Hi. I am a 12 year old girl who needs some advice with love.?

hey.





Ok. so. Theres me and this boy, I have loved him since I can remember. We've both grown up with eachother, and have never fallen out, we have always been good friends. but now we are growing older, and since the move up to secondary school, me and him are in separate classes, we dont see each other too often now at school. but on the bus to and back home, we talk and laugh and joke, he sometimes sits next to me. We have been round eachother's houses and stuff, and It's good because we both share the same interests etc.





Every time I see him, My heart melts. I stutter when I speak, I loose the right words. I love him a whole lot more than you could think.


People have said that he has a thing for me, but i dont know . . . rumors arent always true, right?





well heres the deal.


1. He stares at me alot


2. he stutters when he speaks


3. is shy around me


4. does this funny giggle only when around me


5. Has never let me down or betrayed me.





A whole lot more also.





I dont like the whole ';going out'; thing, so thats not really for me. and when I texted him saying I loved him, his friend's read it and joked about it. thats now made me even more shy to tell my feelings. we are both extremely shy, and when we are together we stare alot and blush.





Is this love?





Advice on what I should do would be greatly appreciated. xHi. I am a 12 year old girl who needs some advice with love.?
he likes you! i think that you should go out with him if you dont like that than idk how you can have a relationship! i think thats the whole point of having a bf is that you go out on dates and you hang out and you are more than just friends! i think that you are just nervous to talk to him and he is nervous to talk to you! if you keep talking to him in person and you do all that than i think that you will both get more braver about talking to each other and the stuttering will stop! i would not worry though because ur only 12!!!Hi. I am a 12 year old girl who needs some advice with love.?
im sorry i wouldnt be able to give you some advice and the reason for that is because you are 12 years old man think about school and other important things that are going to give you a future not something or someone that is going to get you preg and look im no one to tell you what to do but you need to talk to someone one hoe to get your life on track with school ...
i don't think what you and this boy have is 'love' yet, but maybe one day! i think maybe next time you sit by him on the bus you should ask him how he feels, from what you've said it seems that he likes you! his friends won't be there to tease him and you'll get a straight answer. you've got nothing to lose. good luck :)
hey im 12 too and i know how you feel. and by the sounds of it . yes it sounds a lot like love. your lucky.:]
Thats really sweet, it sounds like you've got it good! You don't have to 'do' anything... just be yourself, and have fun!
sounds like love- but dont do anything too rash after all you are only 12!!!
Get your focus on school. You're only 12.


And study, stop messing around online.
Hiya, ok you seem a lot like me, i'm quite young too. When you have been friends with someone for a long time and you go out if it doesn't work out you feel like you lose them.





I suggest trying to tell him again even though the first time you got a bit embarrassed, it's just love. (:





The whole ';going out'; thing isn't really for me either though i do like flirting, if he does like you, i'd say go for it but don't expect too much if your both shy.





My last boyfriend was shy and now i realise that if i'd been braver and gone for more things with him then we might still be together because i always waited for him to do stuff and i think he waited for me. (:
Awww! That sounds sorta like Romeo and Juliet, besides the fact that you have been friends forever. Well, love is a generic term. Love can be love to a family member, which is NOT the same as love to a boy/girl, which is NOT the same as love to a friend. Love to a family is predetermined love. This is love that you will always have. Love to a boy/girl varies somewhat. This can be sexual love, intimate love, or love as you described. Love to a friend is an attraction that not necessarily is sexual, but it is binding. I'm a guy, and this is how I feel to the girl that I love. So, to bluntly answer your question, YES. You are in love. If you are truly in love, you and he should not care what his friends are like and what they think. He obviously is in love with you too, unless he stutters naturally when he speaks. He is totally faithful, and you should go after him. Going out is really just an arbitrary term. It is just a state. It means nothing. I was ';going out'; with a girl for 6 months, and the words didn't come once after I ';asked her out.'; If I were you, I would absolutely ask him out, but talk with him first. Try to be courageous. Sit down, maybe go out to lunch or out for coffee (if you drink it), and completely spill out on him and let him spill out on you. The worst that can possibly happen is that the two of you will remain best friends. That's not so bad, because as best friends, you are always together. I personally am in love with my best friend, but she doesn't want to go out yet, as she says that she is too young. I am perfectly fine with that, because we constantly talk, whenever we hang out, we always sit together, and sometimes we even like hold hands or walk together type of thing. So, basically, the best thing to do is just sit down together and talk. If you both are in love, you can ask him to go out, and trust me, nothing will be different, except for that you will be a ';couple'; now. The two of you are in control of the relationship, not some unwritten laws or something. I hope this helped you. If you have any questions, feel free to e-mail me at yanksfan103@hotmail.com. I will be glad to help you with any more relationship questions.
Love? Probably not, then again I don't really use the term lightly. I'm sure you're already sick of hearing that you're too young to know what love is so I won't go there.





You probably both experiencing raging hormones for the first time. It's normal for teens when they like someone. Even though you probably both like each other a lot you're probably mistaking the hormones for loving feelings.