just might find mr.right waiting. and dont rush into the whole marriage thing being single can be gr8 too:)
SWEETHART ..THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU JUST KEEP LOOKING.DONT BE SAD WE ALL GO TRU THAT WE FEEL THERE WILL NEVER BE ANYONE TO LOVE US ... SOMETIMES IT TAKES TIME..
u have a really low self esteem about your self don't sau ur ulgy because if u was god would not have brought u in this would all his kids are suttible but maybe if u change around ur friends try to shaope up and go make new friends u would be fine i wish you luck well good luck erika
First you have to believe that you are not ugly... Everyone on this Earth is not a dime-piece or wuteva... Some of the girls that I see peolple like is not all that pretty to me. but they got someone because they believe that they can... It doens't matter how dark, big, skinny, light you are... there's someone out there for you. Just believe
you need some self esteem.
Start getting slutty. Guys like slutty girls
the first thing you have to do is be happy with you. if that means lose weight, then do it, if it means a new hair style %26amp; make over do it, then go out and meet new people. tell your friends you are looking, and have them set you up. join a bowling or pool league, or join a new chuch group. somewhere out there is a great guy looking for you. go find him.
haf u tried speed dating? u should if u have not !!