Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I need advice on talking to this girl?

I really like this girl in my biology class but i don't know her she's sometimes looks at me in class and I'm not sure she likes me and wanted to get to know her but I don't want to go up to her and say something stupid what should I say to herI need advice on talking to this girl?
maybe when you meet her walking in the hallway or by her locker (NOT in a ';fixed'; setting like in class)..just look at her and say Hi a couple of times at first....see what the reaction is. If she seems happy and she smiles and stuff...next time you could try to say more (or you'd have a reason to walk up to her desk in class later). Also, maybe you could find out if she is already seeing someone..then you will know not to approach her;)





Oh, but be PREPARED that she might have a poor reaction if you're too blunt (maybe initially). You may be taking her by surprise. I'm not sure how old you guys are. Is this a situation where you could be the first boy to talk to her in a 'romantic'; sense?


She may be shy and she'll feel speachless and will pretend she doesn't care or be rude...Don't let that disappoint you and don't take it personally (she's learning too). Be cool about it and keep smiling...hopefully if she likes you too she'll get used to the idea and eventually talk to you after some time:)


But really, don't stress abt it and whatever happens don't take it personally.I need advice on talking to this girl?
just go make small talk. ask her a homework question or something
first just say hey, then try to get to know her on a friend level first. once you know her, you might not want to start a relationship with her so...good luck!
well you should start talking to her maybe ask her for help on an assingment or smile at her or say hi a gurl loves that
just happen to wait for her after class, down the hall a little so it is not so obvious. Just happen to start walking as she is coming even with you. Make a comment about something that was covered in class like '; did you understand what so and so said'; or that was pretty interesting in class or if it was boring, that was a pretty lame class right? Anything to get to talk to her and have her talk to you. You should be able to tell if she wants to talk to you or not by this encounter. It has to start small first so as not to scare her away.

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