Guys, what would you do in this situation? girl could put in advice, too!?

when my girlfriend and I were 16 we spent an entire weekend for our 3rd anniversary at the beach... on the night of our anniversary, I gave her a promise ring and told her I wanted to commit to the relationship and wanted to marry her one day after school and college were done and over with... and I never once regretted it!





we are now 18 and have been living together on our own for 6 months since she turned 18 and are still virgins....





last night after dinner she came to me and sat on my lap and wanted to talk about having sex.... and jokingly suggested we go to Vegas and elope but not tell our families so we'd technically be married... I told her I wanted to have sex with her too but didn't want for her to have to choose between mothering a kid or education, because her education is important to her... and she said, ';what are the chances of me getting pregnant if I take birth control and you wear a condom?'; obviously she really wants it.... and we're practically married as it is (live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, both pay bills, both work and go to school (when it starts))


she said it was fine if I didn't want to do it, that she'll wait, but assured me she'll be ready if I changed my mind...





should I give in or stand my ground? she hasn't mentioned anything or tried anything, but.... we both WANT it.... what should I do???


Guys, what would you do in this situation? girl could put in advice, too!?
I commend both of you for what you have done if she is on birth control and you wear a condom there is no chance that she could get pregnant. I would do what you feel is right if you don't feel that you guys are ready to move to the next level yet then don't do it however it sounds like you two are in a committed adult relationship and like you both have your heads on strait. I would like to congratulate you guys for doing something that most teens can't you have thought with your heads and not your hormones. You two sound like a very mature couple and like I said you have to do what feels right for you. and just to reassure you if she is on birth control and you wear a condom there is no chance of her getting pregnant. Good luck and congratulations for being a smart, educated and mature couple.Guys, what would you do in this situation? girl could put in advice, too!?
Man just f uck her already. She will not have a baby there so many ways to prevent her from having a baby. There a pill called morning after. Condoms are good. Birth Control is good. Just make sure its the most sweetest and romantic thing because it will be your first. :D Do your research if you want to. Its perfectly fine. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 2 years for more then a year we been using the pull out method no baby yet =]!
i would definatley not elope.. your families would be furious. my advice is talk more about this there are possiblities that she could still get pregnant. the best thing to do is just talk to her about it more. in the end the two of you are the only two who can make the choice. just think about wht you really want and wht she really wants
if yall really both want it then do it just remember to use protection and don't start just worrying about that because a relationship isn't just about sex. its about love good luck and be wise.
honestly i would think you should see how things go once school starts, to see how you both are able to handle college life and your relationship. but if you absolutely trust each other, i would go for it.
your in a stable relationship, so go for it, but take your time and make a weekend of it and have some fun.
I think since u guys have waited this long u should just wait until ur married. Ur obviously very strong willed ppl. Wen were u guys planning to get married anyway?
Give her some before she goes somewhere else and get it.
...DO IT
do it.
i say if you want to do it then do it
hmmm...why don't you just get married and use birth control. If an ';accident'; happens (and it's not that likely), consider putting the child up for adoption, because it seems that neither of you is emotionally or financially prepared to raise a child, and you should both finish your education. And as you stated...you're practically married anyway...so why don't you just get it over with?
Well if you are definately serious about waiting, (like for a religious reason) then you should wait, but if you want to , just be extra careful...wait until she is on birth control for a good month or two, use condoms, %26amp; spermicide, you guys should really be safe then....the chances of a pregnancy are EXTREMELY LOW IF YOU ARE EXTREMELY CAREFUL.... besides you guys are adults now..... just make sure she takes her pills around the same time every day...before bedtime is good... Has she seen a gynocologist yet???

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