So i am a sophomore and there's this gorgeous senior girl that i sit next to in one of my classes. i never knew her before this semester, but we became really good friends instantly. we sit and talk pretty much all hour ever day and laugh about everything, and we talk about everything that's going on with ourselves, and she literally tells me everything; stuff that i would never say outloud.
The problem is, she has a boyfriend that graduated last year. HOWEVER..lately they have been fighting a lot, and she told me she doesn't know where that relationship is going.
it's become my favorite class and she just makes me feel so happy when i'm with her. i really like her but i don't know what to do.
please give me some advice. any at all would be beneficial. like something over the summer maybe.
oh, and she's going to college next year, and it's only like 25 minutes away.Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
Learn what Science is.
It is the opposite of 'bullcrap', as you said.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
Advice on the rebound girl?
I got out a two year relationship last november. it was a heartbreak and i still love my x. But recently she found a new bf so i thought maybe it was time for me to start looking. So i found a girl and started being really sweet to her (the rebound) and i got her to practically fall for me in a week. were supposed to go to homecoming together but iv calmed down and i see some major flaws with her that are huge turn offs (personality wise) i want to tell her im sorry for leading her on but i dont think its going to work, but i think im in too deep. i was too sweet to her. waht should i do?Advice on the rebound girl?
Look. Whatever you do, it's going to break her heart. So, the lesser of two evils is honesty. Tell her it's not working out.
If Homecoming is far away, do this before Homecoming. Otherwise, you have to take her to Homecoming and do it after.
Look. Whatever you do, it's going to break her heart. So, the lesser of two evils is honesty. Tell her it's not working out.
If Homecoming is far away, do this before Homecoming. Otherwise, you have to take her to Homecoming and do it after.
Advice about my ex girl-friend?
ok soi started dating this girl and its my first girlfriend. we were dating for a month and we broke up because she was jelous that i was hanging out with my friend who is also a girl. now i dont like this girl but she thought i did. so she stopped wanting to hang out and she kept blowing me off. so one night i was talking to her and i told her we should take a break. then she told me she just wanted to not date so for the past week i have been thinking we were broken up. but she emailed me and asked what was going on and if we were going to date or what.
now shes my first girlfriend and i dont know if i fell a little hard for her or what but i like her still but i dont want things to be the way they were.Advice about my ex girl-friend?
u need to be sure she's over the jealousy thing first.
sit down and talk to her and make sure she's ok with you having girl FRIENDS.
communication is really important in relationships...even if it's your first relationship.
i think if u both are interested in e/o you should give it another try. i mean nothing all that bad happened for the 2 of you to call it quits. give it another shot! =) have fun! happy thanksgiving!Advice about my ex girl-friend?
Tell her what you want to change about your relationship. But do it in mature way , no yelling or whining. Sit her down somewhere private and have a two way discussion Ask her what she would like to change as well. Good luck.
then she might be controling and if she has any guy friends and your not getting all worked up about it then she should be trusting you also or maybe she has had a bf that was cheeting on her when she trusted him and then now she doesnt want that to happen to you guys
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Same questionsssssssssssssssssss:
I'm fed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
Leave herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
now shes my first girlfriend and i dont know if i fell a little hard for her or what but i like her still but i dont want things to be the way they were.Advice about my ex girl-friend?
u need to be sure she's over the jealousy thing first.
sit down and talk to her and make sure she's ok with you having girl FRIENDS.
communication is really important in relationships...even if it's your first relationship.
i think if u both are interested in e/o you should give it another try. i mean nothing all that bad happened for the 2 of you to call it quits. give it another shot! =) have fun! happy thanksgiving!Advice about my ex girl-friend?
Tell her what you want to change about your relationship. But do it in mature way , no yelling or whining. Sit her down somewhere private and have a two way discussion Ask her what she would like to change as well. Good luck.
then she might be controling and if she has any guy friends and your not getting all worked up about it then she should be trusting you also or maybe she has had a bf that was cheeting on her when she trusted him and then now she doesnt want that to happen to you guys
Pfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff鈥?br>
Same questionsssssssssssssssssss:
I'm fed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
Leave herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
So i am a sophomore and there's this gorgeous senior girl that i sit next to in one of my classes. i never knew her before this semester, but we became really good friends instantly. we sit and talk pretty much all hour ever day and laugh about everything, and we talk about everything that's going on with ourselves, and she literally tells me everything; stuff that i would never say outloud.
