She probably just needs someone to talk to...so just listen to her and support her. Things will be tough for a while, but talk about her strong points, and how she'll get through it and have a beautiful, healthy baby that will give her more love than she can ever imagine.What advice would you give a girl that became pregnant from a guy that left her and is not coming back again?
first and for most she should keep the baby there are many single moms out there in the world the dad was just a jerk she should always keep her head up in hard situations and move on with life i always say you have to go through many obstacles to accomplish happiness this baby will bring her joy and later in life she might find someone that loves her and the jerks baby
Be careful. She's in a ';delicate'; way right now...physically and emotionally.
She is your ex for a reason, it's not your baby, it's not your job to fix the problem.
Don't give her any advice, you're in no position to do so unless you are a psychiatrist or pregnancy counsellor. Go online and find some local clinics in her area that deal with this sort of thing. Print it out and give it to her.
Tell her that you're very sorry that she is going through this right now, but you really aren't in a position to help. Tell her that you have found some info online and you can give/email to her. Insist (gently) that these are the people with the answers and wish her all the best.
Good luck to you!
its best to just be there foe her
abortion?
alluseridsunavailable's advice is the right advice....
you should not get involved with the decision making process...let a professional talk with her.
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