Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I need advice on how to deal with a girl.?

Long story short, my girlfriend's sister, has been making advances toward me. She knows I am with her sister and that we are engaged. However she does not stop.





Anyway, I'm not sure how to deal with this because, this girl is fragile, she has been dumped by many guys in the past. I mean the last time she got dumped she tried committing suicide.





I want to know how to tell to stop with out having a suicide caused by me.I need advice on how to deal with a girl.?
tell her sister to talk to her about it,I need advice on how to deal with a girl.?
Tell your girlfriend.


But if you feel strongly against that, just be honest with the sister.


Tell her that you are engaged and crazy in love with your girlfriend.


If she doesn't back off tell her that it needs to stop.


You aren't her boyfriend so she can't be too attached to you. She's probably just vulnerable and lonely and wants to feel beautiful and important again.


You could break it to her softly. Say ';Look, you're very beautiful and so it won't be too difficult to find another guy, but I am engaged to you're sister and I love her very much.'; And so on.


Good luck.
Does your girlfriend know? My first step would be telling her about it. Then maybe she can step in for you and tell her sister to stop since you are engaged. Or, if you prefer you can tell your girlfriend and then go up to her sister and just say that you are uncomfortable with her advances, especially now that you are engaged.
well, your not dumping her so you should probably just tell her to stop. i mean, there's no other way. let your girlfriend know what you need to do, but just let the girl down easy.





you have to be honest. tell her that it's not right to be making advances when she knows her sister is dating you. since she's a fragile girl, be fragile in the approach. but make sure YOU TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND FIRST. she needs to know just so she doesn't begin to suspect anything.





careful man. you won't have a suicide on your conscience, but just make sure your gentle with the girl.
dude talk to ur soon to be inlaws and get some help for the girl get her into rehab and get any thoughts of suicide because of dumb guyz out of her head


otherwise in any case you need to talk to the parents and your fiance so they can try to tell the girl to stop cause i think family cin do it in an easier let don then you.


dont approach her yourself the girl needs help.
Just tell her kindly that it will never work out and that you're in love with her sister, not her. Tell her what she would feel if her sister do that to her. And also tell her what your girlfriend (her sister) would feel if she finds out about her sly moves.
you really just need to sit her down and talk with her


also, tell her sister (very calmly and say '; ______, your sister has been making advances towards me and i would like if you could calmly sit her down and talk with her about this';
Tell your girlfriend how much that you love her in front of her sister. Give her kisses, grab her butt, boobs, you get the picture. Tell her that you never want to be with ant one else.
tell your gf to talk to her sister and if dont belive you talk to her and tell her you not into her and hook her up with one of your friends
You should really be calm about it and talk to her.....be very very calm and urgirlfriend will have to know as well to make everything workout
Show your affection to her sister and show her that you love her sister not her. She will eventually get the hint....
suicide is a way for other people to control. tell ur girlfriend and let her deal with it if she cant then go ur own ways
this chick is crazy! talk to your chick about her sister and stay away from her

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