Girls help..this girl is weird, and need some advice?

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Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help..this girl is weird, and need some advice?
She was obviously flirting with you. Maybe she's in a bad relationship and seeking a way out of it. If you cared for her, she would expect you to help her.


I'm not sure how you would go about that, but make sure you have the information first before taking any action.


Good luck!Girls help..this girl is weird, and need some advice?
Maybe she can't bring herself to get out of the relationship with her perhaps possessive boyfriend and is hoping going with you whom she flirts with will force her boyfriend to dump her? Idk.
Oh wow..... It does sound like you caught her in the in-between time, to me. If you're still interested in her, tell her that your sorry plans to go out failed and if things don't work out with the boyfriend.... maybe you guys can try to go out some other time. Be mature about it. But let her know that she'll have to be the one to make the move the next time and she needs to be ';free';





In the meantime, you move on. Don't waste any of your time mooning over her. If you do, then she will have played you. And good. So... Just shrug it off for now and chalk it up as experience.





I'm sorry you had this experience. I hope you will have better luck with the next girl. Granny B.
I'd suggest you just be very polite, but keep your distance. If she had a boyfriend, ';who wouldn't let her go out'; with other guys, she should have never accepted your invitation to the movies. She sounds like a flirt or someone who creates drama between two guys. You don't need that.





It never hurts to be polite to anyone, maybe she'll break up with her guy later on and be available to date. I just wouldn't put yourself out again, unless you are sure she's available.l
contact her boyfriend and ask him what was the matter...........or ask her once again for a movie,.........se her reaction
Make a serious conversation with her and talk about what happen. If she open up try to be a listener and let her talk her heart out. From there you can more or less surmise what she is up to.
it is never as weird as u think it will be,i mean when u get to see the person u have an awkward situation with, since u guys talk alot, ask her what was up with that, her leaving u kinda hanging, if she acts weird towrds u, just remain cool, and start ignoring her, girls don like to be ignored by a guy, even if the guy doesnt like her but they talk.


She probably didnt tell u she had a boyfriend, coz she liked u.
okay ive read it all and i do think this girl is really confused. as you mentioned- she has a BF and she probably does like you too so shes all tied up inside as to what to do....he heart is promised to someone and you seem to be pulling her heartstrings so im sure she wanted to test the waters with you..once you asked her out if she hadnt liked you she woulda said no. it seems like she doesnt respect you enough -by not telling you after 4 months of chatting that shes got a BF was misleading and unfair to you....girls like that can be trouble, but before you make any decisions i think that you should ask to talk to her....let her know that she really confused you by leading you on when shes in a relationship and that she could have been more honest or upfront when you asked her out......let her know you like her but you wont battle things out in her heart for her- tell her to make up her mind and dont waste your time, but honestly after what shes already played part to- id leave her behind, you seem like a good guy, dont sell yourself short...my best advice for love is dont look for it, let it come to you....good luck!!
i think maybe, she might just feel a connection with you


not a sexual one tho.


and she just wants to be close with you as friends because she feels that she can really relate to you, that's why it may seem she is flirting with you