I think I AM FALLING IN LOVE with this girl.>SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE!!>!>!?

We have talked on the phone every day/night for the past 3-4 months





but when I told her how I felt.. she told me cause this other guy said that he likes her, she doesn't like hurting or choosing, the drama cause she knows what it feels like to be hurt (she has been single for over a year now and her ex really hurt cuz he broke up with her for another girl and this new guy that told her he likes her, she use to like him but she said stuff like he turned into an ******* and its like he doesn't give up) .. basically she said that wants to cool things down (just end everything between me and this other guy) , I even said to her I know theres something there... Its not that I am not moving to fast or anything,When we talked about she did say she is confused and doesn't know she what wants.





I believe she does like me but doesn't want to hurt the other guy...taking things slow and waiting almost a month after we hang out a couple of more times to show her I am fun to be with and then tell her again...





From the day I told her how I feel she called me the next day and we talk everyday still...now she doesn't mind me visiting her at work..I am lost..Also before i told her how I felt, I was suppose to give her a bedtime story and we haven't found the the time to do so, but after I told her how I felt, I told her the bed time story has to do with her %26amp; I, and she still wants to hear it...(she knows its suppose to be a romantic bedtime story too)





Tonight we were talking on the phone..she said I thought I called you before I go to bed.. then before we were ending I told her to get up later and sleep in.. then I asked her if she wanted a wake up call and she said'; I may be up, but you can still call';I think I AM FALLING IN LOVE with this girl.%26gt;SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE!!%26gt;!%26gt;!?
Sounds to me like she has feelings for you! Dont rush ahead. Wait for her to overcome her pain from her past relationship which is causing her to overthink things. If the other guy likes her too, but she is not with him, you don't have to worry very much. Just wait and show her that you are supportive no matter what. Just her knowing that you care enough to be there for her will be enough for now, and you can spend time with her when she comes to see you.


I think that eventually things will work out! I wish you the best! Hang in there!I think I AM FALLING IN LOVE with this girl.%26gt;SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE!!%26gt;!%26gt;!?
just be patient and whatever happens happens. all things happen for a reason
God you're an idiot. She just said she doesn't want to choose between guys because she doesn't want to hurt you. In reality, she has chosen the other guy instead of you. But don't worry, it's not over yet. You can still salvage this situation. Instead of talking to her on the phone, hang out with her in person. #1 rule, do not in any such way mention your feelings toward her again! just hang out with her for a while. When she's ready for you, you'll know it. At that point, just make a move and kiss her or something.
Well considering the conversations, I suggest you continue your communication with this lady... try to receive her side of the feelings and meet up (hang out) about the falling in love part I can't really tell you, Love is a feeling you can feel no other people can interpret... thats my thoughts... I wish you the best of luck...
be patient.its really your best bet
Definitely have a situation on your hands. She seems like a girl that is fearful of commitment. From experience never push someone who doesn't want commitment without having want it. Pushing that on them may work for a while and be good but over time they might sway and loose desire to date.





As far as your position goes you have all your cards in right place she feels comfortable talking to you and such, but I would fear waiting around too long and falling into the friend zone. Its a tough decision but there has to be a point where you stand up for your feelings and put yourself out on a line, only can wait so long for a person to make up their mind and leave you waiting