Ok can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??

shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.....to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do...and what could possibly be going thru her headOk can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
maybe she likes that other guy...that is of no importance if u wanna be with her. you will just prove her that you are far better than the other.


First of all you should never show her that you want her so much, or that u are desperate. U have to be able to controll yourself, and try to ignore her. To get her attention, surprise her. Find out what she likes and impress her. work hard and plan everything. girls love roses, romanticism ..but don't overreacte..give her a rose in an unconventional way...do thing different. challenge her. give her a cd with goood music that will remind her of you. give her little things. be present in her life and always leave first. surprise her. read a good book, learn an interesting thing..BE ahead of others. be proud of yourselve on a strong basis...these are just few advices....i wish you luckOk can u give me some advice i like this girl so much and dont wanna lose her??
coming from a girl.. i think you'll find this advice helpful. Girls act totally different around boys they like... especially when the boy knows how she feels towards him. YOU need to be the brave one nd go up to her becuase how else will you know how she feels about you... and im pretty sure you dont want to loose her.. Just talk 2 her.. its sounds worse than it really is.. dont think about it too much and just ask her CALMLY!!! girls dig that.. I'm telling you if she had feelings for you then.. she probably does now too.. its not easy getting over people you like unless something way better comes along. nd if worse comes to worse she bails on you... forget about her.. there are plenty of fish in the sea for you to be obsessing over one!
talk to her ask her whats going on and what she is feeling. maybe she is still interested but you need to talk to her and don't be to pushy just talk and find out what going on then if she tell you she has no feeling for you move on
First of all, I would recommend not placing so much importance on the matter. If she likes you for you, then you'll know it because she'd let the hint slip herself. Secondly though, I'd recommend you just be yourself and talk to her straight up about you and her. If she tells you that she has no feelings about you, then just see if she just wants to be friends and go from there. The nice thing about not one person liking you is that there are a zillion more you could possibly find. So do yourself a favor and don't stress, be yourself, and have fun.
you need to take her somewhere or just sit her down and really talk to her and by that i mean tell her how you really feel. And if your to shy to do those things then sit down and write her a letter and tell her how you feel about her.
Don't force her sweety just move on with your life there are other fish in the sea................
I'd suggest approaching her. Don't press the issue right away. Do small talk, then maybe it will develop into longer conversation. You'll figure out what is she up to and what to do next.





It seems like you're working behind the scene too hard. Why ask all these friends? Who knows what's it their heads anyway. Just find out for yourself. If the answer is ';yes'; - great. If the answer is ';no'; - move on. After all, you're only 15, it's not like she'll get married tomorrow and you'll never get another chance to approach her.
Sounds like she has moved on and you should do the same. Did you really think that you'd be together forever??? I mean c'mon dude......she's 13! Just let her go. Maybe when you're not around she'll realize what she is missing :)
Girls are complicated, I'll give you that......





The only thing you can really do right now is to TALK TO HER. FInd out what she thinks, what she wants. Dont believe what others say, only listen to what SHE says. That way there is no mix up. Just ask her calmly what it is that she wants, WHO she wants.





It's the only way to know for sure.





Good luck Xxjes
move on dude...
sorry dude... it aint you ..not yet...


back off and give her the space and later on when things are more in the right time it might be you in the end
Please slow down---
you're only 15...if you're meant to be together, it'll happen. for now, just relax....there could be so many possibilities as to why she's being that way
Well talking to her frinds and telling them that you both like each other has got back to her . you have to remember some people are just mean they might have teased her about it and that hut her feeling s or embarrsed her so i would just try to treat her like you did before and see how things go ,But i would be honest with her if she asks you about anything .Rember the truth only can help never lie about stuff ike this you may end up alone if you do not say what you realy feel ,do not ever just say something just to be polite ok
Be honest, but not so intense, it's kinda scary.
Ok this is what I think she is scared because of the age difference maybe you should just go up to her and say I asked you out and you never answered me what happened then see what shw said!!!!
It's possible that she likes someone else but you won't know that unless you ask her. Just talk to her about this and tell her all that stuff you posted here, you have to be honest with her. But just remember that everyone changes and she might have moved on, you never know. I'm 13 and I probably know how she feels because I have gone through stuff like that with one of my ex boyfriends. Just try to talk to her about it, if she's moved on then maybe it's time for you to move on too, it sucks I know lol..Good Luck..
from what i hear it sounds like you guys were friends before and then you both started to grow feelings for the other one. From personal experience i think she scared she wants to go out with you but she is scared that if things don't work out she might lose you. don't give up on her yet you might miss something great if you do