Advice 4 a guy about my girl?

im with a girl and whom i am engaged to. i am mentally ill i suffer from extreme paranoia and psycosis which is a result from past heavy drug use i cant go out to public palces without my fiance she want to go to a concert without me and i will break up with her if she goes is this fair. also i dont trust her and i accuse her of things but she never leaves my side at all because i have been cheated on many times before i really need her to be in my life coz when i first met her i wouldnt even go out the front door what should i doAdvice 4 a guy about my girl?
While I can understand your point of view, she is still a seperate person!





She is obviosuly amazing and supportive to stay with you through all of your ups and downs, but she needs the same sort of commitment and trust.Advice 4 a guy about my girl?
I think it may be best to get back on some good drugs, to help with this nonscense... smoke 2 dubbies and call me in the morning......
wow this is really serious you probably have your fiance' in some type of depression her self i know i would be you were this way when she met and fell in love with you so i guess theres something keeping her there. what you explained is not fair at all. she needs a life especially a break from you every once and while even though she loves you and if you can trust her then why would you ask her to marry her. you need to get serious help for your self. definitly work with your doctor and shrink to tweak your care plan and get your self under control i would also suggest couples counseling to work on the both of you to teach you how to give and her how to take care of your needs and cope....:)
you are a great person
chill dude u need to step back u wont have to worry about breaking up with her, u keep this up and she'll dump u first. seriously mate your smothering her, expecting to much from her and taking her individuality from her. i also get anxious and paranoid from drug use so i kno its so hard to settle yourself down once it starts building. think of it this way buddy, she must b a special person just to b with u and supporting u while u are in this condition. try and work out how she'd feel or what she'd think first before everything u do and say.
Sims to me she has always been there for you, so a little slack on her should be OK. Is she going with friends then i guess its OK.


Tell her how you feel and always be understanding because she sims tobe very nice woman, having been through thick or thin with you, that's enough trust to me.


Use your medication and take one step at a time together, she just wants to party - you know women.
Maybe you should try and explain to her your thoughts, she needs to understand you. Your relationship needs to have trust, you have to trust her, she has to trust you. Talk with her. It's not always a bad thing for you to do separate things, if she wants to go to a concert let her go. If she hasn't left you yet after you accuse her of things, she probably won't. If you need her and she gives you so much, you need to give back to her. Just talk first off...
sounds to me like you're lucky she still puts up w/ your crap. Relationships are 50/50 buddy. You gotta give to receive!