Girls I need some good advice on haw to get my ex back?

I really love her. We've been separated 7 months we were together 5 yrs. she is with someone now. HelpGirls I need some good advice on haw to get my ex back?
First you kick in the door to that trailer and say:


';Get off my mom';.Girls I need some good advice on haw to get my ex back?
5 years are long time and I am sure things are rough to you now, but based on the fact that she has someone else now it is going to be hard for you to get her back- and I think it will be a bad idea to try ,for both of you.





You are separated 7 months and you had the chance to go back ,but from some reason that we don't know (cause we have no details on who ask for the separation, how was the relationship between you and so on), so from some reason you did not go back to her.





I think that you should find a new nice girl to be with you and replace her spot in your heart- it is going to be tough but it is only looks like this now due to the fact that SHE has someone and you DON'T , so things look bad from your side now.





I am sure that when you will find a new nice girl to replace her special place in your heart, then things will look brighter to you and the world would look pinky. Don't sink deep in your grief and sadness, go out ,have fun and make your life happier!





I believe that everything happens for a reason and if a separation has happened between you and your love one, then this is what was suppose to happen and you can't change it. You will need to learn how to live your life the new way and go from here.





The show much go on- we can't change the past or go back in time- we can only learn from mistakes and use this learning to a better life in the future.





Good luck and take care!
As I am answering this for myself, too.....


DUDE! Are you crazy? Why on earth would you want some chick, that is with another guy?


If what you had was that great you'd still be together.


Get that disgusting taste in your mouth, so you'll get so sick of thinking about her, that you just never want to see her again.





Or go over there kick the crap out of her new bf, leave quietly so no-one notices you, get arrested for it, get your police restraining order on the guy, then when you go to court:


tell your lawyer it was self defense because the guy pushed you, and then if she doesn't want to be with you, at least you got the BS off your chest and can either relax peacefully in county jail for a few weeks, or at home
i know that it sounds hard, but you cannot hold on forever. especially when she has let go. if she really wanted you, she would be waiting for you as you wait for her. if the other guy is who she wants, let her be. but there is the slight chance that she is only experimenting to see if she can move on. you can wait, but don't expect the best results. possibly follow her lead. branch out, and see how it goes.








best of luck!
Try hanging out with her. nothing like, serious or anything like a romantic dinner or what not, but like, go out for lunch just the 2 of you. ask her how things are going with the new guy... you'll be able to tell if she's telling you the truth about how awesome he is, or if shes lying through her teeth. when you really love/loved someone, you just know.


don't push it though. and don't tell her exactly how you feel just yet. it'll make her all confused. just flirt a bit, and act sweet and cute. If the lunch went well, then try for another day too. and as you go out more and more, you'll eventually be able to tell her.
Okay here is a serious answer for you. You still have feeling for her. So what have you been doing these past 7 months? Have you tried to get her back and failed? Have you sat down and analyzed what went wrong in your relationship to begin with?





Have you tried to change yourself for the better so that she would have something worth coming back to?





If you haven't done these things then you need to take some action now.





Don't stalk her and don't bad mouth her new boyfriend. Just call her up and ask her out for a casual lunch. Talk with her and have a good time. Be her friend and make her laugh. Show her that you are a great guy and that maybe she made a mistake by breaking up with you.





Continue to be there for her and have a good time with her. If she really still has feelings for you they will rise to the surface.





It is your job to be the best person for her that you can be. Any girl that has a few brains in her head will choose what is best for you. Make sure you are the one that is the best.





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Good luck!
well if she is with someone else there really isn't anything u can do unless she still likes u.





well do u guys talk? if so try talking about it and asking her about the problem. the best thing u can do is talk about it in a clear way try instant messenger i finds this best for serous conversations so there isn't a awkward pause when u think of what to say next and remember never pressure her in anyway and try to force her to give u the answer or yell at her yelling won't do a thing but make things worse if she yells at u try not to yell back just try and tell her how u feel and if she doesn't feel the same way theirs more fish in the sea,


i hope i helped in some way
You didnt say what caused you to separate in the first place. But women are emotional beings. Try a new approach by sending her flowers with a short message, maybe ask her to meet you for lunch specify date, time, and a restaurant. While at lunch talk about how you miss her and wish things could be different. Dont rehash all the old stuff start by being friends again and see if the sparks light up.
too late. and don't try to get in between them because you know you would not like it if someone did it to you. the only thing you can do is wait. if it is meant to be, it will be. love will find a way.
if you guys were together for 5 years, she still has feelings for you.


tell her you love her and let her know how much she means to you. tell her all the things you miss about her and your old relationship. believe me, i wish my ex would do this for me.
im a guy, but im gonna be honest with you. its not going to happen. im sorry your dealing with this, and i know it hurts, but you need to move on. you cant change a womans mind, much less her heart.
You must know what happened between you that made you break up. Make it up to her. Undo it. Wrap yourself up in Christmas paper and a big bow and show up at her door. You're either arrested or you're in.
Hellooooooooo. She moved on. Your over for her.


What kind of help do you want? You can't get her back. And if


you could why would you want her back? So she can do it again?
You can only get her back if she want to come back. If she is with someone else, I think it means that she is not thinking about you.
kill the other guy and be all OMG! im so sorry you sooo much PAAAIIINNN'; or do something sweeeett 2 show u love her OR act like the other guy! jk about the forst one
what happened !!?





if shes happy with someone elsee , let her be . you too probably didn't beloong together :(
O.O im a guy But try your hard. if you really love her then go for her but if not that much just go find someone else
CHOP OFF HIS DICK!
She's moved on. You should to. Find someone else who isn't in a relationship.
give her a lexis
sorry but she kinda moved on maybe idk u should too... leave her alone u stalker!!!