My ex is dating a new girl, and I need advice...?

My ex is dating a new girl. The news feed on Facebook showed his status updates; he's going ga-ga over her.





He was the only guy who has EVER showed interest in me, and I'm 18. No guys ask me out or flirt with me. When we went out, I thought that maybe someone finally cared for me... but I always had the feeling he was settling for me. This confirms it - he never posted anything about me on his Facebook. He told me he loved me at the end of our relationship but broke up with me 3 days later, saying he wasn't sure he actually did. Am I that unlovable? Bascially the whole thing was a lie. I never thought my personality or looks where that bad, but maybe I was wrong. Someone help please.My ex is dating a new girl, and I need advice...?
Honey, you're probably just underestimating yourself. Maybe it's something (POSITIVE) about your personality, that leads to lack of bf's (too pretty, too nice, etc). Doesn't have to be a bad thing. And you're young, you're 18. You have plenty of life %26amp; dating relationships ahead of you---trust me! Forget the ex, and enjoy your life. Be happy for the moments you spent, forget the bad, and look forward to the future.My ex is dating a new girl, and I need advice...?
Wow, I have been in the exact same situation! I've known this guy for five years, and we would hook up every summer when he was in town. We loved each other in the beginning, but every year he went back to his home state there would be more girlfriends, more mushy love Myspace bulletins or facebook updates, and he would return a little more distant. He's also the only guy who i've shared mutual interest with :[ Personally, I'm still struggling with this situation (for 2 years so far..). All I can offer is empathy :). Well, actually, I can offer some advice. You'd be suprised who's holding a secret crush on you...he could be too shy to tell you. Plus, you're a beautiful and wonderfully unique person, having a boyfriend isn't the only thing that will make you happy. The best solution to this is to close the facebook for a month or so, and just concentrate on yourself. Go to parties, meet new people, develop a hobby. Enrich your live to the point where this boy is a mere raindrop on your dashboard, so to speak. Hope this helps :)
First of all don't think your looks or personality are bad just because you haven't had luck in dating. There are plenty of reasons why a relationship doesn't work or doesn't happen. Don't think it's all your fault or that there's something wrong with you.





And what some of these other people have said are true too- you're young, you have a lot to experience in life. I know you hate hearing that, and that it doesn't answer anything. I know because when I was your age I thought that was a stupid answer too.





But here's the truth- people your age are pretty unexperienced. There is still college, travel, all kinds of lifestyles that you haven't experienced yet. It's hard for you to know who's best for you because at your age it's pretty unlikely that you've seen all the different types of people that are out there.





Maybe the guy just liked this other girl better. Don't take it personally. The heart wants what it wants. Just have faith that you'll find someone who will be better than he was. I spent 4 years with a woman who screwed me over big time. I thought I'd never do better. Then I found a girl who blew her away, and spent 5 years with that one. And you know what? She left too. Did I hate myself? Did I wrestle with the thought that the relationship was a lie? Did I watch what she was doing on facebook and all that stuff? For sure.





But then, after a little while, I realized something- if the kind of person you were with hurt you like that, then you're better without them. You'll date again, you'll fall in love, and you'll probably be hurt again. But know that there are so many single people out there, that there will be plenty of people who will like you. If it takes waiting a little while to get one who truly loves you for who you are, then it will be worth the wait and you'll laugh about how guys like this were nothing compared to the love you still have ahead of you.





Just be yourself, be confident, and take your time. Be happy for yourself, don't depend on some guy for your happiness. Sooner or later you will find a guy who clicks with you. It has nothing to do with your personality or looks. There is always going to be people out there who will like you for who you are. Just give it time, as crappy as that sounds.





All those people who say ';time heals all wounds'; are right. You hurt now. You won't hurt later. Trust me.
No don't say those things you say about yourself please.Just believe in yourself and have confidence in you,be happy for what you are.He doesn't deserve you sweaty.He is your ex now move on girl.
he's 18, you're 18, you're both young and there is plenty of time in front of you to actually be in love. him being the only guy at this age loving you is irrelevant. i'm glad i'm not with the guy i was at 18. i'm now 30, been married a year and with the best guy ever. MOVE ON!
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Well I think it's time to move on. He says he loves you but wasn't sure then broke up with you. Tell me..what kind of love is that..I bet you find some nice in the future.
Im sorry about what happend. The same thing has happend to me recently as well. All you need to know is someone out there really cares about you. You just need to find them. Let him be and move on. You don't want to keep dwelling on someone who didn't love you in the first place. Why would you ever want to besecond best when you could be number one in someone else's eyes. I know it seems hard to get over it so fast but, try to move on. You will in time.