The problem is, she has a boyfriend that graduated last year. HOWEVER..lately they have been fighting a lot, and she told me she doesn't know where that relationship is going.
it's become my favorite class and she just makes me feel so happy when i'm with her. i really like her but i don't know what to do.
please give me some advice. any at all would be beneficial. like something over the summer maybe.
oh, and she's going to college next year, and it's only like 25 minutes away.Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
Learn what Science is.
It is the opposite of 'bullcrap', as you said.jane iredale
The problem is, she has a boyfriend that graduated last year. HOWEVER..lately they have been fighting a lot, and she told me she doesn't know where that relationship is going.
it's become my favorite class and she just makes me feel so happy when i'm with her. i really like her but i don't know what to do.
please give me some advice. any at all would be beneficial. like something over the summer maybe.
oh, and she's going to college next year, and it's only like 25 minutes away.Advice on asking a girl out? Please tell me what you think i should do!?
Learn what Science is.
It is the opposite of 'bullcrap', as you said.
Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.
Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.
I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot.
Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.
We are all around 21 here btw.
I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
It sounds like you are far too hung up on all this. It's been 9 months now, too long for something like this to go on for.
I think you need to find new friends outside of the current circle. You say she lives with your best friend, it all sounds too much.
I also think you need to quit on the apologising. Once or twice is sufficient. Any more just sounds like raking over old ground, re-raises all the issues, and makes you feel resentful.
Can't you join some clubs and meet some new people? I think you need to back off from all this.Advice needed on this girl. Asking again?
she basically wants you to stay around.
she sound like an attention whore.
(im not being rude)
she wants you to keep begging her, and eventually shell feel like the tough one.
I can understand why ';x'; is feeling hurt still, you believed basically a stranger someone you didn't know over her. Your going to have to talk this whole episode out with her, you may have apologised several times but until you really sit down and talk it out with her you won't resolve the situation. As for ';y'; she seems to be a bit of sh*t stirrer why is she suddenly all best friends with you and then has the nerve to say that her ';best friend'; has changed over the last year maybe the reasons for this change is something to do with the way you and her are all over each other now. She was never her best friend especially if she could break her confidence and say something that would come between you and her, it's you ';y'; is after and she'll do anything even destroy your friendship with ';x'; if that's what it takes.
Good Luck
P.S. Talk to ';x'; before you decide anything and make sure ';y'; isn't about when your talking to her.
Guys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
I like a guy and he is one of my good friends.. but i don't think he likes me and i dont want to risk our friendship just casue i like him... should i find out if he likes me or just leave our realsionship to friendship?Guys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
i suggest asking one of his friends if he likes youGuys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
It all depends on how much you value your friendship. Even if he likes you back and you date him for a while, once you break up it will take a long time to become friends again without it being aquward, or you may not even become friends again. Of course, depending on your age, you could end up marrying him. Relationships with friends are usually really good. Or, if you think that he is such a great friend that you would never want to lose a friendship with, then just keep it as friends for a while. Do what YOU think is best depending on how much you like him, how sure you are that he likes you back, and how much you value your friendship with him. No one on here knows you and what your relationship is like with him right now so do what you think is best. Hope that helps a little.
well, if you want to go further than him being ';only a friend'; then go ahead and ask him.
i suggest asking one of his friends if he likes youGuys Only!! Girl In Need Of Guys Advice Please Help!?
It all depends on how much you value your friendship. Even if he likes you back and you date him for a while, once you break up it will take a long time to become friends again without it being aquward, or you may not even become friends again. Of course, depending on your age, you could end up marrying him. Relationships with friends are usually really good. Or, if you think that he is such a great friend that you would never want to lose a friendship with, then just keep it as friends for a while. Do what YOU think is best depending on how much you like him, how sure you are that he likes you back, and how much you value your friendship with him. No one on here knows you and what your relationship is like with him right now so do what you think is best. Hope that helps a little.
well, if you want to go further than him being ';only a friend'; then go ahead and ask him.
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