Advice - are you a girl?

This is a two part question.





When a girl says, ';I'm not ready to have a boyfriend right now.'; That is bull, right? It just means she doesn't like me but doesn't realize saying that hurts even more because I know she's lying.





Second part is....does a girl need to be told if a guy likes her? Or should it just happen. I've had a few girls tell me that they don't need to be told or else it's weird, but this last girl I lose said I should have told her sooner that I liked her.





Anyway, just let me know what you think, but don't be a bi***, I already feel dumb as it is.Advice - are you a girl?
part one: not all of it means bull. maybe she isnt.. maybe she just got out of a bad relationship.. it could mean various reasons.. but it can also mean shes lying..uninterested





part two: depends.. show that ur interested, be flirty. not all girls need guys to tell them he likes her. i personally dont like it.. its too shocking in some cases.. i think flirting and showing ur interested it the best way to go.Advice - are you a girl?
Well first off if you want sincere answers I don't think it's in your best interest to say ';but don't be a *****';.





ALL girls are different, some girls need to be told, some don't. Some may not like the guy so they tell them they are not ready for a relationship. Some just may not want to be tired down at the moment.





Normally if you know the girl well enough you can tell what she means. When in doubt, just come out and say how you feel.
When a girl says that she mite have just had a bad relationship and is not ready for a new one yet or lyk she said she just mite not be ready at the moment even if she does lyk you


If the time is right then i say you shuld tell the girl but if the time is bad it might be awkward for example if lots of people are around she might feel weird if you told her then


hope this helped
when a girl says ';im not ready to have a boyfriend right now'; haha yeah its just a poliet way of saying i dont like you.





it depends on the move the guy makes. some people like for it to just happen but they wouldnt be sure if you really like them in that way.
Don't feel dumb, some people are just beotches. If a chick says she's not ready to date then no, she's not into you, but don't feel stupid for trying as women like guys to make the moves most of the time and just cause she's not into you doesn't mean the next gal wont be. Generally you shouldn't have to tell someone you like them you should just feel chemistry with them. Be patient it'll happen. It's just as hard for a girl to say 'sorry I'm not into you' as it is for a guy to lay it on the line and say he likes her. I would refrain from telling chicks you like them though as that could lead to awkward moments. Most people can tell when they're liked I think, and if not...just keep hinting.
NO ! It's not Bull !


No she doesn't need to be told when a guy likes her !


When girls and boys like each other they get on happily together without anyone asking or saying anything .


You cannot just push yourself onto girls you fancy . Try to relax about , it be friendly with girls with whom you have something in common . You slightly give the impression , that girlfriends are for kissing , cuddling and getting a leg over . if you take that hasty approach you will get a few rebuffs . Girls too , have the right to choose a boy whom they like and feel comfortable with .
well yes, because even if u dnt want a BF but u like the person then u just go 4 it. you dntr stop and think ';hmmm but i dnt want a BF';


2nd dnt tell her u like her in a weird way, just drop hints here and there, we like that. but WE LOVE MEN WHO PLAY HARD TO GET and are kind of asses! it just makes it better.
Well from personal experience when i don't want to go out with a guy i say i'm not ready to have a boyfriend right now so yea it is bull and YES you need to tell a girl you like her don't just keep her wondering becos girls don't like to make the first move .
first part*if she says she isnt ready its probably half true what i feel it means is she likes you BUT there is someone else she may be a little bit more interested in or she is still gettin over an ex or her and her ex are trying to get back together either case the im not ready line is jus an excuse for no u cant be my boyfriend





second part*yes a gurl needs to be told if a guy likes her women love when guys compliment them men you cant do it enough
to the both of your question, actually, it depends..





1st- sometimes it is becos she doesn't like u.. but, sometimes, maybe she is really not ready to have bf rite now.. maybe it's due to her feelings or condition on that time..


u can't really know unless u really sure bout that..





2nd- usually, a girl have 2 be told if u like her.. this is for making sure if u really like her.. if u really wanna be official couple.. u can't just expect people 2 read your mind, couldn't u..





well, that's what i think..
um its all depends.
It really depends. If you like a guy, you want him to tell you, but if you don't like him (and are really good friends), you don't want him to tell you. Yes, it probably hurts having a girl lie to you, but its hard for her too. She would feel bad saying that she just doesn't like you, but that is no excuse for her to lie to you. I'm sorry that this happened.
Well if your actions are not speaking louder than your words than you ougt to work on a better approach. Women need to feel a sense of being needed or wanted. If its cold she will interpret that as you not really being into her.
okay i know us girl can be confusing and it defentally helps if you tell a girl that you like them cause if not they wont know and the only stupid one is the girls who told you not to tell thats crap and they are not to smart. Some times when we say we arent ready to have a boyfriend yet we are trying not to hurt the guys feelings cause we might just want to be friend but now that you say that i can see how it might hurt worse. Im glad i know that now well good luck with every thing! :)


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Please don't feel dumb. ';I'm not ready for a boyfriend'; may mean just that (may be overwhelmed with other stuff, may be getting over a bf...) or it may be a nice blow off. You don't know. So don't assume the worst.





Most girls need to be told. Just like most boys need to be told. I remember going to high school reunions and hearing from men what a big crush they had on me...and they were often men I had a crush on. I never knew.
It's difficult to say - when a girl says ';I'm not ready for a relationship';, it could really mean what she is saying... or it could mean that she doesn't like you.





And yes, a girl does need to be told if a guy likes her. Communication is the key! Get to it!!
when a girl says they aren't ready they aren't ready...no matter what the question is...





second, yes. WE love to hear that guys like us....that is if we like them back...you will only get bad answers back from this last question if they don't like you.
sometimes some girls actually aren't ready for a boyfriend but sometimes they are lying





my boyfriend told me about 2 weeks before he asked me out that he liked me and that gave me time to think about it and figure out how much i actually liked him!
Don't feel dumb, she's probably not lying, maybe she really isn't ready for a boyfriend now. most girls like to hear you say you like them if they like you back. just wait for another girl, one who is right for you. good luck :)
hahahaha dont feel dumb. ummm for me sometimes i say that when i dont like a guy but also sometimes i really dont want a boyfriend and i just want to hangout more.





and i like it when a guy tells me. im not the kind of personwho makes it wierd so for me its better. some girls just make things awkward