Any advice for a confused girl?

i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and its been great. about 4months in to our relationship he told me that after we had been together for 3weeks he had kissed another girl. i was devastated, but seeing as he had told me and felt very guilty i took him back. we broke up for a bit in january but got back together within a couple of months and everything was going fine. we have definitely had our fair share of ups and downs and come close to breaking up a couple times, but always decide that we want to stay together. But last week we went on a break and he told me that whilst on this break he went on a date with another girl, and this crushed me!! he swore that nothing happened on the date and he wished he never went as he realised how much i meant to him! He was even in floods of tears as i was telling him that i didnt know what to do. I still love him but im very confused about what to do! he says that he has really grown up now and realises what we have! any advice?Any advice for a confused girl?
These questions are almost impossible to answer from another persons perspective, I would say if you really love him you should take him back. I mean him going on a date isn't that big of a deal you were both apart, but on the other hand it could show how little he cares about you. I would just have to say do what your gut tells you to.Any advice for a confused girl?
this pattern will continue.


The question is?? how much longer will you be willing to accept it.
How many mistakes is he allowed to make before you realise he is making a fool of you,everything bad he has done involves other girls,much as you love him and i am sure he loves you too you deserve better,love is not enough if mutual respect and trust dont come along with it,end it and move on you will find life alot easier without all of this turbulance.
my advice take him bac


guys dont cry unless they rlly mean it


so just take im bac sounds like u guys r made for each other
He sounds like he is creating drama because he enjoys it. The thing you need to decide is if you want to have a life like this if you decide to get married can you live like this? Because you cannot change him he is the only one that can change his behavior and if he is still hurting you he does not want to change. I don't know why he is telling you about all his dates with others. He might be doing it to make himself feel better if he tells you and you stay with him he has cleared his conscience and laid the load on you to carry. That load will get heavier and heavier are you sure you want to carry around that heavy load? You sound like a person that deserves to be treated better but you get to make the decision my advice is ask yourself can I be happy with things the way they are or am I thinking I could be so happy if I could change that. Every couple has their problems but if you start out with trust issues they only get worse.
hon when your relationship is up and down and other girls get involved it really is time to think what is best for you, cause you are the one that is hurting............. you know within yourself that the right thing to do is to move on..........
Oh my, you need to go out and start doing your own thing..... , move on with your life. , IT';S NOT WORTH IT. I know it will hurt, but time heals. . You deserve better than that. Let go of the past, andmove to the present. Though you will have tough days. It's no tougher than knowing your boyfriend of 1 years constantly has dated another girl. In which probablly has you running in circles. Do yourself a favor and get out of it now. You are better than that!! ; )
ok if hes done it twice he WILL do it again. Leave him and get someone else. He wants you always cause its when he has no one else but i bet that when he finds another girl, you wil be dropped so very fast.
follow your heart love is not easy if you guys are really meant to be together things will work out in the end.
i do think that you should leave him now. if you two were really meant for each other, destiny will work things out for the two of you. leaving him is a way of testing his love and loyalty to you. and this will be a great time to think things over again. cheer up, have a good time, and give yourself ample time to heal. ok? ;p
I quess now its time for your break,ok
In most cases i find myself sayin get rid of the guy he's no good. I feel like you shoud give him another chance. Follow your heart. But becarful. good luck
how many times does this make? He wil never change get married have a couple of kids and he still wont change.........if he is doing it now and you keep taking him back you are telling him that no matter what he does it is ok and your always going to be there for him to fall back on. Dont get caught up in it more than you already are men are out there that will not cheat and if he says nothing happened you can bet if it hasnt it will someday and are you really going to want to take him back after he has slept with someone else? You wil drive yourself crazy wondering where he is what or who hes doing and if you call and he doesnt answer the thoughts can drive you insane. That is not the life you want to live. I promise.
End it. Simple as that. He will never stop doing this to you. Cheaters cheat. If you love yourself, let him go. Take some time to heal, and try again.





Also trust was shattered, and relationships not built on trust are not really relationships at all. Just one long painful doubt.
aww sweety! take sum time to think abot what u want, if u think u guys can try again then go 4 it, sounds as if this guy of urs realizes he made a mistake..can u forgive??? ...and forget??? if not then dont put urself through any more heartache ..follow ur heart and do what ever feels right for u...best of luck ..hope u end of happy!! u deserve it x