Advice on becoming ';unsprung'; on this girl...?

I've been best friends with her for about two years now, and when I say friends I mean like tied together, we are always with each other and I truly do love her. This girl is amazing and I've gotten so close to her now (2 years) - but I, of coarse, want more and I know that it could never happened... Everything has been changing recently and tonight we hung out and she was just extremely rude and everything... Im just sick of hurting and wanna be done with her... Any advice will helpAdvice on becoming ';unsprung'; on this girl...?
Take a break from the friendship and walk away for a bit. Why torture yourself by being near her, wanting her, and then not being able to relay and act on those emotions. The break will give you a breather and perhaps give you an opp. to meet a girl that is just as into you as you are into her. But time does do the trick... that way you can keep the friendship. Just let her know that you need a bit of time off... if she knows how you feel and does not share those emotions of affection, then she will understand your need for space. And if she does care, then problem solved!Advice on becoming ';unsprung'; on this girl...?
wow a lot of guys i noe say the same things.


but later on when she goes back to being normal you will love her once again.


and you never noe she might be going through PMS
read a book by david deangelo.





do not be nice to her all the time! girls are not attracted to guys like that.





she want to take a shot at you. but it's kinda test. you are not ment to give in. if you do she will resent you for being weak.





girls hangout with nice guys. girls date/mate/giveout to men's men, charsmatic man, decisive, in control, know what he want, don't take 2nd class behavior, have high standard. live adverturous life, AND SOMEONE WHO TAKE THEM on a adventure.





Read the book.
If you really want to be done with her, then you have nothing to lose. just flat out tell her how you feel. she obviously loves you too or she wouldnt have hung around for so long. maybe shes being rude to you because shes sick of waiting for you and feels like shes wasting her time. just be a man and tell her ok? your not going to regret it.
Well, look at the relationship at an outsiders point of view--- you know, the fundamentals of it. Take your emotions out to really rationalize whats going on. And stop to think if she's ever give you signs of wanting to be w/ you bcuz sometimes guys are naive to the signs women, who happen to be their best friends, give off and it's harder for them to see if the woman happens to be sending very small signs bcuz she's afraid. Is she rude bcuz you've never made a move and she's just acting negatively to get SOME kind of reaction out of you? Would you two really be good together? So you either quit and move on or get w/ her. If you do get w/ her, you have to know for sure you really want to be with her otherwise you're just going to spoil a great friendship. I married the guy who was in this situation w/ me (who never said a thing for 2 1/2 yrs)--- when he and I were just friends he would just not think of the possibility of me even wanting to be with me and started to really just be my friend. After that it gave him a chance to really get to know me and be my true friend even though somewhere inside he still had feelings for me. He even went out w/ other girls. I fell in love with him over time and one day he decided to say something and so did I... I missed what he said and he missed what I said and it got messy LOL but in the end, it went well :-) But if this isn't you two, just stop. Go out w/ other women, just appreciate her as a person and be her friend.
Find another girl who wants more then friendship.
Go have sex with 2-3 girls and call me in the morning.