Hey everyone, I'm an introverted girl and pretty shy when it comes to talking to people I don't know. I was wondering if anyone could give me detailed advice on how to overcome shyness. I am so tired of being shy and I feel nobody ever likes me or thinks I am weird. If I try and talk to somebody, there's always an awkward silence and then I never know what to talk about next. Please Help! Thankss =]]Advice for a shy girl?
I'm like that, and I discovered that no matter what people say over the internet, it doesn't help. And I know it really sucks, and the fact that your shy is probably always going through your mind.
But hey! It's so easy to talk to people online. Maybe you should just pretend you're talking to them online, but instead say it in words. Like, ask questions you would to someone who you're talking on the internet. I might try that. Although, when I'm around people, my mind kind of goes blank.
Oh, and I think you marked my question as interesting? Thanks if you did.Advice for a shy girl?
well i dont think youre weird and i like you. so does that make you feel better? i used to be the same way. just ask questions and get used to talking to people. maybe take a job where you have to talk to people. it gets easier, trust me. during an awkward silence, just think of a question to ask.
I used to be VERY shy, but I have some great advice to get you through this tough time the same way I did.
1. Make it a point to express what you feel or think at least once a day with friends or family even though you're shy, your shyness won't bite. Try to do the same with a complete stranger 1 a week.
2. When looking at mirrors make to compliment yourself out loud or in your head. Say things you would tell someone you love or deeply care about.
3. Understand that you can only be yourself. Know what you want and try to make up your mind quicker but stay very precautious. Its always best to be safe then sorry.
Shyness can be something that you have complete control over if you know how to take care of yourself and find courage in the truth. See the links bellow for further advice.
I hope I helped and good luck!
hey i am also a very shy person, but i started over coming it in 8th grade. i'm only in 9th grade now but i talk to a lot of people. i know what you mean when you say ';people don't like me or think i'm weird'; i felt the same way. all you have to do is bring up your confidence, keep your head up, smile at people. You should also compliment people like lets say you like a girls shirt just be like ';your shirt is so cute!'; and that will make a girl think that you are interested in becoming her friend, she will even start talking to you. just be yourself, and say what comes to mind. tell funny stories that you have experienced, or talk about stuff around you..Get involved in stuff, get into peoples conversations like if a couple of people around you in class are talking about something interesting and you have something to say about it just say it, and i'm sure you'll strike up a convo with them also. most importantly, ..who cares what people think about you!! when you stop worrying about that, you'll become more outgoing.hope this helped.
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