Not very good in this situation, need advice to help a girl i like pls?

I posted on here before about a girl I liked having problems as her Grandad was dying. She text me yesterday apologizing for being distant explaining she had big problems on her mind and that her Grandad had died last Friday.





It sounded like she was looking for a shoulder to cry on but I am useless in this situation, if I have a problem like that I tend to go very quiet. So I tried my best and told her I'm there for her if she needs me for anything and all that sort of stuff and I tried my best to listen and offer advice, but another problem was I was ill yesterday and when I was trying to write the right words I couldn't concentrate very well. I'm hoping I didn't come across as I wasn't interested as that wasn't my intention at all, of course I'll do what I can if she needs me, but my mates would call me a 'blokey bloke' and I'm not that good with emotions and all that stuff.





So my question is, Did I handle it OK? What should I have said? Or what could I still say that might help?Not very good in this situation, need advice to help a girl i like pls?
In situations of death, all you can do is be there and listen. The person will not remember what you said, they'll remember how you made them feel. Just be there.Not very good in this situation, need advice to help a girl i like pls?
I think you did alright..... Just let her know you genuinely care but you're not all that great with expressing your emotions. But as far as you said, I think u did great-- most guys won't even care enough to show that they care.
if she is ur friend, just b there when she needs u
You did the best you could in the situation. All I can advise you to do is be there for her, let her cry on your shoulder. You might find that she wants to talk and have you listen and hold her more than anything. You might also want to try taking her out and stuff of the sort if you notice she's really depressed about it.
just be there for her and listen to her, be a shoulder to cry on....thats what people need sometimes
im not gonna tell u what you should've said, if i tell you that, then it wouldn't have come from you, i know what i would say, not what you would say since you know your situation better than i do. i think that you came across well for what the situation was. call her, if you have her phone number and tell her that you are sick and explain, its best to have everything out in the open. and it doesn't matter what your friends say, this is your life, don't let them dictate your actions. she's probably looking for a shoulder to cry on, buts its good that she came to you for that. feel honored man. not bad.
well i guess she didnt think of it as anything wrong if she didnt say nothing to you