Need to meet a nice girl to settle down with. any advice?

I am an 39 years old, about 235lbs(I know I need to work out), about 5”10, and I am kind of shy? My mother told me that I should find a nice girl and move out of the basement. But I tell her its hard and the rent everywhere I look is very high. Security doesn’t pay much and I don’t feel like living in shared room with someone ( I like where I am at; I got free food, roof over my head (just got to pay my mom’s 50 dollars a week) I got xbox, playstation , and I just got the wii – its awesome.).


Any ways I need some advice on how to pick up a cute chick(no ugly ones please) so I can move in with her and finally my mother will leave me alone. thanksNeed to meet a nice girl to settle down with. any advice?
Dude, are you serious? From the way you describe yourself, I can't believe you don't already have hot chicks calling you morning, noon, and night. But I guess you want one to settle down with, not another plaything, right? I think you should put an ad in the personals with all the info you've given us here, especially the wii (women love those things!).





But the best way to pick up cute chicks is by taking a class or two at the local junior college. Most of the girls there live at home, too, so they won't mind that you do, too. Maybe you can find one whose mom won't mind if you move in with them for free!





Good luck!Need to meet a nice girl to settle down with. any advice?
Get your own life in order first. Most women aren't looking to pick up a mooch, any more than your mom wants to continue supporting one. Find a job that allows you to support yourself. Find a place of your own, and start dating.





Practice approaching women. You'll get 'shot down' a lot, but we all have to learn to deal with it. While you're at it, working out is a good idea, but I'm sure you know that.