There's this girl that I like; she's smart, into sports, loves books like Twilight, is sorta sassy... and I was wondering what I could do to help my chances.Advice on getting this girl?
First off, there are NO set rules as far as flirting goes. The basis of flirting and breaking the ice is that it is a contact between two VERY UNIQUE individuals. In this case, you and a particular girl. Each of you is a VERY different person from the ';average girl'; and the ';average guy';. Some girls may like roses and romance. But maybe this girl is a tomboy and would think those things very dumb. Some girls may like poetry. But other girls may think that is ';old fashioned and boring'; and would rather have you just hang out with her.
So the most important key to flirting and breaking the ice is to know as much as possible about this girl before you just barrel up to her. What type of music does she like? What are her hobbies? Watch what kind of clothes she wears. Does she wear long, flowing skirts and peasant blouses? Does she wear jeans and hiking boots? Is she very outgoing, always talking with lots of people? Is she very shy, usually quiet and by herself? All of these things will help you decide how to approach her.
Let's say you spend a few weeks getting to know what she's about and are ready to initiate contact. The key in this is Slow and Steady. You don't want to leap at her - this would make any human nervous. You want her to think of you as a normal, good part of her life. So start out by making the transition from ';stranger'; to ';that guy I see around';. Do that by following some of the Breaking the Ice tips and by smiling or saying ';hi'; when you pass her in the halls. Don't go into long conversations, just keep up that tap - tap - tap reminder that you are there and friendlyAdvice on getting this girl?
Confidence is a key, another thing is be genuinely kind to her, don't give her the 'hot' stuff, no girl really likes that, call her beautiful. When you get to know her for awhile, say ';hey, i wrote something for you, hope you like it.';, tell her why in a poem, or some fashion or form that is genuine and meaningful. Don't give an iPod tunes gift card or something that's typical for a friend, but something warm and heartfelt made by your own hand. Another way is acts of service, show her, not just tell her that you will be there for no matter what, as a friend or whatever means you intend on her. Spend quality time with her, don't just be with her, muse her with her humor a fun nature, and a good wit.
If you'd like, What's the girl's name, give me her characteristics and I'll write a poem for you to her, to get you started.
Or something like that, here's a poem I made for a girl i admired:
Kristine
K ept killer secret that I disclose upon thee.
R estores reason to the highest beauty's degree.
I ris inks an image of the icy mountain greens.
S erene scene winds the hair that evokes my dreams.
T is' the teeming flare upon your spirit I see.
I n iridescent peace and wondrous character I hope to meet.
N earest to my heart you are, though greater than wondrous stars.
E ver heavnly bliss you are an angel I see, and now believe are not afar.
if i were you, id be the nicest guy to her.
id always talk to her, and say hi whenever i see her.
not all the time though, cuz she might think youre a bit creepy...
but.. if youre in the same class as her, maybe ask her about the homework or something.. just keep starting conversations with her.
be really sweet and caring and i think you'll have a pretty good chance on getting this girl!
oh, and ask for her number or something. so you can talk more. :D
Talk to her. Approach her one of these days and talk to her and see what she is like. You know sometimes you mistake the things someone likes with their real personality, so you never know. Anyways once you talk to her, ask her to go to a movie et to eat and go from there!
Don't worry just make the move. You have nothing to lose, trust me!
get to know her before you tell her you like her or ask her out. try ';being'; around her, but not stalking her, and maybe she'll even notice you. dont push up thought, because you might seem a bit desperate. Try being her friend before you make her have the slightest idea that you may like her. Remember, she doesnt know you like her, so you dont have to be nervous
First things first, Talk,say u like sports or what she likes take whatever she likes that wants u to do,next if she likes u maybe give her a present, after she really likes u ask her out to the movies or something sweet and probably she'll love u!
Just talk to her and ask about things that you and her both enjoy or know about. When boys have crushes on me or one of my friends normally we all just talk about how we wish he would just talk to us. You'd be surprised at how far talking can get you.
Good luck getting the girl!
-Meg =)
No one can give you much advice. We don't know you. We don't know her. and barely know any info. Who is she? Your friend? Classmate? Sister? How old are you both?
Read Twilight and talk to her. Ask her favorite part or something.
If she already knows that you exist. Then she probably has already made up her mind whether she likes you a lot or not.
Try to make friends with her. And see how it goes.
She sounds really talented. Try getting her attention by making eye contact, after that let her know that your into her.
Hmm well that's not a lot of details, but maybe you could try to have a conversation with her. Start talking about sports?
Be sweet and act like a gentleman towards her.
Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for who you are, you're wasting your time.
OMG you should tell her you'll be her edward. U might not get it. but she def WILL (its from twilight) and she will ffal in love with you. btw read the book.
Just tell her about your feeling, before someone else get her..
Make her laugh.
I agree with the person below.
Be confident in yourself first and yeah, talk to her
talk to her for help on school work, talk about sports
Talk to her... It's not that hard.
make her laugh!
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