Advice for dating a party girl?

I am a single guy that sees my son every other weekend, I have not introduced the girl to my boy since we have only dated about 2 months. The thing is on those weekends that I have my son she does nothing but party and drink to excess hanging with different male and female friends. I have no real reason to not trust her but yet it makes me very uncomfortable. I have expressed my thoughts on it and there is no change in her behavior. I feel it will be only a matter of time before there is ';a drunken mistake'; Should I just roll with it, make a stand, or just drop the whole situation and move on . We are very close in age and she has no children. Anyone been in a similar situation and have it work for he better? Am I being to pessimistic?Advice for dating a party girl?
Sounds like your lifestyles clash. You can't really change a person...it's better to deal with these things now before it get's any deeper in to it.Advice for dating a party girl?
For you to have feelings like this. Just proves that she is too different from what you need in your life. Maturity is a big thing and it can break up a relationship. You mentioned that you know what that lifestyle leads to (drunken mistakes) what you think, feel and know all point in the same direction, this girl is not good for your life long term. you show a level of respect to your son when he comes to visit and you expect that from her as well. I think the hesitation is because you dont want to let go of her and be on your own for abit but I think you'll be so much happier single and/or finding women who are more fun sober and enjoy, respect being with a man who accepts his responsibilities in life. I have done the party girl thing and it never worked out, in the end they cheat, promiscuity and alcohol go hand in hand, who are we fooling?


the drinking isnt bad, its the lifestyle. if she is always partying it shows she dosent feel to good about her self deep inside and this is the only way she knows to have fun and feel good about herself. this is a bad girlfriend choice man. you were honest and straight up with her, you told her your issues and how you feel. she hasnt changed, she probably never will. the rest is up to you man
ive been in a same problem however my ex is innocent until i moved far far away.. so i think u should drop her theres alot of grls out there who is respectable and treat u right..





and it will be awkward for ur son no matter what kind of girl u get but he will understand, its only a matter of time
She is not mature enough for you
It is what it is. You can't nor do you have any right to change her. You obviously want the best for your children so to me it seems you can either keep it casual or move on. Good luck
Well, this is a generalization, but party girls aren't all that great in monogamous relationships. I'd suggest finding a different girl.
I had a roommate who was a huge party girl. If she met a guy she really liked she acted like a real prude around him. When he was away she would sleep with absolutely any guy who had coke. Good luck bro.
So your in love with a stripper?: Is that what you would want for your son.
roll with it who knows it might turn out ok





just make sure u tell her to lay off drinking once in a while
For the sake of your son, drop her. No disrespect toward the party girl, but she is into a totally different thing than children and a home life. Your son deserves a Stable Role model, and that may require some sacrifice on your part for many years to come. You created a human being and by doing so forfeited certain Liberties. There is no doubt that if you continue with the present relationship that eventually you are going to be forced to choose either your son or accepting her Party attitude. Be a man and a Father, explain to her your situation, and apologize for being less than truthful, and go on from there.
If she is unwilling to moderate her behavior, drop her yesterday.





Your son is your first priority as he should be and you do not want to risk your time with him. If this party girl has a drunken ';mistake'; it could result in you having either another child to worry about and take care of (which would take away from your son) or have a negative impact on your visitation rights, or even a disease that could take you away from your son (by death).





Make a stand, and if she is still unwilling to moderate or change, then drop her and move on with your life and stay involved in your son's life. He needs you more than she does and he has more of a clam on you than she does.