Well i need some advice. Well there's this girl that I love. The problem Is She's married.?

Haven't talked to he in like two year, I don't even know were she's at. I found her on ';MY SPACE'; I don't want to jeopardize her relationship with her husband, But i feel that if i don't do something I could loose for good. Should I let time take care of things? Should i try talking to her? How should i approach her? I want to tell her straight up how i feel. what should i do.Well i need some advice. Well there's this girl that I love. The problem Is She's married.?
she is married, and if she hasn't contacted u in 2 yrs, she has moved on and is happy with her marriage. why not find a love who is single and available.Well i need some advice. Well there's this girl that I love. The problem Is She's married.?
You can't love her, if you did love her you wouldn't be selfish and if you weren't selfish then you'd consider the possibility that since she is married she is happy and you wouldn't want to ruin that for her. I know you feel like your emotions are very strong but consider this. In love you can not let your emotions reign, do you really think years from now you will look at her and still feel butterflies? The fact that you stay and make it work is what makes it true love not that rushing feeling. Give her a chance to be happy and then you will have proved you loved her. Btw I agree with the previous comment, ppl change a ton in 2 years, u were in love with who she WAS not who she IS.
the best advice I can give you is to get off my space and seek a human face to face contact relationship. You are obsessing over something that doesn't really exist and the need you are feeling is simply a fantasy. Try the real world for a change, it can be so much more fulfilling. You should find someone who is single and wants you just as much in return.
Well you need to just talk to her first and find out if she is happy this will take time cause she isnt gonna probably come right out and say that shes not but its already been two years so you can wait a little longer. Another thing to concider is if there are kids involved If you love her like you say you do do whats best for her.
I think you already have lost her for good. 1. Married. 2. TWO YEARS.





I suggest that you just communicate your feelings WITHOUT expectations or pressure. Most people like to hear that they were appreciated and hard to forget.





I say this because after two years, it is clear you need some closure or something. Resolve this once and for all, so you can stop pining, and begin to enjoy life.





Good Luck!!
I think that you should just send her a message asking her how she is and whats she's been up to. No harm in that....if she doesn't respond then you may need to move on. She may respond, just as friends and let you know how she has been. If she is unhappy you will know in her message. Good Luck.
Jay, dont be that kind of guy. Look, you met her on myspace so you dont (DO NOT) know who she is really, and alot of people just like to flirt online.


I would drop the whole notion like a hot potato because she's not thinking about you, or wouldnt she have contacted you?


She's married and marriage still deserves respect, so fah-get-about-it.
Move on! There was probably a good reason why you lost contact with her in the first place. It could be really upsetting for her if you did send her a message.





And even if she did have the same feelings, would you want to be with a woman who would pack up and leave her husband for some dude she hasn't spoken to in two years?
what the hell? she's a married women, why would you ruin her marriage. %26amp; what makes you think she wants to be with you? there's many women out there in the world, and you want to choose a married women. come on now. let her be happy.
First of all you loved her, you don't love who she is anymore, a person can change a lot in 2 years.





You already lost her she got married.





Leave well alone, you didn't talk to her for 2 years I think you can just carry on doing that don't you?
Listen, she's married, you should really leave her alone. Even if you have feelings for her or you guys used to go out before, it's really time to move on now because she's MARRIED.
You don't want to loose her for good? Hello, she's not available. You don't have her to loose - she's married.........get a life and leave her marriage alone. Hopefully she'll call you an *** for even trying.
Ummmm, but, you've already lost her.... she's married. You will only look like a pathetic loser going after a woman whom you haven't contacted in over 2 yrs...and who is now married. Move on dude... you're beat.
she's married. let her go and move on with your life as she's obviously moved on with hers.


don't try to contact her or message her through myspace as you will only complicate things in her relationship.


leave her be.
Leave her alone she made her choice she married,there plenty of single women out there and your feel for her will die over time,there more likely lust than love


But if you really love her let her go and enjoy her husband
You need to lose her for good, she is not the one for you, evident in the fact that she made vows to another man. keep looking!
I really hope you haven't spent the last 2 years pining away over this ';love.'; She's married. End of story. Go find someone unattached.
just because you like her doesn't mean she likes you back...





WTH you haven't spoken in years, she's married





step aside and stop dreaming
STOP NOW DANGEROUS SITUATION you will not ever be able to have her and it will drive you insane!
How could you love someone that you haven't talked to in 2 yrs?
You leave her alone and find a woman who is single.
Jay if u are for real and sure how you feel then go for it .
I'm sorry but you gna have to move on......she might be mady in love with her husband!
Leave it alone. She is married bro... You need to beat walking.