Sunday, December 20, 2009

Advice on asking a girl out?

Ok, I feel really confident about myself and my friend and I are just going to ask a bunch of girls that we don't know out. My question is, whats the best approach I should take? Please, I want positive answers, thanks :)Advice on asking a girl out?
well this is kinda awkard since u are a girl.. but think of how you would want to be approached..mayb flowers? something cute! something that will make her think of uAdvice on asking a girl out?
go up to her and say hi waht is your name and ask how old is she and then ask what grade is she in and ask do you have a a gril friend and if she says no then give her your number
Just walk up to them and say, ';Hey! We're gonna naked hot tub. Join us!';





Then call me.
OK sport, first, as long as you are not a complete jerk and the girl does not feel like she is being played by you then any approach is workable. You don't need magic words but realize that a lot of women are taken or you are not their type, so just like sales it takes a lot of rejection to get a yes. However, the best approaches are to be positive but not phony (i.e. don't go up and say you are the most beautiful babe I have ever seen - go up and say your hair really is shiny do you do hair product ads?) Best bet however for starting a conversation is the old ask a favor approach - you are in line at the movie or grocery store and you ask her to save your place for a minute then when you get back she feels you owe her and will feel more comfortable talking to you. Another trick is borrowing a pen.


All in all, the hotter looking the girl the more she gets hit on and the quicker she will be to shut you down if she senses BS, so be cool and honest. If she is a hottie tell her you couldn't help but notice her beauty and ask if she would be interested in coffee sometime. No need to get too creative, the girl is available for you or she isn't! Learn to live with rejection and move on.
Be casual and act like it doesn't matter to you what she says. Dont sweat it
Look at her in the eye and say , ';Hey ______, what are you doing later?'; If she says, ';Nothing.'; Ask her , ';I was wondering do you wanna go to the movies with me?';

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