Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz

i was down for a couple of days working for my sister at a clothes shop and plenty of good looking women were working there.i had my eye on a few of them but one especially!





now i didnt know her but i kept looking at her and caught her looking back a lot of times!


the next day we were down to work on the same section of the clothes shop and out of nowhere she started talking to me and were laughing and joking the whole day.she even told me what time my lunch break was at because it was the same as hers.


later that day we were tiding up together and my sister asked her to come help her in a different section and she said no she was working with me.now i found it a little odd that she would say this to the boss let alone my sister.then when she was leaving my sister was smiling at her and me as if something was goin on between us and she started gettin all embarrassed!this was supposed to be my last day!





then the next day,my sister asked me to work and when i went in i looked at her and her face lit up and was really happy to talk to me again.





after that i found her on bebo and noticed she had a bf,but since then i have been talking to her alot but live a good distance away from her!i will see her the next time i visit my sister.


do you think i could have a chance with her if she breaks up with her bf?does it sound like she likes me but has a commitment?or does she just want me as a friend?


its very complicated to know how she feels.thanks


Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz
her interest may have been there, but who knows how much it will fade from now until the next time you see her?





Alright, so you found out that she has a bf because you found her on bebo. But she has never said anything about him, right? Well, play it off and forget you saw that because for one, she doesn't need to know that you acquired that info, and for another, who cares?





The reason why i say that is because most guys who are confident with girls don't consider whether or not a girl has a bf because if they aren't married she is always fair game. If it comes down to it and you get to a point where you ask her about it, don't say ';Do you have a boyfriend?'; but instead say ';Are you single?';


Let it be up to her to decide whether or not she wants to indulge that info.


Also, don't put your all your eggs in one basket. By that i mean keep your eyes open in the meantime to meet other girls. Don't get all your hopes up on this one girl. If she is in a relationship that she values then you will have gotten all your hopes up for nothing. She may be the flirty type that doesn't necessarily get interested in another guy, but instead likes the feeling of the ego boost she gets when she sees that a guy likes her.


Don't over-analyze it too much, either like you are doing here. The reason why she liked you in the first place is because you were laughing and joking. A girl likes a guy more for how he makes her feel than his looks, like the way a guy likes a girl. And that day you made her feel good by laughing and joking. She liked that so she liked being around you. That is why her face lit up, because she associates you with someone fun to be around. And that, my friend, is exactly where you want to be with a girl you are interested in.


If you want it to go a step further, then at some point go from the laughing and joking level to the creating ';repoire'; (rapport) level with her. Find something that you both have in common and can talk about on a deeper emotional level.


She already likes being around you because she has fun around you. The creating rapport level will make her feel closer to you on a personal level. It is after this point where you can go into flirting and such. The comfort level should be high enough at that point that any playful flirting will be seen as harmless fun.


If she lets you know that she is taken then don't let it get you down and don't tell her of your disappointment. Instead, let her know that you are playing the field and that if she's not available, you are the type that has the confidence to just take it in stride and you are fine with it. After all, there are billions of females on the planet, and you will find the one for you.


By doing this, she will not only feel comfortable enough to continue to be friends with you, she will also feel compelled at a certain level to act before she loses her chance to snag you before someone else does. Also, by continuing to be friends with her, that presents a chance for you to be there for her if her current relationship ever hits the rocks.





Met a girl at work?long read!EXPERT ADVICE plz
she might like you or is just trying to kiss up to the bosses brother but i dbout it you should try to get a her pretend you dont know about her bf
yea right!
make sure she doesn't have multiple bf's...if not then go for it
i think the best thing to do is maybe just go out for coffee or something. then slowly get into the topic of relationships. if shes willing to bring it up, its good and its a sign that she trusts you. you have to be honest to her about your feelings, but at the same time, you dont want her to break up with her bf just because of you ( at least i hope so) but if breaking up with her current bf was already decided a while back, i think it would be appropreiate for you to try. best thing is just to be honest and let her know how you feel.
Okay well, girls can be tricky! I should know i m a girl! It sounds as if she really LIKES you but doesn'tt want to let go of her bf. Just confront her about it. Ask her the status of ur relationship. Girls like it when ur open with them. and if she only wants to be friends than just accept it. most relationships start as a friendship. so hang in there and who knowsWhatt can happen in a little while! Good Luck!!
by wat u hav expained, it seems to me that she is into u...


i think u will hav a chance wit her if she breaks up wit her bf...


i think u shud still go for her, but make sure that u kinda leav some space so she can figure out if she wants u or her bf...and it seems to me that ur sister knows wat she thinks abt u, so i think u shud talk to ur sister abt her, lik ask ur sis if shes into u or not and stuff lik that...good luck wit the girl!=)